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Posted: 05/12/11 02:38 PM ET

Here's what I Am Over
400 thousand women getting raped a year in the Democratic Republic of Congo
48 women getting raped an hour
1,100 raped a day

I Am Over
This being new/news. The world responding to these statistics as if it's the first time they ever heard anything about the atrocities in the Congo, when Western white people make reports the rapes exist. When the Congolese who live amidst the madness speak out, scream out, cry out, do we not believe them? Hear them? Do they not matter?

I Am Over
UN envoys and specialists and NGOs and governments debating statistics as if any of these numbers mattered. Who needs another report? Why should people waste precious time when we know the facts -- have known the facts for over 13 years?

Consider this written in Danielle Shapiro's recent piece in The Daily Beast:

"Yet the study provides the first numerical estimate using nationally representative data gathered through household-level interviews, said Amber Peterman, lead author and a gender development specialist at the International Food Policy Research Institute ... Most other estimates on sexual violence in Congo have been specific to certain regions and/or relied on data collected from health centers, hospitals, police, or other authorities and service providers. That is, they relied on victims coming forward themselves (1). "
Gobbledygook.

I Am Over
The money it takes and the countless hours and the drain on the women to do these studies.
It turns out the women of Congo already know they were raped.

How many more ways do you need to know it, hear it, understand that there is femicide in the Congo and the women and girls are being systematically and consistently destroyed? How many more times are we going to ask Congolese women and little girls to sit and re-experience their stories of horror so that those who come from the West can make yet another new report that does absolutely nothing to prevent them from being raped or hold their rapists accountable? How many more time are we going to drag Panzi Hospital's Dr. Denis Mukwege and City of Joy/V-Day Congo's Christine Schuler Deschryver and AFEM's Chouchou Namegabe on world rape talking tours, forcing them to reopen their wounded hearts and traumas? Is this sport?

How many more raped women and girl children will do the trick? A million every year, all the 2 million raped women raped again and again?

I Am Over
The stories. The horror. The nightmare.

I am over the pornographic repetition of gross sexual invasion and destruction and the mad distraction of the accumulation of statistics.

Danielle Shapiro goes on to quote Peterman, a lead author of the study in her piece, and to chronicle the inane conversation over statistics:

" 'The study is significant not only because it reveals greater numbers, but because the data is internationally recognized [and] produced in partnership with the DRC government,' Peterman said ... Still, some are skeptical of the study's reliability ... Special Representative Wallström noted in an email that how terms like 'sexual violence' and 'intimate partner violence' are defined can be one reason for disparities among various studies. Others question whether the sample of women interviewed was representative. And some point out that, because the data come from 2006 and 2007, it may not reflect what's happening on the ground in Congo now ... Still, Tony Gambino, the former mission director in Congo for the United States Agency for International Development, said that he's seen no evidence to suggest the situation is better for women now than it has been. U.N. figures on sexual violence for the last few years have also remained relatively stable (2). "
Yes, we like our rape statistics stable. We like to meet our quota of raped women. We try to keep the levels steady. I Am Over The U.N. making insane statements. Reuters reporter Johnny Hogg recently wrote:
"Attinger Colijn [head of the Sexual Violence Unit in the office of the Deputy Special Representative of the Secretary General on the Rule of Law] said that emphasizing the issue of sexual violence was a distraction from the wider problems of insecurity and violence that still beset the country, with donors channeling vast sums of money into projects focused on rape.'We don't need figures like this to know sexual violence is a problem, there are many other types of violence and human rights issues that need to be tackled (3),' she added."
Statements like Attinger Colijn's reflect the true position of the UN, which is that it has never understood rape or sexual violence, never believed the consequences, always been afraid to talk about it openly with the appropriate outrage and intention needed to do something real and significant to make it stop.

I Am Over
President Obama, who won't, who can't even enact a law he created before he became a super warrior president. The 2006 Obama Law (Public Law 109-456) calls for a Special Envoy to the Great Lakes region and allows the U.S. to hold countries playing a part in the war on Congo's soil accountable by withholding aid. What is he waiting for?

I Am Over
President Obama and his team leaping head first into the protection of Libya with military might and intervention (which by the way I am not calling for anywhere in the world) when the situation, as terrible as it is, is no where near the humanitarian disaster of the Congo. With Congo, he seems completely immobilized to move with any real diplomatic will because, as the devoted Congolese activist Kambale Musavuli says, "[t]he suspicion many analysts share is that the U.S. is quick to act against its enemies while providing cover for its allies, even if its allies are clearly culpable for committing mass atrocities, crimes against humanity and possible genocide...(4)"

I Am Over
A world that could allow, has allowed, continues to allow 400 thousand women, 23,00 women, or one woman to be raped anywhere, anytime of any day in the Congo.

The women of Congo are over it too. When I was there last month they told me they were going to begin a story strike and stop telling about their rapes. They want peace. They are not entertainment. Their suffering is not for consumption. Dr. Mukwege didn't plan or desire to spend his life sewing up the raped and destroyed vaginas of the beloved women of his country. When will the time come when we give Dr. Mukwege awards for bringing life into this world, for helping the women of his country thrive and give birth and build lives, instead of awarding him for the sorrowful work he is required to do?

I Am Over It.
No more studies of raped women
No more statistics
No more breaking news that is 14 years old
No more pretending you didn't know
Pass the Obama law
Get Rwanda and Uganda and Burundi and Angola out of Congo
With diplomatic pressure
Train women soldiers and police officers
Support local Congolese women's groups on the ground -
Not with directions and agendas but with money
Make noise
Let It Be Over.


References:

  1. Congo Rape Crisis: Study Reveals Shocking New Numbers by Danielle Shapiro, Daily Beast
  2. Congo Rape Crisis: Study Reveals Shocking New Numbers by Danielle Shapiro, Daily Beast
  3. 400,000-plus women raped in Congo yearly: study by Jonny Hogg, Reuters
  4. Africa In The Age of Obama by Kumbale Musavuli, Black Star News

 

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Here's what I Am Over 400 thousand women getting raped a year in the Democratic Republic of Congo 48 women getting raped an hour 1,100 raped a day I Am Over This being new/news. The world responding ...
Here's what I Am Over 400 thousand women getting raped a year in the Democratic Republic of Congo 48 women getting raped an hour 1,100 raped a day I Am Over This being new/news. The world responding ...
 
 
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GlobalGramma
04:13 AM on 05/16/2011
Want to make a difference in the real world for Congo rather than bitching about feeling powerless?

Join the Virtual March on Washington this wk on Facebook's Special Envoy Now.
(www.faceb­o­ok.com/p­ag­es/Spec­ial­-Envoy­-Now­/1093­21615­8230­77)

This is a critical month for Congo:
- a study finding 400,000 rapes in 1yr alone, estimates 2 million overall.
- 35 Congressio­­nal Representa­­tives & 16 Senators asked Pres. Obama asking for an African Great Lakes Special Envoy.
- 77 NGO's sent a letter to Sec. Clinton calling for an internatio­­nally cohesive Congo Plan (their first request: Special Envoy, Now!

Add your voice to the cry for Congo and a Special Envoy. Participat­­e in the Virtual March:
1) make 5 signs requesting a Special Envoy NOW, then post on the Facebook page;
2) request your friends do the same, and share it w/5 of their friends.
(PASS IT ON.)

Why a special envoy? Regional issues are involved and entrenched­­. In our crises ridden world, Obama and Clinton have no time for Congo. We need a boots-on-t­­he-ground-expert to hone strategies that work. Read the ltr to Secretary Clinton: http://bit­­.ly/k5dNl­8

Author Lisa Shannon (A Thousand Sisters) is fasting for this week to emphasize THIS IS THIS YEAR'S MOMENT FOR CONGO. See her Facebook video on why she's doing this hunger strike: www.facebo­ok.com/vid­eo/video.p­hp?v=20509­65321760&c­omments
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LoyalBob
God is more vast than the Bible.
09:02 PM on 05/15/2011
The UN. Nero fiddling while Rome burns. Absolutely useless.
08:53 PM on 05/15/2011
And your plan to stop it includes doing.......? And you believe that those things will work because....?
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HeadAches
I'm here, getting into your head giving you...
02:50 PM on 05/15/2011
Well, it is easy to see why this is happening - it is and as always in these cases, related to religion and culture emerged from their religion.

Religion has a view on women that is appalling and the less religious a country is, the better conditions are for women. Ref. the Scandinavian countries with little weight on religion and much greater weight put on human rights and equality. The US is closer to Congo then the Scandinavian countries on this issue too!
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Jake Thomas
elastic
12:49 PM on 05/15/2011
Perhaps if the women of The Congo disguise themselves as oil rigs or pipelines someone will protect them.
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Dusty Ray
Learn To Swim
11:21 AM on 05/15/2011
Add genocide to that list too, since the Holocaust, how many genocides have been committed and yet we and the rest of the world continue to look away. Never again? Sure.
11:10 AM on 05/15/2011
I can't even get my mind around the horrors in the Congo. These men who are committing these rapes have mothers and daughters, how on earth can they be so disconnected from humanity? They are cowards and monsters. If we can inject ourselves into other countries to play world police, we can most certainly include the DRC.

Having said that, Ms Ensler piece exposes some hypocrisy and bias. Boys are getting raped in the Congo too - no mention of that. I think we should care about the children, and not just the female ones. Also, I can't avoid pointing out that Ensler's "Vagina Monologues" features a scene in which an underage (originally 13yrs, later changed to 16yrs) girl is essentially date-raped by a on older woman, who plies her with alcohol and then has her way with her - and this is presented in a positive light. Um, if you are going to be against rape, I think you should be against all of it, Eve. And please don't tell me that there's rape, and then there's rape-rape.
11:43 AM on 06/30/2011
In response to your first question, yes these men have mothers & daughters, but they've grown up in a culture that supports the abuse of women. Just like in a situation where a father can teach his sons to abuse their sister...same kind of thing. In addition to this, many of these men were themselves kidnapped as children by the rebel armies that dominate the east side of the country. If you've never done any research on Joseph Kony and his terrible evils, I suggest you read up on him. He thinks he's on a "mission from god" to cleanse and govern Africa and he does it by kidnapping small children, brainwashing them with his madness and then forcing them back into their own homes and villages to slaughter their families and friends.

So, while I agree that rape and violence against women in the DR Congo is horrific, it is not the only issue...nor is it the root of the issue. When we stop Kony and his rebel armies (and the continuing violence that ensues in all of the surrounding countries over the resources in the DRC) then we will be able to protect the women. Throwing money at them won't do much until Kony and his successors/followers are stopped.
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bobclapp1936
10:30 AM on 05/15/2011
Brilliant! Brilliant! Brilliant! One of the answers is surely the end of perpetual war by the United States whereby TRILLIONS of dollars are WASTED on killing people. Many of whom are women.
10:10 AM on 05/15/2011
Our complete indifference to these crimes is beyond belief especially as we rushed into a civil war in Libya. We cannot forget that we are witnessing an assault against women at home by right wing theocratic warmongers and these people cannot be expected to have any empathy for women in the Congo. Our priorities are completely screwed up. Les hommes me degout.
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tnlcallen
10:01 AM on 05/15/2011
Sadly there are atrocities the world over. Can't change all of them. If something isn't within the national security interests of the United States, we should be wary before we wade in.
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Jake Thomas
elastic
12:51 PM on 05/15/2011
Half the people of the world are women elevating them will elevate everyone.
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HeadAches
I'm here, getting into your head giving you...
02:52 PM on 05/15/2011
Nonsense!

There is not atrocities ALL over the world - in fact, large parts of the world do not have these types of atrocities thanks to little weight put on religious nonsense!
09:47 AM on 05/15/2011
What's even more infuriating is that the House passed an anti-abortion bill that will, among other radical restraints on women's right, re-define rape to where if you don't physically fight back, you're not raped.
http://thinkprogress.org/2011/05/04/house-gop-hr3/
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HeadAches
I'm here, getting into your head giving you...
02:52 PM on 05/15/2011
Yes the US is borderline third world on these issues thanks to religion!
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David Durham
Just a guy who tries to stay informed and stand fo
09:34 AM on 05/15/2011
I'm disappointed that there are only 76 responses to this article as I'm posting. Your obvious anger Ms. Ensler is justified. Completely, totally and wholly justified. That women are brutalized is an old story. But age doesn't mellow the outrageous aspects of that fact. I've heard people say that you have to understand the cultural makeup of a society when regarding the oppression of women. Let's say I'm over that. One wouldn't say the same thing about slavery would they? Yet there's very little difference between slavery and oppression. And if there is a significant difference I'd like to hear someone try to articulate it. I've always thought that men were tactically stronger than women, but women were strategically stronger than men. Meaning that men are physically bigger and stronger than women allowing for fairly easy short term dominance. But women bare our children and care for and protect them, often alone, often in the face of tremendous difficulty, and yet they persevere with a strength that isn't as obvious as muscle, that isn't as obvious as bulk, yet is just as real and much more affecting in the long term. Men exploit this tactical advantage and have throughout most of recorded history and women use their strategic advantage to nurture our future. It's a good thing women do this for it is nothing short of our very salvation as a species. And they don't get paid to do this, they just do it. They are better than us.
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HeadAches
I'm here, getting into your head giving you...
02:54 PM on 05/15/2011
Religion....

Why do you ignore religion as a huge factor in these activities?
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02:43 AM on 05/15/2011
It's naive to believe the US gets into any conflict without an existing strategic reason. Expecially now with US forces already engaged in Iraq, Afghanistan and Libya.

Congo is too remote, too unimportant, poses no threat and is too big a mess.

If the US really believed in pre-emptive action just for the sake of saving innocents we would have intervened in Sudan years ago.
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GlobalGramma
10:31 AM on 05/15/2011
Military involvement is NOT what is called for here. There are hundreds of strategic levers available to the international community that are NOT being employed. Western donor governments give billions of dollars to Congo, to which they could attach stringent conditions for reform and then withhold them for failure to move forward on critical reform. We could be exercising a comprehensive, coordinated approach, applying real pressure for free and fair elections, without which the situation in Congo will further deteriorate.
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03:19 PM on 05/14/2011
Well, go grab your firearm and get on a flight on over. Much better idea than the implicit assumption that America "should do something." You internalize the horrors of the civil war in the Congo, then go. Go help out in any way that you can. Don't ask me or anyone else to go fight your crusades for you. Crusades, even the most well meaning of them, tend to me messy thank you very much. I for one, am sick and tired of American arms, wealth, and lives being put on the line for anyone's so called humanitarian crusade. Go fight it yourself, or send checks, but don't ask others to fight your crusades for you.
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momamazed
It only means what you make it mean.
03:27 AM on 05/15/2011
I'm curious. By this reasoning, we should bring every soldier home from anywhere in the world. I don't disagree with that way of thinking. If we're going to fight anywhere though, we should be trying to save these women instead of oil.
08:52 AM on 05/15/2011
Well, aren't we smug there Henry. Who fought your fights? Who fought for your protection? Who fought for your freedoms? Your apathetic attitude is the biggest part of the problem. We didn't start this fire and we're not gonna put it out. But what real people do is fight injustice everywhere they can. Life is messy Henry. I suggest you jump in and get a little dirty. But Henry thinks he paid his dues already. Here's an epiphany Henry - "You stop payin' dues when your pushin' up daisies."