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Telling Muslim Women What Not to Wear

Posted: 04/12/11 07:16 PM ET

France has now officially outlawed the Islamic niqab or burqa in public. French President Sarkozy said in 2009, "The issue of the burqa is not a religious issue, it is a question of freedom and of women's dignity ... The burqa is not a religious sign; it is a sign of the subjugation, of the submission of women. I want to say solemnly that it will not be welcome on our territory."

This statement by Sarkozy isn't going to save any Muslim woman's self-respect or free her from her oppressor by forcing her indoors and out of public life. If a woman is being forced to wear the burqa or niqab by a dictatorial husband or father, the French have just made it more difficult for her to break free from her oppressor. However, most Muslim women choose to wear the niqab of their own free will, and with this ban France has just pushed another segment of their Muslim population further from the mainstream. France outlawed the hijab, or the simple headscarf in public schools and institutions in 2004, and it has forced girls who want an education to either compromise their religious values, or compromise their academic and professional future. Where's the liberté in that?

A small minority of Muslim women in certain parts of the world wear what is known as the abaya (black cloak) and the niqab (face veil). It is known as a burqa in South and Central Asia and seen most often as the blue full-body veil worn by Afghan women. This form of covering is the manifestation of the strictest interpretation of modesty in Islam. Women who choose this practice consider themselves seriously observant Muslims and believe this form of dress allows them to move about the outside world while protecting their dignity.

People get nervous around these women. I have often heard the refrain, "You need to see a person's face to judge their character." I disagree based on my own experience with Muslim women who wear the niqab. I have always known them as highly disciplined, and solid in their faith convictions despite society's derision. They believe in keeping their physical attributes out of the public conversation by covering. While I don't subscribe to this strict interpretation of Islamic modesty, I respect the woman who does.

Case in point: I had been corresponding with a young woman in regard to a part-time position on the behalf of one of my clients. The job would include conducting various marketing events within her local Muslim community. Because she lives in another city, I had no chance to meet her until this weekend when I traveled there. Because I am familiar with this city's Muslim community, I was not surprised to meet her wearing a black abaya and black headscarf. She and I had coffee in a café, and as the interview progressed she proved to be everything her emails and our previous phone conversations led me to believe about her without the benefit of a face-to-face meeting. She is an extremely enthusiastic and professional young woman filled with exciting ideas for marketing my client's product. Toward the end of the conversation she mentioned that she usually wore the niqab face veil but she decided that she would not don it for our meeting in case I would be uncomfortable. I told her I wouldn't have been bothered by it in the least. I felt sorry she had come out without her veil on my account -- but to be fair, she didn't know me. While she knew that I'm also a Muslim, she couldn't be sure I wouldn't discriminate against her on behalf of my client. After I assured her that her faith practices are her own business, and that my client has great respect for Muslims, she visibly relaxed and we continued our conversation.

Her character, personality and professionalism were evident long before I saw her clothing, or her face. In her American city she happily moves about her neighborhood dressed the way the French have now outlawed. She told me the Muslims are an integral part of her city's greater community, and she is very comfortable wherever she goes in her graceful, black garments. I will recommend that my client hire this young woman; I'm completely confident that she is going to far exceed the expectations we had for this position.

As I've written before, if you strip a woman of what she feels is her dignity, you'll have a lot of indignant women. We all know American women can become pretty indignant if someone tells us what not to wear.

 

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06:59 PM on 04/24/2011
culture has nothing do to with burka
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Kari Ansari
Writer & social commentator on U.S. Muslims
12:42 PM on 04/19/2011
Discussion on the French niqab ban today on npr's Dyson Show:

http://dysonshow.org/audio/DYSON2011/DYSONSHOW/MEDS04-19-11.mp3
11:18 AM on 04/18/2011
On a philosophical level, I agree with the law. Laicite, France's secular laws, were designed to prevent the Catholic Church and subsequently every other religious institution from having influence on public life. For a country to be a democracy, its public institutions need to be free from the influence of undemocratic religious organizations.

Now, on a practical level, this is law does nothing but appease the right and exploit the insecurity of non-Muslims in France. Less than 1% of French Muslim women wear the veil. Survey data has shown French Muslims are supportive of the Republic's secular laws. French Muslims are far more integrated into French society than they get credit for. Banning the veil will not stop Muslims from "Christianizing" their names in order to get a job. Muslim youth will still be scared to travel to city centers because they will be harassed by the police. At the end of the day this law does nothing to integrate Muslims, and is designed satisfy the right.
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08:06 AM on 04/17/2011
This law is designed to change the culture of the Muslim people who choose to live in France. It is less about the rights of women-though this is a convenient excuse that makes the ban seem a good hearted effort to some. France wants to discourage the emigration of conservative Muslims whom they believe are more likely to shun assimilation into French culture; those who may espouse radical anti-western views.
08:20 PM on 04/15/2011
So it would seem that there Muslim women who are in favor of the ban, shouting "huzzah!", whilst there are women who somehow feel that covering themselves head to toe with bedsheets is a good and feminine thing to do. All the while we have Muslim men weighing in on the topic - most of whom are opining from an historic and cultural POV, without any actual dogma or scriptural support to lend weight to their input.

Where does that leave us, kiddies ? "Where, Mr. Gabriel ??" I'm glad you asked !!

Plainly put, some Muslims think it's just fabulous - others think it blows turkey snot. The point is, it is the law in France, and there are clearly a majority of people there who think it's a damn spanky idea, and have their reasons for feeling so.

Do you or I agree ? Maybe you do, maybe you don't. Will it matter to the French? 'Fraid not.

Chips, anyone ?
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The Knocker
a mind is a terrible thing to waste
09:34 PM on 04/15/2011
"Let the women learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression." (I Tim. 2:11)

"But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God." (I Cor. 11:3
"For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man (I Cor. 11- 8)

"Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything." (Ephesians 5:22)
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10:27 PM on 04/15/2011
16:97 (Y. Ali) Whoever works righteousness, man or woman, and has Faith, verily, to him will We give a new Life, a life that is good and pure and We will bestow on such their reward according to the best of their actions.

58:1 (Y. Ali) Allah has indeed heard (and accepted) the statement of the woman who pleads with thee concerning her husband and carries her complaint (in prayer) to Allah. and Allah (always) hears the arguments between both sides among you: for Allah hears and sees (all things).

4:19 (Y. Ali) O ye who believe! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness,

33:35 (Y. Ali) For Muslim men and women,- for believing men and women, for devout men and women, for true men and women, for men and women who are patient and constant, for men and women who humble themselves, for men and women who give in Charity, for men and women who fast (and deny themselves), for men and women who guard their chastity, and for men and women who engage much in Allah's praise,- for them has Allah prepared forgiveness and great reward.
11:47 PM on 04/15/2011
All of which has NOTHING whatsoever to do with the point of my post. Please do us reasonably well educated, thinking adults the courtesy of refraining from employing common logical fallacies such as red herrings - which your response clearly is.

Say good night Gracie...
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Doug Sandlin
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07:55 PM on 04/15/2011
Interesting article on the veil ban in France, including an interview with a veil-wearing Muslim woman with some fairly strong opinions on the matter:

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/journalists/henry-samuel/8454833/So-whose-liberty-equality-fraternity-is-really-at-stake.html
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08:57 PM on 04/15/2011
I know, without even bothering to click your link, that victims of domestic violence often say that they "deserve" it and that they love their oppressors.
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Kari Ansari
Writer & social commentator on U.S. Muslims
07:24 PM on 04/19/2011
I was happy to be interviewed on an NPR show that aired today since I was able to clear up some of the misconceptions surrounding the niqab and burqa http://dysonshow.org/?p=4570
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03:44 PM on 04/15/2011
For a more accurate analysis of this issue, here is an article by Nazneen Sheikh:
http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/opinions/opinion/the-new-french-revolution/article1984444/

In it, she thoroughly debunks the myth that the French are victimizing women by passing this law.

"In the perilous swamp of global speculations about the Muslim faith, the French have stolen the march by preventing women from being victimized. The wearing of the hijab and the niqab has nothing to do with Islam, and is an insult to men, women and children everywhere. The French government’s refusal to allow this medieval symbol of repression to flourish in its nation is an undeniable act of courage."
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The Knocker
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08:11 PM on 04/15/2011
"Great spirits have always found violent opposition from mediocrities. The latter cannot understand it when a man does not thoughtlessly submit to hereditary prejudices but honestly and courageously uses his intelligence."
-- Albert Einstein
08:27 PM on 04/15/2011
"A 'No' uttered from the deepest conviction is better than a 'Yes' merely uttered to please, or worse, to avoid trouble."

- Mohandas Gandhi
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08:47 PM on 04/15/2011
Knocker, you're just too much. You know that Einstein was not a religious man, right? If not, you should carefully read the quotation you just took the trouble to type. It clearly advocates throwing off dogma ("hereditary prejudices") and thinking freely. The "mediocrities" he is referring to are people who cannot think objectively and resort to religious dogma. They are holding down the great spirits of the world.

Anyway, this quotation is possibly THE BEST argument I could have ever imagined for ridding society of oppressive symbols like identity-concealing garments. Thanks!
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waldopepper
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01:17 PM on 04/15/2011
No religious person is free in the first place lets get that clear right from the start. What the Jesuits claimed is true, for all persons and all religions. "Give me the child for the first 7 years, and I will give you the man."

Brainwashing is not freedom, no matter how you dress it up. Religions inculcate. They do not free.

Therefor to answer the specific question from the article... "Where's the liberté in that?"

The liberty, is the liberty from the slavery imposed by the religion. Once a religion has its hooks in a person this claim from the article becomes meaningless "...most Muslim women choose to wear the niqab of their own free will..."

They have no meaningful freewill to make such a choice in the first place.
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Querent
I say the things that have to be said.
02:31 PM on 04/16/2011
Here we go with another massive overstatement by the master of generalizations. Once again, the man who loves to accuse other people of bigotry whenever he takes exception to their ideas revels in his own special kind of bigotry, attempting to make automata of all religious people of every stripe while demonstrating his total ignorance of religion as a social, historical, and spiritual phenomenon. Now he will follow up by insulting the intelligence, decency, and humanity of anyone who disagrees with him on however minor a point, at the same time behaving in a dismissive, contemptuous, and belittling manner. The Great Sage, the embodiment of virtue, the incarnation of wisdom, Mr. Waldo Pepper.
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Obert Madondo
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12:00 PM on 04/15/2011
France’s ban of the niqab or burqa is official Islamophobia at its ugliest. President Nicolas Sarkozy has given intolerance a blank check. The irony is: in “civilized” western countries like France, we’re free to wear crotch-revealing clothes or sunbathe topless. Hell, we've "nude beaches" and can freely engage in “nude protests”, “nude bike rides”, etc. So much for Liberté, égalité, fraternité!
01:02 PM on 04/15/2011
I am compelled to disagree. In Islamic countries such as Saudi Arabia, it is the law for woman to wear burqas and niqabs. Non-islamic foreigners must abide by the law. There is even a special detachment of religious police that go slouching about making sure everyone is behaving themselves.

Now, in France, it has become the law that covering one's face is forbidden. Whatever label you wish to slap on this, it is still the law. OBEY THE DAMN LAW.

Simple.
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The Knocker
a mind is a terrible thing to waste
07:02 PM on 04/15/2011
"OBEY THE DAMN LAW.' Said the bus driver to Rosa Park. Go sit at the back seat right away!
OBEY THE DAMN LAW." Said the Selma (Alabama)Police officer. "Thats it, let the dogs loose!"
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Querent
I say the things that have to be said.
02:37 PM on 04/16/2011
What would a discussion of this type be without at least one dedicated authoritarian to insist that everybody get in line and do as they're told?
12:50 AM on 04/16/2011
and if you don't like it you are free to get the hell out. NO concessions for the benefit of the FAILED cultures of the earth. Europe is ours, and they are NOT welcome here.
01:09 AM on 04/16/2011
So - what are you trying to say....exactly?
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dustyoh
10:51 AM on 04/15/2011
Sorry, but I for one am not buying this. This may be normal to you because you grew up with it, but as a fellow woman it is very offensive for me. Women in Western countries have been fighting for their rights for years and seeing a woman in full Burqa standing on an L platform waiting for a train is as offensive to me as just about anything I can think of. Western woman are not allowed to go into Middle Eastern countries and wear whatever they want - and it is very disingenuous to say Muslim woman should not have to live by the same set of rules because of "religious FREEDOM". Freedom, really - freedom is having to completely cover yourself while your men folk don't have to? To me a Burqa is a symbol of woman being forced to "hide" themselves, which equates to shame - which is just about the lowest form of energy we as a species can operate under. If you can't figure out for yourself how self-deprecating your "religious freedom" is - then at least realize that - "When in Rome, do as the Romans do", is the right of a country to enforce.
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12:45 AM on 04/16/2011
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eXzUuKdfnRE&feature=related

So it should be illegal because of what YOU feel the burka means, because of what YOU find offensive?

Who made you grand pooba?

Personally, I find butt thongs with low cut jeans, a tramp stamp and stripper heels oppressive but I think it should be up to the individual to decide for themselves. To me this is what democracy and freedom are about.

The video above has three different Muslim womens point of view on the subject. You might learn something by watching it.
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07:58 AM on 04/15/2011
Sarkozy is under 30% approval. Even the Burqa banning and bombing Gaddafi hasn't helped. He is constantly attempting to make Turkey an issue of some sort. This focused xenophobic strategy promises to pay off in 2012. Europe is in economic crisis and should continue it's rightward voyage.
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Louise Aloft
no man is an island
06:45 AM on 04/15/2011
choice is choice when there are some alternatives, but if you've only got one idea as far as what modesty is...
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12:49 AM on 04/16/2011
These women seem to think they have a choice.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eXzUuKdfnRE&feature=related
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03:06 PM on 04/16/2011
I guess you must be unfamiliar with the dynamics of domestic violence. Frequently victims will say that they deserve their punishment and that they love their oppressor.
06:10 AM on 04/15/2011
Just wondering how people can be so ignorant.I have couple of points to make.

1. Let's talk what bible says about women covering their heads. Read Corinthians 11:6 For if a woman does not cover her head, let her also have her hair cut off; but if it is disgraceful for a woman to have her hair cut off or her head shaved, let her cover her head.

2. The more the media blows it out of proportion, more people are actually getting interested in Islam. Its for the same reason maximum no of reverts are from western lands. Probably the reason why Islam is fastest growing religion in west and elsewhere.

3. People who want to base their views only on media. I would advise then to get a English translation of Quran and read for yourself and then judge. If you want i can send you a free copy at your address.

I wish all of you peace.
06:21 AM on 04/15/2011
if in bible you are reffering to judeism , it is true that observant jewish women cover their head but no jewish women will be jailed or killed or treated as non-human for not doing so .
06:38 AM on 04/15/2011
Who told you Muslim women is treated like that. Majority of Muslim women veil by choice and not by force. Your media just keeps on corrupting you. You probably need to come out of the box and the see the world outside your media. Don't forget the majority of sisters who veil in France are infact reverts to Islam.
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The Knocker
a mind is a terrible thing to waste
08:04 PM on 04/15/2011
FYI. the Old and New testament is mainly the Christian Bible. The Pentateuch (or Torah) is generally refer to as the Jewish bible.
Its generally not a bad idea to get yourselves educated first before commenting on a particular topics.
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dustyoh
10:54 AM on 04/15/2011
Just goes to help prove that religious fundamentalism comes in a Christian, Islam, and Jewish version just to name a few.
01:14 PM on 04/15/2011
To be a good mathematician, your fundamentals of maths should be strong.Similarly to be a good scientist your fundamentals of science should be strong. A person with weak fundamentals usually doesn't stand strong as the person moves up the ladder. Similarly when a person follows a religion and chooses it, the fundamentals of the person about religion should be clear.

I don't think there is anything wrong as long as fundamentals of the religion are correct. As for Islam i challenge you point out a single fundamental from Quran which is against the humanity as such. I would appreciate if you would tell the exact verse which you which you find against humanity.

Wish you peace.
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05:44 AM on 04/15/2011
They are asking for special treatment, no one is allowed to totally cover their in faces in public, so it isn´t discrimination. Furthermore, these cloths are used by fundamentalists as a symbol to say "f##k you, we aren´t a part of this society". Also, they aren´t an essential part of any religion. In modern Western Europe freedom of religion isn´t all trumping, it has its limits, and this is one case where those limits are being displayed. Why don´t you people so worried about this focus your energy and good will on places where human rights are really, honestly and brutally being violated, such as countries where these full covering male dominance habits originate from?
05:41 AM on 04/15/2011
" and with this ban France has just pushed another segment of their Muslim population further from the mainstream"

muslims choose to push themselvs from french society , and certinly , if muslims women cant push away male oppression in liberal france , its impossible for them to do it in Islamic states where the Law favours a Man word against any women claim .