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The J-Word: Why Jesus Is Taboo in Polite Jewish Conversation

Posted: 01/24/2012 10:11 am

Growing up Jewish in the Bible Belt of the American South, my Judaism was always a point of pride. But it brought questions. Throngs of questions. (Seriously, "Shit Christians Say To Jews" is remarkably true-to-life.) The most common, and the one that required the most diplomatic answer, was simple: Do Jews believe in Jesus?

"Well, no," I'd say. "We believe he existed, but we don't believe he was or is the Messiah."

But I always felt a twinge of guilt even conceding that Jesus the Person -- not Jesus the Prophet or Jesus the Savior -- could've walked the earth. His possible historical existence, and my acknowledgement of this, seemed to justify all Jews had endured over the ages.

When "The Passion of the Christ" came out in 2004, I remember a subtle wave of terror passing through my community. After decades of virtually complete acceptance in American society, many Jews feared this movie would topple our good standing. Some were sure pogroms would erupt and engulf us, as if we'd never left the Old Country. As if it had all been some fantastic dream.

While Christian revenge for perceived Jewish deicide never materialized, I can't say the existential fear truly fizzled.

For me, the Jesus thing just wouldn't go away. Walking around New York City with two-years' worth of hair on my head and a sizable beard, every day without fail someone asked if I knew that I looked a lot like Jesus. And in a room full of Jews, I wasn't immune either. The Jesus jokes followed me everywhere. I didn't like walking into a room of people because I knew what was coming. I knew I stood out. I didn't want to. I cut all of my hair off.

Though we may not admit it, we are fascinated by Jesus. The latest trend has some reclaiming him as a devoutly Jewish sage -- or at least someone Jews can learn from today. "The Jewish Annotated New Testament," published in November 2011 and written from a Jewish perspective, re-contextualizes Christian Scripture and provides an opening for increased Jewish-Christian communion. Rabbi Shmuley Boteach's "Kosher Jesus," to be published Feb. 1, argues that Jesus never claimed that high celestial throne and seeks to give Jews foolproof, text-based responses to "Jews for Jesus" and other Christian missionaries with conversion on the mind. The debate aroused by Boteach's book -- responses range from positive to reasonable to overblown and sensational -- shows that old wounds aren't healed by a couple generations of cultural acceptance. In Orthodox circles, some rabbis have called for "Kosher Jesus" to be banned, with at least one rabbi asserting that Boteach should be excommunicated.

None of this is surprising. The Christian savior elicits emotional (and knee-jerk) responses from Jews across the spectrum of interfaith (mis)understanding. But one post of the many about "Kosher Jesus" was eye opening. Rabbi Yitzchak Schochet, responding to Boteach's response to the elder Rabbi Immanuel Schochet's public ban of the book, described how Jesus was nonexistent in his childhood home:

One of the things my father was consistent about was never using certain terms in our family home. Whereas my father would have typically used the name "J" in lectures, in what would be termed as horoat sha'ah (a need for the moment), G-d help any of us, his children, if we dared ever utter it in our own home. Even as kids we understood the distinction between exceptions when necessary and when not.

The name Jesus? Don't even think about it. The initial J? Even this abbreviation is a line that should rarely be crossed. (Pun unintended.) Thus, a mere man who preached universal love is turned into He Who Must Not Be Named.

The shocking part? In the same post that Boteach's book is referred to as "Kosher J...." -- seemingly to avoid giving spiritual power to a false messiah by invoking his name -- the author brandishes the oldest trick in the superstitious book, writing "G-d" to avoid taking the One And Only Lord's name in vain. All argument aside about whether the English word "God" has anything to do with the many Hebrew names of the Jewish Creator, I was struck by the juxtaposition.

Using words wisely -- and respectfully -- is a noble endeavor. Honoring the sanctity of sacred names is even more important. What, then, does it mean when you resort to the same tactic to avoid acknowledging the existence of a perceived enemy?

The same thing that made me feel guilty about admitting that Jesus might've existed. The same thing that got Jews going about "The Passion." The same thing that made me cut off those hard-earned locks.

Fear.

We're scared that maybe this time of unprecedented Jewish acceptance in the world is an illusion. We're afraid that the Christian embrace is just a trick. We're afraid that learning -- or just talking openly about -- the Scriptures of other people will somehow devalue our own or embolden theirs. We're afraid that they are right. We're afraid that maybe we're both right. We are afraid because we were raised this way. We are afraid because we don't know the answers. We are afraid because we do know the answers, and still the world remains broken.

We must stop being afraid.

Rebbe Nachman of Breslov, a Jewish Hasidic teacher who lived in a time and place of real fear of pogroms, and who had his own messianic qualities, said: "If you believe you can break something, believe you can fix it."

In 2012, the topic of Jesus should not be a Jewish taboo. If we believe so much that our relationship with Christianity is based on deceit, tragedy and senseless hatred -- that it has broken us -- then we are obligated to believe it can be based on trust, opportunity and boundless love -- that it can be fixed.

 

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04:08 AM on 02/28/2012
These comments are ridiculous and kind of infuriating.

The point is, fear is initiated and nurtured on all sides of religion and all sides of culture and race. The fear is debilitating and counterproductive. Grow your curls back and take a stand. If some one in the Jewish Community calls you Jesus, say "thank you. I hear he was a man who believed in the equality of all people."
04:03 AM on 02/01/2012
btw, do you ever get tired of hearing Jesus and Christians being referred to as "J" or "X" or "Xian" or "xianity" or "Yoshke" or "Yishke" or "THAT Man" ? etc. etc. ? I do. Maybe, as you well suggest in your fine article, it is time we all started acting toward each other with genuine maturity and consideration of the fact that BOTH COULD BE WRONG & BOTH COULD BE RIGHT about a lot of things. Shalom and GOD bless. yes: Jesus is about morality & universal Love. ... He is also about redemption and relentless Love that does not stop at supreme sacrifice. ... blessings upon Yisrael and all who uphold Life & Love.
03:51 AM on 02/01/2012
I am a firm believer that Jews & Christians should engage in mature and civilized dialog with one another, with the understanding that BOTH sides are firmly entrenched in their "slightly" prejudicial viewpoints on Jesus. http://www.realmessiah.com/ ... thank you for your thoughtful articles.
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06:44 PM on 01/30/2012
I was born jewsish and was and for a time , like most everyone, I was told what to believe .

Most jews don't serve God or worship Him, but yet think that they are somehow favored be a gene
I found the Bible and found that Jesus fullfilled all the prophecies. I then became a Jesus man.

Jews accept the prayer books written by men but reject scripture. I never even knew a fellow jew that read the Bible. 99% of them are secular.
03:55 AM on 02/01/2012
I think those are basically honest observations. A serious study of the prophecies that foretold the Suffering Servant Messiah, Yeshua, will convince any honest mind & heart that Jesus IS the real deal. ... all the controversy is mostly about *religious-turf wars*. http://www.realmessiah.com/answers_to_objections
03:56 AM on 02/01/2012
Here: I've got a better link for you, rabbi: http://www­.realmessi­ah.com/ans­wers_to_ob­jections

:^)
05:25 AM on 02/01/2012
Thanks Len, I'd like to repay the favor. Here's one for you http://jewsforjudaism.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/Contra-Brown.pdf I hope you find it educational
12:29 AM on 01/29/2012
Is anyone else getting tired of tap-dancing around what jews do or don't like? ....getting kicked in the ass and sent packing by every country that's ever admitted these kosher hustlers for the last 2000 years is starting to look less like "anti-semitism" and more like cultural commitment to failure.
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07:44 PM on 02/14/2012
Really? It still looks like anti-Semitism when you write it.

Just sayin'......
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06:39 PM on 01/28/2012
Josh this is such an epic post! It's made me rethink as a Christian who Jesus could really be! I must read Kosher Jesus...
12:43 PM on 01/27/2012
It's tough to be a chosen people. This means that there are "unchosen" people. Unchosen people don't take it kindly. Islam? Sorry, Ishmael wasn't the chosen one. Ironically, of all of the religions of the world, aside from the Jews themselves, only Christians believe that the Jews are the chosen people. Christianity is not a gentile religion - it is a radical Jewish sect that allowed for Gentiles to be grafted into the vine. Jesus was a Jew and he came for the Jews first. If Jews have friends that they can count on it would be fundamental Christians who believe every word of the OT is true (as well as the NT) Jews, today, without the Temple and without sacrifice, are in limbo as to how they can fulfill the requirements in the OT. Jesus solves this problem, but if Jews don't want to consider that then that is between them and God. As a post note about Israel - Christians believe that it belongs to the Jews because God gave it to them for a specific time limit- FOREVER. Who are the friends of Israel?
07:05 AM on 01/27/2012
Jewish involvement and influence was criticalparamount to early Christianity. :
(1) Jesus who was from a Jewish background came to fulfill the Law.
(2) Jesus teachings were to correct misunderstandings about Judaism and the refinements were to try and make the religion more humane.
(3) He gave the Jews first choice to listen to Him and to follow Him.
(4) Christians do not blame Jews for Jjesus' death. We don't even hold too much grudge against the corrupt Sanhedrin of the time or Pontius Pilate for that matter. Jesus was willing to suffer and to die on the cross for our sins. Through that He offers salvation both to the Jews and the gentiles. If He didn't do that I and many others wouldn't be Christians today.
(5) Most of the earliest Christian converts were originally Jews., i.e the Apostles, disciples, the early followers of the Church in Jeruslaem post-Pentacost. Even in Rome, the early Christians there were from the Jewish community which then spread to the wider city population.
(6) From a Christian perspective, If Jewish people today were to turn to Jesus then that would please God the Father no end.

As an aside, the Christians in Rome were expelled by Emperor Claudius only to return on the emperor's death.
06:43 AM on 01/28/2012
“Jesus who was from a Jewish background came to fulfill the Law.” I’d agree with this conventional take if fulfilling the Law meant breaking it or revising it. The NT says Jesus changed Moses’ Law on punishment, diet, divorce, work on the Sabbath and having children. Elsewhere, he also added to it: where the Law prohibited murder, Jesus prohibited anger, insults and name-calling. Where the Law prohibited adultery, Jesus extended it to include lust. It’s not at all clear what ‘fulfilling’ the Law means based on this capricious pattern.
08:11 AM on 01/28/2012
Thank you for your response. From a Christian perspective, I would prefer the terms "correcting" or "enhancing the understanding of" the Law. Jesus wasn't concerned about superficialities such as dietary preparation as He was more concerned with peopIe's motives and intent, e.g. rather than worrying what you eat you should be more worried about lies and defaming people, that divorce was allowed because the people (Jews) demanded it rather than it being a God-given right. Jesus was also saying that if you were doing something right like helping and injured stranger that it should take priority over the restriction on work on the Sabbath. That children should be allowed to come to Jesus and not be harmed implicitly means no abortion, infanticide, cruelty to children, etc and that children should also be allowed to develop spiritually by a belief in what Jesus had to say.
I also forgot to mention in my previous list one of the more influential Jews regarding the spread of Christianity. I'm referring to the former Jewish orthodox enforcer, Saul of Tarsus, who turned Christian promoter, St. Paul. He was responsible for bringing the Word to the gentiles.
No matter how you look at it, Christianity's roots are firmly in Judaism. It just that Christians believe that the Messiah has already come in the person of Jesus and that He gave us the gift of Salvation while religious Jews believe that the Messiah has still to arrive.
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06:56 PM on 01/30/2012
Jesus never changed the Sabbath
God wrote it with His finger in stone.
Are you saying He made a mistake

This error that it was changed to Sunday is a deception of Satan Theres not a single Bible verse that insinuates that the Sabbath was chanced to another day.
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05:45 PM on 01/26/2012
Part 1

Hebrews 6:20 Whither the forerunner is for us entered, even Jesus, made an high priest for ever after the order of Melchisedec.
7:1 ¶ For this Melchisedec, king of Salem, priest of the most high God, who met Abraham returning from the slaughter of the kings, and blessed him;
7:11 ¶ If therefore perfection were by the Levitical priesthood, (for under it the people received the law,) what further need was there that another priest should rise after the order of Melchisedec, and not be called after the order of Aaron?
12 For the priesthood being changed, there is made of necessity a change also of the law.
13 For he of whom these things are spoken pertaineth to another tribe, of which no man gave attendance at the altar.
14 For it is evident that our Lord sprang out of Juda; of which tribe Moses spake nothing concerning priesthood.
15 And it is yet far more evident: for that after the similitude of Melchisedec there ariseth another priest,
16 Who is made, not after the law of a carnal commandment, but after the power of an endless life.
17 For he testifieth, Thou art a priest for ever after the order of Melchisedec.
18 For there is verily a disannulling of the commandment going before for the weakness and unprofitableness thereof.
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05:43 PM on 01/26/2012
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19 For the law made nothing perfect, but the bringing in of a better hope did; by the which we draw nigh unto God.
20 And inasmuch as not without an oath he was made priest:
21 (For those priests were made without an oath; but this with an oath by him that said unto him, The Lord sware and will not repent, Thou art a priest for ever after the order of Melchisedec:)
22 By so much was Jesus made a surety of a better testament.
23 And they truly were many priests, because they were not suffered to continue by reason of death:
24 But this man, because he continueth ever, hath an unchangeable priesthood.
25 Wherefore he is able also to save them to the uttermost that come unto God by him, seeing he ever liveth to make intercession for them.
26 For such an high priest became us, who is holy, harmless, undefiled, separate from sinners, and made higher than the heavens;
27 Who needeth not daily, as those high priests, to offer up sacrifice, first for his own sins, and then for the people's: for this he did once, when he offered up himself.
28 For the law maketh men high priests which have infirmity; but the word of the oath, which was since the law, maketh the Son, who is consecrated for evermore.
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08:27 PM on 01/26/2012
God never wanted any type of sacrifice.Yahweh asks, "The multitude of your sacrifices-- what are they to me? When you come to appear before me, who has asked this of you, this trampling of my courts? Bring no more futile sacrifice.( Isaiah 1:11,12,13.) You ask Yahweh" With what shall I come before the LORD and bow down before the exalted God? Shall I come before him with burnt offerings ? ,"Shall I offer my firstborn for my transgression, the fruit of my body for the sin of my soul? , Yahweh will answer you,"O man, I have showed you what is good. And what does I require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with me". (Micah.6::6,7,8) I desire mercy and not sacrifice, and the knowledge of God more than burnt offerings".(Hosea 6:6)

Jesus also requires you, go and learn what this means" I desire mercy and not sacrifice". We killed that Jesus on the cross and we comfort ourselves saying it was a sacrifice for our sin. When will we learn what this means" I desire mercy and not sacrifice" ?
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11:27 PM on 01/26/2012
Your reply has little to do with my comment but I'll answer your question anyway.

"When will we learn what this means" I desire mercy and not sacrifice" ?"

Here is the full quote from Matthew that also includes a part you left out:
Matthew 9:13 But go ye and learn what that meaneth, I will have mercy, and not sacrifice: for I am not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.

Matthew is quoting Hosea from the Old Testament. God's desire is evidence (mercy) not ritual but even still, God gave the ordinance of sacrifice that began with Adam and ended with the cross.When Jesus said, "For I am not come to call the righteous, but sinners unto repentance," He could have included the Pharisees, because they were sinners(if you read it in the context as written that Jesus was addressing the Pharisees). In fact all of us are included --"For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God". (Rom. 3:23)
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12:08 AM on 01/27/2012
"we comfort ourselves saying it was a sacrifice for our sin."

Gal 2:20 I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.
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11:53 PM on 01/25/2012
As one who is spiritual but not religious (maybe more along the line of a Deepak Chopra), it seems to me that it is religiosity that is causing all of this fear and turmoil. There is no basis in my spirituality to feel any of that. I'm just saying ... what is the value of religiosity that makes one feel so afraid?
07:04 PM on 01/25/2012
It's like bring up Lincoln to my Southern relations.
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11:07 PM on 01/26/2012
Like the new movie "Lincoln the Vampire killer."
10:04 AM on 01/27/2012
I read the book. It's along the lines of Pride and Prejudice and Zombies. It's a actually a good allegory. The book compares and makes slaveowners vampires, since they both live off the blood and suffering of others.
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06:30 PM on 01/25/2012
Mr. Jesus is less than an orthodox figure and more of a polarizing force for the kin of the children who like to play with their ham and eat their clam chowder. So lets pass on Mr. J-man huh?