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Doubt is the Faith That Binds Us Together

Posted: 03/10/11 11:20 AM ET

Some people are bound together by faith. They believe the same things, and say so, and that connects them. Like saying the creed in church. Or agreeing about certain spiritual truths. Or sharing the same initiation or race or ritual.

But the world is a complex place. We're intimately connected to a wider, more diverse range of people than any people before in history. Our communities are hardly, if ever, closed. Even people who share faith increasingly have doubts.

Sometimes they admit it. Sometimes they don't. Sometimes they push doubt away and other times they embrace it, even deepen it.

There are more of us than ever who not only accept doubt, but see it as essential to faith. Doubt is good for you, in part because shared faith was never what we thought it was. It was mostly an illusion -- like the suburban cul-de-sac of religious truth. Living without difference does not a faith make.

It is increasingly clear to me that doubt is, in fact, the most important faith of all. Doubt invigorates faith, demands more of it, and causes us to ask more of each other. Doubt connects us to each other. Doubt binds my faith to yours. It makes me reach out. Discover. Explore. Question. Challenge. Learn. A person who doubts is one still on a journey.

If doubt defines you, too, check out Graham Greene's novel, Monsignor Quixote (1982). The story follows Father Quixote, an aging parish priest in the little town in La Mancha, Spain (yes, that La Mancha -- the allusion to Cervantes' holy-foolish Don Quixote is near-complete) as he vacations with his best friend, Sancho. Sancho is the retired, ex-mayor of the town and a committed communist. Both characters are men of very different but deep faith. But what ultimately binds them together are the ways in which they share doubt.

At one point, Father Quixote and Sancho have this conversation:

"I hope -- friend -- that you sometimes doubt too. It's human to doubt."

"I try not to doubt," the Mayor said.

"Oh, so do I. So do I. In that we are certainly alike."

And then Greene's narrator explains: "It's odd ... how sharing a sense of doubt can bring men together perhaps even more than sharing a faith. The believer will fight another believer over a shade of difference: the doubter fights only with himself."

Later on, the priest says: "Oh, I want to believe that it is all true -- and that want is the only certain thing I feel." And he wonders to himself, "How is it that when I speak of belief, I become aware always of a shadow, the shadow of disbelief haunting my belief?'" The rest of the novel shows these two characters embracing their doubts, and their doubts causing them to re-imagine their beliefs.

It was Graham Greene who said about himself late in life: "The trouble is, I don't believe my unbelief." He confused a lot of people by saying that, but I get it. Sometimes it is hard to tell when belief has come or gone. Instead, it is doubt that is the constant. Doubt shows a person wrestling God. What could be more important than that?

I also embrace doubt because the older I become, the less interested I am in belief and the more interested I am in practice. A spiritual life endures even when I doubt, misbelieve, or refuse to believe. Doubt engenders practice. I may not know for certain what I believe, but at least I can pray. I can give. I can love. I live in hope. I observe what is holy. More than belief ever could, these practices structure my life, and as Ludwig Wittgenstein once said, "You can't argue with the form of a life."

Graham Greene even took to calling himself an "agnostic Catholic" toward the end of his life. I get this, too. He was tired of belief as a measure of relationship with God. Belief comes and goes. It is fleeting. It is a state of mind. Belief is far too ephemeral upon which to rest something so important as faith. Instead, it is doubt that truly binds us together, and to God.

Jon M. Sweeney is a writer and editor living in Vermont. His new book is Verily, Verily: The KJV -- 400 Years of Influence and Beauty (Zondervan). He will be speaking at The Episcopal Church of the Heavenly Rest in NYC on Sunday morning, March 13.

 
 
 

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Daleri Rileda
Jungle Jargon
11:07 AM on 03/14/2011
Doubt is not believing. It is exactly what we should not do.

Doubt ascribes credit to (glorifies) things rather than (giving the glory) to our Maker.

Doubt then is a belief in the power of things and objects rather than believing in God.

As a photon of light is a quantum particle, the light of God's word shows us His power which is greater than and supercedes all other powers of nature.
08:35 PM on 03/14/2011
"God"'s word. Would this be the same "God" that wanted humans to be ignorant and stupid, by forbidding them to eat the Fruit of the Tree of Knowledge?

The Serpent told the truth; ".thine eyes shall be opened."

Have we all been worshipping the wrong "God" for 4000 years?
12:46 AM on 03/12/2011
"Belief comes and goes. It is fleeting. It is a state of mind. "

Another word for this phenomena is emotion.
03:48 PM on 03/11/2011
Embrace your doubt, nurture it carefully, listen to it. In time doubt will lead you to the realisation that there is absolutely no concrete evidence for the existence of any gods. Given time, doubt will set you free.
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Cole 33
If someone asks if you're a God, you, say, YES!
01:42 PM on 03/11/2011
You know what I find amazing about the mind (at least a healthy one) , it's smarter than the person using it. It sets up little sensors for us, little fail safes.

The healthy human mind WANTS to find truth, it wants to be rational, and Doubt is the healthy brains security screener, it's the function that attempts to give pat downs to irrational invasions.

That's what doubt is, your brain trying to correct itself. it's trying to tell you that something is not right here, there is something fishy about the guy coming through the door. I like to call doubt my brains little bul-chet detector.

Ignoring doubt is like ignoring pain..... which also serves an important purpose.
11:55 AM on 03/11/2011
It has become trendy to doubt faith. Perhaps there are those that doubt and those that are skeptics. I see doubters as people who don't believe (in the same way that there are people who have chosen to believe, doubters have chosen not to believe). But then there are skeptics - people who weigh everything carefully and have a certain amount of healthy doubt about everything . . . even their own doubt. When will people be okay with doubting their own doubt? Jon, I would love your take on this - especially as I deal with this at www.noargumentforgod.blogspot.com - what could be more powerful than raising a true question about the very place that you are arguing from? -John W
12:40 PM on 03/11/2011
I see you've left out part of a sentence; you probably meant to say, "doubters have chosen, due to the lack of any evidence what-so-ever, and due to the fantastically illogical premise put forth by believers in the different religions, not to believe in such nonsense." No need to thank me for the correction.
07:29 AM on 03/11/2011
Jon,
You make a fabulous point and bring to light a crucial stage of spiritual and faith development - the searching stage. The challenge is that our religious institutions are not always very good at accepting, supporting and nurturing this stage of spiritual development. It is only through questioning, doubting, exploring that one can ever hope to come to a mature faith and in in the Christian world, become a mature disciple. I have found that when you give people permission, space and resources through which they can explore, they become empowered to live a life of compassion and mercy, working toward harmony and justice - qualities that it seems all religions are working toward and calling us to.

Lauri Lumby
Authentic Freedom Ministries
http://yourspiritualtruth.com
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ninetailedfox
banning people.....so childish
06:46 AM on 03/11/2011
"How is it that when I speak of belief, I become aware always of a shadow, the shadow of disbelief haunting my belief?'

Perhaps it is not a shadow, but a spark of light. Many times people mistake darkness for light, or light for darkness. It is common for people that dont live in the grey.
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Jelle NL
Unity in Diversity
02:43 AM on 03/11/2011
Dear Jon - Doubt is a remedy against fanaticism, yes. But doubt can also paralyse us. Is it not better to replace 'doubt' with 'open-mindedness' or 'curiosity'. Imagine: raising children by infusing them with doubt?

- Ye are the birds that soar upward into the firmament of knowledge, the royal falcons on the wrist of God - Abdu'l-Baha (1844-1921)
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AdorableHero
Conquer your dark side or become it.
11:19 PM on 03/10/2011
I am fond of saying on these very boards: If you are sure of anything, doubt it - if you're sure that there's a God, doubt a little, and (perhaps even more so) if you are sure that there's no God - doubt it. Too many people are absolutely sure of these matters and it seems to give them excuse to see everyone who disagrees with the as "lesser." As far as I'm concerned, one cannot *know* how the universe began unless one was *there* at the creation of the universe and can *proove* it. Likewise, the only people who *know* what happens after we die are currently dead.

I have beliefs - even strong beliefs that I can't quite get rid of and do not even want to, but I am friends with doubt. I'd like people to see it less as the "cute little first step to becoming a fully-functioning atheist" (I find such sentiment condesending to the point of wanting to punch people), and more as just having a "thinking faith."

Show me a person who is sure they've got existance figured out and I'll show you a fool.
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ninetailedfox
banning people.....so childish
06:50 AM on 03/11/2011
I dont consider you as lesser. It is just, because of my own experiences, I dont want to see people go through the same type of pain ive already been through. But perhaps, they are meant to. Dont get me wrong, I do have "some" christian friends (on paltalk about 2 i think), but lately sometimes, I get fed up with even them. Perhaps I am like my husband, a hermit and a lone wolf, in that reguards.
12:49 PM on 03/11/2011
It is impossible to prove the existance or non-existance of some entity that could be called God. But since the evidence for the existance of such a being fits within the range of next to none to none, it is only logical to doubt , if not the existance of a supreme being that may have created the big bang in the first place, at least the existance of the being with the characteristics described by the religions of the world.
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hayness
A wise man proportions his belief to the evidence
11:00 PM on 03/10/2011
Doubt disproves gods. I don't have doubts about electricity or wind or gravity, or any of the other things that people like to cite as examples of natural things that are invisible yet real. The fact that doubt keeps cropping up means that your rational mind is trying to make sense of the world, which is in direct conflict with the teachings about god's nature.

Doubt is the beginning of wisdom...but only if you follow it to its logical end and reject all supernatural beliefs. It would be nice if more religious people could do that and develop a humanistic, natural spirituality and a practice that reflected that.
DrSnuggles
You label me and I'll label you
09:30 AM on 03/11/2011
"b­ut only if you follow it to its logical end...."

There is no logical end to doubt, if doubt ends all you have is certainty and dogma.
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Cole 33
If someone asks if you're a God, you, say, YES!
02:05 PM on 03/11/2011
Certainty though, is not dogma.

certainty removes doubt, which is our brain telling us we don't have enough information. Once we obtain that information, it removes doubt and puts us in certainty.