Balanced Life -- 10 Common Myths About Happiness

Lately, I've found myself frequently discussing several of ten common myths about happiness, so I decided to post the complete list here.
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Every Wednesday is Tip Day (or List Day, or Quiz Day).

This Wednesday: 10 common myths about happiness.

Lately, I've found myself frequently discussing several of ten common myths about happiness, so I decided to post the complete list here.

No. 1: Happy people are annoying and stupid. This is an automatic assumption that many people make.

No. 7: Doing "random acts of kindness" brings happiness. The emphasis here is on the word "random."

No. 8: You'll be happy as soon as you... Falling into the "arrival fallacy" is something that many people (including me) recognize in themselves.

Agree? Disagree? Am I missing an important myth?

* Via HeadButler, I read the moving eulogy for writer Robert B. Parker, written by his son.

* It's Word-of-Mouth Day, when I gently encourage (or, you might think, pester) you to spread the word about the Happiness Project. You might:

-- Forward the link to someone you think would be interested

-- Link to a post on Twitter (follow me @gretchenrubin)

-- Sign up for my free monthly newsletter (about 39,000 people get it)

-- Join the 2010 Happiness Challenge to make 2010 a happier year

-- Put a link to the blog in your Facebook status update

-- Watch the one-minute book video

Thanks! I really appreciate any help. Word of mouth is the BEST.

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