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Generation X Simply Doesn't Get It

Posted: 09/07/11 11:55 AM ET

August -- No improvement, nothing to be proud of, and nothing to get excited about.

Generation X simply doesn't get it. We are a people who have grown up being told we live in the best, most advantaged part of the world. For a long time, I think we believed it. In theory, they might be right, but in reality, we're not so sure. Maybe the days when they grew up, things were vastly different, but we can't relate.

We, Generation Y, are a people who have lived through the need for "ADHD medicines," "anti-depressants," dysfunctional and broken families, a dot-com bust, financial collapse, failed government institutions, world hunger, terrorism, and international conflicts. Simply put, there has been little to celebrate in life since we've been around.

Some people think we are self-absorbed, concerned only with our interest, but can you blame us? The only glimmers of hope have been what personal achievements we have accomplished, of which we hang onto to for dear life. After all, in a country that is supposed to be so "great," something doesn't add up, and we want to know why? It's not that we are conceited or don't want to be a part of something better, but why get in the middle of a national mess that looks like a downward spiral?

Currently, the United States has a hard time scheduling a meeting for a joint session of Congress, and if that's the barometer for moving forward -- We're over it. Far too long, we have been a people concerned with asking the question why, and for some reason, no one seems to take our question seriously.

Generation X, our parents, they were all about the corporate ladder. It was their goal to give us a life better than they had. We were involved in one sport after another, season after season, always something to do and somewhere to be. As a result, we are used to great attention, kept busy with alternatives, and live with an entitled mindset. Growing up this way has caused us to exist with a capacity to function at a high level. We are perceptive, and quite frankly are on the verge of checking out. We are not pleased, and not easily appeased.

What this country stands for is unknown and therefore undesirable. All that we hear is, "looks like a long road ahead," "good luck when you get out of school," and "social security, well, don't expect to ever collect that." And as a college graduate, I'm supposed to fit into this mold?

Here's the good news -- all of us haven't checked out yet. In fact, some of us are tired of this needless banter and want to ask our favorite question yet again. It's our generational namesake -- Y. Fundamentally, we wonder if America has lost her real objectives. Seems to us, the issues now are not about quality of life, and how to achieve it in a just and fair way, but about polar extremities and ideological differences. If it was clear what our motivations were, ridding ourselves of the small ideas we have about life, thinking bigger than ourselves, we could understand the root of our motivation and speak to real change. Because, after all "Yes we can!" -- right?

This question: why -- has already revealed much about the issues we face today. The root of the motives that landed us here are simple: Greed. And what doesn't make sense is that everyone has quit asking the very question that gave us answers. I guess motivations aren't a pretty thing to talk about.

Our issue is with the solutions and honestly; no one trusts anyone's motivations.

Is it not possible that if Generation X were to engage Generation Y in asking more of the tough questions, those obstacles could be conquered from a new perspective, one that embraces the issues rather than seeks self-preservation in government employment or corporate corner offices?

We think with no attachments, our goals are independence, both personally and nationally. Our desire is to live right and well, with a real balance between work & play. Work is not our life, but if things aren't taken care of, we will be forced into rigorous work to simply live.

If we don't keep asking why, our youngest and arguably brightest will be a generation that fails to believe in the American Dream: that life can be better with our opportunities, in the land of free and home of the brave. The truth is, unless we overcome America's issues today, opportunity will be limited and Generation Y will be slaves to all that Generation X created.

Let me thank you on behalf of my generation, Y, for all that you have done, and now I ask that you step aside, open your books, and let us, with all the right questions, begin to solve the problems you can't seem to figure out. It all starts with Why/Y.

If you won't ask, we will.

 
 
 
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11:37 AM on 09/11/2011
I just want to add my vote that Joshua Grant isn't correctly attributing qualities and actions to the correct generations.

For me to buy into his ideas I would need more supporting evidence that many of his criticisms of Generation X shouldn't be aimed at the Baby Boomer generation, who has most of the economic and political power in the United States at this time.
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Liberals unfortunately want to work with everyone,
12:05 PM on 09/21/2011
agreed
02:54 PM on 09/09/2011
So what does it mean to fail or succeed? Should we buy houses? Should we invest in the stock market? Take on debt? Should we take burdensome risks? I find it interesting that people forget that gen y stands at the front lines of the wars. Gen Xers and the Baby Boomers are the officers. I think Gen Y is overwhelmed with the idea of jumping in when evidence supports the notion that we need to hold back. And why not? If Gen Y is so concerned with it's own actions that we're stalled, then maybe we're stalled at the right time. It's hard to be stalled, and feel as though we're superfluous. No jobs for us. I can see how my generation might have a certain different generic perspective than other generations, but I don't think any generation had it right. The Greatest Generation isn't. They are just a generation, like mine. Not that my grandfathers aren't heroes. We simply live in the world we live in.
08:57 AM on 09/09/2011
George Carlin - The American Dream...
03:32 AM on 09/09/2011
Been thwarted twice already by the wonderful censors at the HP...but as they say, third time's a charm, so here goes.

You see Josh, life doesn't always hand you a trophy just for the trying...REAL life that is, anyway. Sometimes there is this thing called "failure". I know, I know, nobody ever told you about that. That's because right around the time we Gen Xers were off to college or our minimum wage jobs, the Boomers decided to rig the games for you guys...you know, outlawing such Fascist activities as dodgeball or riding a bike without being covered in armor. I'm sorry for that, really I am, because all it amounted to was that your generation never learned that struggle, and scraped knees and elbows, and sometimes getting your face smashed in by and a red rubber ball you never saw coming, are all a part of growing up. Among the jobs I held AFTER graduating with a 3.9+ GPA and my B.A....limo driver, midnight-to 8 AM-shift security guard, waiter, bartender...it's called paying your dues. See, the resume-builder job where 200 people are showing up for one position is the END point, very often. The beginning isn't nearly as pretty. But it'll build character, if that's any consolation.

(Now, if the HP folks will just let that lesson be heard. But I'm guessing they're the ones who did away with dodgeball...so off to oblivion with these words...)
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07:48 PM on 09/08/2011
Generation X are the parents of Generation Y??!
03:34 PM on 09/08/2011
Josh's view on what generation to blame for our economic decline is obviously informed by his own life experience, which is by definition limited. Whether his parents are Boomers, or whether he chose the correct target is irrelevant. What is blatantly clear is that despite being the most politically and culturally revolutionary generation of the 20th century, the Boomers have by and large settled into American capitalism following the upheaval caused by Vietnam and Acid. Our current problems are undoubtedly caused by the lack of direction and forward thinking inherent in dependence on the free market. The boomers presided over a drastic suspension of regulations in the 80's and 90's because short term profits were guaranteed. Becoming the establishment caused their children to be, as one comment already pointed out, largely politically apathetic.

But Generation X is only responsible for this in so far as they fail to change the course that was laid out for them at birth. To suggest that Generation X is made up of innactive slackers, or that we are TV zombies, overly medicated and sensitive, implies that there is some sort of unspoken conspiracy among the members of each generation to behave this way. We are products of the generation that comes before us. Where Josh is undeniably correct is in his hinting that the current system is no longer able to provide for the needs of the majority of the population. But vague platitudes are not enough, we need a clear and focused movement.
05:09 AM on 09/08/2011
so many people miss the point. its not to say the entire gen x was bad but they had the powerful bad seeds. the 80's boom n gloom markets, the current politicians and CEO's. yess gen x did alot for my gen, and we appreciate it but we seem a little lost as how to go forward in this world gen x still controls. we graduate with mountains of debt, scramble to take a paying job to not default on the debt and try to build our own wealth. but now all the jobs are paying less and looking for over qualified people to work for lower wages. the repub ideas of removing minimum wage is crazy. before you call me just another whining gen Y person. i graduated from a accredited business school, i worked on wall street long hours for low pay to pay down my debt and 6 months in the company down sized, i've been looking for work for 3 months and have only gotten low ball answers. the things i see and hear on tv are crazy, companies that are sitting on 2 Trillion in cash NEED MORE money to start hiring people. we need to lower taxes on billionaires so they can "reinvest" more. some how taxes that have only gone down over the past 30 years are the problem? as if george bush raised taxes in '07 that caused the financial crisis in '08.
01:36 PM on 09/08/2011
Gen X does not "still control" this world. We never did. The Baby Boomers are still firmly in control and hanging on by their teeth and claws. Gen X has not yet had the chance to take the reins; we're still waiting for the masses of the Boomers to retire.
12:38 AM on 09/10/2011
ok then we are questioning the wrong generation, then your position is similiar to ours...
03:36 AM on 09/09/2011
Perhaps if you learned better grammar, understood when to capitalize letters and when not to, understood that not all of life's communication is one giant text message...perhaps then you'd fare better in the job market. Or maybe you just need to grow up some more.
12:40 AM on 09/10/2011
yes b/c my post on HP is should be held to the same standard as my professional work. when HP starts to pay me, you will see the corrections you desire.
01:01 AM on 09/08/2011
Your words contradict themselves, Grant. You claim the problem with the previous generation is greed, then you declare what you value most is leisure time. You expose an absolute lack of personal desire to put forth effort in order to achieve anything. Is that not self-absorption to the nTH degree, hence greed? To quote you: "Work is not our life, but if things aren't taken care of, we will be forced into rigorous work to simply live." KEERISTE! You mean you foresee such trouble brewing that you might actually be exposed to RIGOROUS WORK?! Every generation has the adolescent, naive desire to succeed without effort. There comes a time, however, when reality sets in: You have to work HARD to achieve anything of substance. Your attitude shows everyone that it would be a very good thing for you to become acquainted with the business end of a shovel and then see what it feels like after using it for 12 hours in hard clay under a Southern summer sun. Perhaps that would rid you of your spoiled attitude that 'everyone else' has screwed up your generation's lives and that 'they' don't care about you. We do. However, part of growing up means learning the difference between 'earned' and 'given'. People of all generations do and should care for all other generations. True adults don't go blaming others for their problems, though. They find an answer only by recognizing, by knowing, that we ALL ask 'why'.
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12:58 AM on 09/08/2011
"Generation X, our parents, they were all about the corporate ladder. "

Sweeping Generalization much?

Many of climbed no Corporate ladder. Instead we took on a crap load of student debt to pursue liberal arts degrees. Many of us become political or social activists trying to improve the world and get out of the heavy shadow of our parents who ended the Vietnam War advanced Women's Rights, Civil Rights, Gay Rights and tried to curb abuses by Nixon, the CIA and the FBI. No way we could out shine them, not with the Reagan years pressing down upon us.

What many in Generation Y don't get is how hard previous generations had it. Gen X wasn't told that the world was their oyster, that they shouldn't settle for anything less than the best. Nope we were ripped upon by the mainstream media as slackers.
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White Raven
Eyeballs are tasty
02:48 AM on 09/08/2011
Absolutely correct. As a Gen Xer myself I remember we were sometimes called the "Busters", to come after the "Boomers", in that for us the world was busted.

Part of the problem with this article is that Gen X are not really the parents of Gen Y. Gen Y are the little siblings of Gen X, children of the late-Boomers. Many of Gen X's children are still little kids or in school. Give it another five to ten years and the true children of Gen X will be out there doing whatever it is they're destined to be doing.


The other problem with this article is that there's no such thing as Generation Y, or Generation X, or any of that. They're all a fiction.
12:49 AM on 09/08/2011
Funny, I just had this discussion with my 25 year old son yesterday.

Long story short.....the golden age of the American middle and working class workers was from the 1940's to the 1980's....though things limped along until maybe the 1990's.

It has been downhill ever since.
Outsourcing, union (workers' rights) busting, fewer benefits, stagnant and dropping wages, less job security if you worked hard, attacks on social security which was sold to the American public as a retirement INSURANCE program and NOT an entitlement...........

Yes, it WAS better for the ordinary American worker back then.
Today, we have more technological goodies but less security.

What can I say?
The rich and politicians did dirty and caused the Great Depression....and finally had to fix it.
I have NO idea if and when the rich and politicians will fix THIS economic mess we are living with.
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12:44 AM on 09/08/2011
Generation Y has been given everything, computers, smartphones, videogames, hdtv, little personal accountability and parents that cover the world around them in pillows as not to be hurt, offended, and yes challenged. They demand higher letter grades in school because they feel they "Deserve" them whether they do the work or not. They gobble the worst that pop culture and consumerism feeds them like the gravy train is about to run out. I hope and pray that Gen Y does not make the boomers seem like they are altruistic. Stop blaming your parents, and make your mark, but also do not take the nice i-phone from mom and dad or the new car. How about work for your grades and awards? Gen Y is turning into the largest untitled whiner gen since the boomers. We should call them Boomers Redux.
11:35 PM on 09/07/2011
You are trashing people that you clearly know jack about, on subjects you know less of. If you had bothered to get your nose out of the air and do a hour's worth of real research instead of (badly) regurgitating the sort of standard generational boilerplate that the punditry submits every now and then to pad their deadlines, you would have found that the older members of Gen X (born 1965-70 and_some_of whom might possibly be parents of college age kids today...IF they started families right out of college themselves) were aware of their slot in history and were biding their time. We were_not_all about the corporate ladder: We were about trying to get by in the world that had been left to us. We were_not_apathetic: We were perceptive enough to realize that our best bet was to be reactive rather than proactive, and we realized that times were different during our youth than they had been for the Boomers, in that we knew that protest demonstrations would elicit a collective yawn. And if anything, our parenting techniques are criticized by the control-freak Baby Boomers and Generation Jonesers (born 1960-64, and once thought to be part of the Boomers) for_not_wanting to schedule and micromanage our kids' every activity and waking moment. To be lumped in with them for that is just plain un-freaking-just.
12:54 AM on 09/08/2011
I do not see it as an attack on EVERYONE in the boomer or other generations.

****I am a lower class boomer. {shrugs}

I see it as an attack on a system gone mad.....greedy, selfish, crazy, dysfunctional, and extremely harmful people are in charge from oligarchs to politicians.

And the worst damage was not done by Generation Y, though like everything else there are people in that generation that DID and are DOING dirty.
{shrugs}
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People BEFORE Profits
01:00 AM on 09/08/2011
Very well said and fanned.

Although the date range varies as to who is in X. The consensus I hear is that Y started somewhere in the 80s.
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11:26 PM on 09/07/2011
Generation X was once caricatured as being negative. This doesn't sound like the same Generation X.
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11:25 PM on 09/07/2011
Generally of the opinion that people who use terms like "Generation X," Generation Y," "NASCAR Dads," or "Soccer Moms," deserve a good solid punch in the face.
10:31 PM on 09/07/2011
Ok you ask questions, what are you so spoiled that we should give you a gold star for effort?

Try actually doing something to improve the world and not whining about how we (Gneration X, a lable we never wanted).