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Circling Around the Divisiveness of a National Day of Prayer

Posted: 05/ 6/10 11:19 AM ET

I continue to be fascinated by the controversy and commentaries connected to the National Day of Prayer 2010! What is most striking is the more extreme the view, the less knowledge there is about the designated "adversary." After renewing his criticism of Islam, Franklin Graham recently said, "No elephant with 100 arms can do anything for me. None of Hinduism's 9,000 gods is going to lead me to salvation." I wonder how many Hindus would agree with him -- only because his comments are so far off base when it comes to the heart of Hindu religious beliefs. Graham is also quoted as saying, "We are fooling ourselves if we think we can have some big kumbaya service and all hold hands and it's going to get better in this world. It's not going to get better." He's right, you know: it's not going to get better as long as we are complicit with perpetuating ignorance, as long as we think the only way to justify our own beliefs is to undermine those of others. If we refuse to educate ourselves, if we refuse to expand our horizons, it can't get better because we aren't contributing to making it any better.

As the director of Fellowship in Prayer, I belong to an interfaith clergy group. At our meeting today, we shared prayers for our nation, for our world. The prayers, rooted in our distinct religious traditions, nuanced our common hope for peace and justice, and for fullness of life for everyone. It was eminently clear that Quaker silence seeks the same end as the prayerful words taken from the Episcopalian Book of Common Prayer, the Rabbi's Hebrew blessing, the meditation of our Buddhist friends, or the call to prayer issued by the Muslim chaplain at the university. Now, if you happen to get riled up at the very mention of prayer, just be aware that we may have very different notions of what prayer is, even before we consider what it does or doesn't do.

Divisive rhetoric, whether coming from Graham or any one of us, is naïve. It oversimplifies things. And we sell ourselves short to settle for it. An alternative narrative can be shaped through genuine dialogue and interreligious and/or intercultural partnerships. Fellowship in Prayer, together with the Interfaith Dialog Center -- founded by Turkish-Americans to promote respect among diverse faiths and cultures -- is hosting an Interfaith Dialogue on Women of the Covenant on this Day of Prayer. Three women -- Jewish, Muslim and Christian -- Rabbi Nancy Fuchs-Kreimer, Dr. Ingrid Mattson and Dr. Westina Matthews, who trace their religious heritage to Abraham, will speak on their unique experiences of faith and how spiritual practice influences the ways they are in and about the world. We've no plans to sing Kumbaya, but we do plan to talk to each other, openly and honestly, and to listen and question and think and act based on mutual respect and appreciation. There is the distinct possibility that we will be changed for the better in some way from this interaction, and it could have a ripple effect on our nation and the world. The poet Edwin Markham wrote,

They drew a line that shut me out,
Heretic, rebel, a thing to flout!
But love and I had the wit to win
We drew a circle and brought them in.

I think we could all benefit from drawing an ever widening circle. We might be surprised at how enriched we become in the process. If you are interested in engaging further in interfaith circles, please visit www.fellowshipinprayer.org and join us on the campus of Princeton University June 24 to 27 for a wonderful conference on how spiritual practice within and across religious traditions is empowerment for social change.

 
I continue to be fascinated by the controversy and commentaries connected to the National Day of Prayer 2010! What is most striking is the more extreme the view, the less knowledge there is about the ...
I continue to be fascinated by the controversy and commentaries connected to the National Day of Prayer 2010! What is most striking is the more extreme the view, the less knowledge there is about the ...
 
 
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UnderTheHedgeWeGo
Show me some evidence.
01:50 PM on 05/09/2010
A National Day of Prayer is only divisive because the religious organizations behind the Special Day sought and received the "blessing" of the American government. Had the event been sponsored and conducted by an ecumenical group, without the involvement of the government, it would not have been disruptive.
08:43 AM on 05/07/2010
I like to think of religious ideologies as human operating systems. As viewed from my perspective, each ideology likely served some useful purpose at the time of their introduction. I'd argue the three Abrahamic religions represented huge upgrades over the pre-existing operating systems of their time and place – for instance, Christianity over the brutal ethos of the Roman Empire, etc. – and that civilization benefited by virtue of their adoption.

Whether these ideologies ever represented anything more than compelling myths is impossible to know. What we do know that is many men and women of good will continue to find their study and practice useful – and that aggressive attempts to proselytize for or against ideas tends to lead to unfortunate human outcomes.

For me, as a student of human history and comparative religion, the conclusion is clear. It's those things that men and women of good will can readily agree on, regardless of whether they believe in a deity or not, that are most likely to prove useful to the perpetuation of the species. Hence, I can agree with the value of drawing the circle, and ideally, an ever wider and wider circle. And it’s the perpetuation of the species that men and woman of good will must be interested in.
02:37 PM on 05/06/2010
I disagree with the foundation of this argument - that the more extreme people are the ones who know the least about the other side's position. That IS often true in arguments, but not this one. The people most passionately anti-evangelical are FORMER evangelicals. Because they've been there, and not only see the fraud, they see (because they experienced) the inbred culture and the damage to the psyche. These are the people (like myself) who have grown up in evangelical homes and cultures, and studied the bible vociferously all their lives. They started to question and found out that people were being conned. In a big, big way. THIS is why some atheists speak out. Christianity is still assumed to be true in the mainstream culture, espeically in the US. Atheists are a quiet voice of reason in the wilderness, telling you to listen to that still, small voice - it's called your INTELLIGENCE. Follow that road - it may lead you to freedom.
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Bob Helweil
03:59 PM on 05/06/2010
Athena--Unfortunately, an apostate frequently goes to the extreme other side. Don't draw a new circle. There is a difference between agnosticism and atheism--The former continues to seek and keep an open mind. Problem with the article is that it suggests that "prayer" can be interpreted other than in religious terms--It simply is not so. Interfaith groups are by the very term "faith" or "religious" groups. Markham's circle must be all inclusive. Government and religion must remain separate.
ThinkCreeps
Seriously, it's time.
07:15 AM on 05/07/2010
Agnosticism and atheism are not necessarily different.

It's possible to be a `fundamentalist athiest', who believes fervently that there is no god. But while such a view is consistent with the evidence, it is not much more rational than being a `deist', and picking out a specific imaginary best friend (or friends) in the sky.

I suggest that even the most vocal `evangelical atheists' would typically become deists if any evidence of a deity came to light.
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Gurthee
Keep your religion out of my government
02:30 PM on 05/06/2010
"2 hands working can accomplish more than a thousand clasped in prayer." I forget who said that but it's brilliant.
01:49 PM on 05/06/2010
Nothin' fails like prayer.

My ol' Pop had MS. Dozens & dozens of folks prayed for him. He still died in agony.

Yep. Nothin' fails like prayer. And if ya think OTHERWISE -- well, pray me right into your religion. I'll let ya know when it happens, I promise.
01:20 PM on 05/06/2010
So... what's a poor athetist to do?

... talk to himself?

... look out the window and daydream?

... fantasize about kinky sex? or could THAT be a religious experience?
11:45 AM on 05/09/2010
The "poor" atheist has many more potentialities than the religious establishments let on. We start with the definition of "atheist" as "a person who believes there is no god." But what is a god? If we don't know the answer to that question, how do we know that we are really atheist? Everybody believes in something, even if it is only "x = x". Maybe this is one of their gods. And it is hard to give a definition of a god. As the wind causes the branches of trees to bend as it passes through, so could it be with gods and goddesses causing certain mental states and proclivities. The religious establishment might dismiss the contention that gods and goddesses were at work, but in thinking for ourselves, we might reach a different conclusion. Gods and goddesses can be to us as broomsticks are in the popular conception of witches; our meditations about what they may be like and what we can do for them, and they for us, can take us to different spiritual places, places in a figurative sense to be sure, but places none the less. I used to think I was an atheist because I was an enthusiastic student of the writings of Bertrand Russell; now, I know that I am Pagan polytheistic, and thought I was atheist previously only because the religious establishment's view of divinity was too narrow. So spiritually speaking, the atheist is not "poor" at all, but rich.
11:43 AM on 05/06/2010
If I remember my World Religions class, Hinduism has something like 200,000 deities. If the man was gonna talk out of his arse like that, he could at least use more accurate facts.
11:39 AM on 05/06/2010
Politics out of religion and religion out of politics. Our respective faiths have more in common than differences. I agree with the author and we should pray with or without a declared national day.