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14 Tips for Controlling Holiday Eating

Posted: 11/24/11 11:05 AM ET

I've been thinking a lot about my eating habits lately -- probably because the holiday season is so full of temptation. Here are some guidelines that I've been trying to follow, whether eating in or eating out, with various degrees of fidelity.

1. Wear snug-fitting clothes.

2. Buy food in small containers. Studies show that people give themselves larger portions out of larger boxes, so I don't buy that economy box of whatever.

3. Make tempting food inconvenient. -- Put cookies in a hard-to-reach spot, set the freezer to a very cold temperature so it's hard to spoon out ice cream, store goodies in hard-to-open containers.

4. Order the appetizer size.

5. Use smaller plates, bowls and cutlery. I often use the plastic plates we have left over from when my daughters were young.

6. Dish food up in the kitchen, and don't bring serving platters onto the table (except vegetables).

7. Pile my plate with everything I intend to eat, and don't get seconds once that food is gone. (I can do this with everything except my favorite Thanksgiving food, served every year in my family: sweet potatoes with marshmallows.)

8. Keep serving sizes small: get a small frozen yogurt instead of a large (OK, I would get a medium, not a small, but still); get a single hamburger instead of a double.

9. Skip the add-ons: tell the waiter that I don't want the side of fries, don't add croutons or bacon to my salad. I feel like Sally from "When Harry Met Sally" as I quibble about how my food should be served, but oh well.

10. After dinner, signal myself that "Eating's over:" brush my teeth, clean up the kitchen, turn out the lights.

11. Don't allow myself to get too hungry or too full.

12. Realize that, with some things, I can't have just a little bit. In the abstainer/moderator split, I'm a hard-core abstainer. It's far easier for me to skip cookies, bagels and chocolate than it is to have a sensible portion.

13. Never eat hors d'oeuvres.

14. Don't eat food I don't like, just because it's there. No one cares if I have a serving of asparagus or cranberry sauce.

I've realized that although it seems festive and carefree to indulge in lots of treats, in the end, I feel guilty and overstuffed. Which doesn't make the holiday happier. It's a secret of adulthood: By giving myself limits, I give myself freedom.

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I've been thinking a lot about my eating habits lately -- probably because the holiday season is so full of temptation. Here are some guidelines that I've been trying to follow, whether eating in or e...
I've been thinking a lot about my eating habits lately -- probably because the holiday season is so full of temptation. Here are some guidelines that I've been trying to follow, whether eating in or e...
 
 
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01:04 PM on 12/12/2011
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HerrMonk
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01:35 PM on 11/29/2011
Why not take 3 to its logical extension: don't keep foods in the house you don't want to be eating/temped to eat?

When you want to indulge, make a special trip to the store, buy just enough for one serving, and keep the junk out of the house.
09:26 AM on 11/29/2011
I like Dr. Fuhrman who says "the salad is the main dish". With salads, I try to incrementally reduce the amount of salad dressing. My friend, a nutritionist, says that fat should comprise about 10% of the diet, so I am trying to make the salad oil proportional to the amount of salad. I'm afraid I have a taste for lots of olive oil though.
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HerrMonk
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01:37 PM on 11/29/2011
Your friend, the nutritionist, is wrong. It's unfortunate the way nutritional orthodoxy in this country has been hijacked, and the people going to school to be specifically educated in nutrition are so often misinformed.

Fat should be 30-40% of the diet for most people.
08:17 AM on 11/28/2011
This whole media-hyped planned panic about overeating during the holiday season is just silly. If you eat right and exercise regularly, then a few (and I mean a FEW...like six occasions a year) big meals for special occasions is not going to be a cause for alarm or cause you to outgrow your pants. The problem is that most Americans eat like every day is a special occasion...600 calorie specialty coffee drinks, mindless salty snacks and handfuls of candy, dessert after LUNCH, gallons of soda, uncontrolled portions...and most Americans have developed bad habits like eating on the run, eating erratically (no breakfast, starving by noon, binge eating all afternoon), eating in front of the TV and relying on processed foods, take out and junk foods. All these "news" stories about "Save 1000 Calories on Thanksgiving!" "Low Fat Christmas Cookies!" are just ridiculous. If you eat the way we're supposed to, a few days of indulgence (your birthday...your spouse's birthday...Thanksgiving...Christmas...one or two other big family events per year) are not going to throw you off track. You know it's a special occasion. You enjoy it. You go back to real life. For some inexplicable reason, it's the people who over-eat every day who get stressed out about putting butter on their mashed potatoes at Thanksgiving dinner and are suddenly worried about "saving" calories during the last month of the year.
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HerrMonk
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01:40 PM on 11/29/2011
Life has many, many occasions.

It wasn't until I really started tracking things I realized how many "special occasions" I could have if I really wanted.
10:54 PM on 11/25/2011
Number 1. Make everyone use chopsticks to eat. Servings will be smaller and it will take a good deal of time before thy inured out how to use them.
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07:32 PM on 11/25/2011
Or do what I did: contract colon cancer, undergo chemo and viola! Persistant nausea that makes any kind of eating out of the question. Not any kind of plan that I would wish on anyone else...
09:27 AM on 11/29/2011
I am so sorry that happened to you.
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04:22 AM on 11/25/2011
You left out my favorite method. Just be an old grump and ignore the holidays completely. Sure, you might still get a fruitcake, but nobody eats that anyway.
09:27 AM on 11/29/2011
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02:38 AM on 11/25/2011
I find drinking 50/50 wine and seltzer water to help cut down on calories and I always have a rule never more than two alcoholic drinks per 24 hours. The percentage of alcohol in wine is high here in the U.S. (about 14% or above) compared to the country of France their wine is about 9% alcohol. So instead of having two glasses of wine during social hour, why not just tell the bartender to fill a wine glass half full of wine and the rest with seltzer water and make the second drink the same way but stop after the second drink or fill up on non-alcoholic drinks for the rest of the time.
02:11 AM on 11/25/2011
The tips which you have mentioned are very nice, but holiday is a holiday where there is no restrictions on anything, still I'll follow that diet.

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11:34 PM on 11/24/2011
On Thanksgiving I eat as much as I want. I'll diet on Monday!