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Kids Today: Why Do We Text More Than We Talk?

Posted: 06/02/10 03:34 PM ET

Text Messaging is cheap and easy, but is it -- patriotic?

Like any self-aware young adult, I enjoy being told what trends I'm a part of. It makes me feel important, loved, and part of something larger than myself. Most recently, the New York Times reported that the youngest generation text message far more often than they chat on the phone. This fact doesn't surprise me, but it does disappoint.

I have to agree that talking on the phone has become burdensome. I get nervous and unsure of myself when forced to dial a number and engage another person, even a close friend. There's confusion and intermittent static, and the hurt of a dropped call can cut deep. The politics of auditory dialogue are confusing, for sure. I'm always speaking over someone, or repeating myself, or filling long pauses with inappropriate laughter.

I may not even know the basics of a phone conversation, but I know the ins and outs of text messaging like the back of my Motorola chocolate flip-phone. I like the efficiency of text-messaging. A <3 emoticon says all that I don't dare to say out loud. An image is worth a thousand roll-over minutes. And the magic of predictive text means I don't even have to think when I send a message to my roommate asking her "he you foot soccer cake?"

The text message is utilitarian and quick, and an important player in political controversy (see: South Carolina gubernatorial candidate's alleged textual encounters!). More text messages are sent each day than there are people on this earth-- and that's counting the homeless, illiterate, and otherwise disenfranchised and cell-phone less.

But, I wonder about the cost of cashing in conversation for convenience. What are the consequences of the text message's dominance over the spoken word? When we share only snippets of our thoughts, 140 pathetic characters at a time, what will happen to spirited discussion?

I fear that we are committing ourselves to a "silent" future. In my apocalyptic vision, dinner table debates about curfews and campaign finance reform are replaced by a few cryptic texts. Our pundits, our beloved "talking heads," are reduced to mere "texting entities." We become so dulled and brain dead that our hand-held personal electronic devices eventually overtake us, manufacture their own identities, and tyrannically rule humankind! Sort of like in I-Robot, except without Will Smith and all the slap-stick comic relief.

Worse, we risk losing what's best about America: freedom of speech. It's a well proven, or at least popular, adage that "if you don't use it, you lose it." If we don't exercise our first amendment right to talk out of turn, we may forfeit it entirely. Democracy is the fruit of lively and free-wheeling discussions, the kind a text message simply does not afford.

It's sad that this could be the legacy of our generation. I expected better, and for the record, so did Barack Obama. We're too young to already be tired of speaking. Maybe I'm being a bit dramatic, worrying that the increase in messaging over phone calls forecasts a grim future for democratic life as we know it. And to be sure, all technological advancement isn't necessarily anti-social. There's no better way to meet predatory strangers or unknowingly share your personal information with corporations than on the Internet--just ask Mark Zuckerberg.

I have faith that when we start to miss the sound of human voices and long for the dial tone of days past, we'll pick up the phone again. At least, I certainly hope so, for the republic's sake.

 

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11:16 AM on 06/15/2010
I agree with Ilana, and so do a lot of other early-20somethings. Texting is easy, you can multitask, you can think of your responses. I constantly have my Blackberry glued to my hand, and am always speaking (read: texting) with someone all throughout the day. Why dial, have awkward pauses/silences/talk-overs when I could just bing-bang-boom type out everything I needed to say and be done with it? But I do think that we rely too heavily upon texting. I even text my employers instead of call these days! This issue is heavily debated on Millenial blog "The Next Great Generation" (http://www.thenextgreatgeneration.com/) and is an issue that should definitely be spoken about.
07:21 PM on 06/09/2010
Llana! hahaha, methinks you doth protest too much about good old fashioned verbal communication :)) i was at Pomona´s graduation and you were spectacular! Engaging, feisty, interesting, funny and provocative. If i could text all day and develop those speaking skills in the process, believe me i´d get right to it. (My daughter was a fellow grad and a big admirer of yours!) Good luck with your future plans!
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10:43 PM on 06/13/2010
I was going to make the same point. Texting hasn't hurt her mind one bit, it seems. I don't know how old she is, but feeling awkward in conversation is normal when we're young. As you get older and more comfortable in your own skin, it gets much easier.
11:56 AM on 06/09/2010
Llana,

Oh, don't worry. You're not missing much. Also, 'speech' as is Constitutionally understood and interpreted means so much more than the spoken word. Demonstrations, comic strips, flag burning, holding the voodoo doctor Obama sign, and your blog are all all forms of 'speech,' and I don't think Americans are in danger of being silenced quite yet. Besides, do you really want to talk to anyone at the diner table, anyway? LOL
11:53 AM on 06/03/2010
Honey, I think you've been infected by negative comments from grownups who disapprove of your generation's ways of communicating. Every generation develops new social phenomena, new ways of communicating, new rules. I think texting, just like phone calls, has its ups and downs. But here are the things I like:
Your generation is developing a true social language of your own
Young people texting is over more multi-person social, and therefore inclusive, than phone calls
Texting is, despite what the old folks say, a form of writing. It's a medium in which you are experimenting with different levels of formality, intimacy, distance...like the letter and note writing frenzy of the 18th and 19th centuries

I say all of this as a mom who texts very little, and who doesn't let her tween have her own phone. That's my personal choice based on my beliefs about focus and schoolwork, and not fueling the engine of social distraction too young. But I love the way that my relatives and friends in their teens and twenties have these beautiful, interweaving, relationships and plan their life with constant input and flexibility. Soon my kids will be there. It will baffle me, and I will learn from them.
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05:09 PM on 06/03/2010
Thanks for that comment. I really like that optimistic perspective! I've been inspired to go send a text message!
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03:23 PM on 06/02/2010
I'm not a kid but I know the value of a net connection! Give me a non-capped mobile net connection and I'll be in my glory. Just let me hook it to whatever device(s) I want.

I'm looking at your Apple, with your half-baked bluetooth support and your insistence on no Flash for the iPhone/Touch.

It's going to get interesting here in RI, specifically Providence. For $100 a month I can get a fixed connection at the office, and two mobile connections. Uncapped. So it works to $33.33 each device per month. Suck that at&t.