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Why Blacks Evolved So 'Quickly' on Gay Marriage

Posted: 06/05/2012 12:17 pm

Just when I thought the black homophobia storyline had died out, I came across a provocatively titled article Monday morning written by Lenox Magee: "Has Time Come for Gay Blacks?"

I agreed with Magee's conclusion -- "regardless of what other people say or do, we're going to raise hell until we get equal rights" -- but not with his premise -- "The black community historically has lagged behind the general population in 'evolving'... on LGBT issues."

That got me thinking. What really caused the black community's rapid "evolution" on gay marriage over the past month? The answer is simple: We didn't evolve overnight. We've been evolving for decades, even when the media wasn't paying attention.

Magee's argument that African Americans have been slow to embrace LGBT issues seems to miss an important point: marriage equality is not the only LGBT issue. In fact, until the past decade, many black gay and lesbian people did not believe gay marriage was or should be the focal point of the LGBT movement or the litmus test for measuring LGBT support. A host of other issues like HIV/AIDS, access to health care, jobs, and employment discrimination were often listed as more important by black gay and lesbian people.

But all that started to change in 2003 when the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court issued its groundbreaking decision making it the first state to allow same-sex marriage. The decision prompted outrage from critics, including some vocal black ministers. Suddenly, black gays and lesbians were under attack within their own community on an issue they hadn't necessarily chosen. But they began to organize to fight back.

Now we're starting to see the fruit of their labor. Long before President Obama's announcement on marriage equality, LGBT people of color were laying the groundwork for broader support in their own communities. They were coming out, getting married, challenging their churches, defining their own identities, and creating institutions to support and sustain them.

Those actions helped to make it easier for heterosexual African Americans to see same-gender-loving couples and individuals in a new light. So it's not surprising that virtually every prominent African American, except for a few vocal preachers, has come out in support of the president's position in recent weeks. Everyone from General Colin Powell, a Republican, to Governor Deval Patrick, a Democrat, now seems to support gay marriage. The list includes members of the Congressional Black Caucus, big city mayors, civil rights leaders, black pastors, rappers, recording artists, comedians, athletes, public intellectuals, and many more, but it doesn't even scratch the surface in revealing the true support for LGBT people in the African-American community.

If you listen carefully to what these black public figures are saying, many of them have been supportive of same-sex marriage for quite some time, but they've never been asked about it until recently. That underscores the dirty little secret about the African-American community. Despite all the media hype and rhetoric that black people are viciously homophobic, the truth has always been much more complex.

Historically, black people have voted for gay-friendly elected officials, we've supported most forms of gay rights, and we've welcomed gay members in our churches. And despite all the rhetoric from a few loud voices in the community, we've long embraced some of our most famous LGBT members, from the gay writers of the Harlem Renaissance to the openly gay pop fiction authors like E. Lynn Harris. We've also practically canonized openly LGBT luminaries like James Baldwin, Alvin Ailey, and Lorraine Hansberry, and we've celebrated the achievements of openly gay men like Billy Strayhorn and Bayard Rustin. Of course we still face serious challenges with homophobia in the black community, but there's never been any measurable evidence that it's any worse in our community than in any other community.

I've looked at the polling and the research over the past 20 years, and in many cases, black people have actually been more supportive of civil rights for gays and lesbians than whites have, especially when it comes to gays in the military, employment rights, and other issues of discrimination. As far back as 1993, a Gallup poll found that 61 percent of blacks supported allowing gays to serve openly in the military while only 42 percent of whites held this belief. The only issue where we have been consistently less supportive over the years is same-sex marriage. I believe that's because we tend to be politically progressive but socially conservative. On the political issues of discrimination against gay people, we got it all along.

On the social and moral issues, we were taking our cues from religion, which has traditionally been a somewhat more conservative institution in all cultures. But in the black community, our churches have never been so conservative in utilizing the talents of their black gay members. My uncle, Michael Holmes, was a flamboyantly openly gay organist for a popular church in St. Louis, Missouri back in the 1970s, and no one ever questioned him about his sexuality. In fact, many of our churches have embraced a "don't ask, don't tell" policy about homosexuality, and as a result, the black church has become, paradoxically, the most homophobic and the most homo-tolerant institution in the black community.

The tension between our political progressivism and social conservatism existed for decades, but that too has slowly started to change. Then, last month's ABC News poll finally confirmed what some of us have been saying all along. The poll showed African American support for same-sex marriage had suddenly risen to 59 percent, indicating that black people have now become more supportive of marriage equality than whites are.

Give credit to President Obama for moving the conversation forward in the black community. Without his endorsement, it might have taken years to reach the point we have now. But even President Obama could not have changed black opinion so dramatically if blacks were as homophobic as the media portrayed us to be.

The truth is blacks were never more homophobic than whites were. Although we are not perfect, we have always been a welcoming people. All we needed was a little push to remind us who we really are.

Keith Boykin is the editor of For Colored Boys Who Have Considered Suicide When The Rainbow Is Still Not Enough. Follow him on Twitter.

 

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Just when I thought the black homophobia storyline had died out, I came across a provocatively titled article Monday morning written by Lenox Magee: "Has Time Come for Gay Blacks?" I agreed with Mage...
Just when I thought the black homophobia storyline had died out, I came across a provocatively titled article Monday morning written by Lenox Magee: "Has Time Come for Gay Blacks?" I agreed with Mage...
 
 
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12:13 AM on 06/25/2012
Don't believe the hype! Gay issues were and/or are, always deemed as to being a "European dis-ease" via the Afrrican American community. Case in point, look what happened whith prop 8 how so called whites gays turn on African Amercans who disagreed with their force acceptance agenda.
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paulhunterjones
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11:06 AM on 06/11/2012
This post gives the impression that black opinion on same-sex marriage can somehow be coalesced into a unified position. I do not believe that it can, nor should it. For years black religious leaders have preached and argued against same-sex marriage. This opposition was based upon deep-seated religious grounds. Rev. Sharpton is more of a politician than he is a spiritual leader. He has always been a polarizing figure for blacks and Whites alike. The NAACP announcing its support for same-sex marriage is its leadership’s efforts to rallied support behind a black president. The idea that black opposition to homosexuality has mollified due to some undefined and unperceivable process of evolution is ridiculous. This so-called alliance between the two groups is nothing more than a temporary marriage of convenience. This political allegiance has been ushered in by President Obama’s begrudging personal support for same sex-marriage. If a White President had announced his/her support for same-sex marriage black leadership would have denounced the proclamation. I don’t believe that this new found spirit of cooperation between blacks and gays will survive Obama’s defeat in the elections.
03:27 AM on 06/09/2012
You gotta real here. Barack is a pragmatist. That means he operates on no principles. Just whatever might give him the best chance of re-election. He can throw his own people under the bus if it guarantees him another 4 years. We black folks have never openly embraced gay marriage or anything like that. Prop. 29 in California is proof of that. Our man in the White House is just trying to score points and you all know it. Stop tryin to sugar coat it
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Agent2k38
07:22 AM on 06/11/2012
EXACTLY!
01:05 AM on 06/13/2012
Oh man I messed up. I wanna correct myself.. im meant PROP 8! I was up too late that night when I wrote that comment, got a little careless and didnt review it before I posted. I assume you all knew what I meant though.
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morganthepirate
When i find my buried treasure, don`t tax it.
11:43 AM on 06/18/2012
Knew exactly what you meant,agree with it totally....................
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jamieson44
07:42 PM on 06/07/2012
The common homophobic attitude toward this issue, in my opinion, is steeped in black history and the emasculation of the male ego. Considering how many blacks belong to the Baptist congregations is another reason as it has no tolerance for this life style. These white Baptist pastors in the Bible Belt have in the last couple months become more radical in their rhetoric against gays, which goes against the teachings of Christ which I believe is compassion and grace. I would think it is the older generation who have the biggest problem. All the young black kids I know don't have rigid positions one way or another. Also I found Obama's speech compassionate and right on target.
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Sistagirl Young
12:38 AM on 06/18/2012
Hello jamieson44; "I would think it is the older generation who have the biggest problem. How many "older generation" types go around assaulting and harrassing those in the LGBT community? Life.
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chadizzy
04:36 PM on 06/07/2012
If this is the case then why did NC vote it down and same with CA. Hmm not sure I believe this one.
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Minty6
07:39 AM on 06/09/2012
Because whites voted for the measure too.
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bigstew2004205
12:37 PM on 06/07/2012
The black community is more complex than the media portrays it. However on the issue of homosexuality and gay marriage I feel it is more of a generational gap in the black community though not entirely. I feel many young black americans feel are in support of gay marriage, but that number drastically decreases with the older generation. But this statement is not always true, the younger people in my family are split on homosexuality (I am for it, my brother against it) but almost everyone in the older generation of my family is against it.
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George Helm
10:31 AM on 06/07/2012
Typical nonsense, blacks like their leader Obama evolve, Whites flip flop!
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Minty6
07:39 AM on 06/09/2012
we're a collection of leaders, if you didn't know.
01:01 AM on 06/07/2012
So far the Congressional Black caucus has not taken s position on gay marriage
Wonder why?
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drdrepublican
Believe in something or fall for anything
12:09 PM on 06/07/2012
The Congressional Black Causus is carrying out a quiet war against President Obama for the lack of jobs and opportunities in the Black and Hispanic communites. The CBC is very concerned about the 10 billion dollars wasted by the adminstration in the green energy sector and Obama's attack on the Black and Hispanic (Catholic) Church. And last but not least the CBC is concerned about the lopsided help given to the Gay Community. Please do a search of minority hires in the federal government. Black and Hispanic representation has fallen. The CBC is quietly against Gay marriage.

It is my guess that the CBC is quietly fighting these battles to not embarrass the president and court his favor if things approve but Obama's deliberate destruction of the middle class of the Black Community is reaching record levels. Obama's quest is to reduce us to a dependent immoral class that he can count on to get elected and be ready to riot if he asks...
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Agent2k38
07:24 AM on 06/11/2012
HE LOST MY VOTE 3 YEARS AGO
10:01 AM on 06/11/2012
As I understand it, Mr. Obama has hired more minorities in government positions than any prior POTUS. Yes, the CBC is against gay marriage and they invited black clergy to appear in their anti-gay dog and pony show before a House CBC gathering two months ago. Rep. Emanuel Cleaver was very dismissive about the whole discussion of same-sex marriage. Yes, lopsided help to the gay community which would consist of exactly what resources being diverted from the CBC or black community?
06:00 PM on 06/06/2012
God--------changed these homosexual

http://s1.zetaboards.com/Express_Yourself/topic/4821442/1/
javagirl023
It should be easier to vote than to own a gun.
11:51 AM on 06/07/2012
And many who practiced heterosexual practices for decades leave thier wives for other guys. So what? Most ex-gays go back to being gay. And a number of straight Republican/religious men have had gay affairs.
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02:36 PM on 06/06/2012
I am sick and tired of people lumping all black people together. Black people have their own opinions on gay marriage. WE DO NOT ALL THINK ALIKE AND WE DO NOT FOLLOW BEHIND OBAMA LIKE HE IS GOD. Why aren't white people all lumped together? No one ever thinks that all white people in this country think the same so why do people think that all black people think the same. I know many black people who didn't evolve on gay marriage. They still believe it is unnatural and that marriage should be between a man and a woman, like it has always been.
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Bob Kellerman
Let's have more sanity toward each other
04:34 PM on 06/06/2012
Black people have intelligence -- when they read an article, they are fully able to see whether it states that "ALL" Black people do XYZ, or think ABC.

Please read it again, and look for "ALL"
06:46 PM on 06/06/2012
I agree this article is such BS. Blacks have always tolerate gay folk in their churches, communities but it doesn't mean they accept the lifestyle choice as okay. Truth is if you are a follower of Christ, habitual sin is not okay.
09:34 AM on 06/07/2012
no more mixing of polyester and cotton for you then, huh?
javagirl023
It should be easier to vote than to own a gun.
11:55 AM on 06/07/2012
The article suggests 59 percent of the black community now supports marriage, which means 41 percent does not. The article neither lumps all blacks together or suggests universall acceptance of it. It says the discrimination is no worse than any other community.
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11:16 AM on 06/06/2012
I have a very simple prescriptive for how I want to spend my time on this planet. I will not waste one minute of my life oppressing, diminishing or infringing upon the rights of my fellow law abiding, tax paying American countrymen and women. Or anyone else sharing time on this planet. Ever.

The only doctrine this is based on is the human doctrine. It's actually quite simple.
12:29 PM on 06/07/2012
AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!! I wish more people would think like you!!!
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NoireLion
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11:02 AM on 06/06/2012
Look if you ask people in a vacuum- away from religion and hate rhetoric- out of the blue..... if they want some other group to take away THEIR rights they will say NO.
(of course they dont want another group to dominate them!)

if you ask them if they should have the right to take away another groups rights they will also say NO.
and for fairness sake- you'll see the same answer...)

Americans are fair people if you make the choices clear and unambiguous.
People that want the waters muddied- always cloak the issue in race and religion.

If you asked it just that way i phrased it- you'd open alot of eyes in this country,.
10:46 AM on 06/06/2012
Love the Huffington Post and the fact they cover issues in the LGBT community, but I don't agree with the article. Many black people I've encountered wince when gay folks link their struggle to civil rights struggle black folks had to endure and still do to some point. It seems once President Obama supported marriage equality, it made it OK for the rest of us to be OK with it, too. I'm glad to live in Washington, DC, where once a certain group is given rights, people who oppose those rights cannot put those rights to a popular vote.
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skantea
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10:04 AM on 06/06/2012
Who is this guy explaining Black people to? And when are White people going to nominate their racial spokesman?
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Ian Gord
Resist we much !
01:58 PM on 06/06/2012
Racial spokespeople are self-appointed and have no credibility with, nor power over those who know that.
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Bob Kellerman
Let's have more sanity toward each other
04:38 PM on 06/06/2012
Actually, White people have had many racial spokemen -- often with hoods.

I missed the part where he made himself the racial spokesperson, because he did not. He was stating his observations, from his point of view.
09:53 AM on 06/06/2012
It is also a logical extension of the Civil Rights movement.