Because I am going to be father of the bride for the second time -- which puts me ahead of both Spencer Tracy and Steve Martin, just in case any Hollywood producers are reading this -- I was extremely interested to read about Chelsea Clinton's wedding.
My wife, Sue, and I weren't invited, probably because, in 1992 and 1996, I was a candidate for vice president of the United States on the Cocktail Party ticket. Both times, my running mate, Alan Abel, and I lost to Bill Clinton and Al Gore in what can only be considered great upsets because Alan and I were greatly upset that we lost.
Still, I am willing to let bygones be bygones, which is why I want to invite Bill and Hillary, as well as Chelsea and her husband, Marc Mezvinsky, to my younger daughter's wedding next year.
Of course, Sue and I can't afford to spend $3 million on the big day, which is what Bill and Hillary reportedly spent on Chelsea's wedding. That's because we have already spent at least that much over the years on things like Girl Scout cookies, school fundraisers, clothes, shoes, college tuition and, when our two daughters were living at home, phone bills.
Then there was our older daughter's wedding, in 2006. The cost included not only the big day but a kitchen renovation, which Sue commissioned because, in a brilliant plan to "save money," we had the bridal shower at our house.
Now, Sue and I are planning our younger daughter's wedding and have decided to invite a lot of the people who reportedly were on Bill and Hillary's guest list.
That includes, of course, Bill and Hillary.
As a former president, Bill will add prestige to the event. He also has proven to be an effective fundraiser for worthy causes, and I can think of no worthier cause than the Jerry's Kids Wedding Fund.
The goal is $3 million. If any money is left over, Sue and I will blow it on frivolous luxuries like food and shelter. After all, you only live once.
Hillary will be a great guest, too. As secretary of state, she can help with diplomacy when it comes to the seating arrangements. And since our future son-in-law is from France, Hillary can use her expertise in international relations to make already warm relations even better.
We'll also invite Barbra Streisand, who I am sure will not mind providing the entertainment. She was interviewed recently on "CBS News Sunday Morning" and she still has a terrific voice. People who need people at their daughter's wedding are the luckiest people in the world.
Then there is Barbara Walters, who can announce the happy couple at the reception and perhaps conduct a short interview. She can ask about the rings, the bride's dress and the honeymoon plans. She should avoid asking, "If you two were trees, what kind would you be?" Think about it, Barbara. We're in touch, so you be in touch.
Ted Danson can be the bartender. During the cocktail hour, Ted, everyone will know your name. Cheers!
Finally, there is Oprah Winfrey, who can host a video of the big day. She can also give away cars or even cash to lucky attendees, most notably yours truly.
What do you say, folks? As far as Sue and I are concerned, your presence is more important than your presents. It will be a wonderful time. Bill and I can even put aside our political differences and swap funny stories about being father of the bride.
The wedding is set for June 5, 2011. Save the date.
Stamford Advocate columnist Jerry Zezima is the author of "Leave It to Boomer." More info at www.jerryzezima.blogspot.com. E-mail: JerryZ111@optonline.net.
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