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Prepare to Be Desperate

Posted: 01/16/10 02:34 PM ET

The images tell it all. How can it be? Yet again, with the advent of technology we are there, intimate in the grief, desperation, hopelessness and deep frustration that in a time of great crisis we/you/they are alone, no aid for days. As the National Red Cross Spokesperson for their Do More Than Cross Your Fingers Campaign of Disaster Preparedness, I am well aware of the need for each person's self sufficiency in the moment of crisis. In the case of Haiti, the very infrastructure, however weak, to help in the time of need was itself crippled and crumbled. In this great time of global commitment stop for a second and ask yourself, have I done more than cross my fingers?

A disaster will/could strike you and your family in your own communities. We watched Katrina. We watched how quickly anarchy and self preservation turned stunned and hungry, angry, hurting masses into mobs desperate for water, food, shelter, HELP. Trying to get aid for a sick or injured child. Are we prepared? Doubtful. I am not proselytizing about my mighty way or the highway, that I am some pillar of preparedness, just read my Christmas blog about losing power called Gridlocked out at Christmas. Yes, I am prepared here in my home in Los Angeles for a big, catastrophic earthquake but we all need to be. We cannot expect our government to help us individually in the first days after a crisis. The need is too much. Triage... Help the most needy. Rescuing where there is the greatest need. Chances are you, in your insular life will not be their priority so be your OWN. Go to the websites. Download the lists, basics, water, one gallon per PERSON per DAY and have at least a WEEKS supply. FLASHLIGHTS, FOOD, PRESCRIPTIONS, GLASSES, HEALTH DOCUMENTS, SHOES and CLOTHES and a CROWBAR to help open doors that are affected when the lintel's sag. Do more than cross your fingers.

I'm sure there were some disaster supplies in Haiti somewhere, but sadly, they were buried. We are going to need to rely on our neighbors and communities as the government agencies try to help the cities. We are all still wondering why it takes so long to get aid in, water, food. The basics. I don't know and I applaud all the efforts being made on behalf of the fallen and failing and fragile lives, hanging in the balance. Don't comment to this. Take that second to join one of the click and help agencies that HuffPost has provided, but then look at your home and start. You will sleep better tonight knowing that yes, you gave to the relief effort but much more importantly, that you created one for your own family and took the time today to put it in place.

Prepare to be helped by YOU.

 
 
 
 
 
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drxcreatures
10:25 PM on 02/25/2010
Yes Jamie. We remember when you went without electricity, for a day. ;)

You're right though. Anything could happen, at any time and we do not understand how lucky, most of us are. My mom LIVES for being prepared and so no worries there. I keep a few, little emergency kits myself. As these posters say, hope those items WILL be accessible, during a crisis, though.

What's crazy is that I am hearing so many people say that they refuse to help Haiti and the USA should not. I know our economy is bad (and we know who to thank for that) but, we need to help anyway. We'd want others to help us, if the crisis faced OUR direction.
03:37 AM on 01/21/2010
Someone here mentioned a big sack of beans holding a family for a month. But what if there isn't enough water or fuel to cook them? I prefer to have lots of canned goods that I can eat cold, if necessary. Canned food is also instant and can be eaten with little preparation by exhausted survivors. I keep a lot of my canned goods in a big, clean garbage barrel with wheels, in case I have to take it with me. My water tank can fit on my hand truck/dolly too.
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nmaddog7
06:52 AM on 01/20/2010
Personal responsibility, novel concept, worked for the Dust Bowl didn't it?
02:44 AM on 01/20/2010
I love what you wrote, "Prepare to be helped by you." The helping hand MUST be at the end of our own sleeve. Grazie-prego.
02:08 PM on 01/19/2010
well put, jamie lee!
BUT, for the low income population, stashing a week's worth of groceries is not possible.
some who didn't evacuate for katrina, argued that they couldn't afford gas to get out of town-if they even had a car. paying for a hotel was out of the question. so, where could they go? if they had, at least,had the necessities to sustain them until rescued, as you suggest, we would have a different story to tell. but, they couldn't afford to plan for the future.
how much do you, jamie lee, have in your emergency kit? how many , who didn't prepare, could you help? and where is it stored? do you think you could access it if, G-d forbid, the big one hit L.A.?
i'm just sayin'...
as an aside, when i lived in l.a., i had a box at home and in my car. thank G-d, while i was there, the obvious (earthquake) didn't occur. but during the riots of '92, when the city was under a curfew order, we were thrilled to find the food from my emergency kit! you never know when it will come in handy.
some people don't prepare our of laziness, arrogance or denial. some don't b/c they don't have extra to stash. the first group could follow your advice. the second group is another story. how do you take care of that population?
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OdinsEye
Korean-Latino cop and combat vet
02:24 PM on 01/19/2010
"BUT, for the low income population, stashing a week's worth of groceries is not possible"

One can of peas at a time. You do not have to buy everything all at once.

Many people with kits are prepared to share with their immediate neighbors.

And part of the point is that the more people who are prepared, the less people have to rely on government help and that help can then go to those who need it instead of being spread thin.

As mentioned down thread, there are a variety of ways to store a kit so that it can be accessable.
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splashy
Really?!?!!!
01:38 AM on 01/19/2010
Good advice, if a person/persons can do it. The big problem is if people are living hand to mouth, in conditions that preclude being able to stock up anything that would help them in an emergency. From what I have read and heard, that is the case for a huge number of people in Haiti.

What if your stocks are in your home, that has collapsed? Could be a big problem.

But, I am with you on this. We regularly have things like storms that cut us off, and therefore try to stay stocked up enough to last for a month or more. If a person can do it, it really is the best thing to do. Saves a lot of angst and suffering in the case of an emergency.
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OdinsEye
Korean-Latino cop and combat vet
02:14 AM on 01/19/2010
You can build kits a little at a time, spreading the expense out, and kits do not have to be all that expensive.

Kits can be located in "safe" areas or hardened containers (many sites sell "bear proof" containers, for example). But most wood and drywall single family dwellings are easily rummaged through even if completely destroyed.
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maiforpeace
04:46 PM on 01/18/2010
Well said Jamie Lee.

We had the capacity to do that in New Orleans and we didn't. So, did we learn from that? What can we do differently if a similar disaster were to strike here at home?
01:09 AM on 01/19/2010
It is always nice to have one of the Hollywood set actually say something intelligent (like be prepared for the local typical emergencies (like earthquakes and wildfires in SoCal or hurricanes in the gulf)
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Rooster Coburn
Less Gov't + More Responsibility = A Better World
03:21 PM on 01/18/2010
I applaud the Huffington Post for producing this kind of positive message. This should be one area where Republican, Democrats, Libertarians, Socialists, Greens, whatever can agree. I might only add that an effective means of self defense could prove beneficial in a EOTWAWKI (End Of The World As We Know It) situation.
02:02 PM on 01/18/2010
Thanks, Ms. Curtis! There are lots of emergienies and crises, but a real disaster is one in which help cannot get in. Most of us will not personally experience such a thing, but we shoud be prepared to get along for 3-5 days without services and assistance.
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Mortifyd
04:34 PM on 01/18/2010
No one lives in an area free of the possibility of natural disaster. We just think we do.
11:39 AM on 01/18/2010
Thinking about disaster here in the U.S., different communities will respond differently. Some people will go frantic, loot and kill. Others will organize together and do what they can to help one another. I live in a small town, and envision that we'll all be courteous toward each other. If I have something my neighbors can use, I'm going to give it to them. If we run out of food and water, our family has members with health problems who will probably die soon without these items. But I'm not going to hurt anybody over it. My life isn't that important that I need to get upset about anything.
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joyina
12:20 PM on 01/18/2010
The point is that if everyone took responsibility for their own preparation, your family members wouldn't have to die. It's all well and good to share with the needy, but I'd be pissed if someone who had the means to prepare didn't, then jeopardized my family in a crisis. I actually stock extra food because I know that some of my neighbors are like that.
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Asmodean1
Truth is only true if based on facts.
12:55 PM on 01/18/2010
you might be suprised at what thirst and hunger will drive you to do. even worse when not just yours, but loved ones also. people will forget about hugging a cross in love and use it as a club. none of us have truly been hungry or thirsty in our loves.... we spoiled Americans.
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splashy
Really?!?!!!
01:41 AM on 01/19/2010
Actually, some of us have been truly hungry and/or thirsty - look at those in New Orleans for instance. There are plenty of rural people that have been in ice and snow storms that have had to fend for themselves for weeks at a time.

So, you really are speaking for yourself and others like yourself that haven't experienced this. Those of us that have know the score on this.
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see biography
10:07 AM on 01/18/2010
“FLASHLIGHTS”

Consider a hand-wound LED lamp. They need no batteries. There are no bulbs to fail. They are to all intents and purposes inexhaustible.
We can create the technology. All we need to make, is the commitment.
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splashy
Really?!?!!!
01:46 AM on 01/19/2010
Yes, those hand crank Grundig radios that have a lamp in them are really useful! We have a Grundig FR200 Emergency Radio and used it during the ice storm that hit our area last year. It it hadn't been for that we would have been completely cut off for over a week. I highly recommend them to everyone.

Oh, and those LED lamps you can wear on your head or around your neck are great too. They last a very long time on batteries, and go with you when you move around. The lights are very bright.
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OdinsEye
Korean-Latino cop and combat vet
02:17 AM on 01/19/2010
The head lamps are pretty useful. We even have some that the dogs can wear like collars. And the little ASP keychain LED lamps are great too. I have probably a dozen of those little guys on keychains, dog tags chains, etc.
09:06 AM on 01/18/2010
This column is on the wrong website. Liberals don't believe in preparedness. They believe it's the duty of the government to be their momma, daddy and Santa all rolled into one. Personal responsibility is not a Liberal value.
Sorry, it was a good column aside from it being on the wrong website.
09:59 AM on 01/18/2010
Couldn't agree more, funny to see a lib site write this knowing libs trust their government to do it all for them. When the gov't isn't there, we are ALL on our own, no matter what our views.
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Andrew FingerlickingGree
11:05 AM on 01/18/2010
Thats a bunch of BS, liberals don't have no such beliefs. Personal Responsibility is not a liberal action? WTF dude?
05:05 AM on 01/18/2010
As for what to read or see, I have not seen the road but I have read One Second After and I would suggest this is a good place to start. I would also say to those that have scoffed at guns do as you like but I fear guns in the hands of the people will be the only protectection from gangs and looters. I know that all the talk is for a 72 hour kit but I would say each person should look more at a 30 day supply. A 50 # bag of rice and beans and canned goods would get a family of 4 for 30 days with a good supply of water. However most people will ignore all this and when the time comes blame everyone but themselves. Jamie Lee I have loved your movies and this is a great use of your time but I fear we are lambs for the slaughter we have grown soft.
05:03 AM on 01/18/2010
My grandmother always canned and stored supplies for the winter. We could survive and for three or four months at a time. My grand kids do not even want to cook let alone be bothered with learning how to survive.
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shutterbabe
Some people feel the rain. Others just get wet.
11:18 AM on 01/18/2010
Charlene, this is an excellent commentary. You are right about the younger generation not having
survival skills. So much was simply handed to them by their parents. Many have a sense of entitlement and do not know how to get back to basics if a situation called upon them to have less.

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TheAntiOkie
Saying you're Christian doesn't prove anything
02:00 PM on 01/18/2010
Kids are what their parents teach them to be.
02:18 PM on 01/18/2010
but let's also remember: give the young time...and they too may grow wise
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joyina
12:24 PM on 01/18/2010
I don't know the ages of your grandkids, but it might not be too late to teach them. Let them sit and starve for a few days. They'll at least learn how to cook ramen noodles!
My daughter is my karma shadow. She helps out when I volunteer in the neighborhood, she cooks with me, she helped the family develop our disaster plan and handled the conversation with genuine interest and awareness. As for the kid next door whose parents drive a Porsche to starbucks every morning and who eats takeout or frozen pizza everyday - well, he's probably screwed.
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04:05 AM on 01/18/2010
The day of 9/11, some of my co-workers saw a mile long back-up of "official" SUV's
lined up, heading into Mt. Weather.

There were no announcements telling the citizens what to do.

If the attacks had continued, we would be on our own while they locked themselves away
in the bunker.

American citizens, who fund these shelters, would be turned away at gunpoint.

If 9/11 and Katrina have failed to drive home the point.

We The People will be on our own, for days, weeks, maybe months in the event of a major
catastrophy.

Our small mountain top community is better prepared than most, with plenty of natural water, firewood,
wildlife and experienced hunters and a good vantage point.

To survive, we must assume, there will be no public services, fuel for our generators, no cell service, no ATM access and no access to provisions from outside the community.

If we can't hunt, we might be able to fish from two rivers.

More supplies

A battery powered radio, fishing supplies, rope, string and climbing gear, extra socks and shoes,
blankets, sleeping bags, hot hands, Bic lighters, propane canisters, camp stove, bow and arrow, TENT and survival skills book.

Take your family on a camping trip just to get a good orientation on how to get by with
the basics of survival.

Consider joining a cave exploration club.

You never know where you might end up.