Sweat was pouring down my arms and legs, and the soft pink haze of dawn had just begun to illuminate Tampa Bay.
We were about to do final stretches when my new boot camp buddy asked the question.
There are so many ways to answer that.
I have a website. But, it's not a source of income.
I don't have a "real job," but I never get a break.
I wanted to give a good answer. Something that conveyed what I do, but was easy to understand.
I looked down and pretended to flick specks of dirt off my exercise mat.
What should I tell you about what I do?
I teach babies to wave. To say "hi." To point to the dog.
I clean up dinner dishes, kid butts and dog accidents all day long.
I clean up milk spills and wipe spaghetti-coated faces.
I make up silly games and hold dance parties.
I know our toddler's favorite book, the baby's favorite food and the exact right time to start dinner so no one's hungry.
I take kids to the doctor, to playdates, to church, to the park, the library.
I'm why our family members have a gift on their doorstep for birthdays, Mother's Day, Father's Day and Christmas.
I do the grocery shopping, the kid chauffeuring, the hair-cutting, the cooking and the majority of the cleaning.
I manage the money my husband earns for our family, plan for retirement and manage our rental homes.
I'm the reason our 3-year-old says "please" and "thank you" -- and "are you OK?" whenever someone seems a little forlorn.
I'm the person who delights in running my fingers over my children's perfectly-soft foreheads as they sit next to me, completely oblivious, watching TV.
I'm the person who watches my children sleep, and weeps tears of gratitude as I thank God for the blessing of their lives.
And, I'm the person who carried these precious gifts inside my own body for 9 months. And then sustained them for a year more.
I don't mean to brag, but I do so many things.
Things that are relevant. And important. And valuable.
To everyone but me, my two kids and my husband.
I should have come up with a witty response. Something clever and funny.
Without thinking, I blurted out the first thing that entered my mind:
"I don't have a job. I just take care of my kids."
I should have said it differently.
I should have made it sound better.
In truth, I'm "just a mom" as much as President Obama is "just a politician" or Martha Stewart is "just a decorator."
That's not to say that I'm the best. That's not to say I'm perfect.
But what I do is so much more than just one word.
Formerly an Emmy-nominated TV news reporter, Janie Porter is the creator of SheJustGlows.com and (often-unshowered) stay-at-home mama to two boys under 3 years old. Follow her on Facebook and Twitter for more posts about less-than-perfect parenting, juice and smoothie recipes and tips on finding your inner glow.
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