It's far too often that I hear New Yorkers complain about dating. Common complaints include: "All the great guys are gay," "I can't afford to date women in New York," or "I don't have time to waste on another mediocre date." These types of mantras are what make dating tough.
It is my firm belief that there are three main blocks keeping New Yorkers from joyful dating. Read on and find out what may be in your way and how you can jump over that hurdle.
So how can you overcome these dating hurdles?
The answer is MediDating!
Through some mental reconditioning and a little MediDating you'll be guided to simplify and enhance your dating experience. Here's how.
I suggest you practice these exercises for the next thirty days. Studies show that in thirty days you can reprogram your brain to new beliefs. By recreating your beliefs around dating you will create a whole new reality.
So now that you've identified the blocks, and we've reviewed ways to remove them, I want to help calm you down with recommendations for MediDation.
MediDate for the next thirty days
Evening MediDation: Begin with an evening MediDation. Sit in your bed for five minutes before you go to sleep. Envision your new story. See yourself on a date with this person you totally dig. Most importantly, let the vision guide you into a positive feeling. Sit in this MediDation for a minimum of five minutes.
Walking MediDation: Take your new story for a walk. As you walk to work, to the gym, or out at night hold the vision of your desired date. Let your mind bring you to the place where you feel the feeling of being with this awesome person and enjoy the sensation. Walk around the streets vibrating this powerful feeling, and you will surely begin attracting.
The Big Night MediDation: Once you attract a great date make sure you have fun with it. To get yourself into a full blown positive vibration for your date use The Big Night MediDation as your guide. Sit in stillness for a minimum of five minutes. Envision exactly how you want the night to go, from the cab to the good night kiss. Breathe in the mantra, "I am relaxed" and breathe out, "I receive." Take this mantra with you on the date and recite all night long.
Release your dating delusions and start MediDating today!
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