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Mindful Presence: The Heart of Mind Fitness Training

Posted: 07/21/11 09:21 AM ET

Much of our work with organizations and individuals centers around the development of what we call "mind fitness." Mind fitness means having a mind that's fit for action and insight. At the heart and core of this kind of mind-body-spirit training is the practice of "mindful presence" -- the essential key to mind fitness.

In future blog posts, we'll introduce and invite you to explore the various disciplines of mind fitness. While all of these are vital to success, foremost and foundational among them is the discipline of mindful presence, so we'll begin here. This discipline is developed through the cultivation of mindfulness and the mastery of attention. Research shows that daily practice of mindfulness creates measurable changes in brain function associated with decreases in our vulnerability to stress and distress, increases our enjoyment of the moment, improves health and performance, increases our happiness, improves emotional intelligence and deepens the wisdom, confidence and courage we bring to life -- and work!

The cultivation of mindfulness is essentially the practice of presence, deep listening and awareness. Mindfulness enables you to wake up and be more fully present to what is really going on in your inner and outer worlds, and to the stream of moment-to-moment change. Mindfulness offers you greater choice and the capacity to live-on-purpose as an alternative to living a reactionary life dominated by mindless habit and out of control reactivity.

The practice of mindfulness also provides a powerful tool to discover the true depth and dimension of our experience. As we see more clearly and understand more deeply, our insight grows and opens new dimensions of freedom, health and change resilience in our lives. Mindfulness is the basis of wisdom, appreciation and gratitude. Its essence is deep listening, an open, non-judgmental yet discerning quality of attentiveness that embraces every fleeting experience with acceptance, investigation and non-attachment.

To experience mindfulness in this moment:

  • Simply look out through your eyes right now and know that you are seeing.
  • Bring your attention to the easy natural flow of your breathing, being mindful of the stream of sensations as you breathe in ... and being mindful as you breathe out ... By being mindful of the natural flow of your breathing, you develop a way to anchor and stabilize your mindful, clear presence within the streaming flow of moment-to-moment change that is your life.
  • Allow this clear, natural mindfulness to welcome the coming and flowing of every element of your experience. Notice how every sound, sight, sensation, thought, feeling and experience comes and flows. Be mindful of the river of change that flows as your life with awareness.
  • Complement your mindful awareness with a gentle, self-referential smile -- like a smile in your heart. This smile will help you maintain a sense of perspective, curiosity, acceptance and open-mindedness. Smiling gently in this way will also help protect you from trying too hard or being too self-critical in your cultivation of mindfulness.
  • Throughout the day, bring your mindful, clear presence to whatever you are doing and to being more fully present with whomever you are with.
  • Experiment with setting the intention to be more mindful and present with simple activities that have a clear beginning and end. For example, mindfully walk from the parking lot to your office, take a mindful shower, eat a mindful meal or go for a mindful walk or jog.
  • When your mind wanders or your attention fades, note the distraction as soon as you become aware of it, and then without blame or judgment simply refresh your mindful presence and return your attention to whatever you choose to attend to.

If you are like most people you have dozens, if not hundreds, of interactions with people in an average day. One powerful strategy for practicing mindfulness is to set the intention to engage in a significant number of daily interactions as opportunities to practice "mindful dialogue." This involves being vividly mindful of what you see, hear or sense from the people you are talking with, while simultaneously being mindful of the flow of your own inner personal experiences as you are engaged in that dialogue.

Your practice of mindfulness can take two basic forms:

  1. One is the practice of mindful presence in the midst of the ordinary activities of your daily life.
  2. The second way to practice mindfulness is more as a quiet meditation practice. In this mode, you simply sit quietly, focus your mindfulness on the flow of your breath and mindfully notice the flow of experiences as they come and go. Be mindful of how the waves of the breath come and flow. Let this be your resting place and anchor of awareness. Mindfully notice how external perceptions come and flow from the world around you. Mindfully attend to how the sensations in your body come and flow. As thoughts or mental images arise, be mindful of how they too arise and pass. As emotions come to your awareness, be mindful of them as arising and passing in the clear space of your mindful presence. As desires, intentions or other mind-states arise, be mindful of how these similarly come and flow. With mindful clear presence, embrace the flow of your experience, with great curiosity, openness and compassion. Remain in this stream of experience for five, 10, 20 or 30 minutes at a time, and allow yourself to awaken ever more fully to the wisdom of your true nature, complexity and dimensionality.

Once you understand how to practice the discipline of mindful presence you can never say, "I don't have time to meditate," because mindfulness can be activated in virtually every situation and activity of your complex and busy life. This means that every activity and encounter offers you the opportunity to develop and strengthen your mind fitness.

As you cultivate this quality of mindful presence, you'll begin to realize that you are part of a vast community of people in all walks of life and arenas of work who are engaged in this practice. Hundreds of studies have demonstrated the clinical and performance enhancing benefits of the mind fitness practice of mindfulness.

Over the past 20 years, the discipline of mindfulness meditation has become an integral element in the success path of leaders from many disciplines. In our own work, we've taught mindfulness as a core success strategy to thousands of leaders in hundreds of organizations around the globe. In our work with the largest, most successful division of Hewlett-Packard, mindfulness was one of the core values held by senior leaders as a key to their success.

During the once secret "Ultimate Warrior Training Program" (aka Jedi Warrior) that we co-designed and led for the U.S. Army Green Berets, we guided two A-Teams of Special Forces troops on an intensive 30-day silent mindfulness retreat called "The Encampment," which equipped them with skills to succeed on a series of missions that no other teams had ever succeeded in before. One of our teams was later selected as the most outstanding team in the NATO games. This program was described by leaders at West Point Military Academy as "the most exquisite orchestration of human technology we have ever seen."

At Google, we teach a course called "The Meditation and Mindfulness Laboratory" for leaders and software engineers seeking to de-bug and reengineer their own personal operating systems. At M.D. Anderson Cancer Research Center and dozens of other leading medical centers and medical schools, we've also taught mindfulness disciplines to hundreds of physicians, nurses, faculty and administrators, and many of them have fully integrated these methods into their daily lives and work. Surgeons who train in mindfulness make fewer mistakes and have better surgical outcomes. In medicine, mindfulness also offers relief from a myriad of stress-related maladies and speeds recovery time.

The practice of mindful presence has also been a vital success strategy in our mentoring of numerous world class and Olympic gold medal-winning athletes who have stretched the envelope of success to new proportions. Just imagine what will be possible for you as you develop greater mindful presence and mind fitness in your own life.

 
 
 

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Much of our work with organizations and individuals centers around the development of what we call "mind fitness." Mind fitness means having a mind that's fit for action and insight. At the heart and ...
Much of our work with organizations and individuals centers around the development of what we call "mind fitness." Mind fitness means having a mind that's fit for action and insight. At the heart and ...
 
 
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Vote ABC- Anybody But Cantor
10:24 AM on 07/27/2011
Thanks for this article. It is mindful for ME to read this and I will be reminded to be more mindful today at least. Making the transition to daily or even hourly mindfulness is my goal.
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Joel & Michelle Levey
05:12 PM on 07/30/2011
Yes HP, holding the INTENTION to be MINDFUL is really the key to the practice. If you hold the intention to keep coming back to mindful clear presence often, then gradually you'll begin to find that there are more moments of mindfulness and fewer moments of lapsing into mindlessness. One strategy is to get an app for your smartphone or laptop to have a "bell of mindfulness" chime that will ring from time to time and invite you to "wake up" and return to mindfulness again throughout the day.
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jennielake
Intellect is Learned... Wisdom Already Knows
12:39 AM on 07/23/2011
After years of meditation I have realized that I used to think about what "others" had to do for me to be Happy and at Peace - This created a "door" between me and my Inner Joy, then with meditation the door was no-longer what others had to do but what "I" had to do - I had to meditate, this was now the same door but with different locks.

The door was still there, the door was called "doing" - they do - I do.

One day I realized that this door was made up, and, that nothing was actually between me and my Inner Peace but a "Belief" - or a - "Thought" - It was all made up.

For days all I did was laugh at this and how funny I have been acting all depressed and angry at times in my life. Today there is no door and there is no doing. Today there is just Inner Peace - Always.

This insight saved my life - I hope it helps you as well.

hugs...
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MerrieWay
11:58 PM on 07/21/2011
Wonderful tips.
08:58 PM on 07/21/2011
In order to Be Present three forces or laws are necessary. In all events there are six processes and each of these has a different outcome potentially for the same occurernce. There is what you wish to do and there is what prevents it. Therefore the third force will possibly decide either, or +.

There is only one of the six which attracts true Presence with the correct third force, that of regeneration, that is the appearence of the Self in this moment. the Self is the most essential part of you and can only make contact with this plane by efforts to remember your Self, over and over again. The other five processes seek success on a different, more mundane levels.

You must begin to wish to know and Be your Self to be be able to know who to Remember when you try to Remember your Self. The third force of trying to Remember your Self, just for the sake of being You,must be Primary before anthing else.We should try to bring Presence to all the events of our lives. Presence which is Mindfullness, which is Self Awareness. or Consciousness is the beginning of the appearance of your eternal essence which needs be taught to arise with true esoteric principles. It is one thing to be successful, but not having the play of being so is the same
" Seek that things should be as they are and you will have a tranquil flow of life" Epictitus
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french queen13
my beloved is mine and I am his
07:47 PM on 07/21/2011
Concentrating on the "easy, natural flow of your breathing" doesn't happen when you're asthmatic and all it does is remind you of how damned short of breath you are, and even worsen the feeling ... :(
08:45 PM on 07/21/2011
You raised a good point. I am asthmatic and deeply appreciate breathing as a result. Fortunately, it is not a very serious affliction for me being able to avoid most allergens. For those seriously afflicted with a pulmonary challenge such as asthma, your point is well taken. Maybe another approach would be helpful.
04:50 PM on 07/27/2011
According to a book called the Holographic Universe studies on people with multiple personality revealed that only certain "personalities" had a given allergy or disorder. What does this mean for those of us who think we only have one personality? :-) Well, perhaps many diseases are much more the products of our mind than we currently know. I don't mean to discount your concern and it may be valid, but I'd suggest that mindfulness might be a possible path to greater health and vitality, whatever methods you choose to use (and there are other things to meditate on than the breath - it is just one of the more frequently used ones since it is always with us). Now if I can just meditate my bad disk away...sigh. I haven't gotten there yet but I hold out hope...
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french queen13
my beloved is mine and I am his
08:07 PM on 07/27/2011
Without going into the matter of mental illness, I'd say it's important to discount neither the mental nor physical aspects of illnesses, allergies and so on. Too often the idea is pushed that it all goes back to "dis-ease" (a pretentious term that makes me want to puke) and seems to suggest that basic things like viruses, bacteria and injuries don't actually work perfectly well on anyone. Victim-blaming, in other words, and too likely to dismiss both physical reality and the effectiveness of medical knowledge. I'm not suggesting that was your point; your post just brought to mind why I have reservations about focussing too much on someone's mental state. It's as bad as ignoring it.

For my own situation, I was asthmatic from infancy - hardly a case of mental distress causing it - and it's revived to a degree since I had acute bronchitis a year ago (picked up at work). Now I've been happier and more content in the last few years than at any other time in a generally unruffled life, so the theory about mental distress or whatever really doesn't apply. :)
03:21 PM on 07/21/2011
I often find that when I am intensely engaged in mindfulness, my identity dissolves as I witness both the subjective happenings of mind and the objective happenings in relationship to "out there". I begin to stand prior to both mind and body as the boundary becomes indiscernible between "I" and "that" or "me" and "you". From this vantage point I can flow in the process with equanimity and loving indifference to outcome, with the tacit and clear understanding that everything is always already as it should be.
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BannedInBoston
Everyone is entitled to my opinion.
08:24 PM on 07/21/2011
Pretty cool, is it not?...
01:03 PM on 07/22/2011
"Delicious" might be a better word.
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iisguy
12:46 PM on 07/21/2011
Lol - so they are finally catching up with ancient china.
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Phaedrah Ellison
Facts are stupid things - Ronald Reagan
10:27 AM on 07/21/2011
fascinating!
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cheryl tobin
Alpha Dog with my pack!
09:50 AM on 07/21/2011
Using mindfulness to train people to kill other people in programs like "The Ultimate Warrior Training Programs" misses the whole point of being deeply connected to every other human being and the world in which we all live.
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poorotis
07:18 PM on 07/21/2011
Was ' The Art of War' by Sun Tzu (A Chinese general of the late 6th century) a 'textbook' utilized by Joel and Michelle?
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Joel & Michelle Levey
04:56 AM on 07/22/2011
Thanks for your reflection here Cheryl, We can well appreciate your concern and assure you our role was not to teach the men to kill other people. Given that this project was launched in response to the incredible number of suicides among soldiers returning from war, our role was to help instill in them a sense of wholeness and presence, that would help them reduce the damage they inflicted on themselves and on others. We engaged in considerable soul searching as we contemplated whether to accept this project - or not. In the process of preparing for this work, we interview dozens of our spiritual teachers and meditation masters asking for their perspective, guidance, support - including: the Dalai Lama, Ram Das, Brother David Steindl-Rast (who came and taught the men for 3 days), Zong Rinpoche, Rina Sircar, Kalu Rinpoche, etc. Much to our surprise and inspiration every one of the teachers we asked gave their wholehearted support to us working on this project. The essence of what they invited us to consider was that if we had an opportunity to work with people who have great power but who lacked the wisdom and compassion to use that power wisely and non-destructively - and - if there was anything we could do to help them develop greater wisdom and compassion, then by all means that we should accept this assignment. Perhaps we will explore this theme more in an upcoming blog. Thanks for raising the issue for us all to
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Joel & Michelle Levey
04:57 AM on 07/22/2011
PS - Yes Poorotis - we did use The Art of War as one of our many references during the program, and the program involved extensive training in meditation, aikido, and biofeedback training.