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Today, Washington State Is a Better Place

Posted: 02/14/2012 2:19 pm

In my seven-year tenure as governor of the great state of Washington, yesterday was one of the best. That's when I signed the bill providing marriage equality for all Washingtonians, and it is the day when our state said, quite simply, that love is love.

I'm proud that Washington became the seventh state in the nation to provide civil marriage for same-sex couples, and that it stood up for what is right and just.

I'm proud that our same-sex couples will no longer be treated as separate but equal. They will be equal. I'm proud that the children of same-sex couples will no longer have to wonder why their parents' love is treated differently than that of other loving families.

I'm proud of the parents who have fought fiercely for the rights of their much-loved gay and lesbian children. And I'm proud that those who are growing up and realizing they are gay or lesbian can see that they, too, can look forward to the day when they make that important vow in front of their friends and family to the person they love.

As a parent, there is no greater joy than seeing your grown child walk down the aisle and make a lifetime commitment to the person they love. In Washington state, the words "I do" will now carry the same meaning for all families.

Like laws in other states, our legislation provides broad protections for religious organizations, religiously affiliated schools, and social service organizations. While no religion will be required to perform a marriage against its beliefs, the state will no longer discriminate in the issuing of marriage licenses.

This legislation makes us stronger. The stories of everyday citizens who give back to their communities, support one another in their relationships, care for aging parents, raise healthy families, and save for their children's futures are legion.

A young man, who as a senior in high school has already received his associate's degree in computer science, recently emailed me that his biggest obstacle in life is not his passion or intellect. It is his sexuality. As he so thoughtfully wrote, "One day, as this nation continues to change, people like me will not have to be extraordinary to appear ordinary."

That's as it should be. At a time when our families face many challenges -- keeping a job, paying the bills, saving for their children's education 00 worrying about who you can marry should not be one of those challenges. Marriage is important to everyone.

In Washington state it is important enough that this bill passed with a resounding "yes" that was achieved only with bipartisan support. Republicans and Democrats both stood up for what is right. Leaders from both parties, gay and straight, made impassioned, eloquent speeches conveying that marriage equality is not a partisan value or a religious value, but a human value. Major corporations such as Microsoft, Starbucks, and Nike endorsed the bill and said, rightly, that diverse workforces are key to economic success.

But this bill is much more than a piece of legislation. It is about telling couples, some who have been together for 20 or 30 years or more, that a lifetime commitment matters. That their love matters. That their families matter.

It's that simple. And today, Washington state is a better place.

 
In my seven-year tenure as governor of the great state of Washington, yesterday was one of the best. That's when I signed the bill providing marriage equality for all Washingtonians, and it is the day...
In my seven-year tenure as governor of the great state of Washington, yesterday was one of the best. That's when I signed the bill providing marriage equality for all Washingtonians, and it is the day...
 
 
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10:29 PM on 02/19/2012
It is a great day for humanity. I applaud you Governor for having signed the bill...where others have not. It speaks highly of the people of your state. Congrats!
10:22 PM on 02/19/2012
I am all for the rights of individuals. Don't care if your gay, straight, or tri (anything;-). The world does needs more love, of any flavor we can get. People ARE sometimes born gay. The word is DIFFERENT (from the majority), not DEVIANT. That having been said, I am concerned about the way this happened. We should be able to decide the rules governing our communities, and not have the elite few ram them down our throat.
07:38 PM on 02/19/2012
People should copulate with whomever they want.Consenting adults can do what ever they want.
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charlot
10:49 PM on 02/19/2012
Well, it doesn't really boil down to copulation, but thanks for that...I think.
11:53 PM on 02/19/2012
I know there are much more than copulation in a relationship.I am aware of it but copulation is a must.
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Stan1026
07:08 PM on 02/19/2012
Yeah, for this first time in history, Washington has a state mandated moral authority. Thats really what I call 'progress'.... Its really quite amazing that the left continues to use government to force its agenda down the throats of everyone. No more freedom of conscience in the good ol' USA - or at least in Washington.
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Mr Hoodoo
Card Carryin' Popeyeist
07:28 PM on 02/19/2012
You sound like one of those right-wing Culture War folks who use the government to forward your brand of morality, religion and politiucal ideology.

In other words, pot meets kettle sort of thing.

Relaz, Chumley. The government is there for people to use and to protect those the majority would keep down. If it were left up to the majority decades ago black folks would still be slaves and women couldn't vote or own property.
Cacey
Ignore rudeness, honor discussion
08:26 PM on 02/19/2012
This law followed Constitutional principles in that it was passed by a bipartisan group of legislators and signed by the governor. Nothing is being mandated. Still I find your phrase "force..down the throats of everyone" either amusing or telling.
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Stan1026
08:43 PM on 02/19/2012
It is still the implementation of a moral agenda. Just because it doesn't happen to be a relgious agenda doesn't make it any less an imposition of one group's moral beliefs. And, I'm pretty sure you will find that the phrase 'forcing something down someone's throat' predates the modern era of reading sexuality into every turn of phrase.
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09:27 PM on 02/19/2012
Self projection at its finest!
06:19 PM on 02/19/2012
Amazing how much has changed in just a few years. It would be pretty amazing if states continue to differentiate themselves like this. Decades ago, states were primarily differentiated on climate and taxation, but as women's rights, gay marriage and social services evolve separately, it gives much more meaning to where one chooses to live. Bravo!
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antigaychristianssuck
deus cinaedus est
09:24 PM on 02/19/2012
A century and half ago they were differentiated according to whether you could own slaves or not.
06:17 PM on 02/19/2012
Thank God. Love is Love, period.
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Mr Hoodoo
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05:33 PM on 02/19/2012
Thank you, Governor Gregoire, for having the moral and political courage to do what was right, not right-wing. I've been proud to vote for you in the past, and I'll be pleased to vote for you again if you so choose to run again.

Thanks to you and our legislature. You all took our great state one step further into the 21st century. Now if only you all would do the right thing regarding marijuana and legalize it and allowing for full free use of it for all of us who use it already for medical reasons but cannot access it as we should be able to due to the draconian strict policies.

Once again, congratualtions for making Washingtonians proud with this latest legislation.
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dclintn648
Better a pro than a con
04:56 PM on 02/19/2012
Why should religious organizations be "protected" from EQUALITY???

It is THEY who are the oppressors of others, so why should the government help them do it?

Religion is nothing more than a harbor for ignorance and bigotry.
04:31 PM on 02/19/2012
To bad for 6,664,195 plus residents of Washington they have no say ,no voice on matters to important for few politicians in the state
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LeftRight
TANSTAAFL
07:29 PM on 02/20/2012
Um.... Perhaps you fail to understand this, but I will point something out to you:

Those 6,664,195+ residents VOTED FOR THOSE POLITICIANS!!!

Which means that their voice most assuredly was heard. And as for complaining that they weren't allowed to vote on another person's rights, be glad that they ALSO aren't voting on whether you will be allowed to attend the church of your choice, or marry the person of your choice, or any OTHER right that you have!
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WarrenPease
Your interests are special, too.
04:05 PM on 02/19/2012
Congratulations from the state that gave us the original tea party and the shot hear 'round the world!
03:44 PM on 02/19/2012
To me, this issue is not about increasing the personal happiness of same-sex couples who wish to marry. It is about acknowledging that LGBTQ citizens deserve the same human rights and social rights as the rest of the public. Many of us feel that society rejects us, but this bill demonstrates that there are people who would welcome us as part of the mainstream society and want us to have the same chances of success in planning a family as they have. It's about an affirmation of rights and equality. Initially, African american slaves were not granted rights or seen as real people, but as times have changed people have come around to see how ugly and inhuman that was...let us hope that times will continue to change and minds will continue to open.
08:53 PM on 02/19/2012
Well said. fav.
03:34 PM on 02/19/2012
With respects to the voters of Washington why didn’t you allow them to vote? So much for the will of the people As you said when "I" I'm meaning you and a hanful of politicains does not represent the entire state of Washington.
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LeftRight
TANSTAAFL
07:30 PM on 02/20/2012
Um.... Perhaps you don't understand the Constitution of the United States of America.... It says quite clearly that each state SHALL provide a republican form of government for their residents. Which means that those representatives most assuredly DO represent the entire state of Washington...
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Djay0252
American First, Second, and ALWAYS
03:23 PM on 02/19/2012
The great state of Washington is run by just another politician who has no concept of truth.
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Mr Hoodoo
Card Carryin' Popeyeist
06:00 PM on 02/19/2012
No, you're thinking of Jan Brewer and Arizona.

Here in Washington we have Christine Gregiore who does things the right way, not the right-wing way.
06:25 PM on 02/19/2012
You mean the truth the way YOU see it...... Maybe, just maybe, you might be wrong.
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nolabear
02:49 PM on 02/19/2012
Thank you, Madame Governor. I'm a Washingtonian with many LGBT friends, and to see them bask in the simple experience of being seen and appreciated and loved for who they are is incredibly warming. The basic act of planning your life--things like taxes and health care and raising a family and who can be there for you at the end--how could we ever have denied this to anyone? Thank you. For many, many people it just GOT better.
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David Steven
02:34 PM on 02/19/2012
Why has it become so necessary for same-sex couples to legally marry? If you are in love, good for you. Why the urgency to be legally married? If same-sex couples can legally marry, does that also mean they can legally get divorced, along with the custody battles and alimony decisions that go with it? Almost half of the marriages in America end in divorce. Why can't these couples be happy together without a legal document declaring they are married? I don't believe one of America's most endearing institutions should be radically altered just to appease a small minority of the populace. If two people want to engage in anti-social, sexually-deviant behavior in the privacy of their homes, that's their cultural anomaly. But it shouldn't be celebrated and legitimized with a marriage ceremony. This "anything goes" mentality is eroding our moral fiber in this country and, if left unchecked, will someday be our cultural undoing.
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eddy joe
welcome to the machine
03:43 PM on 02/19/2012
Well said.
03:45 PM on 02/19/2012
There is nothing deviant about my behavior nor anti-social. You are small minded and need to accept that life changes. You sound just like the people who thought that blacks should ride in the back of the bus.
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PTAOfficerforObama
A micro bio is a terrrible thing to waste.
08:25 PM on 02/19/2012
Well said. f/f.