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Where Are The Jewish Women?

Posted: 01/25/2012 6:01 am

The article first appeared in The Jewish Daily Forward.

A recent front-page story in the New York Times that discussed gender issues in Israel opened with a telling anecdote: The winner of a major honor was not permitted onstage at a government-sponsored awards ceremony because she was a woman. The disappearance of women from too many stages of public life in Israel has become a roiling controversy in a society that holds fast to egalitarian values while trying to accommodate the increasing demands of religious fundamentalists.

The absence of women in American Jewish public life may be less dramatic than in Israel, but it is no less troubling. As the Forward has documented, women lead only a sliver of the major Jewish nonprofits, and their overall earnings are dwarfed by their male counterparts. But the problem goes deeper: Too many public discussions, events and programs hosted by the Jewish community have few or no women participating. A couple of recent examples include the annual human rights dinner of the Jewish Labor Committee (no women honored or speaking) and a multi-part lecture series sponsored by the JCC Boston which had no women speakers until an outcry added one.

In both of these instances, the organizers of the events expressed sincere regret, argued that this snapshot does not represent their fuller inclusion of women, and promised that it won't happen again. We believe them. Unlike in Israel, where some rabbis and political leaders lean on their own interpretation of Jewish law to formally exclude women, the problem in America is more a sin of omission. We didn't realize how skewed the program had become! We couldn't find the right women to participate!

These explanations would carry more weight, however, if the problem was brand new or never before noticed. It is not. Back in 2006 -- after a major conference on the future of the Jewish people failed to include a single woman -- Shifra Bronznick, founding president of Advancing Women Professionals and the Jewish Community, began asking men to pledge not to participate on all-male panels and to make the inclusion of at least one woman a condition of involvement. Despite the indefatigable efforts of Bronznick and her colleague Rabbi Joanna Samuels, the absence of women in public conversations continues.

And that is not only because women are not included. Too often, women absent themselves from the discussion. At a recent breakfast hosted by the Israel Policy Forum (with a woman moderator and an all-male panel of experts) not a single woman in the audience asked a question. A brief survey conducted at the Forward in the fall of 2010 found that men sent in unsolicited opinion pieces at a rate seven times higher than women.

Clearly, the Jewish community is not having the discussion it needs and deserves. It can't, when half the population is silenced or silencing itself. To more fully address this issue, the Forward is reaching out to you, our readers, to send examples of the absence of women in your own communities to feedback@forward.com, which we will publish for further debate. And we will hold ourselves and our colleagues accountable, too. That New York Times story mentioned above quoted many men -- but only one woman -- about gender issues in Israel, a subject that women surely know something about.

Shaul Kelner, a professor at Vanderbilt University, has written about his own commitment to AWP's pledge, calling it a "mitzvah of egalitarianism." Surely, including more women in the American Jewish conversation can be viewed as both an obligation and a blessing.

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The article first appeared in The Jewish Daily Forward. A recent front-page story in the New York Times that discussed gender issues in Israel opened with a telling anecdote: The winner of a major ...
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12:19 PM on 01/29/2012
There is another issue that overlaps this one and should be addressed. Is there a shortage of Jewish men, including our so called lay leaders, when it comes to the Synagogue. Perhaps if more of these men attended synagogue on a regular basis (e.g. Conservative synagogues) they would see a different kind of Judiasm then encountered in their world of organizational Judaism. Women participate fully in all levels of Conservative Judiasm from Rabbis and Cantors to presidents and minyonaires. Where are the men?
hfpf
Wake up World.
11:32 PM on 01/27/2012
I can guarantee that this Jewish women, asks more than her fair share of questions at any event she attends.
08:03 PM on 01/25/2012
...minding their "business" and living productive lives...
05:20 AM on 01/27/2012
If it were Muslims, than it's 'oppression'.
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BlackYowe
I am a classical- liberal woman and a Jeweler.
08:02 PM on 01/25/2012
Golda Meir is no doubt spinning in her grave.
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bbertaud
Je ne regrette rien, rien de rien
06:51 PM on 01/25/2012
They have all gone shopping to Neiman Marcus... it seems
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JewishPhysician
fraternity, trust, discourse
06:29 PM on 01/25/2012
Hard to tell for me if this really is that marked of a contention. Really becuase I am not at the panel discussions either. But of course, there is plenty of places for any jew to agree or disagree with Jewish life and that starts in places such as online news feeds too. So I am apt to yell discrimination on this count today, but of course, there are both jewish men and women in the community and I am quite sure that many husbands and fathers love their wives and daughters today. Lets try to work for solidarity not cornerstones of ambivilance and drop out scorn.
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iLdoRight
Encouraging The Rightest Rightness
03:44 PM on 01/25/2012
I do not mean to be insulting in any way and my comment is not directed at the writer of the article, perhaps some at things I have learned here and in some of the comments, but sometimes I wonder if I am the only one who is not crazy and I have heard that is a sign one is crazy but, "How do people get to the point that they would thank God that they were not born a woman?" I would think that just the advantage of being pretty sure your child is your own child without having to have a DNA test would be such a satisfying thing that any feeling of superiority should be replaced by a little envy. I do though realize that some females choose to use their brain power in the direction of "How do I make myself more beautiful so I can manipulate men or a man to my advantage, rather than How to be the best person I can be" which can make them less of a good person than some men, but some men chose not to be very good also.
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MissTake1989
Equal means equal, hypocrites.
02:45 PM on 01/25/2012
When your religions says women are less important as people...hello?
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Dan Same
01:24 PM on 01/26/2012
It doesn't. Where did you get that idea?
05:21 AM on 01/27/2012
You need to do some research on how Jewish people view woman, You may than retract your comment.
06:35 PM on 01/27/2012
"Looking back at it, I think I get where the miscommuni­cation came from..."

I see that there was definitely a misunderstanding on my part. And again, I apologize.

Peace
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MadMoll
02:32 PM on 01/25/2012
One thing that has kept me from being active, is the expectation that all Jews are Ashkenazim and speak Yiddish. As a Sephardic woman, I find myself marginalized within my own community.Actual conversations I had a few years ago:
"You don't speak Jewish?"
I'm Sephardic, I speak Ladino."
"That's no excuse"
statement from a producer I had the great misfortune to work with:
"I don't think you're Jewish. What kind of Jewish name is "Lincoln"
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Dan Same
01:24 PM on 01/26/2012
That's interesting, as in my community, very few people know Yiddish. May I ask which community you belong to?
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Dan Same
06:03 AM on 01/27/2012
"I live in NYC. and, am an unaffiliated Sephardic Reconstructionist Jewish person."

I have no idea why that was removed. Anyway, do you mind expanding on that?
08:18 PM on 02/05/2012
Very few Jews can speak Ladino these days. Yiddish is actually used as an everyday language by the ultra Orthodox but by few other Jews.
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KaAp
04:43 PM on 01/26/2012
Tell me about it ..
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groland
socially left, fiscally right
12:40 PM on 01/25/2012
What is happening in Israel with respect to women is just one more example of why religious fundamentalism is undermining freedom, tolerance, and equality. It matters not whether these fundamentalists are jews, Muslims, or Christians.
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shewolf2002
EDUCATION is a national security issue.
11:18 PM on 01/25/2012
Fanned.
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Giggie
05:20 AM on 01/26/2012
Religious extremism in any religion is ugly. Judiaism clearly defines a woman's role.....that role Requires her to be focused on the home serving her family, and primarily serving her husband. I find that women end up becoming their own prison guards in that life. They then take up the banner themselves to ensure the same life for their children, without regard to differences or abilities. It's a horrible way to live.
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groland
socially left, fiscally right
11:22 AM on 01/26/2012
If some people chose to live this way, so be it. Though it could be argued that children often do not have other options. What's worse is their insistence that this choice be codified into the laws of the land!
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Dan Same
01:26 PM on 01/26/2012
That's not true. Orthodox women may have a role, and in many cases only ultra-orthodox women, but it is not true of all women, or even most women, in Judaism.
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WolfLady
SweetieFierce
11:42 AM on 01/25/2012
All religious Jewish men start every day by reciting a series of blessings, amongst which is this gem: "Blessed art thou oh Lord, king of the universe, who hast not made me a woman."

Nuff said.

~WolfLady~
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MadMoll
02:25 PM on 01/25/2012
That only refers to the Mitzvot men are commanded to observe.
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BurtonDesque
Fear a Blank Planet
03:14 PM on 01/25/2012
If only the attitude didn't spill over.

Besides, there's plenty more where that came from.
05:27 AM on 01/27/2012
From the outside world looking in, we assume that all Jews say the same thing. You can explain it away, however it's like us Muslim woman trying to tell non-muslim woman that we are not oppressed, they will of course believe what they want.
06:00 PM on 01/25/2012
Where have you heard even a few of them say that? You only imagine it because those words are in some prayerbooks, but your statement is false if even one doesn't say it. I challenge you to provide a video or even a shred of evidence to support that claim.
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Giggie
05:23 AM on 01/26/2012
Silly, it's in a prayer that's recited by religious men every morning of their life. The proof is in the Torah.....you will never see it in a video, the prayer exists.
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bigmacha
Truth through research.
05:45 PM on 01/26/2012
"As used by the Jews of today, this scarf, [prayer shawl] garment, Talith, is worn only at the morning service in the synagogue, and that alone by the males, and not till they reach the age of thirteen. It should be remembered that the Pharisees had very little respect for the female sex, outside of their performing the home duties. In fact, they taught that every male ought to thank God every day for his belonging to the masculine sex.

Here is the prayer:
• “Blessed art thou, O Lord, our God. King of the Universe, who hath not made me a woman.”

And the woman is obliged to say:
•  “Blessed art thou, O Lord, our God, King of the Universe, who hath made me according to his will.” – Daily Prayer-book (b)"

http://www.writtentreasures.org/html/plchap6.html
11:41 AM on 01/25/2012
Time for Mothers of the world Mankind, to discipline their sons and make them fly straight or else.
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researcher
11:36 AM on 01/25/2012
the male ego is very powerful and I might add fearful and the women in religion tend to go right along with it.

religion and politics are classic examples of this male ego wanting to dominate the leadership roles in society.

the more fundamentalist the religion or politics the more the male ego wants to dominate. that domination is out of fear not love.

last night during obama's reelection speech look at the repub side of the floor. almost all males with sour faces.
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Gonzo36
Pro-awesome!
11:34 AM on 01/25/2012
Oh honey, we are still here. We just let the men have their fun by thinking they are the ones running things, when in actuality we are pulling the strings behind the curtain. The men feel needed and we, the women, are getting what we want as well.
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TooLooze
Someone should do something about all the problems
12:22 PM on 01/25/2012
No way you should be satisfied with that. I'm male and that mindset is insulting to me. Women are treated as second class because the first woman. Eve, who was created as an after-thought buy the supreme creator of the universe, partook in knowledge, how ridiculous.
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rutroGeorge
Silence is Golden, unless I have something to bark
02:34 PM on 01/25/2012
It wasn't an after thought, things were incomplete and unbalanced. Woman is an invaluable, necessary part of the equation of life.
11:15 AM on 02/03/2012
Knowledge is powerful, often misused. The wisdom of women has shine forth and been a beacon for Jewish life for countless generations. See a woman’s wisdom story, Was the Man’s Rib Stolen?, http://ow.ly/8hqbp
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11:23 AM on 01/25/2012
"The absence of women in American Jewish public life may be less dramatic than in Israel, "

Just not so!

In Israel, women are definitely not "absent", and are better represented than in the USA, and almost all other countries.
For example, in Israel:
1. One elected woman leader
(Combined tally for USA, France, Canada, Sweden, Russia, China, all Arab counties, etc: zero)
2. Current leader of main opposition party: a woman.
3. 20% of parliamentarians (MK) are women, only 14% in the USA (representatives)
4. Percentage of women on company boards: Israel 15%, rank: 6th in the world.
UK 12.5%, Spain 9.3%, Belgium 7.7%, Brazil 5.1%, Italy 3.7%, Japan 0.9%, USA 16.1%
Source http://www.catalyst.org/publication/433/women-on-boards Dec. 2011
5. Percentage of specialist women doctors: over 50%.
Overall percentage women doctors: 35%
Percentage of doctors in the USA that are women: 30%

And, women live longer, healthier lives in Israel. Life expectancy for women:
Israel 84.0 years, international ranking: 4th
Germany 82.1 years, international ranking: 20th
USA 80.6 years, international ranking: 36th
Source http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_life_expectancy
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Sunwyn Ravenwood
Farewell my friends, time to go...
01:45 AM on 01/26/2012
Does that include the ones who are spit on or have rocks thrown at them be extremists?