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Holiday Challenge: Nix The Useless Gifts, Do Good With Your Money Instead

Posted: 12/14/10 11:41 AM ET

'Tis the season for Charles Dickens, but not in the way you might think. Sure, we're all familiar with what may be the most famous last line in English literature, "God bless us, everyone." But this year, it maybe the most famous opening line (which also belongs to Dickens) that best describes the season. It is, indeed, "the best of times and the worst of times."

In addition to Dickens, I can quote Jesus, Buddha, Mohamed, capitalism and socialism and to justify what I am about to share, but I am way beyond the need to defend or preach or even inspire. I am sad. Sad that I saw a long line of people waiting in freezing weather unable to pay their heating bills and finding out that whatever assistance may have been available in the past is available no longer. These fellow citizens will have to go without heat until they find work and therefore enough money to pay the bill.

I am also sad when I hear about children who are going hungry or who won't have toys this Christmas. When I went to buy for my already well-gifted friends, I think of the people without and I stop in my tracks and say to myself, "Self, what can I do to make a difference?" The answer came more quickly than I thought it might. The only gifts I have bought this season have been at stores where I can buy gifts for kids who wouldn't have had any.

So this is what I have decided and I invite and urge you all to participate with me. Instead of buying my friends gifts, I am going to take that money and pay the electric bills of as many people as I can. I will also be donating directly to food for the elderly, since many of our elderly population is going hungry (indeed, the worst of times).

The Impact section of The Huffington Post will be launching a store that gives back and will be aiding anyone who wants to join me in this type of gifting.

Learn how you can give a gift that gives back this holiday season.

Your holiday shopping can mean clean drinking water for people around the world, care packages for our troops abroad, the ability for a child to attend a full year of school, and with over 100 participating nonprofits, many more options are available. Your friend or loved one will learn about their gift via an e-card customized with your personal note and know the tangible impact made through your support.

 
'Tis the season for Charles Dickens, but not in the way you might think. Sure, we're all familiar with what may be the most famous last line in English literature, "God bless us, everyone." But this y...
'Tis the season for Charles Dickens, but not in the way you might think. Sure, we're all familiar with what may be the most famous last line in English literature, "God bless us, everyone." But this y...
 
 
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03:05 AM on 12/20/2010
A great idea for this season over indulgence....
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02:09 PM on 12/18/2010
I am alos not buying Christmas Gifts for family an friends, 2010. December 21, 2010(Tuesday), I will take a taxis to a local hospital, give to Cancer Patients, my "Gloria Wrapp-Capps" especially, to women that have lost or losing their hair. My second special visit is planned for Christmas Day, passing out my mini stuffed animals collection(Disneyland, Wee Bears, Beanie Babies, etc.) to children in hospitals during Christmas Season.
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02:02 PM on 12/18/2010
Neither am I buying Christmas Gifts. I am giving about 50 (Name Brands like Wee Bear, Disney Stuffed Animals. etc) (Gloria Bear Huggs), to children in hospital during Christmas Season. I am also making and giving "Gloria Wrapp-Capps" to Cancer patients, who maybe losing or have lost their hair. I will start my Christmas Hospital Giving, Tuesday, December 21, 2010.
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06:27 PM on 12/16/2010
Thanks Brian Sirgitz for all the work you did on the donation store. I
made my donation to Heartfelt Foundation that was not on your list but they provide food, medicine, pay utilities as needed people who are unable to help themselves
12:50 AM on 12/16/2010
Spent $225 today on 5 charities in my kid's honor. Best Christmas present I have ever given her.
11:14 AM on 12/15/2010
A great organization that helps people directly to pay their heat and power bills when they are unable to is the Bishop Sullivan Center in Kansas City - http://www.bishopsullivan.org/ - through their "Lift a Burden" program. Knowing you helped someone who needs it is better than any sweater or scented candle that you don't need or particularly want.
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martigras
10:00 AM on 12/15/2010
Introduce your family to Kiva Loans that make loans to people in developing countries. A loan can be as small as $25. Then let your kids scroll through the pictures and stories of the people who need loans and choose. It's a great educational experience.
03:22 AM on 12/15/2010
don't know if this is completely related but http://www.humblebundle.com/
gift any "gamer" friends you might have while all the proceeds can go towards charity

any donation made towards child's play will bring toys and games to sick or terminally ill children in various hospitals across the country.

Hopefully this helps someone :)
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11:36 PM on 12/14/2010
Our office did without the annual "white elephant" gifts and donated cash for classroom projects on donor chose.
02:19 PM on 12/14/2010
Great idea..who needs more coffee mugs or bath salts (unless you have none). I generally get a family Heifer gift..the young kids get to choose which animal. I also get toys for tots and have thought of getting everyone just bags of underwear or socks that they could donate to the homeless, unless of course they needed them. There are arguments for making actual purchases to strengthen local economies etc. But this cuts down the stress of Christmas so much...I would much rather money spent on me go to getting clean water to Haiti than me a trinket or two. And it cuts down on the clutter afterwards..what do I do with this ??? And so many elders say please don't get me anything..I have everything I need..honor their wishes and make a donation on their behalf to their favorite group. mg