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'Tis the Season to Be Fearful: Confessions of an Ex-Ad-Woman (Part 1)

Posted: 01/05/11 01:58 PM ET

It was a long time ago. I was young. I was writing for Madison Avenue, hobnobbing with celebrities, going to parties. It was as far from a meaningful life as I've ever been, but it was the 1980's, Reagan was president, we were selling and everyone was buying. Life was "good."

Then one day I got an ad order for one of the firm's big clients. They were pushing a new diet pill that would expand in the stomach and fool the person into feeling full so they wouldn't eat. I read the marketing stats carefully. Their targeted audience was young, female and anorexic.

I don't know what made me suddenly so sensitive or intolerant of such an obviously necessary strategy -- who else would you sell a diet product to? -- but I got angry. And in a pique of rebellion I hurled my typewriter against what I felt to be a nasty injustice and sealed my fate when I submitted an ad with a picture of the little expanding pill and a headline that read: Fat Chance.

Needless to say, they never ran the ad.

Not too much later I was enrolled in graduate school for social work.

Being a therapist is not too different in some ways from being a copywriter, when you think about it. It's all about understanding people, their motivations, habits and triggers. What I do with it now, however, is very, very different than what I used to do. And what I'd like to do is share what I know about advertising so you can become selectively immune to it. Consider this a mental, psychological and emotional vaccination. And an act of contrition for me.

What Marketers Know About You and How They Use It

Everyone knows that sex sells. It has been a truism for hundreds, more likely thousands of years. The Romans knew it, the Greeks knew it, snake-oil salesmen on the American frontier knew it and we thought we knew it. Instead of talking about the mechanical superiority of their latest cars, manufacturers hired the sexiest, perkiest breasted young women they could find to writhe, lean and lick their lips next to their new products. Hard-bodied young men have gazed with sleepy-eyed sensuality at the camera to sell everything from Mediterranean travel to vacuums. It's been the American way since America's had a way. Sex was the King of Madison Avenue, the number one guarantee at the cash box, the Great Motivator.

Until now.

Because the number one seller is no longer sex. It's fear. What marketers know is that Americans are afraid. And they'll do anything to make that feeling go away.

So what does Madison Avenue do?

What any self-respecting ad man does: utilize the fear to motivate a purchase.

The evidence is all around us: We're bombarded with rapid fire holiday ads designed to make us worry and buy. And what do these purveyors want us to worry about? Everything -- what we eat, when we eat, what we wear, when we wear it, who we touch and what we can catch. And the sooner we worry the better. The "self-improvement" ads that ordinarily start January 1st now start airing on December 26th. Why wait when you can panic about a few extra pounds now? And what better season than this one? What better spirit to celebrate Christmas and New Year's than the spirit of Panic Present?

The message is the same everywhere. Be afraid. Be very afraid. We hear it from the newscasters we watch in the morning as we get ready for work, we see it in the ads tucked between talk shows, we read it in the magazines left for us in the waiting room at our doctors' offices. By the end of the day we've been slipped about a hundred different fear mickeys.

The holiday season has a special sort of viral fear that gets added to the mix of the usual doomsday, global warming, code red, "It Could Happen Tomorrow" programming. At this special time of redemption and renewal we get to fear the flu, unsightly blemishes and weight gain, loneliness, collagen loss, not being invited to the big parties, alcoholism and early onset Alzheimer's, not to mention fallen meringues, sagging breasts and cervical cancer if we don't get the vaccine now. Anxious about how anxious you are? Great. They're selling a pill for that, too.

Viral fear pops up on your home page, too. And while you're looking at the ads for Apocalypto or scanning the news blurbs about the new nuclear proliferation don't let your eyes glaze over. Look at them. Really look. See what they're really selling and what in you they're really talking to.

In her study on fear in advertising, Lynn Kennedy profiled a billboard of Sammy Davis Jr. that looked like a tombstone. Next to a withered, sunken likeness of him was his date of birth and date of death. The headline read: The tobacco industry made him history. Nothing strikes fear in the hearts of Americans as much as cancer. Many can't even say the word itself and instead call it "the big C."

Pharmaceutical companies, "natural" food suppliers, vitamin manufacturers and home improvement specialists (air purification systems, for instance) work that fear with ruthless efficiency to scare us into buying whatever it is they're selling. The entire insurance industry is based on promoting and profiting from fear.

Prudential has based its whole campaign on the notion, "don't wait till it's too late." They implant the gloomiest, most heart-wrenching imagery possible of the consequences for not having life insurance. Act Now, they implore us so sincerely. Before it's too late.

And it works. People buy things they don't really need and walk around worried about all the things they can't do anything about. They fret about the things that might happen if they don't apply this cream or take that pill or sign that form. They pace anxiously considering the things they're not doing that they have been told they ought to be doing and ponder all the diseases, catastrophes and losses they might suffer because they've been negligent.

What Happened to Americans?

How does this happen in a country as comfortable and as technologically advanced as this one? It seems that when it comes to viral fear America's immune system has been systematically suppressed over the last sixty years, primarily since The Cold War. Why are we responding so predictably to the fear mongering?

According to a 1995 study by Horowitz and Bordens, it was found that people use what is called "central route processing" when they encounter a message that is personally meaningful. So, say a 45-year old woman is brushing her teeth in the morning, looks up in the mirror, sees some crow's feet and then sees a television ad that holds a prune up to the camera as the announcer tells her: "Are you afraid you're going to wake up one day and see this in the mirror? Well you don't have to if you buy our product!!!"

Odds are that our 45-year old woman will find that message relevant. Odds are that she will already have had certain feelings and beliefs about aging, feelings, by the way, that are very obviously a byproduct of acculturation and value distortion. Our society as a whole rejects aging and on the value ladder places sexual appeal way over wisdom, grace or purposefulness. Horowitz and Bordens say that within that context she will then create a context of the image from her ideas and beliefs and be more predisposed to believe that their product will save her from the natural effects of aging.

And, here's the awful irony -- according to two other experts (Pratkanis and Aronson) the more frightful the advertising, the more effective in stimulating anxiety but not in stimulating a positive action. If the message produces fear but doesn't offer a specific recommendation to reduce or deal with the perceived threat, people don't respond. They just walk around unconsciously anxious. Happily for the marketing departments of the world, in western culture anxiety of that nature normally translates into sales of some kind. When people are uncomfortable in this country, they look for something to buy. And anything will do so long as it's new and distracting and they don't have to actually process their discomfort.

So, what are Americans really afraid of? They're afraid of terrorists, of course. They're afraid of attacks just like we were in 1954. These are all the obvious ones. But we're also afraid of germs, of erectile dysfunction, of not being successful, of robbers, of child abduction, of Alzheimer's, of not having enough, of not being enough, of too much intimacy, of too little, of AIDS, of failure, of sunspots and solar radiation, of global warming, of dishwasher spots on our glasses and e-coli on our spinach. And we're always worried about sex.

The greatest danger as I see it is that even when we use sex and scandal to sell, we're still using fear to close the deals. The American limbic system has been mutated so that now fear, violence and sex have been fused.

What to Do

Advertisers are smart. They do this because they know that Americans are really afraid more than anything else of not being attractive, accepted or loved. We are afraid of ourselves, of being alone, of stillness, of our own mortality. We are a nation of addicts (food, work, image, drugs, drink, sugar) and culturally we love to believe in miracle cures. We don't feel good about ourselves, we take a pill and voila! We are new creatures -- vibrant, trim, clear-skinned. We don't have friends coming to our house, so we buy a new couch or a new plasma TV and we imagine the house is suddenly filled with loving neighbors toasting Amaretto to our continued success. We believe in Gadget Gods. Gadgets bring love, long life, good health, new friends, better jobs, clean lungs, big muscles and long-lasting on-demand erections. And don't forget: The newest gadget cures best. So hurry! If you don't act now, there might not be any left!

Viral fear has capitalized on our culture's weakest point -- our urgent need for the quick fix. Viral fear encourages irrational thinking, greed and conformity, while it undermines self-worth, independence, connectedness with others and, worst of all, faith in God and a higher meaning in life. The tragedy from my point of view is that America's greatest gift to the world has been its courage, its work ethic, its doggedness in the face of adversity, its intrepid willingness to stand up to bad guys and bullies, and its inspirational inventiveness. And for a country that was born of faith and the fearlessness of millions of people crawling, paddling and begging their ways here so they could be free to now be a country paralyzed by magical thinking and benumbed with viral fear is heartbreaking.

So what are we to do?

This is what Edward A. Merlis said way back in 1975 when he worked with the U.S. Senate Commerce Committee and devoted much of his time to advertising legislation:

He [the American] is bombarded at every flip of the magazine page, at every turn of the TV dial. Can he be proud that we now export our form of mental gang rape to the people of other countries? Advertising is a science, designed to attack people's weak spots in order to sell a product. Wolfbane may have been the antidote for vampires and wolf men, but it appears that only knowledge and awareness are the antidotes for our 20th-century monster, advertising.

He was right, of course. Knowledge is power and awareness can be life-changing not only in terms of what you're willing to buy, but what you're willing to swallow.

Knowledge may not be absolute power but it sure as hell packs a punch.

Stay tuned for more on this topic.

 
 
 

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It was a long time ago. I was young. I was writing for Madison Avenue, hobnobbing with celebrities, going to parties. It was as far from a meaningful life as I've ever been, but it was the 1980's, Re...
It was a long time ago. I was young. I was writing for Madison Avenue, hobnobbing with celebrities, going to parties. It was as far from a meaningful life as I've ever been, but it was the 1980's, Re...
 
 
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05:13 PM on 01/07/2011
JudithA, Krishnamurti also says it is fear that suffocates humans. At the unconscious level, humans 'know' that they are responsible for the result of every choice leading to action. Yet they seek gurus, religions, and advertisements as outside excuses to avoid responsibility. His solution is not to escape into the convent, but to engage the world in ever-expanding experience, which grows a reservoir of 'once burnt, twice shy' which grows personal responsibility (not the scapegoating of the narcissist). The early Gnostics said the ‘fire’ of an inner explosion drives us outward to search (in the stores) for something to ‘fill’ the void resulting from the Big Bang inside us. It is the fear of turning to look within to the need to absorb the unessentials (purchased gee-gaws) of our past that drives us, psychologically, outward even more. Ego is composed entirely of past memories projected into an unattainable future (how happy I will be with my new purchase, or when my friends see me wearing it). The goal seems to be to ‘burn’ my purchases and my past, leaving me free as a consciousness to enjoy the ‘now’ without saying, ‘I am enjoying this’.
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Judith Acosta, LISW, CHT
Author, The Next Osama
07:06 PM on 01/07/2011
CS Lewis puts it in a terser way: (to paraphrase) To get into heaven, drop it all.
04:58 PM on 01/07/2011
judithA, good article. You show how little choice people have, yet in your comments to your own narcissism article, you said that narcissists had a choice to behave nicely, Just saying :) I choose every day not to eat ice cream, but I do. Sartre says if a woman doesn't want sex with a particular man, her point of choice is when he asks her out, not on the doorstep after the date. The good-evil dichotomy, choice, is a false one. Evil is having no inner resistance to one's own whims and thus narcissistically, almost inadvertently, harming others. Nature's goal is to build individuals, eccentrics, who are capable of resisting advertising, but individualism is isolation from community (and its advertising)--a similar paradox. Perhaps choice is a daily discovery of what is true conduct, ‘truth’, for me. Then, once I am individualized, I can stop 'becoming' myself and just 'be', and then I can break down the barriers between myself and others (see my permalink, yesterday, to ToniQ re schizophrenics = no barriers). In the advertising sense, my truth is the choice of the essential, which automatically brings resistance to (buying) the unessential. Do I eat the ice cream out of fear, having chosen not to, or is there a third factor--this experience of buyer's remorse?
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Author, The Next Osama
05:56 PM on 01/07/2011
Oh, GCarl, you have exposed the eternal conundrum...is there any free choice at all?
I think it boils down to a hopefully more manageable equation: The more aware we are, the more choice we have. If we are in a "must-have-it" trance or a "viral fear" trance then, quite right, we have somewhat less of a free choice in the ordinary sense of the word. And Sartre's point of where the choice begins is worth repeating: it starts in whether we watch the little box and listen to the siren-jingles or not. It starts in our earliest training: what is important? what is of value? If people are taught to believe the lies that are perpetuated by media and corporate marketing (particularly those that are aimed at our senses of self), then we are more vulnerable. If people are taught (and it is reinforced) that we are not our looks, our jobs, or our creature comforts, rather that our worth is born of love, honor, service, and compassion, then advertisers can yell from the rafters and make themselves hoarse. They will be ignored.

Again, Gcarl, your comment is incisive. I wish I had enough room to answer the way your questions deserve.

Thank you!
02:46 PM on 01/11/2011
Judith, you have room to answer in Part II or III :) You have seen the HufPo article on need of young adults for self-esteem. One commenter says this was part of 'plan' in education to 'dumb down' critical thinking--it is good psychology because an unrelated thing (esteem) is made the new focus, a person ceases to focus on the good of society and becomes narcissistic (pride seeking) and then critical of themselves, not of the government. Seems to be good 'advertising' usage (not!). See my comment to Turfkiller a few minutes ago re Loughner--a case of hate and narcissism descending into something that initially was not schizophrenia. Some would like to say he was the victim of 'advertising' by self-serving politicians. You might want to write another narcissism article on this.
Yes, perhaps there is a way to 'teach' people out of the mess we are in, but very few folks have free-will. To get free-will, Bennett/Gurdjieff says that first a person must grow a soul by making constant yes-no decisions and sticking to them, but advertising makes our decisions for us.
05:06 AM on 01/27/2011
You may try Nin Jiom Pei Pa Koa (ninjiom-hk.cwahi.net). i know alot of people use it, its also non alcoholic, though it's effectiveness is not as good as alcohol based cough medicine, but it's still good to use on not so serious scratchy throat.

apprently ( according to the instruction) children from 2 to 12 can use it.
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Marcus01
It all just seems like it's real
04:54 PM on 01/07/2011
At the opposite end of the marketing spectrum there's T-Mobile in the UK. How brilliant to market your products through putting people in a state of joy. An example:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NB3NPNM4xgo

And another:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orukqxeWmM0&feature=channel

Wow.
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05:58 PM on 01/07/2011
Marcus, wow is an understatement.
If only this were the way it worked all the time!
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janvoght
lover of Life...
07:53 PM on 01/07/2011
Awesome mood lifter! Just watching people enjoy being connected in music and song is enough to touch the heart and spirit and bring a smile :)
nothingchanges
too soon old, too late smart
11:09 AM on 01/07/2011
A sad commentary on the human species. That some will so readily manipulate others to do things essentially not in their best interest to profit themselves. (Glad you got out of it)

Sadder still is (my personal belief), that those that rose to the very pinnacle in that pathetic endeavor are more than likely now employed by politicians for the same nefarious purpose.

I suspect the founders of this country would turn over in their graves were they to see what their dream has become.
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Judith Acosta, LISW, CHT
Author, The Next Osama
06:00 PM on 01/07/2011
Nothingchanges....you're right. The really "good" ones move political mountains. Karl Rove is the perfect example of the Spin Meister, a genius of making things seem ways they are not, of convincing us of the need for something that is wholly unnecessary.
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sprider
Born lucky
10:58 AM on 01/07/2011
With fear you can accomplish many things. With love you can accomplish all things.(I think that's a Gandhi quote)
Judith,
Thank you for making efforts and using your time and energy to bring enlightenment and awareness to others. I'm grateful your precious energies weren't spent on feeding the fear machine. I'm sure this article will inspire many others to shift into a different mode of being and thinking. A path to a more peaceful mind is a priceless gift.
Love and light
-Sprider
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02:00 PM on 01/07/2011
Pass it on Sprider. This has become a mission for me. (see www.thenextosama.com)
Fear is a fire. Love is lift.
Quite right!
12:07 AM on 01/07/2011
Judith. So glad to have stumbled on your letter here. I too moved away from the Ad game, albeit the Canadian equivalent on Bloor Street. For many years I failed to follow my own voice while offering one that I rarely questioned, as my body told me otherwise. Congratulations for shining a light on an area many would see fit to turn off permanently. Looking forward to more and more!

Institutional thinking is a misnomer. Keep up the good work, as I intend to do from another perspective:
http://www.backyardmystic.com/2010/12/this-year-i-am-where-i-need-to-be/
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09:03 AM on 01/07/2011
"...asking us to stand our ground, stand within and expect nothing more than what we are given.”

Wonderful website. Wonderful writing. Thank you for sharing it with me. Please keep me posted on new material!
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RedRat
Ignorance is fixable, stupidty is forever
04:14 PM on 01/06/2011
Absolutely on target. However, I would go further and say that the use of the sexy women to sell cars or other products was a far more subtler form of fear. What those ads were really saying to men is that without that car you will never have sex. That is fear for young men. Advertising has always used fear to sell a product. If you do not have our product you will be a pariah on society is basically the message. Fear is the best way to sell a product.
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09:04 AM on 01/07/2011
Right on, RedRat. That's the truth!
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Arithrianos
reality has already (w)on(e), surrender!
12:19 PM on 01/06/2011
i would worry about my appearance, but radient emptiness has grown on me, so i don't mind anymore. i would worry about my age, but then again infinite is a very good age after all. i would worry about my health, but unconditioned space/bliss has never caught a dis-ease yet, so not much to worry about there. i would worry about what others think of me, but then again the only one who can see me see radient clarity, and that is ok by me. i would worry about mortality, but deathlessness really covers that angle quite well. i would worry about fear, but then again without falsehood and panic there is no contrast to see the equinimity of being-ing-ing. finally i would worry about the future, good thing it doesn't exist. i hope i am an advertisers worse nightmare (not really of course, may they all realize blessedness).
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Judith Acosta, LISW, CHT
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01:42 PM on 01/06/2011
Beautiful!!!
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Marcus01
It all just seems like it's real
02:57 PM on 01/06/2011
What a wonderful perspective. Once you realize that everything, including "you", is in a state of Divine Perfection, what externalities can you possibly need?
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Judith Acosta, LISW, CHT
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09:06 AM on 01/07/2011
None.
I keep referring back to CS Lewis on that...everything we hold to be important here will have to be dropped in order to go to heaven. (Yes, I believe that.) We can't get in with bank accounts, self-importance, lists, or our plastic surgeons.
Amen!
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Lawson Meadows
Plant in your kids, the seeds of greatness!
04:48 AM on 01/06/2011
Hi Judith,

Part 1 was great! Your story is another victory of ethics over economics, conscious over consumption, and character over greed. When the bottom line is the only consideration, there is little to consider. Competition without a conscious was the reason the phrase "Caveat Emptor" became and remains the primary consumer warning... with a close second being "Don't buy an extended warranty!" :-)

In my mind, the ad agency’s primary job is to blur the distinction between "wants" and "needs"... then shift the consumer to the "need" side. Like you said, it is not that you "want" the product so much, but that you "need" it because you are afraid of the disastrous result of not buying it.

Of course you know my focus: the ad agencies are certainly culpable and should be ashamed, but much of the problem can be addressed if parents become educated about what, how, and why ads are doing and the dangerous potentials regarding children's thought patterns. A great predisposition toward acceptance or rejection of the influence of external messages is planted in childhood and as you said, ad agencies are smart and aware of that fact. Parents must be too, if we wish to facilitate timely significant change in our subservience to the messages.

I look forward to part 2.

Warm regards and great appreciation,
Lawson
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Judith Acosta, LISW, CHT
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10:33 AM on 01/06/2011
As always, you are very kind.
You really got the point: the shifting from wants to needs. Advertisers are very, very good at it. Parents have to be better to shift it back and keep our own and kids' heads clear. The trick is finding other ways to meet the real needs (love, constancy, integrity, belonging, purpose...after the basics such as air, food, etc..).
One of the best ways to do that is by cultivating gratitude. We forget so easily how very blessed we are here and how easily it can all disappear.
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Lawson Meadows
Plant in your kids, the seeds of greatness!
01:32 PM on 01/06/2011
Judith,

And to add another, if I might... Helping kids discover, cultivate the skills, habits and attitudes toward it, and then pursue their passion in life will fill many of the voids so easily filled by the ad messages. For kids, parents not only have the key, they are the key!

Lawson
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Lawson Meadows
Plant in your kids, the seeds of greatness!
11:37 PM on 01/05/2011
Hi Judith,

Hope your New Year started out great!

I will wait for your 2nd part of this subject to expand my comment, but for now...

To me advertising is, as you state, an art; one which strives to blur the line between wants and needs, and skew public response toward the needs side. One thing you said alarmed me: the fusing of sex, violence, and fear by the limbic system is very dangerous. Discriminate reactions at that level of neural function, when lost, may not be regained, and decision making regarding the pleasures of sex may begin to include violence as well... just a thought.

Anyway, you make a fine case for increased public awareness, and the need for parents to share the same with their children in an attempt to retard the type of reactions you describe. To me, the level of disrespect aimed at the public by the ad companies is shameful, harmful, and lacking ethics.

Looking forward to the next post!

Warm regards,
Lawson
08:09 PM on 01/05/2011
As a self-unemployed advertising creative myself, I can identify with everything in this article. Very well written.
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09:22 PM on 01/05/2011
Greetings to a co-creator. It's the way it was, isn't it?
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french queen13
my beloved is mine and I am his
07:37 PM on 01/05/2011
Oh the joys of not watching commercial television, or reading magazines! I don't know if the fear-based stuff has taken off here in Australia - I suspect not. But I'd almost welcome it as a change from the ubiquitous soft-porn that passes for advertising here.
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02:59 PM on 01/05/2011
Excellent article, Judith! Since I don't watch network tv anymore, whenever I've tuned in for something special, I've been appalled at all of the pharmaceutical advertising. Unbelievable. And I know women who are absolute slaves to their appearance especially now that they are over 50. Just hard to believe people become so conditioned to the toxic messages pouring out of their tvs and from the pages of fashion and "women's" magazines! Either you're sick or you're fat, wrinkled and old!
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Judith Acosta, LISW, CHT
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04:24 PM on 01/05/2011
We just picked up a video (bought it, actually) and had to sit through 20 minutes of junk to get to the movie.
We are surrounded and people are soaking it up like it was candy.
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kd1s
I.T. Geek!
02:52 PM on 01/05/2011
Very interesting. I follow the science and medical fields pretty closely and I can tell you that technologies and procedures being developed today are going to be game changers tomorrow.

And I blot out most ads in my online life. I look at it this way, I PAY for the net connection and the advertiser has no right to shove content down the line using a connection *I* what was paid for by me.

So I block at the node level, the network edge, everywhere I can ferret out the ad server address, and I block! Feels good to be able to shut off the crap.
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Judith Acosta, LISW, CHT
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04:22 PM on 01/05/2011
Amen!