Doctor's Journal
When we think of self improving, sometimes it takes improving things not only on the inside, but on the outside as well. In other words, many times feeling good comes from within, but it reflects on how we look on the outside. When we feel good inside, and we are in a healthy place emotionally and mentally, other people are naturally drawn to us. This isn't necessarily because of the way we look, but more so because of how enlightened we are, and also because of our positive energy and optimistic outlook on life. Having a great self-esteem and knowing your self-worth is essential in feeling good inside. When we feel good on the inside, it naturally exudes from our appearance. Well, on the most part at least.
Sometimes, it makes people feel good on the inside and improves their self-esteem when they take great care of themselves on the outside, and in their appearance. I truly believe that it's in all of our benefits to present ourselves in the best way that we can. We should do this for ourselves first, but it doesn't hurt to have people admire the way that we look. However, your goal should never be to please others as far as your appearance goes. At least, not as far as style, and your preferences on appearance are concerned. It's true however that sometimes we need to dress in an appropriate, and orderly fashion, and present ourselves in a pristine manner, depending on where we're going as far as work, events, or different functions. Having said that, it's still of utmost importance that we all like the way that we look on the outside.
It's important to embrace the way that God made us, the way that we naturally look, and not try to change ourselves to be like anyone else. I'm not a big fan of plastic surgery. However, sometimes it's desired by people in many different ways. Sometimes it's medically needed for a person's health, and at times it's essential that they make certain changes to live a healthy life or even to live at all in some cases. There are many cases where people are insecure with how they look, and want to subtly or greatly improve certain aspects of their appearance so that they'll feel better about themselves.
There's nothing wrong with plastic surgery if it's going to help you feel better about yourself. But, it's also important not to become addicted to getting plastic surgery, as many do. It's important to do a lot of research when it comes to finding the best possible doctor for your needs. Many times you have to research endlessly, and search out many different sources until you find one or two specialists that actually specialize in the procedure that you're hoping to do. When it comes to something like that, it's always great to find out if there's a directory of some sort like Gynecomastia.Surgery for example, in which you can find many different doctors that all perform the same type of procedure, and all in one website/directory. That would definitely simplify your search, but even then, it's imperative to do the research and find out which one of those specialists will best meet your needs.
It's always good to work on yourself before making any changes in your appearance that are permanent. However, sometimes it's not just superficial changes that people feel the need to improve on, wanting to look more beautiful than they might already look. But more so, there are many people that would simply hope to have the type of body, face, and appearance that most people would consider "normal" and symmetrical. Having said that, doctors definitely need to be weary of patients that have Body Dysmorphic Disorder or a low self-esteem, because those particular types could wind up unhappy post surgery, and possibly even more so than they were unhappy about themselves pre-surgery. When surgeons have a view of simply wanting to make money and do procedure after procedure without putting a lot of care into each patient as individuals, it causes long-term discomfort for patients, and will likely leave them feeling uneasy, regretful, and disappointed after having done a procedure.
People need to be happy with themselves on the inside, feel whole, and good about themselves (at least to some extent) before doing a procedure that's permanent. If having plastic surgery will help someone feel better about themselves on the outside, while they feel great about themselves on the inside already, then by all means, go for it. It's important to do what makes you happy on the inside and on the outside. Just make sure that you're doing any changes that you might be, because you want to do them, and not to please someone else or to be just like anyone else. As far as pleasing someone else, you should be with someone that will love you just the way you are. Most of all, remember to love yourself, and appreciate all of the beautiful qualities that you have on the inside, and on the outside.
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