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The Aches and Ouches of Older-ness

Posted: 08/07/2012 7:52 am

I remember the first time a routine bodily motion created a sudden, alarming burst of pain. That moment was when I realized my era of youthful invincibility was ending.

When you're young and something starts hurting your first thought is, "Gee, when's that going to get better?" When you're old and something hurts you think, "Oh great, when is that going to get worse?"

My moment of "Ouch -- what just happened?" occurred one morning when my daughter was in middle school and we were waiting on the corner for the bus to pick her up. A light drizzle was falling so I held an umbrella to keep us dry. This meant that my elbow was bent at a 90-degree angle. After about five minutes the bus arrived, the drizzling stopped and the sun came out.

As the bus pulled away I lowered the umbrella and let my arm down. A sharp pain shot through my lower back and stopped me in my tracks. "So," I thought, "I'm in such poor condition that holding an umbrella for five minutes has caused a spinal rupture!"

The pain went away after about 30 seconds but the impact on my psyche was permanent. A lifetime free of serious illness and major injury can give a person a false sense of security about health. There's a disclaimer you hear on advertisements for investment firms: "Past performance is no guarantee of future success." So it is with the human body as the years pile on.

I can truthfully say that my interest in staying physically fit began very early. By first grade I was aware of Jack LaLanne because his TV show aired on my local independent station. What I found most intriguing was his ongoing advice to eat Yami yogurt. I had never heard the word "yogurt" before and once asked my mom if she could buy some, to which she replied, "You wouldn't like it."

I was active in sports during high school and college. I helped friends move furniture in and out of apartments and learned how important it is to "lift with your legs" when handling heavy objects. I did a lot of jogging up until about age 30. Then the exercise component of daily life started to taper off, and I think this isn't an uncommon pattern for a lot of people.

Lack of regular maintenance can cause joints, muscles, and other parts of your anatomy to become weak and susceptible to injury, especially when they're subjected to a sudden workload after a long time of non-use.

There are also certain bodily movements that aren't required often in the real world so it's hard to make them part of any workout. The other day I dropped an aspirin tablet and it rolled under my dresser and came to rest against the back wall. There is no exercise machine I know of that replicates crouching down and stretching an arm underneath a dresser.

What I try to do now, every day, is focus on guarding against inactivity. I call it the K-M method, which stands for 'Keep Moving.' Look for opportunities to walk, use stairs once in awhile, jog in place for 90 seconds, anything that will help prevent extended periods of being inert. A relative once looked at me from his sofa and confessed, "I have fallen into a completely sedimentary lifestyle!" Avoiding that sedimentation requires ongoing vigilance.

Lately I've been approached in the supermarket by shoppers older than I am who need help getting items from the high shelves. I'm happy to make the reach for them, but I do it slowly so as to avoid snapping some forgotten segment of connective tissue in my upper torso.

And if I'm out in the parking lot and spot a $5 bill on the ground, I always lift with my legs.

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  • Yoga

    Yoga offers a <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/deepak-chopra/yoga-heart-health_b_900621.html" target="_hplink">myriad of wellness benefits:</a> flexibility, balance, centeredness, strength, mindfulness and others. Yoga is a great option for aging bodies, as it promotes working within your own comfort zone. Postures and sequences range from gentle and relaxing to more intensive for advanced yogis.

  • Stretching

    Another way to promote flexibility and overall health is incorporating some simple stretches into your daily routine, be it at home, at the gym or even outdoors. Stretching prevents injury, <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/10/24/yoga-stretching-back-pain_n_1029014.html" target="_hplink">can relieve back pain</a> and boosts energy. Note: It's important to stretch properly to avoid injury. Check out some good <a href="http://www.webmd.com/fitness-exercise/healthtool-basic-stretches" target="_hplink">examples of stretches here</a> and these <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/07/08/stretching-mistakes_n_892444.html#s304603&title=Not_Doing_It" target="_hplink">common stretching mistakes</a>.

  • Biking

    Biking is a great low-impact, cardiovascular workout, not to mention it's a lot of fun. There are a few ways to incorporate biking into your routine. Joy rides in your free time are always a good option -- alone or with a group. You could consider joining a local bike group or riding to nearby destinations instead of taking the car. <a href="http://www.livestrong.com/article/456032-stationary-bikes-and-health-benefits/" target="_hplink">Stationary bikes</a> also have great health benefits. Already a cycler? Here's how to get <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/05/30/6-ways-to-get-more-benefi_n_868670.html#s285033&title=Get_in_tune" target="_hplink">more benefit from your bike ride</a>.

  • Brisk Walks

    One of the most <a href="http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/walking/HQ01612" target="_hplink">beneficial exercises</a> is something humans have been doing for centuries: walking. Simple modifications to your routine, like parking further away and walking the extra distance or taking the stairs instead of the elevator, can really add up to boost your overall health. For an even greater benefit, take brisk walks that get your heart rate up.

  • Pilates

    <a href="http://pilates.about.com/od/whatispilates/a/WhatIsPilates.htm" target="_hplink">Pilates</a> is another low-impact exercise that's ideal for aging bodies. It's similar to yoga but puts more emphasis on gaining control and balance of the body by strengthening the core muscles. Pilates can be done in a class or at home with a video or other guide. <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/paola-bassanese/keep-fit-with-classical-p_b_987756.html" target="_hplink">This piece</a> offers a great run-down of the activity, along with images of some classic pilates stretches and workouts.

  • Tennis

    Tennis is a classic sport, well-loved for being fun and <a href="http://my.clevelandclinic.org/heart/prevention/exercise/tennis.aspx" target="_hplink">great for you</a>. It's a strong aerobic workout and helps keep you agile, especially important as you get older. Tennis is also a very social activity -- great for the body, mind and spirit!

  • Swimming

    Swimming is easy on the body and is also one of the most comprehensive workouts, hitting <a href="http://www.webmd.com/fitness-exercise/guide/fitness-basics-swimming-is-for-everyone" target="_hplink">all the major muscle groups</a>: shoulders, back, abdominals, legs, hips and glutes. If you're getting serious about swimming, it's important to learn proper techniques, but even free-styling in the local pool or outdoors in the summer is a great way to exercise.

  • Dance

    Dancing is one of those activities that doesn't feel like working out, but is an incredible <a href="http://www.livestrong.com/article/91589-fitness-benefits-dance/" target="_hplink">aerobic exercise</a>. It's a good option for those that want more physical activity but don't like the gym or in the winter when it's harder to get outdoors. There are a bunch of styles to choose from: ballroom dancing, contra dancing, salsa, ballet, tap, country and others.

  • Elliptical

    As the body ages, running and jogging can take a toll on the joints, knees or back and potentially cause injury. An elliptical cross-training machine is an alternative to running, which still gets your heart rate up but at a <a href="http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/elliptical-machines/AN01620" target="_hplink">lower impact</a>.

  • Strengthening Exercises

    You can take a simple walk to the next level by bringing weights along to build strength in your arms and boost the cardio benefits. Strength-building techniques like pushups, squats and lunges are easy to do at home or can be squeezed into buckets of free time throughout the day.

 
 
 

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foubabou
Mean People Suck
06:23 AM on 09/06/2012
I ran for a few years in my 30s. Fell off that cart and jogged a little with free weights a few times a week for a few years. Then in my 50s I got interested in bicycles. No worry about the knees and can still go fast enough to feel the wind in my face.

Now, approaching 62 and normally average 150 KM a week. Try to do several 100 km rides a month. Normal day is 50-60. Bad weather or just don't feel like getting on the road and there is a bicycle hooked to a CycleOps in the garage for a 30-40 ride.

I'd like to do biathelons but can't seem to MAKE myself run. I can get to jogging 5 KM but just can't get motivated to push the times below 8 minutes. Guess I really am starting to get old.

Fell last year on a 100K bike ride and hurt my shoulder. Shut me down for about 7 months as I just couldn't seem to get motivated properly.

BUT, I still take no prescribed meds, never broke a bone and have only spent one night in a hospital at 17 to get my tonsils out. So I guess I'm doing something right.
10:28 AM on 09/06/2012
You are apparently doing a lot right!!! Keep up the bicycling and a lot of the rest should take care of itself.
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hjo4
Don't make your problems mine
09:52 PM on 08/19/2012
I Love the Elliptical machine, simply fell in love with it. I do aerobics for 45 mins level 4 or 5 and it is a great workout. That works for me and the results are very impressive my body looks great.
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Jeffrey Shaffer
10:16 AM on 08/20/2012
Finding something that works for YOU is the key. Keep that Elliptical going!
07:38 PM on 08/09/2012
I have followed the NSM method and it has worked well for me, so far. Never Stopped Moving. Through it all, no matter how busy, even when the kids were young I ran on the treadmill during naptime. Even when I get an injury (torn MCL last year) I modify an exercise regimen so that I am not just lying around. I think much of what we call "old age" aches and pains are just prolonged inactivity aches and pains. Not saying that getting older doesn't have its physical challenges, just that we tend to make it worse with our sedentary lifestyles.
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Jeffrey Shaffer
01:34 AM on 08/10/2012
Yes, keep those moving parts moving at every opportunity!
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Sistagirl Young
05:08 AM on 08/09/2012
Funny article. I. too, have accepted the fact that any pains I have now, at the age of 63 are only going to get worse. Well maybe not worse, I just know they won't get better or go away. It's a trip though. I still marvel at being in my 60's. I don't feel it's o-o-o-o-o-l-d old but it's a fer piece from being young. My aunt will be 89 this year (GOD willing), and I pray I don't have her ailments. But then I could have stuff worse; which really is a day brightener. I remember the "good old days" when I could jump up and do whatever needed doing. Once a month or so I can even do some of the dances I used to do. Not for long but it's lots of fun...until "Artie" start complaining. I suppose if it weren't for the deterioaration of my body; I would like to make the century mark.If what's left of mind is still around I hope to give it a shot (GOD willing). Thanks for the laughs. It is good. And if I can laugh in spite of...that's even better. Life.
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Jeffrey Shaffer
10:48 AM on 08/09/2012
Glad you liked my point of view because, as I have said before, I'm not complaining about what's going on, I'm just trying to A) work it out and B) tell all those people coming behind us what might happen when THEY reach these age brackets. And I have a lot more to say about this subject in the days and weeks to come so stay tuned.
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Sistagirl Young
11:25 AM on 08/09/2012
Hello Jeffrey Shaffer; I will indeed. I'm often amazed that the "immortality" of my youth is now the "mortality" of my seniorhood. But as my Moms says: "Still kickin' if not high." Yep, "attaining one's maurity," is a real eye opener.It puts things in perspective as nothing else can Have a lovely. Life
01:59 AM on 08/08/2012
I'm just over the 50 mark, and up to 10 years ago, I ran an average of 4 miles a day. It was my time away from the kids in the morning. When you have 5 in 5 years, you want to run away on a regular basis, so my husband would take charge in the early morning so I could run, just as long as I promised to come back. 10 years ago, I slipped on wet leaves and ended up tearing tendons into my ankle, then had to have surgery. So, running seemed to come to a halt. I opted for walking the dogs instead.

Now that all the kids are out of the house, I've been starting to run again. The first day after a run, I noticed that my lower back hurt, and so did my calves. By the next morning I resembled the Hunchback. It took me a couple of days to recuperate, and I started again. I'm back up to 2 miles, although I don't think I'll get much past that. I'm just happy to be able to keep moving and enjoy the quiet of mornings.
democrcat1
Try to be kind...we only have each other.
09:59 PM on 08/07/2012
my barber was complaining that he was getting old...i reminded him that we are lucky to be getting old...the alternative, while inevitable, is not anything we can complain about
09:41 PM on 08/07/2012
Something a family member told me once, "I used to worry if something popped and cracked getting out of bed. Now I worry if something doesn't pop or crack"
09:35 PM on 08/07/2012
I laugh with you man. I'm right there with you.
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Jeffrey Shaffer
11:16 AM on 08/08/2012
Hey, we have to keep going, with some laughs if possible--as long as we can!
09:39 PM on 08/09/2012
Keep plugging along man. I was told that when I get to the end of the rope, just tie a knot and hang on!
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allianceae
Tell the truth and short memory is no problem.
08:52 PM on 08/07/2012
LMAO ... ya'll ain't seen nothing yet. Wait until it gets so bad and has been so bad for so long that you can't remember what life was like without the aches and pains.
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08:39 PM on 08/07/2012
yeah,i hear ya........i found myself (when the rain ceased) using my umbrella as a cane!
06:50 PM on 08/07/2012
okay the first time i actually felt kind old...and trust me i don't consider myself old...
but must admit i was getting on the bus one day ...and unselfconsciously i reached for the grab bar and after i did so ...i realized ...hey this is what the old folks reach for!!! whats next the bus is going to weeded down to my level as its does for older or in firmed riders!
have been walking more...and no i don't reach for it at all ...the few times i haven't been driving and taken public transportation!
05:48 PM on 08/07/2012
"Lack of regular maintenance can cause joints, muscles, and other parts of your anatomy to become weak and susceptible to injury"

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

I most definitely agree with this. Getting out of the house at least 3 days a week (or at home) to an exercise class of some kind is helpful at any age no matter how old. It even strengthened my ankle and neck muscles (in my case Zumba).

And how on earth did lowering an umbrella cause her such bad backpain?
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jnzcram
yonder072
03:03 PM on 08/07/2012
As long as one paces themselves and knows their own limitations it is imperative to be as active as one can be in most circumstances however, when one feels pain that may be a warning sign that you need to stop or alter what you are doing. Many elderly folks become apathetic which can lead to an extremely sedentary lifestyle and ensuing infirmities.
01:51 PM on 08/07/2012
Jeez .. sounds like a serious hypochondriac to me. What a whimp! 30 seconds damaged his psyche permantently? I don't even have words for what I think of such. Thank God he's a he and not a she .. just think what giving birth would have done to him! He would have been bed ridden for life and unable to speak.
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Ossit
01:30 PM on 08/07/2012
"The pain went away after about 30 seconds but the impact on my psyche was permanent. A lifetime free of serious illness and major injury can give a person a false sense of security about health." You've got a problem if you're worried about getting old with aches and pains. Now you'll buy into marketed junk claiming to rejuvenate and keep you 'young' which is nonsense. You're alive, warm, upright, and breathing. Sure beats temporary rigor mortis and rotting under ground.
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lauriemann
Web geek, skeptic, SF fan, movie extra
02:14 PM on 08/08/2012
And some pains you only have occasionally and never again (or rarely again). I had a really bad knee pain a few years ago while walking downstairs. Haven't had it since. Of course, I have lost about 30 pounds and walk about 2 miles a day since then...
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Jeffrey Shaffer
04:46 PM on 08/09/2012
YES! The pain that just disappears. Glad you mentioned that one. I had a similar experience and I still wonder if that pain has departed my life forever or is just taking a long vacation. And if it IS on vacation--where is that resort where pains go to have fun?