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What Do Women Want: The Cinematic Wasteland of Female Fantasy (Part Three)

Posted: 02/24/2012 9:00 am

After the still-human Bella and her vampire super-hero consummate their marriage in the Twilight saga, there's a briefly happy pause before a striking change of tone from 1950s-style romance to full-on horror. This shift would be a jolt to any mainstream movie but especially so for a girl's film, and some people literally couldn't handle it. A week or two after the movie's opening, national papers predictably jumped on reports of a handful of viewers having seizures caused by the birth scene. "Is Breaking Dawn bad for your health?" screamed the headlines.

Let's not discount the seriousness of epilepsy, but I do need to ask if anyone has tracked seizures resulting from watching male-oriented action movies. Surely people with epilepsy have seizures in all kinds of contexts, and Twilight is hardly the first movie to feature bright lights and other brain-rattling effects. Is it possible that we pay more attention to the health consequences of extreme movie scenes when they feature a father delivering a baby with blood smeared quasi-pornographically across his face than scenes with machine gun fire and sawn-off limbs? The histrionic media reaction seemed a tad skewed.

But the fans know better. And so do the custodians of this last installment of the franchise. Does it surprise you that it took a gay man (on the record that adolescent boy fantasies are pretty tedious) to find the right cinematic tone for the unhurried, authentic pace of the wedding scene? The critics were largely bored, but that long walk up the aisle was certainly no worse (and, to my eyes, much less worse) than watching a person's head blown off for the umpteenth time. We're just not used to such leisurely portrayals of traditional heterosexual feminine pleasure onscreen.

To hear the movie industry talk, it's a given that movie audiences prefer violence to displays of sex or, heaven forbid, love. But why do we put up with 79 minutes of a guy defusing a bomb and a mere 15 seconds for the key sex scene? Are car explosions really so fascinating? Can't we all agree it's more appealing to look at attractive human bodies than at weapons?

More than a few Twilight fans got in a lather about New Moon and Eclipse (movies two and three) because some of the overwrought conversations from the books were clipped in favor of jacked-up action scenes no one wanted to watch. A pivotal scene in which Edward apologizes ad nauseum for leaving Bella was reduced to the blink of an eye, denying the viewer the delicious spectacle of a backpedaling superhero. And Stephanie Meyer doesn't even bother to stage the epic battle scene that the whole series has been building up to in Book Four; everybody just packs it up and works it out in with... you guessed it... talking.

And why, exactly, is this a problem? Shouldn't we be embracing -- or at least not wholesale eviscerating -- a blockbuster series that espouses non-violence? I have yet to read a review of Twilight that recognizes the foundational truth of the story: that aggression is almost always the worst option, and that human life merits respect and forbearance. It's easy to find this tacky or politically threatening; Stephenie Meyer has something to offend both ends of the ideological spectrum. But we needn't be aligned with conservative religious teachings or lofty liberal pacifism to acknowledge the refreshing rarity of a successful movie franchise that rejects our great national love affair with violence.

Stephanie Meyer sure packs a hell of a punch without it. In a glorious sleight of hand, she makes sweet, gentle Bella the ultimate secret weapon against evil, protecting her whole clan with an uncanny feminine emotional power that's kryptonite to a bunch of medieval vampire thugs. She becomes a true earth goddess, a Hestia of the vampire world, a warrior queen without the warfare. Take that, you hand-wringing scolds. Bella has the last laugh. As fantasies go, it's a good one.

So why do we still insist on vetting female fantasy life through the critical and shaming lens of reality? If it doesn't pass our test of what is good for us in real life, we're not allowed to dream about it. There's nothing new about this: Women have always been viewed as the gatekeepers of morality. Whatever conclusions one draws about The Hangover Part II, no one seriously views it as a threat to American manhood. Yet the messages in "women's movies" are seen as carrying a special potency. Apparently, we just aren't entitled to have outré fantasies lest somebody's delicate sensibilities be injured. What's unclear is whose feelings we are supposedly protecting.

Name a movie -- any movie - that 1) features two or more women who are given names and 2) who talk to each other about something other than a man. If you think this is a ridiculous litmus test that most movies could easily pass, you'd be very wrong. Most fail. The Bechdel test is a simple way to measure the presence of women in American film. The movies that don't meet this low bar are numerous: The Bourne Identity, Ocean's 11, Lord of the Rings, The Shawshank Redemption, Mission Impossible, X-Men, the list goes on and on. Even movies aimed primarily at women or children, such as Up and When Harry Met Sally, often fail the test.

We've grown so accustomed to the invisibility of female-centered stories in popular movies that it's tempting to be fooled by an ersatz example like The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo. On its face, the movie certainly has some potential with its fierce complex heroine and women-on-top story arc. But make no mistake: The movie didn't speak to most women's fantasies precisely because it was designed to speak to most men's. How else can we explain the plot-jarring spectacle of an abused, bisexual street urchin dropping her panties for a scruffy, cynical, and not especially sympathetic older man? Are we really supposed to buy that this guarded, sexually wounded young woman would be redeemed by his... his what? Kindness? Sexual magnetism? Loyalty? The alluring way he slinks off to hook up with his married lover? And what about that paint-by-numbers lesbian sex scene with the glossy girlfriend in black garter belt? Please. This stuff is strictly for the boys.

If you're a woman who liked The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, well, I haven't met you yet. Despite the runaway success of the book, plenty of women balked at the invitation to watch the anal rape of the naked, pierced, and heavily tattooed actress, Rooney Mara, whose physical transformation included a real-life nipple piercing positioned, the director helpfully explained in the press, to reflect the light off her perky breasts. To more than a few women, this whiff of prurience was exactly the kind of icky downer we didn't want to see at Christmas time.

Largely overlooked in the breathless reviews of Ms. Mara's performance and the complementary his-and-her rape scenes was a repugnant murder plot with promiscuous depictions of tortured and mutilated women. Apparently, no one is much shocked by such visceral cinematic barbarism. The serial butchery of women is such a basic movie trope we barely notice it anymore.

Perversely, the greater the emotional intimacy or more female-centric the onscreen sexual action, the more likely the movie is to be shunned by the ratings board and, thus, to fail at the box office. That's why the critically acclaimed Blue Valentine was initially slapped with a NC-17 rating for a scene of a clothed woman joyfully -- but not terribly explicit -- receiving oral sex from her eager partner, while The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo had no such battle to protect its scenes of savage anal and oral rape and naked, "thrusting" sexual intercourse.

The movie box office is in decline, we're perennially reminded, but the privileging of violence over romance and healthy sexuality virtually guarantees the continued production of movies that bore or offend a lot of women.

In response to Twilight's critics, Director Bill Condon recently remarked, "This series is about things women care about and has a woman at the center. So there are people who just stay outside it and mock it." For all women's astounding progress in other areas of contemporary life, it's hard to escape the conclusion that we're still stuck in the Mad Men era when it comes to movies, alternately objectified and belittled.

Can you really blame a girl, then, for throwing in her lot with a bunch of preening vampires and mangy wolves? "What choice have I?" as Edward once memorably exclaimed. All you movie moguls out there: Are you listening yet? Give us our dreams, please, shaken and stirred.

This is the final part of a three-part series. Read part one here and part two here.

 
 
 
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01:47 AM on 03/08/2012
I'm a cineophile and love many different movies. Intellectual movies, sophomoric comedies, period pieces, gory horror flicks...even the occasional male-oriented action flick. As long as they're entertaining and aren't contrived & formulaic, I enjoy them! Very few movies have captured my sense of longing, love, and obsession like Twilight. The writing of the books was mediocre (literally rolled my eyes at some of the dialog), sometimes the acting was stilted (but IMO got better) and the last film is, to quote Jimmy Fallon, "bonkers McGee"! But something in the diametric differences of these characters—believing in the power of one love without being corny or falling into Disney like fairy tales—from every other movie being made nowadays...made this series truly resonate with me! Hollywood has abandoned this notion of an enduring love. Yes, the supernatural aspect is very appealing too! It's not just the boys who are fantasy nerds! Thank you Erika for writing such an in depth endorsement of the series! You are right, Hollywood doesn't get it! It's not about the fangs, or the wolves or even the many shirtless male scenes (well, they may have a little to do with it!)...it's about love...simple, pure and eternal.

And I did see the Swedish "Girl..." and liked it. No...I did not like the rape scene, but the story was gritty, suspenseful and had an original and twisting plot. And as I mentioned, I love a good story!
10:38 PM on 03/03/2012
This article expressed and explained my thoughts on the Twillight Saga perfectly. I am a fifty year old woman, I watch all types of movies and watch for entertainment, not to be educated, although learning something while being entertained is preferable. I have seen all 3 of the Twillight movies AND both the Swedish and American versions of The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo. I've also seen and enjoyed the other two Swedish made, "The Girl...." movies. I found them all to be enjoyable.
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gemini68
12:43 AM on 02/26/2012
Great 3- part article.
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04:35 PM on 02/25/2012
Although I despise anything to do with Twilight, I do like this article. I feel lucky to come from a family full of what I consider to be real men. They never acted like tough guys who had no feelings and they certainly never rejected movies on family movie night that had to do with love. My father and brothers are very empathetic to women and that quality has made them wonderful men. I married a man just like them and he and I enjoy all kinds of movies together. My husband does love movies like Safehouse and The Terminator but he also loves Moulin Rouge, Chicago and The Phantom of the Opera. I don't understand why traditional feminine attributes or likes and desires are mocked with such intensity. My husband always tells me it is only done by weak, insecure "men" who are trying to appear tough and cool, and while I agree, I still don't understand the drive behind it.Personally, I don't care if people only like one genre of film but why the need to ridicule what they don't like? I don't understand how men that ridicule and try to humiliate anything feminie can even be with a woman in a relationship. If they despise the feminine so much how can they truly love a woman? I would tell them that they should just go play for their own team since they hate women so much but I wouldn't wish that punishment on the gay community.
02:58 PM on 02/25/2012
Thanks, great article - I've been saying the same things in my film classes, only you said it so much better. One more point to add: it's amazing that a film that grossed over 700 million dollars, and a series that's done 2.4 billion worldwide, doesn't merit a more serious look from (what I assume are mostly male) reviewers? Don't you think they'd be interested in trying to understand the appeal? There is greatness in these films, or they would not resonate. And you do a marvelous job of pointing out exactly why they matter.
12:47 PM on 02/25/2012
I liked The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo.

And Twilight.

Sue me.
03:02 PM on 02/25/2012
So you liked them both? Okay. I personally won't go see a movie that shows the abuse of women. It's just too awful, knowing that there's so much abuse in real life. Men Who Hate Women indeed.
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04:39 PM on 02/25/2012
I liked Dragon Tattoo as well. Not a fan of Twilight, though. I do understand what the article is saying but I do find it to be a little preachy and judgemental towards people who like certain movies. I generally just try to enjoy movies for what they are, not sit back and look for ways to be offended. Life is too short for that!
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12:43 AM on 02/26/2012
I don;t this she was being preachy so much as juxtaposing the two films against one another in terms of box office appeal to women. I loved the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo- but I didn't see the film. I had no urge to sit in a theater and watch the story play out on screen. And I have female friends who loved the books as well and felt the same way.
08:30 AM on 02/25/2012
'If you're a woman who liked The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, well, I haven't met you yet'.

Well, I did like the books, not as a fantasy, but for its socio-political critique of how men treat women and get away with it. Interestingly, its original title in Swedish was 'Men who hate women' - I thing the translation into English backs up everything you have said in these articles
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gemini68
12:43 AM on 02/26/2012
She meant the film.
12:54 AM on 02/25/2012
Can't thank you enough for putting my thoughts to paper :)
11:14 PM on 02/24/2012
Wonderful article. I also noticed how Breaking Dawn ending the way we wish our conflicts in real life ended by diplomacy winning over the thirst for bloodshed is mocked as stupid and nothing happens. The whole second part of the book was about Bella's feeling of losing the only true happiness she had ever know anyone that has suffered the fear of knowing that a loved one might die (deployed in a warzone,diagnosed with a terminal disease or simply missing not way of knowing if they are safe or even alive), knows that in the end when the battle doesn't happen you feel a surge of relief and thank whatever superior power for sparing you just this once. But of course is better to see a battle than the love for a peaceful resolution. Pity anyone that cannot enjoy peace and only see the merit in war.
Great piece again!
08:05 PM on 02/24/2012
I think the questions you should be asking is Why is that some women and mainly feminism are obsessed with picking part every little detail about the twilight books and films.
11:30 PM on 02/24/2012
Exactly. Why not discuss The Help? Or something much more "high brow"
03:24 AM on 02/25/2012
What is there to discuss about The Help, Disney already whitewash the historical context of the story.
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gemini68
12:44 AM on 02/26/2012
Agreed.
07:53 PM on 02/24/2012
"Give us our dreams, please, shaken and stirred." I don't think that fantasies are good for anyone, male or female. Many women who watch "female-friendly" romances are miserable that their lives don't match up to the storylines they're addicted to, but they keep on watching them endlessly like junkies mainlining heroin, thinking that one day their happy ending will come for them too and it will be perfect just like in the movies. Educated adult women are brainwashed by these movies and I find it very disturbing.

I would love to see a realistic portrayal of the female experience in movies, but all too often our reality isn't like the marriage scene in Twilight. Feeding girls a diet of fantasy like that gives them unrealistic expectations and if they haven't been treated well by men or don't look as attractive as the female protagonist, they feel something is wrong with them.

Fairytales infantilize the viewer and aren't exactly mind-expanding. They are just a form of literary mental masturbation. They are an ego-drug that keep people docile and self-involved, while corrupt politicians and business leaders continue to lead our society into the abyss. Women in particular need to be wide awake and engaged in critical thinking so that we can change our situations for the better. We don't need to descend into happy-fantasy near-comas dreaming that one day our prince will come. More Twilight is not the answer.
11:26 PM on 02/24/2012
Ok so let's get rid of Santa, beauty and the beast, princess and the frog, star wars, every tv show. No fantasy? Now that is unrealistic. Bad childhood?
03:17 AM on 02/25/2012
" Feeding girls a diet of fantasy like that gives them unrealistic expectations and if they haven't been treated well by men or don't look as attractive as the female protagonist, they feel something is wrong with them. "

I think this kind thinking is the problem with many women and feminism. Girls are not dumb, we know what is real and what is fake and at the end of the day Twilight is a fantasy.
11:55 AM on 02/28/2012
I know, don't you love the "feeding girls fantasy" line? Again, the female is shown as passive, helpless and stupid.
05:44 PM on 02/24/2012
(Contd)Flash forward to fall of 2011. Breaking Dawn Pt 1 is the most eagerly anticipated film of 2011, every piece of news making immediate headlines, blowing up the blogosphere. As soon as the film was submitted to the MPAA, we were on pins and needles. When news broke that edits were needed, the fans went nuts. The actors and the production team were very open about the fact that the initial cut of that first love scene was the reason for the reedit. Rob jokingly informed us that it was because of his "thrusting". But the deeper issue was clear. Any kind of realistically portrayed sex between loving, consenting MARRIED adults... well we can't have the kiddies seeing that, now can w?. There was not a single mention of anything to do with the borderline slasher-flick-esque birth scene, which we'd all been informed was gory, bloody, painful and reflected the true horror that Stephenie Myer wrote in the novel. They didn't pull many punches. But that was not the issue. It only came down to the love scene between the now married lead couple. Of course that scene was cut down to barely 15 seconds. So, what's the lesson? Bloody gory painful vampiric Caesarean, complete with a husband who essentially chews his child out of his wife's broken emaciated body. No problem for children over 13. Idealized passionate sex between a married couple. Not so much. Tell me this isn't a man's world.
05:39 PM on 02/24/2012
(Contd)When, a few months into production, stills and brief snippets of video footage were hacked from Summit and leaked on the internet, the buzz was unimaginable. But, there was one underlying fact. Watching the passion and intensity between Rob Pattinson and Kristen Stewart, we knew without a shadow of a doubt that thes scenes/angles would not be used. They were just too intimate. No, there were no body parts revealed, no raunchiness. But, we'd seen it before. Rob Pattinson's 2009 film, Remember Me, a coming of age story about love reaching us during dark periods in our lives, infamously received an original rating of R based upon the two love scenes between Rob and actress Emilie DeRavin, who played Rob's love interest Ally. The specific reason given at the time for the original rating and the subsequent edit to pare it down to a PG13 was that the love scenes between the leads showed far too much intimacy between the two characters. Not that they were too revealing or that there was skin shown or anything else. Specifically, the connection between the characters was too intimate. So, we knew without a doubt that what would be in the film would be very different from the raw footage.
05:39 PM on 02/24/2012
Thank you so much for bringing the final piece of the puzzle so wonderfully to light. But, sadly, I think that you missed one critical piece of information that needs to be highlighted in this discussion. Twilight fans knew going in that the film would be rated PG13. That was a part of author Stephenie Myers' agreement to sell the rights to Summit Entertainment. She wanted the films to reflect what has always been assumed as their main audience; young adults. The fact that the audience has been dominated by women over the age of 21 almost from the beginning is a wholly other issue. Regardless, we knew when it came to the first love scene, there would be a lot left to the imagination. As has become a popular rallying cry amongst fans; as long as there isn't an actual fade to black... (referring to the rather abrupt ending to the scene in the novel which ends at the first kiss of the evening and picks up again the next morning). But, we also had faith that, film being a visual medium, we would in fact bare witness to some form of tender intimacy between Edward&Bella. It was really all the fandom could talk about. How would they shoot it? What would we see? What would the music be? EVERYTHING about that scene was up for discussion, madly debated and eagerly anticipated
04:59 PM on 02/24/2012
Girl with the Dragon Tattoo was amazing and I am disgusted with many females low level of cinematic appreciation. So many women now attend films they are told they should want to see with zero knowledge or research done. They do not have favorite directors or writers. They are just told x-film is going to be a huge hit so go see it and many do.
As a woman who does not fit this profile this woman saddens me. I came from a family who loved the cinema and took a deep appreciation of that art to heart.
07:09 PM on 02/24/2012
"I am disgusted with many females low level of cinematic appreciation"
what females are you talking because saw the swedish film Girl with the Dragon Tattoo and that was enough why would I wanna waste my money on the american version.
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OSullivan
03:22 AM on 02/25/2012
Do you have a response to the critique of the movie contained in this article?