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Jane Fonda: The Private Life Of A Public Woman: 600 Pages Of What Feels Like The Whole Story

Posted: 08/30/11 04:42 AM ET

Google "Jane Fonda +hate site" and you get 10 million results.

In contrast, "Sarah Palin +hate site" gets 109 million. Obama: 101 million. George Bush: 106 million. Donald Trump: 37 million.

But it's not just raw numbers that matter here. It's context. Palin, Obama, Bush and Trump are contemporary figures. Jane Fonda is a 73-year-old actress who had her last box office hit thirty years ago. So why is she hated?

Mostly, it's for something that happened forty years ago --- at the height of the Vietnam War, Fonda visited North Vietnam. There she not only sat on an anti-aircraft gun and made a "public service" announcement to American bomber pilots, she visited a POW camp where she met some captured soldiers. They slipped her messages to bring to their families --- and she promptly turned them over to the North Vietnamese, who tortured (and, in one case, killed) those prisoners.

Wait. That never happened. But that untruth is a measure of the controversy that has swirled around Jane Fonda for most of her adult life. Actress, sex symbol, feminist, activist --- in every sphere, she presses buttons.

Some of these buttons reflect the sickness of our society. A sex symbol who likes sex and who plays a sci-fi goddess and a prostitute --- that gets our blood pumping. A public figure who skips the USO tour to organize coffee houses for dissidents in the military --- imagine what they've said about her at the VFW. A bra-burner who shows women how to feel strong --- that didn't fly with the crowd that likes their women barefoot-and-pregnant.

But there are also internal buttons --- the buttons pushed in her by her parents, her producers, her lovers. These are the fascinating buttons, because only by learning about them can we hope to understand why the best single word to define Jane Fonda is "driven." And these, blessedly, are the buttons that fascinate Patricia Bosworth in her massive (600 page) biography, Jane Fonda: The Private Life of a Public Woman. (To buy the book from Amazon, click here. For the Kindle edition, click here.)

Patricia Bosworth is a biographer's biographer. She wrote the best book on Diane Arbus. Her Montgomery Clift biography is beyond compelling. It's not just her sensitivity and insight that make her so good. It's her life history (she was a Broadway actress for a decade) and her work ethic (the Fonda book took a decade). It doesn't hurt that she knows Fonda well and that, as a result, Fonda did not discourage friends and family from seeing her. [Disclosure: I've known Patricia Bosworth for three decades. I like to think we're friends.]

In this book, Bosworth delivers the ultimate goods --- the family story. It's well known that Henry Fonda was emotionally remote and that her mother committed suicide. Bosworth turns those observations into a narrative. She shows us, time and again, how Fonda mistreated his wife; as a little girl, Jane once watched her mother crawl naked across the room pleading with him to talk to her. (He didn't.)

Fonda has said, "All my life I've been my father's daughter." But her mother was also key. As a girl, Jane would come into her mother's dressing room while Frances Fonda was checking for the slightest weight gain. She told Jane: "Lady, if I gain any extra weight I'm gonna cut it off with a knife." Any wonder that Jane Fonda was obsessed with her body and became bulimic?

Pleasing a man. Showing no flaws. Expressing herself with her body. This is the triangle that will rule her life.

Bosworth can analyze brilliantly, but her real genius is as a reporter --- she takes you, again and again, into the room. Here is her account of the meeting between Fonda and French director Roger Vadim:

"Her chest was heaving.... She looked very beautiful ... her eyes shining, and suddenly embarrassed to find herself standing in front of me," Vadim wrote in his 1986 book, Bardot Deneuve Fonda: My Life with the Three Most Beautiful Women in the World. "That instant I knew I was in love."

Within two hours they were back at her hotel, embracing passionately. "I had half undressed her, and we were about to make love on the sofa when she suddenly broke away and ran to the bathroom. She came out a minute later, completely naked, and got into bed. I undressed and joined her. But something happened and I couldn't make love to her."

For three weeks he was impotent. "I still don't understand Jane's patience with me during it all.... She never refused to let me sleep with her. And I still marvel at my own incredible stubbornness.... [Finally] in the middle of the night, the curse was broken. I was freed and I became a normal man again.... [We stayed] in bed two nights and a day."

"Jane ... at twenty-four," Vadim wrote, "had not yet come out of her cocoon ... I was her senior by only ten years.... She was searching for new roads leading to the discovery of her identity."


Vadim was her best lover. It was downhill from there. Bosworth's account of Fonda's relationship with activist Tom Hayden is simply shocking --- he lived off her, cheated on her, dominated her. Why did she stay with him so long? By then, you understand --- just as you understand why she stayed with Ted Turner, who cheated on her within a month of their marriage.

"An actress is more than a woman, an actor is less than a man," Oscar Wilde said. Maybe. But in Fonda's case, definitely. This is a woman who needed to be the biggest star in the world, and made it. And when that faded, she re-invented herself. Now she's doing it again, speaking out about the vitality that's still possible in the AARP years. Clearly, she'll never be satisfied.

You can look at a life like that and see desperation. Or you can see how a badly damaged child forges a successful identity --- or, at least, a workable persona. Patricia Bosworth sees it both ways. You will close this book with admiration for the writer, compassion for the actress ... and great relief that your life is so much less twisted.

[Cross-posted from HeadButler.com]

 
 
 
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12:45 PM on 09/04/2011
Ask the guys that were prisoners in Nam when she showed up and then tell us you like her.
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left in vermont
go ahead. tread on them.
04:50 PM on 09/04/2011
Read the post about that incident, and you will see that the men who where there deny that whole story about the slips of paper was entirely made up. Their identities are known, and they all are angry that they have been hounded by this rumor, which is all it is.
03:59 PM on 09/05/2011
I can't imagine she was really silly enough to have done THAT...although she's awful silly.... but it is a fact that she denounced POWs who came home and reported that they had been tortured while in captivity. She is not the brightest bulb.
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El Chingaso
Fighting for mental superiority...
03:18 PM on 09/06/2011
Roger that. Most women happily live their American lives in...pure fantasy. JF is one of them...
11:21 PM on 09/02/2011
She's an intelligent, fascinating woman who has lived an interesting life. Good for her. I like women who have a good mind and who are willing to use it, even in the face of criticism.
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Olderandwiser55
getting older and wiser....
12:05 PM on 09/02/2011
So well written-thanks. I expect you will get many trollies that won't face facts.
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Anne Siperek
09:40 PM on 09/01/2011
I've always admired this woman. People really need to stop repeating things they hear.Research first. But if anyone can fight the BS, Ms. Fonda can. Keep going Jane, you are an inspiration.
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10:59 AM on 09/01/2011
That I don't care about her. And the Vietnam thing.
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RobbZombie
Hiking my way thru this life
12:21 PM on 08/31/2011
Hey Kornbluth...I suggest you actually read all the snoopes.com entries concerning "Hanoi Jane" you cited before claiming "that never happened “and "untruths" in your error-filled term paper. I direct you specifically to Col. Larry Carrigan's personal accounts of her treasonous visits to the POW camps.
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Jesse Kornbluth
09:01 PM on 08/31/2011
I thought I'd made it clear. The untruth in that paragraph was about passing POW messages to the Vietcong: THAT NEVER HAPPENED. As for Corrigan, you have only to click on the link to read his direct quote: Fonda passed no messages as far as he knew, because "I never met her." (By the way, those who grade "term papers" are expected to check the sources....)
07:10 AM on 08/31/2011
I think I should read the Arbus and Clift books
jaslyn
why can't we all just get along?
05:08 AM on 08/31/2011
any one who still hates Fonda over what she did, which had good intentions, and still likes Bush and thinks he was a great president, needs some serious psychological help.
12:44 PM on 09/04/2011
WHAT THE HECK HAS BUSH GOT TO DO WITH JANE FONDA?
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Itsbeenalongday
Eliminating poverty is smart business
01:51 AM on 08/31/2011
Not wanting to get at the truth seems to be a very American thing to do. I can add in other events such as 9/11, WMD.
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LMPE
I connect the most dissimilar things
11:58 PM on 08/30/2011
That's a great actress and fine person.
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handyallen1
bleeding heart
11:43 PM on 08/30/2011
she is hated because she dared speak out about a futile war escalated on false pretenses by another Texan , what is it about presidents from Texas and war anyway
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Sundae Driver
Bin Laden is dead and GM is alive.
06:44 AM on 08/31/2011
They think they are cowboys. Laughable.
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Olderandwiser55
getting older and wiser....
12:06 PM on 09/02/2011
big oil money in texas..the motivator of war
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Ponderus
Enriched with lanolin.
11:29 PM on 08/30/2011
Many more people respect and admire Jane Fonda, and treasure her work, than hate her.

But the MSM has to push the lie.
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Rich Cash
Enlisted in 1971 - Retired in 1996
07:26 PM on 08/30/2011
I had a huge crush on Jane Fonda when I was a teenager. When I saw her picture on the front page of the Pacific Stars and Stripes sitting on that anti-aircraft gun, it broke my heart. I've never been able to watch one of her movies since.
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Ponderus
Enriched with lanolin.
11:29 PM on 08/30/2011
How sad for you.
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Rich Cash
Enlisted in 1971 - Retired in 1996
12:09 AM on 08/31/2011
ain't it the truth...lol
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RButler
"Who wouldn't love a person who had a pony?"
06:47 PM on 08/30/2011
I once spoke to a young Vietnamese guy interning where I worked in Los Angeles. His uncle was North Vietnamese and I asked him how a bunch of North Vietnamese fought off the most powerful military in the world and why they persisted for so long. He said that his uncle felt they were 'freedom fighters'. We don't serve ourselves well by being blind to what the 'other side' was all about. We keep telling ourselves our own version of the war over and over and it doesn't get any better. Seeing the other side's point of view doesn't make them right and us wrong but it can give us some insight and freedom from our prison-like view that we've been stuck in for 40+ years. Republicans are particularly unable to get outside of themselves to see things from a different perspective.
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RButler
"Who wouldn't love a person who had a pony?"
06:36 PM on 08/30/2011
I'm guessing that the people who hate Fonda have forgiven Richard Nixon long ago, and Cheney and Reagan and North and Bush and so on.