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Like It or Not: America's Dirty Little Secret

Posted: 04/25/10 10:19 AM ET

There's a dirty little secret in America today: all too many of our young people, whatever their biological age may be, can't speak.

Sure, they can Facebook, text message, Twitter, but they can't speak.

First, vocal cords. Why do so many attractive, intelligent young women mutilate their vocal cords when they utter a word? They grind their voices like fingernails scraping a blackboard. They uptalk as if sentences had no end or conclusion. (A theory: by vibrating their vocal cords to lower the sound they produce, young ladies want to "masculinize" their voices, thereby taking revenge on rampant sexism).

Young men, in contrast, prefer to mumble. Whoever said the sexes, always in a battle, were ever the same?

Then there's "like." Have you ever been on public transportation with young people "speaking" over their cell phones? One in every three/four words is "like."

Maybe it doesn't drive you nuts -- if you're hard of hearing.

Another favorite: "Whatever."

Do these linguistic tics reflect young people's understandable, instinctively negative reaction to the uber-precision of a high-strung, non-stop "communicating" technological society with a "standard" American English sadly inherited, some would say, from not yet fully dead white males?

So much of everything, in the USA "homeland" these days, is timed, measured, "messaged" even when we cross streets. You've got eight seconds before a car will kill you, the electronic sign tells the pedestrian. Rush, rush, rush (ok, safety first).

Buy sugar-free Coke Now! Now! Now!

No wonder the young among us use language to slow things down, by being comfortably vague when they -- we -- "speak."

After writing your supposedly tightly-worded resume, don't you just want to say "like," which has no meaning at all? Like, you know what I mean? You don't know what I mean, but that's, like, ok. Like.

Or is it that young people learned how to "speak" by looking at essentially non-verbal cartoons on TV, with absent parents with whom they could not "talk," as they -- the parents -- were "at work"? Again, perhaps.

Or are we just being democratic -- speak, baby speak, whatever that "speak" may be?

Another possible reason: Rhetoric -- it's been around since at least Aristotle -- has been essentially abolished from college curricula.

Instead, we idolize "power-point" presentations that minimize the use of language and, in some university foreign policy programs, organize "public diplomacy" courses that overlook, in perhaps too many cases, the importance of classical rhetoric in shaping human discourse.

(How can a future diplomat ever learn a foreign language -- essential in carrying out public diplomacy -- if he/she cannot even speak his/her own language beyond "like" and "whatever" -- or, more generally, beyond the American contemporary way of "speaking" among the young?)

True, speaking "proper" English is a convention. Chaucer isn't today's "conventional" English. Jefferson, as I discovered from reading, with much pleasure, his manuscripts, makes no distinction between "its" and "it's." No one in her right mind would want language to stand still. What makes language human is its ability to evolve -- let's hope for the better.

But isn't the magic and poetry of well articulated (I hate the word "articulate," do you have a better one?) face-to-face language disappearing in our time, here in America -- the America of the so-called "web 2.0 communications revolution" -- in a tsunami of "likes" and "whatevers"?

Now, after all the preaching, I want to make you feel comfortable. Report from the forthcoming Evening News:

How, like, ironic, or, whatever, like distressing. Like, you know what I mean. Whatever.

Like, whatever, forget about it.

I like like, Big like Brother. Like, abolish language Big Brother, like is, like, the best way to newspeak, how we, like, "speak " -- whatever.

About Winston -- after his, like, treatment at the Ministry of Truth -- we know about him from, like, the updated version of 1984 we, like, just, like, just got, whatever -- glad you, Win, like, feel better.

Like, Win, turn on, like, your cell phone: Speak to say nothing. Say nothing to speak.

Like, like "like." Or else.

This, like, is the six o'clock evening news. And now a word from our sponsor, the producer of "Like" products -- products you like whatever they, like, are.

P.S. From Newspeak Dictionary: "duckspeak - (To quack like a duck). To speak without thinking. Can be either good or bad, depending on who is speaking, and whether or not they are on your side."

 

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11:21 PM on 04/30/2010
G.W. and Sarah Palin speak as though they never learned how to diagram a sentence in English. Studying a foreign language is a powerful tool for learning the grammar and syntax of one's native tongue.

John, keep up the good work.
02:56 PM on 04/27/2010
Like, what is your problem. People have been like complaining about the speech of adolescents forever. I remember my parents were like, "Can you stop mumbling?" And I was like, "Whatever!"
01:35 PM on 04/27/2010
At the first utterance of 'like' by my teenagers, I go into Like Like Like Like Like mode, repeating it ad nauseum until they get the message. it has stopped them for the, like, you know, most part.
02:38 AM on 04/27/2010
One component in the erosion of the quality of daily speech heard among the public is that the verbal acuity of our media figures has been badly dumbed down. If they watch ESPN and see all the mumbling athletes blurting, "you know" every 30 seconds, slang slinging snark artists such as Jim Rome, AM talk radio being a haven for inane and eight year old level name calling and tv news folks hired more for their telegenic qualities rather then their intellectual and reportorial abilities, Americans, who are like all human beings, rather an imitative lot, see no incentive to write with the same pointed eloquence of an H.L. Mencken or discuss the day's important events as Dr. Johnson and his compatriots did during his time.

All that counts in America is how much money you can make. America began as a largely mercantile enterprise, so that the public has this mindset can't be a surprise. The ability to perpetrate a hustle takes precedence in this country over intellectual content. Richard Hofstadter wrote a book about it. And the election of G.W. Bush was the nadir of that phenomenon.
06:44 PM on 04/26/2010
I agree with this article from bottom of my heart. I am Japanese and came to the US last summer, and have noticed that students often say "like": "I was like...", "she is like..." Acutually, Japan also has a simillar phenomenon among young generation. We often use "mitaina" that means "like" in English. I am sure that we can describe something easily by using "like." However, overusing this phrase might make us illiterate people, so we should learn how to use words properly.
02:47 AM on 04/27/2010
The problem, Mami-san, is that english is one of the biggest mutt languages on the planet, which is why we don't obsess on our language being invaded by outside influences to the degree the French do. So english, be it the American variety, the Australian brand or the British version (Chrissy Hynde's now famous remark about, "before I left for England, I was under the impression Brits spoke english. I was wrong" is particularly appropo) has always been a rapidly evolving and much more linguistically tortured tongue as compared with Japanese, which is an exceedingly regular language structurally (even with the various dialects and the recent fondness for slang abbreviations).

Read the Story of English. Absolutely fascinating stuff.
http://www.amazon.com/Story-English-Revised-Robert-McCrum/dp/0140154051
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great, green, globs of greasy grimey GOPerspeak.
04:47 PM on 04/26/2010
My children came home from college with a lot more you knows and likes in their speech. Fortunately, they have work or business speech habits and don't overuse these phrases in presentations or business conversations. As incredibly annoying as I find the habit, they will be the power generation one day and will not notice it at all as it will be the norm.
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11:41 AM on 04/26/2010
Thanks for bringing up this topic. I think the young people themselves are not to blame. They are just products of our system of bringing up and educating people.

Our system of public education has been designed to avoid having the masses effectively trained in public speaking, writing, and persuasion. Elite private schools, on the other hand, do emphasize public speaking, writing, and persuasion.

It would be dangerous to the ruling elites to have the masses well-educated so that they could lead people and persuade people. It's much safer to keep them in their place and ignorant and unable to effectively communicate.

That is why reading, math and science are always emphasized when politicians talk about reforming education or improving education. Because that is not threatening to the corporate elite and political campaign contributors. If politicians started talking about teaching public school children to be effective communicators and leaders instead of readers and technicians, eyebrows would be raised.

It's not by accident that young people can't effectively communicate. They are just products of our education system.
02:53 AM on 04/27/2010
I don't know about that. G.W. Bush and other blue bloods went to elite prep schools and they often sound like the verbal equivalent of a man who can't walk and chew gum at the same time.

William F. Buckley and Conrad Black sounded very erudite as elite prep school products, but their political and economic ideas were so transparently inane and class biased as to reach almost satirical levels of lameness. George Will falls into the same trap. It's all effete style over substance and anyone with a whit of intelligence can see through it in a nanosecond.
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10:27 AM on 04/26/2010
i disagree with your causation of modern degradation of speech; english in particular.

youth has ALWAYS adopted their own vernacular: "twenty-three skiddoo"; "way to go, daddy-o"; "groovy"; "gag me with a spoon, fer shure"; "totally!"; "mad skillz" etc.

sub cultures have always invented "inspeak" so they could separate themselves from the mainstream. this is NOTHING NEW.

WHAT IS NEW, HOWEVER, is the mainstream media usage, and the adult population EMULATING WHAT CHILDREN SAY.

in the 21st c. American cultural idolization of youth, it has become common for adults to act like children. People are no longer maturing beyond the cognitive level of a pre-teen. The media supports this. They've learned that youth is the most profitable market, so they shower them with attention to develop them as new consumers. Adults, stressed over aging and becoming "uncool", now emulate young people.

Adult women carry "hello kitty" bags and wear the same juvenile fashions as young girls. or Adult men are consumed with video games well into their 20's and 30's.

but the MEDIA IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS, with their endless barrage of blather and the talking head's adoption of it.

The things news commentators say on tv today would make Cronkite roll in his grave. There is no journalistic integrity anymore. No spell checking, no proof reading for proper grammar, and no revisions for changing slang to appropriate words.
10:39 AM on 04/26/2010
I couldn't have said it any better! Fanned good sir.
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01:12 PM on 04/26/2010
Very well stated!
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01:54 PM on 04/26/2010
thank you both!
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10:16 AM on 04/26/2010
I see your point, Professor.

Taking cheap shots at our youth for the failures in our educational system are nothing new. Every generation blames the next, instead of reforming what is needed.

I wonder, in the last eight years 2000 to 2008, did you ever hear the leader of this nation speak?

Hope you see my point as well...
10:09 AM on 04/26/2010
Also, I wonder if it's just me or are the new movie actors more concerned with copying Ozzie, i.e., being "natural", than trying to further the movie plot?
I watch many new movies and inevitably dialogue will come up that I can't understand a single
word being spoken by at least one of the actors. I can't relate the sounds to anything that has happened in the movie. I turn to an older movie on another channel and suddenly I can understand every word! I have no trouble 'hearing', just comprehending what the actor is saying. This seems to have begun within the last 5 or so years.
Oh, and I can understand Brando even if I've never seen the movie!
09:56 AM on 04/26/2010
Much starts at school systems, or at least developed negatively. The method teacher perform in schools is that the teacher does most of the talking and from the very beginnings of a child school career they are told to shut up and listen. Schools are mostly ran by the government. Shut up and listen while I teach you. Crazy? Maybe, life. . . yes, American life.
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09:45 AM on 04/26/2010
I simply believe it a part of their culture and the way they choose to express themselves. To the contrary of this report, the youth of today are rather engaging and forthcoming when they feel rather comfortable in their environment. I find them rather breath taking and intriguing, they amaze me by their inner strength and the way they approach life. It does not matter what economic walk of life they come from, the all share this amazing spirit of life that must be cultivated. I tend to pick random children of the street and talk to them about various aspects of their life, and to my surprise they are rather sharing when allowed to express themselves in the fashion in which they feel comfortable. However, we must teach them how to communicate outside of their social class and comfort level. What does that mean, well when your in school you may communicate one way, but once you step on the basketball court, football and soccer field the from of communication changes. This all applies to when you’re in the presents of friends, parents, and neighbors. The need to learn some grace and reverence which we must introduced to their everyday lifestyle which will allow them automatically shift their mental and physical behavior to suit the environment for which they are engaging at the moment.
08:54 AM on 04/26/2010
Let's add the phrase "a whole nother" to this growing list of verbal tics employed in speech today. Unfortunately this little gem has weasled it's way into news reports. I can't tell you how many times lately I've heard reporters say this while giving a live news report. It's like fingers on a chalkboard. (An example of the appropriate use of the word "like" for any of the youth who might be reading this post.) Gah!

(For anyone who doesn't understand my irritation with this phrase, there isn't such a thing as a "nother". The words are "an" "other", or combined, "another". It is inappropriate to insert the word "whole" between the "a" and "n".)(If you can't live without the word whole, which is implied, it would be better to say, "that's a whole other story," for example, or " that's another story, entirely" which would leave out the word whole but has the same meaning.)

My apologies for preaching. It's a hot button for me.
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09:25 AM on 04/26/2010
Hot Button!!?? Not only is the inability to speak appropriately a 'hot button' for me, it is also beginning to drive me crazy that I cannot seem to read an entire article, no matter the publication, without having to re-read numerous sentences to determine what it was that I just read. Sadly, I have even had to watch the Huffington Post get sloppy over the last two years. Spelling errors, grammatical errors, usage errors, missing words--need I go on?! It would seem that even this publication no longer requires its contributors to proof-read their submissions.
Sloppy just breeds more sloppy! I'm losing my patience.
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08:50 AM on 04/26/2010
My parents generation said the same thing about us (the generation that pioneered "groovy" - NOW I'm dated!).

We were just a hip bunch of happening cats and chicks having a gas. What's your bag?

And now "like" drives me as mad as "funky" did my father.

Can you dig it? I can't anymore - I grew up. And so will they.
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09:41 AM on 04/26/2010
Yes, we grew up. However, we may have used our own contemporary slang 'back when' but I believe we were able grow out of it because we had a good solid foundation after all was said and done. What saddens me today is that I don't think the current pool of younguns' will have much to fall back on when they (maybe) finally grow up.
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05:54 PM on 04/26/2010
I believe that many of them do have that foundation, certainly the majority from middle-class, educated families will. Just as we did. Those from poorly educated or highly dysfunctional families won't - but those families existed in my youth too.
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07:54 AM on 04/26/2010
American English: A derivative of Engish English. Itself a bastardized conglomeration of components acquired from a host of other world tongues. No doubt critiqued, at every juncture of its past development and continuous future evolution. Though oddly, never for such things a colloquialisms when used by Shakespeare and others.

“One in every three/four words is "like."”
A vast improvement I would say. Since in my day, every other word was an Anglo Saxon expletive.

“No wonder the young among us use language to slow things down, by being comfortably vague when they -- we -- "speak."
Yes. Whatever happened to good old “err”?

"like," which has no meaning at all?”
Strange. I was interpreting it to mean “let me elucidate”.

“who is speaking”
After a life listening to politicians, and others, who speak volumes while taking great pains to say absolutely nothing. I much prefer the honesty of the young.
12:23 PM on 04/27/2010
fanned! brilliant!