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Online Dating ... With Grandma?

Posted: 12/30/11 05:20 PM ET

Maverick had his Goose. Comedian Cat Davis had Mary Louise Parker. Steve Carrell's Andy had not one but three wingmen looking out for him. But blogger Kayli Stollak may have the wingman that tops them all: her grandmother.

The 24-year-old New York resident launched www.grannyismywingman.com back in July of 2011 to chronicle her dating adventures on OKCupid! and her 75-year-old Grandmother Gail's forays into J-Date.

The blog, peppered with Grandma's hilarious one-liners like "He betta put his pants back on before he hurts himself" has garnered 30,000 hits in its first month alone, The Daily Mail reports.

In an interview with The Mail, Kayli said her older sister's success with Match.com, where she met her current boyfriend, was what finally convinced both her and her Grandma to try online dating.

In one entry, Kayli describes creating her grandmother's profile for her over the phone -- showing that some concerns don't disappear with age:

Body type? I suggested we put down petite, she preferred adding shapely or voluptuous. The ultimate deceiver insisted we significantly decrease her age. For 75, she's a hot commodity, but still I thought it would be best to stick with the truth. "They're all doin' it, trust me kid," she insisted. "And I betcha they all put down that they listen to jazz. They think it makes 'em sound young and hip. Like, look at me, I listen to the horn!"

At the end of the day, it's hard to tell if the blog's popularity should be attributed entirely to the wit of Kayli and her Grandmother (I'd happily have her as my wing woman!) or if it's connected to what appears to be a growing public interest in older women's sexuality (see Betty White's "I'm Still Hot" video and these saucy Grandma ads for Crosby's molasses). If the most recent post, "Whole Foods Hooker," is any indication, Grandma doesn't need any help from the Internet or her granddaughter to score a date.

Whatever the secret to the blog's success, Gail and Kayli's story may not be as uncommon as you might think. 40 million people use online dating sites in the US, and some sites like eHarmony specifically targets seniors. The average age of users across all sites is 48 -- which for this 24-year old and her Grandma works out just about right.

 

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Maverick had his Goose. Comedian Cat Davis had Mary Louise Parker. Steve Carrell's Andy had not one but three wingmen looking out for him. But blogger Kayli Stollak may have the wingman that tops them...
Maverick had his Goose. Comedian Cat Davis had Mary Louise Parker. Steve Carrell's Andy had not one but three wingmen looking out for him. But blogger Kayli Stollak may have the wingman that tops them...
 
 
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04:28 AM on 01/18/2012
Thanks for the information, I like your blog very interesting. Try top visit Online Dating Services to meet your lucky one. And you have an inspiration. Keep on sharing.
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zoebliss
09:04 AM on 01/02/2012
lol thats so funny that the average age on these dating sites is 48. the commercials only feature people in their 20's in mock dating rituals.
07:04 PM on 12/31/2011
If you really want to celebrate older women, maybe you could find something else to call her besides "Granny." I noticed the writer used Grandma and Grandmother, only AOL insists on using Granny in headlines to describe everything from sweet older woman to serial killers.
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Red45
We can turn the tide
04:51 PM on 01/01/2012
I don't have a problem with Granny. My grandson can call me whatever he wants as long as he calls me.
08:30 PM on 01/02/2012
To Red45, your grandson has a right to call you Granny, or anything else that pleases you both. AOL, Huffpost, newspapers, tv commentators and others do not, in my humble opinion. Best to you and your grandson!
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giftsthatpurr
zestful life
05:59 PM on 12/31/2011
Some of the folks who might not beleive they will ever reach the age of Betty White may still be full of ageist comments and beliefs. I, however, at the age of 74, am here to tell you that an older woman's sexuality is vitally alive and well. (I am sure my long time partner would be happy to back me up on this - no pun intended.)
02:03 PM on 01/02/2012
Right on.
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highhymes
04:23 PM on 12/31/2011
Still trying to figure out which is creepier 48 year old man with a 24 or 75 year old woman....
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Red45
We can turn the tide
04:56 PM on 01/01/2012
You have any idea how insulting your comment is to older people?
01:55 AM on 01/02/2012
and younger people
11:27 AM on 01/02/2012
The 75 year-old woman is much creepier.

Name one guy in his 40s with a women in her 70s.
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french queen13
my beloved is mine and I am his
08:19 PM on 01/02/2012
Would you think it creepier if it were the man in his 70s and a much younger woman?
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Bellanova
I'm nobody. Who are you?
02:16 PM on 12/31/2011
Granny sounds fabulous and awesome beyond belief. Also, much younger than her age. (I listened to her voice.)
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giftsthatpurr
zestful life
06:00 PM on 12/31/2011
Vitality has a way of showing in our voices. Her puns tell me she is very vital!!!
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nix28
Embracing honesty and its ugly step-sister, truth.
11:45 PM on 12/30/2011
I just keep seeing Will Smith in my head, dancing and singing, "Go Granny! Go Granny!" on Fresh Prince of Bel Air.
10:42 PM on 12/30/2011
"...or if it's connected to what appears to be a growing public interest in older women's sexuality (see Betty White's "I'm Still Hot" video and these saucy Grandma ads for Crosby's molasses)."

Trust me, no one is really interested in older women's sexuality. Betty White's video and the ads are seen as humorous... and that's the only way most people view older women's sexuality. Except Aston Kutcher maybe.
10:53 PM on 12/30/2011
Have you seen Helen Mirren lately?
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nix28
Embracing honesty and its ugly step-sister, truth.
11:44 PM on 12/30/2011
Given all the aging Boomers, I think older women's sexuality is an important topic that is indeed garnering quite a bit of interest.