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The Time for Equal Rights for LGBT Americans Is Now!

Posted: 11/10/10 09:44 AM ET

One of my most passionate pursuits is to do my part to protect every American's civil liberties and to constantly use my celebrity to remind people of the ideals upon which this great nation was founded: liberty and justice for ALL.

No group should be singled out by a mob mentality, and no one's rights should ever be compromised. There is no justification for that.

Separation of church and state is a key component to ensuring that America never becomes a "my-way-or-the-highway" society.

To me, being an American means that we can believe what we choose, even if we disagree with each other. It is our duty to defend each individual's right of self expression.

We stand on the precipice of great change as a new dawn rises. It won't be long before all people accept different sexual orientations as a natural aspect of the human experience.

I do, however, have a grave concern about the influence of 24-hour news and its insatiable appetite to hold the viewer glued to these networks through fear. They pit Americans against Americans with unsubstantiated conjecture from loudmouth pundits. As a result of this never-ending need to boost ratings and satisfy shareholders, the quality of journalism has greatly suffered. There seems to be less and less actual news and more and more opinion.

Out of fear, the unthinkable becomes acceptable. It's why there was a McCarthy era, Japanese internment camps, and a war in Iraq!

A story I like to tell is that after World War II, LIFE magazine ran a contest asking Americans what they would do if they had caught Hitler. A woman won with a single-line entry: "Put him in a black skin and set him free in America."

Here we were valiantly fighting intolerance overseas, but that statement reminded us that right here in our own homeland, racism was very much alive and well. It's hard sometimes to see the frame when you're in the picture.

As public education continues to deteriorate as well, we are producing generations of ignorant people who are so easily swayed by these self-serving groups. As a result, the very psyche of our nation suffers.

These are the ingredients that move a nation away from its ideals and into ruin.

If any consenting adults are forbidden to marry, that is un-American.

If any person is forbidden to serve our country because of his or her sexual orientation then we do ourselves a great disservice. I don't care if you ARE straight as long as you can shoot straight!

I judge a human being not on her race, religion or sexual orientation, but rather, what kind of a human being is she? Does he live by the golden rule? What kind of character does he display? What is she doing for the greater good? These are the only criteria by which we should judge our fellow Americans and no other.

Love, light and justice really are on our side in this fight.

 
One of my most passionate pursuits is to do my part to protect every American's civil liberties and to constantly use my celebrity to remind people of the ideals upon which this great nation was found...
One of my most passionate pursuits is to do my part to protect every American's civil liberties and to constantly use my celebrity to remind people of the ideals upon which this great nation was found...
 
 
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07:21 PM on 11/23/2010
Wonderful article. Thank you Fran.
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Bobby Milford
12:39 PM on 11/23/2010
Love this article and love Fran Drescher. She's 100% right on.
12:20 AM on 11/21/2010
Thank you. Great article.
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jaybeejayarh
03:11 PM on 11/16/2010
You over on the Left continue to lie about LGBT's not having equal rights knowing that it is not true yet shouting it to the roof tops. They infact haveevery single right you and I have only in religin does that not hold for Marriage evey civil joining of a couple is a Civil Union soget it right and stop spreading lies as trut and truth as lies they make up less than 3% of the population yet have the highest educations Highest incomes and the most leasure time so get the facts straight for a chang. Marriage is a Religious undertaking and not a civil right .
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Kris Wilkins
Hello, I'm a Mac.
05:17 PM on 11/17/2010
What? Seriously... What?
08:46 PM on 11/12/2010
How about the unfairness of having your survivor's pension removed when it's your only income, just because you remarry or establish a civil union or domestic partnership?
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Gay Pagan Man, Living Happily With Husband
07:45 PM on 11/13/2010
Very unfair and it definitely needs to be addressed.
08:57 PM on 11/11/2010
As the mother of a gay man, I agree with Fran 100%. Every American should have equal rights. When are people going to see beyond the stereotypes? I pray the day will come when everyone can be proud to be living in this country.
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Gay Pagan Man, Living Happily With Husband
04:48 PM on 11/12/2010
Fanned and faved. What a wonderful mother your son has.
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luckyt
09:55 AM on 11/11/2010
Thank you, not only beautiful, but gracious and intelligent.
05:54 AM on 11/11/2010
I have many LGBT friends, but here's what I don't get- The US has deployed troops about 220 times (depending how you count). How many of those deployments were implemented in defense of our public security, and how many of those times were they sent on behalf of US business interests? (My impression is 90% for the latter) Of course LGBT folks shout be afforded equal rights in all playing fields, but in light of this, why would I support ANYONE joining the military whether they're LGBT or not?
09:47 PM on 11/11/2010
Not every one can be a doctor, a lawyer, a dentist or an accountant, or even a hedge fund trader. Some people actually believe in serving their country. In other families, military service is a tradition. In the opinion of many people including me, the last "good war" was WWII.
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starmanx
beam me up, Scotty
02:06 AM on 11/11/2010
Thank you, Fran! A superb article! You're my fav actress.
01:45 AM on 11/11/2010
"If any consenting adults are forbidden to marry, that is un-American."

Personally, I have a problem with the government having any say about any marriage - who is the government to say whether or not I am legally married, whether it be to a person of the same or opposite sex. Marriage should be governed only by a persons religion or lack thereof. It should not be a government ruling, period.

As far as LGBT rights? If each and every American were given equal rights across the board we wouldn't be having these discussions. I ask you, should a married couple get more tax breaks than a single person? What about a childless couple vs. a couple with three kids?

Should a person have to have special rights to make medical decisions for a loved one? Shouldn't a legal form signed by the loved one be enough? And that should pertain to two people that are not married whether they are straight or gay. If it is a legal document it should be considered legitimate even if it is two neighbors that have signed the agreement.

If I am willing to pay extra each week for health insurance for my roommate, what difference does it make if we are the same sex or not? What difference does it make if they are only a friend?

Equal rights are NOT just a problem for LGBT's. Nor is hate.
10:24 PM on 11/11/2010
The US has had a very tortured struggle with the concept of equal rights throughout its history. If you read Aron Sorkin's blog on Veterans day, you will notice that he grew up in Scarsdale. I would have been very surprised if he had said Bronxville. Both are high income suburbs of New York City, but Bronxville was known for its historical restricted real estate practices, and prior to a 1948 Supreme Court decision, that meant no Jews allowed. Ironically, Cole Porter, the closeted gay song composer, would have had no trouble buying real estate in Bronxville. He came from a wealthy, socially prominent, Indiana family and he was a non-practicing Episcopalian. His "marriage" to Linda Lee Thomas gave him additional cover in a time when Don't Ask, Don't Tell really was the way the world worked. The struggle for equal rights continues.
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Kris Wilkins
Hello, I'm a Mac.
05:34 PM on 11/17/2010
Well made point. I read a few articles while researching for a paper and my opinion has been altered on the topic. It really doesn't make sense to afford special privileges to married couples yet effectively punish all else who don't, can't, or choose not to marry.
01:22 AM on 11/11/2010
I don't think equal rights were ever very popular among many people in this country. The Old South was firmly segregated until the late 1960's, separate and unequal. Detroit had a municipal ordinance barring Blacks from certain neighborhoods until it was struck down by the Supreme Court in 1925. Harvard and other Ivy League colleges had a reputation of favoring Indiana farm boys over Jewish applicants with higher test scores. Private restrictive covenants were not unusual in upscale, WASPY neighborhoods and suburbs until 1948, when the Supreme Court struck them down. Every state that has been given the chance to vote on the gay marriage issue has voted against it. Voters in Iowa tossed out three state supreme court justices last week because they supported gay marriage. Congress could have voted to amend DOMA to recognize civil unions and to tax and pension benefits to gay couples but chose not too. As Senator Reid might say, the votes just aren't there. Maybe when the baby boomers die off and their grandchildren are old enough to vote, things will be different. If the US Supreme Court decides to tackle DOMA and DADT, the big unknown will be Justice Kennedy. Right now each side can reasonably count on 4 votes apiece. In the meantime, there is always Canada, if gay marriage and full equality are really important to you. 72 years after Kristallnacht, gay Jews have more civil rights in Germany than they do in the US.
09:33 PM on 11/11/2010
Add the word "extend" before "tax and pension benefits".
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Razpootin
01:21 AM on 11/11/2010
Fran, just got to say, fantastic writing! You really are a beautiful person.
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Thomas Walsh
11:09 PM on 11/10/2010
Now, when a hetero-sexual person speaks out about how they feel uncomfortable showering, and bunking with a homo-sexual, will there response be respected as well? Will they be given the same rights as everyone else in the army?
11:39 PM on 11/10/2010
SERIOUSLY............. I really don't think it would matter a whole lot if you are constantly being shot at.
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dannywanny
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11:48 PM on 11/10/2010
Why would someone with an irrational phobia be given consideration? If someone in the service doesnt like green should they be given uniforms in a different color? Soldiers in Canada, Europe, New Zealand, Australia, Russia and Britain don't have a problem with it. What's yours?
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Gay Pagan Man, Living Happily With Husband
04:50 PM on 11/12/2010
Fanned and faved. The homophobes need help to get over an irrational fear of GLBTs.
08:36 PM on 11/10/2010
Thank you Fran! Your words are so well-written and I agree with the person who said that others stated what you did, but none said it better. A smaller minority is the Transgendered. 84% of hate crimes are directed at LGBT people. Every month, two transwomen are killed. I don't understand the hatred in our society. It is based on ignorance. Once again, I thank you for your acceptance of all people. You are an asset to our society as an activist.
08:28 PM on 11/10/2010
I love you, Fran. Thank you.