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Kari Ansari

Kari Ansari

Posted: December 20, 2010 07:06 AM

When I became a Muslim thirteen years ago this month, I left behind the Christmas traditions my family celebrated every year of my childhood. My mother was able to transform our Southern California home into a Winter Wonderland as soon as we walked in the door; it may have been 75 degrees and sunny outside, but inside we felt we were in a Currier and Ives world of red velvet beribboned pine boughs, twinkling lights and beautiful music. I loved it. The Christmas season and our small traditions remained the same no matter how many years passed. My mother worked extremely hard to build warm, and loving holiday memories, and I sincerely cherish them.

Like many American homes, there wasn't much Christ in my family's Christmas. There would always be some discussion surrounding the reason for our celebration, but we didn't attend church services or talk too much about what my parents believed. The beautiful nativity on the mantle, hand-painted by my grandmother, was flanked by tasteful, secular decorations. This led to a kind of vague confusion between the miraculous birth of Jesus, and the magical feat of Santa Claus zipping around the world in one night.

Nostalgia not withstanding, thinking about Christmas is now far more meaningful to me on a spiritual level than it was when I was young. The fact that Muslims accept and believe in the virgin birth of Jesus has been a golden thread that links my childhood Christmas memories to my very fulfilling adult life as a Muslim.

The world's more than 1.5 billion Muslims would like their Christian neighbors to know that we believe in the Annunciation; in the Quran we read that God sent the angels to Mary:

"When the angels said: O Mary, surely God gives you good news with a Word from Him of one whose name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, worthy of regard in this world and the hereafter and of those who are made near to God. And he shall speak to the people when in the cradle and when of old age, and he shall be one of the good ones." Quran 3:45-46

The Quran has only one chapter named after a woman; Chapter 19 is titled "Mary", or as it is translated in Arabic -- Maryam. The Quran tells us that the infant Jesus, (or Isa as it is translated in Arabic), spoke from Mary's arms:

"...He said: Surely I am a servant of God; He has given me the Book and made me a prophet; And He has made me blessed wherever I may be, and He has enjoined on me prayer and charity so long as I live; And dutiful to my mother, and He has not made me insolent, unblessed; And peace on me on the day I was born, and on the day I die, and on the day I am raised to life.'" Quran 19:30-33*

While Muslims don't celebrate Christmas, we believe in the awesome and miraculous birth of Jesus, in the miracles he performed by God's Grace, and in the message of love and peace Jesus brought to the world.

I hope my family knows that I am more attached to the account of Jesus and Mary than I ever was as a child, now that I am a practicing Muslim. It is a vital part of my faith; a faith that I share with over a billion and a half people around the world.

This is my Christmas card to my family, and all my Christian friends and neighbors: Peace on earth and goodwill toward men.

*Muslims understand this verse in reference to the to death of Jesus after the second coming and resurrection on the Day of Judgment. See Quran, 4:157

 

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Oblongato
My micro-bio defines me.
04:29 AM on 12/31/2010
I celebrate the winter solstice, or Yule-tide, or Christmas or whatever you want to call it in a purely secular way. There are lots of nice things about getting together with family, putting up decorations, exchanging gifts and feasting that are appealing in themselves.

As an atheist, of course, I have many friends and relatives who celebrate the religious aspect of Christmas. Since I don't buy what is written in their book, they think I am a little bit strange. I think they are a little bit crazy to believe something with such far-reaching consequences simply because it is written in a centuries-old book. But we all love each other and have a great time despite our disagreement on the purpose of the festival.

I could refuse to join them because of the religious aspects they involve in the celebration. At the same time, they could refuse to have me because I don't belong to their religion and even deny the reason they claim to be celebrating.

I think, however, that whether we admit it or not, the intrinsic value of getting together to celebrate is more important to all of us than any abstract ideas about the nature of the universe and human existence. As long as as no one insists on imposing his or her view of the celebration on others, it's a great communal experience.
10:07 PM on 12/25/2010
A young friend gave me a novel for Christmas...The Forty Rules of Love

she's Muslim (althought you can't tell by looking at her), I'm Atheist (you can guess by looking at me).....we are both, I think, compassionate humans and want the best for everyone we share this lonely planet with and neither of us are bothered by this christian tradition.....
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TwinX
Avast Ye, Birthers!
09:37 PM on 12/25/2010
"Peace on earth and goodwill toward men."

That pretty much reflects the message on Christmas cards my best friend and her extended family send me.
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They're Muslim (varying degrgees of 'orthodoxy' ). I'm Athiest.
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rosal
JUSTICE always wins
08:58 PM on 12/25/2010
Thank you Kari, Every time I hear about the disdain against Muslims, I think how much more they respect Jesus as a Prophet, and how much love they have for Mary. You are absolutely right, when you convert to other religion, or simply, when you immerse yourself in other religion, beliefs, or spiritual teachings, you learn to understand and truly admire and love the Christ the so many Christians know nothing about.
07:38 PM on 12/25/2010
You lose me on the part where Jesus is expounding great thoughts and ideas...while he's just a few days old, from his mother's arms. I'm a Christian and I believe a lot of the other "far-fetched" stuff, but a new born baby speaking--and with greater dialogue than most Republicans today...okay that part's not far-fetched, but you get what I mean.
11:49 AM on 12/26/2010
Agree with you here... A day-old baby who speaks??? Now why didn't the baby continue to speak and why didn't the Quran focus more on the speeches of that baby since it can be considered a miracle, no?
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Freenation
07:37 PM on 12/25/2010
***applause***

Happy holidays everyone!!!
06:41 PM on 12/25/2010
Kari,wonderful meditation on the Islamic tradtions that also found in the Christian tradition.
Hope to see you again on the road to our common God.
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staziaw
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05:08 PM on 12/25/2010
I did not know that Muslims believe in the Annunciation . . . thank you for educating me on that. Really. The more we know about our similarities, the more likely we are to find and keep our common ground. Thank you.
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TC Mits
Cogito ergo democratia sum.
05:07 PM on 12/25/2010
Well written and said. God bless the world.
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Ron Booth
Educate, Agitate, Organize!
04:11 PM on 12/25/2010
Peace is found through understanding.
03:09 PM on 12/25/2010
Kari, thank you for sharing in such a nice way as this.

I would just like to make a clarification. The word 'Prophet', does not do justice to the Quranic term used for Abraham, Isaac, Moses, David, Solomon, Jesus, Mohammad, etc. The word prophet only means one who make prophecies. This does not reflect the Quran terms of Rasool, Nabi, etc. The Quranic term means much more than this. It means including, but not limited to, true people of God, innocent, i.e. incapable of committing any sin, carrying the message of God to the people verbatim, not adding to the message from their own no matter how righteous the message is, able to perform miracles if and when gifted by God. Solomon, Moses and Jesus were 3 'Prophets or Men of God' blessed with powers to have miracles.
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Enea
Novus Ordo Seclorum
12:31 PM on 12/25/2010
The usual representation of all muslims by one muslim. I can think of many muslims who are neither interested in peace nor goodwill towards men. But let's leave it at that.

And stop the ass kissing people. Start thinking for yourself and be in charge of your own mind. That's the best gift you an give to yourself for christmas, ramadan, or whatever superstitious holiday you choose.
01:13 PM on 12/25/2010
Yes you do! Coburn, kyl, Beck, Limbaugh, and so many mean republicans? Yes you do!
01:16 PM on 12/25/2010
OOOPS! They ARE Christians! My mistake!
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Bill Bushing
Liberal but open to ideas that make sense (leaves
11:12 AM on 12/25/2010
Enjoyed the connectedness this article brings to all who seek Peace. I have been talking with a Muslim friend about the best (most accurate and readable) translation of the Qu'ran so I can read it first hand and see what it really says rather than what demagogues in my country (and elsewhere) interpret it to say.
12:19 AM on 12/25/2010
Kari, this was a beautiful article. Thank you for sharing.
03:33 AM on 12/24/2010
so well written. it reminds me of decorating christmas trees with my friends in middle school. thank you for a great job you're doing.