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Global Motherhood: My Wish For World Mothers

Posted: 08/28/2012 7:01 pm

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Jennifer Burden, founder of World Moms Blog, Lisa Belkin Senior Columnist at HuffPost Parents and Nicole Melancon (thirdeyemom) editor at World Moms Blog at BlogHer '12 in NYC.

I don't care if another mother's beliefs differ than mine, I don't care if she looks different from me, I don't care if she sounds different to me, I don't care if she chooses to wear a hajeb, sari, yukata, suit or sneakers, or suit with her sneakers.

I don't care if her children look different to her or exactly like her. I don't care if she birthed her children, or not. I don't care how old or young her children are. I care that she has a story to tell. Experiences to inspire us. Lessons we can all learn.

No matter how different we are, we can find a common thread in wanting a better world for our children, listen to each other and support one another over a cup of tea or a gourd of water.

My wish for world mothers is that we all know that we are just as important as the next mother, no matter where we live. And that we are in turn all treated that way.

Travel and technology are making the world a smaller place, creating opportunities for meaningful conversation with more people around the globe. This is exactly the energy behind our contributors at World Moms Blog.

Today, as I wrote this, an orthodox Jewish woman from Tel Aviv, Israel (Susie at NewDayNew Lesson) exchanged comments, as us moms do, in a blog post with a Muslim woman from Alexandria, Egypt (Nihad at Aurora Beams), both contributors to our website. And I thought, "Can we, as mothers, achieve a sense of human global camaraderie that is unprecedented?" I believe the possibilities are endless by sharing the stories of mothers around the world and getting to know each other.

Just recently at the BlogHer conference in New York City and by request of our contributor Nicole Morgan (By Word of Mouth Musings), I carried around a World Moms Blog banner, and asked the women whom I met to pose in front of it and tell me what their wish for world mothers was. I also asked our own World Moms Blog contributors to answer the same question. I'd like to share some of their responses with you.

Karyn Van Der Zwet (kloppenmum) in New Zealand says, "I wish that every mother could be the mother they imagined they'd be, and that includes being able to choose between being with her children at home or in the workforce."

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"I wish that all moms have the chance to see their child lose their first tooth." -- Nicole Melancon (thirdeyemom), USA. "My wish would be that the voices of mothers calling for us all to practice peace would be heard, so that all children can have safe and healthy lives." -- Deborah Quinn (mannahattamamma), United Arab Emirates.

Nihad of Alexandria (Aurora Beams) in Egypt answered, "I wish that every mother and woman over the globe feels how valuable she is. She feels self-love, self-confidence and self-esteem. That she believes in herself and that she is so important in this world and that without her life has no meaning or value. "

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"My one wish for world mothers is that they all have healthy pregnancies." -- JJ Ghatt, USA)

Carol (IfByYes) in Canada replied, "I wish for mothers to never have to go to their own child's funeral. All causes of child death are unacceptable."

Bringing attention to our wishes for world mothers is an important step of unity. From there, we can increase our understanding among cultures and religions, support each other, champion for good maternal and child healthcare and do what we do best -- work together towards a bright future for our children.

So please tell us. What is your one wish for world mothers?

This blog is part of a series covering Global Motherhood and was made possible through a partnership with BlogHer 2012 and Johnson & Johnson.

 
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12:51 PM on 09/14/2012
Thank you for reminding us of one of the most important ways we can focus care and attention in the world today - on mothers.

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02:43 AM on 09/06/2012
You rock Jennifer! Thank you for launching WorldMomsBlog to bring all these voices together - it is truly powerful!
08:35 AM on 08/30/2012
Truly inspiring post, Jen. You and WMB is just amazing!
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09:16 AM on 08/30/2012
Thank you for stopping by and for your kind words from Indonesia!

Jen :)
06:36 AM on 08/30/2012
You all have said it all. Just wanted to tell you I love this post!
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09:16 AM on 08/30/2012
Thank you!! :)

Jen :)
08:34 PM on 08/29/2012
I love this! Moms unite! You inspire me Jenn!
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10:25 PM on 08/29/2012
Hi Lyssa!

Thank you! So great to see you here. I love all the enthusiasm you've been bringing for Shot@Life!

Jen :)
02:44 AM on 08/29/2012
I wish for all mothers to see their kids succeed and be happy, no matter what place on the Earth they are going to choose to live.
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08:37 AM on 08/29/2012
No matter where they choose to live on the planet. Right on!
02:35 AM on 08/29/2012
As I look around with fresh eyes here in Laos I see a longing for opportunity. I wish for all mothers an abundance of opportunities for their children to thrive and that those opportunities come with fairness and free of exploitation.
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08:33 AM on 08/29/2012
Yes, opportunities and free of exploitation!
12:20 AM on 08/29/2012
So well said, Jennifer. I wish for mothers to feel empowered and supported. I wish that they be free of despair and be able to provide basic needs of life for all their children.
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08:31 AM on 08/29/2012
That is a fantastic wish. Thank you for sharing it!
10:35 PM on 08/28/2012
I wish for all mothers to know the sound of their child's laughter.
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08:26 AM on 08/29/2012
Erin, thank you for commenting from Indonesia! I loved your post on your birth experience in Ghana on the Huffington Post!
10:15 PM on 08/28/2012
Wonderful post, Jennifer! I am a fellow World Moms Blog Contributor, and my wish is that every mother gets quality time playing with their children. It seems so simple, but with the demands of motherhood, runnng a household, and working in or out of the home, we can't always sit down on the floor and simply be with our kids. Before you know it, they are grown. So cheers to all the moms & kids in the world! May you throw many tea parties, build many forts, and grow many gardens together.
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11:40 PM on 08/28/2012
Tara,

Thank you for sharing your wish for world mothers!

Jennifer Burden :)
10:10 PM on 08/28/2012
This is an awesome post Jennifer.
My wish for world mothers is the financial and emotional freedom to choose to be a SAHM or Working Mom as she desires to be.
Yes, I also think we all understand how equal and important we all are just as the next mother.
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08:25 AM on 08/29/2012
Thank you for commenting from India, Purnima! This plays into the amazing writing you have done about the girl child in India, doesn't it? All women, all girls, we deserve the same respect. Thanks, Purnima!
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09:29 PM on 08/28/2012
Jennifer, as a fellow mother, I too, wish the wishes of these mothers (and yours). That our children grow up strong and healthy and have equal opportunities.
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11:09 PM on 08/28/2012
Thank you, Alison, for commenting from Malaysia! Here's to the children!

Jennifer Burden :)
09:01 PM on 08/28/2012
I wish for all mothers to experience the joy of watching their children dress up like the superheroes they believe they are!!
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11:09 PM on 08/28/2012
That is a really cute one, Sarah!

Jennifer Burden :)