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What 1,000 Boomer's Kids Did This Past Weekend

Posted: 07/09/2012 4:49 pm

The second annual World Domination Summit (WDS) was held in Portland, Oregon, this past weekend. It was a real eye-opener for me. I know, World Domination Summit sounds scary, right? It turned out to be 1,000 men and women, most in their twenties and thirties, who gathered for a weekend of inspirational speakers and workshops, mainly geared towards making the world a better place to live. The young man with the vision who put this conference together is Chris Guillebeau, author of The $100 Startup.

I registered for WDS somewhat out of curiosity, but primarily because Owen Marcus and I were selected to present a workshop on micro-communities, or in Boomerspeak, men's and women's groups. Emotional connection seemed a bit sketchy to these young folks, and the message that Owen and I gave them was welcomed by most, and dovetailed with Brene Brown's talk on vulnerability a few hours before. That's been the basis of my work for decades.

It was a very hip crowd whose focus was social justice and environmental issues, not only in the U.S., but globally. There was a young man who'd been a partier and nightclub hustler for liquor companies who now dedicates his life to bringing clean drinking water to Africa. He's invented creative ways to raise corporate and private funding and his group has already purchased the trucks needed to dig wells for clean drinking water for thousands of people who previously walked eight hours round trip to fill a jerry can with fetid water.

A young woman runs a charity that raises money to send young girls to school in Liberia, where they previously had no opportunities for education. There was a young married couple that has spent the past five years travelling around the world in a low-key style called couch surfing. Their message to the audience based on their deeply personal exchanges with locals around the world was simple: Before the US.. bombs anyone again, we need to consider that these are people we're killing, not governments.

I don't recall any speakers talking about making money beyond following your dreams and hopefully making a few bucks. The speakers preached being doers, not talkers. These young men and women already know something I only discovered in my sixties: Life isn't just about stuff. They could teach their parents something about that.

For the first time in a very long while, I felt hopeful about America's future. With men and women like those attending the WDS Conference, perhaps there's hope after all. Their global approach to problems on a very personal level feels like a huge shift from the apathy that abounds in America regarding Third World people.

I admit I felt uncomfortable at times. I felt invisible to to many of the attendees. Maybe it was my salt and pepper goatee and mustache, I'm not sure. Or maybe I reminded them too much of their parents or, God help me, their grandparents. At 67, I was old enough to be either. I noticed perhaps a couple dozen other Boomers out of the 1,000 people, and wondered if they felt out of place occasionally too.

Owen and I felt confident our workshop would be well received since it was about vulnerability, a hot topic for the weekend. But there's a bit of a disconnect between people applauding a speaker who advocates vulnerability and our workshop attendees actually making themselves vulnerable. Still, most got the point, and while I wasn't sure how many actually did, the next day, several attendees came up to me and thanked me for helping them understand the practical application of vulnerability.

By Sunday evening I was exhausted from the unusually hot Portland weather and the non-stop youthful exuberance and energy. I was grateful for having spent time with a generation I rarely interact with.

I would advise Boomers to listen to their 20 and 30-something children with respect. I have felt for a while that Boomers are far too fat and happy, especially since we were hippies with social values. Your children aren't buying into your dreams and goals, but rather are creating their own. Theirs are about advancing social and environmental justice in the world. They see this as their mission and responsibility. They aren't interested in corporate careers, but prefer to identify entrepreneurial opportunities in which they're in charge of their lives. I respect that enormously.

The WDS Conference is run as a non-profit, and doesn't accept any corporate sponsors. Their dedication to keeping this event pure in every sense is exemplary. Every speaker and workshop began and ended on time, and they were held in several locations in downtown Portland. Their focus on punctuality was remarkable, as was their execution. While this was only the second year for WDS, it had double the number of attendees of last year's event. They also had nearly 5,000 people on a waiting list for tickets.

So you would think they're going to really explode it next year and sell tens of thousands of tickets, right? Wrong. They are not all about the money, but rather about creating as intimate an experience as possible. They understand the economies of scale, but aren't beholden to them. And, to ensure each attendee is guarantied a ticket to next year's event, they offered reservations for 2013 for the next 24 hours to those who don't want to get shut out.

Next time my fellow Boomers think America is going to Hell in a hand basket, I recommend they drop in on their children and listen to what they're talking about. They're smart, focused, unpretentious and determined to make a difference in the world. I'd proud to be their father or their grandfather.

 
 
 
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The second annual World Domination Summit (WDS) was held in Portland, Oregon, this past weekend. It was a real eye-opener for me. I know, World Domination Summit sounds scary, right? It turned out to ...
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12:44 PM on 07/13/2012
Ken! As a fellow boomer (last official class, born in 1964) I was circling the room opening night, not knowing anyone and thinking about how I felt a bit too old for this crowd. Then I found a few others like Tia and you and Owen, and started to warm up to it all. I really enjoyed hearing about your men's group and talking relationships too. By the end of the weekend I wasn't noticing anyone's age - rather just how cool all of these people are, and lucky and inspired and motivated to be there. Thanks for what you do, hope to see you again next year.
08:59 AM on 07/13/2012
Hello Ken,
I'm approaching the big 5-0 this year and I've discovered as you have that the younger generation are not as tied into stuff as us older folks! I read Chris Gulliebeau's Website and it inspired me to put up a website in 24 hours and start giving my gifts to the World. I'm inspired by what is happening in the world as I see people in the 20's and 30's Creating a New Sustainable World based on Experiences rather than Stuff. I wish you continued Success on the Journey of Life!
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11:31 PM on 07/11/2012
I'm on the tail end of the boomers and was also a bit intimidated by the youthfulness of this conference. That is until I showed up. I quickly felt right at home and had some amazing conversations with these kids. Although I had to admit I ended spending the majority of my time with other boomers and my deepest connections were with people that had a little more life experience under their belts.

One thing I found interesting, yet not surprising, was the relative dearth of parents both on stage and in the audience. I believe Brene Brown was the only one to mention a child during her talk. What I found, when did I find a fellow parent, was that in the majority of cases at least one member of the family had a traditional job with traditional insurance benefits.

I would be interested to see this topic investigated with some seriousness at next yea'rs conference. How do children change our world view? What does remarkable mean when there is a teenager in the house?

While traveling the world is fun, my teenager quickly tires of the adventure and wants to return home to her friends. In addition her medical bills (topping $100,000K last year had I not had insurance) would have put a damper on many of the 20s and 30s plans of saving the world.
03:07 AM on 07/11/2012
Ken, thanks for your article about WDS from the perspective of boomers. I could relate to some of it as a card carrying member of the tribe. I, too, felt a little uncomfortable at times especially during the breaks, but overall, the speakers really spoke to me. I really didn't want to hear about how to get rich quick. I thought the emphasis on the power of giving was really wonderful - it's a tipping point and guaranteed to change the world. I enjoyed the keynotes the best -these were a crop of really cool folks being cool--though on the contradictory message whether to be "cool" or "uncool", the jury is still out :)
11:31 PM on 07/10/2012
I've never been referred to as a Boomer's kid. But I like it. The event was perfect for us freaks wanting to make the world a better place. :)
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03:12 PM on 07/10/2012
Thank you for the summary. I laughed during the weekend, noticing that attendees showed up 20 minutes early for the afternoon sessions, cutting off their lunch breaks in the process. What other conference has such an engaged, eager group of people wanting to learn? I was skeptical about the overall conference prior to attending last year, but walked away from the weekend with my brain abuzz with all the possibilities, and more importantly with the stories of the really incredible people I met.
12:26 PM on 07/10/2012
I, too, have been impressed with Chris Guillebeau and the message he has for the world. Although I was unable to attend either year of the WDS, I know that amazing things are indeed happening with our younger people and Chris is their inspiration and in some respects, leader. I am also in your age bracket and have felt very encouraged by people such as Chris Guillebeau who are far more interested in changing the world than in the dollars they can make doing it; it has indeed reminded me of the ideals we shared in the 60s and somehow moved away from as we grew older.

Thank you for your insights as a boomer-aged participant. Perhaps those of us who are uncomfortable with the comfortableness of being boomers who are "fat and happy" will step up and start speaking out our own message to the world, just as Chris has done.
09:46 PM on 07/09/2012
There were many times during WDS I was in tears from the greatness manifested by presenters and the attendees. These men and women aren't fighting against something... they are creating a better world.

These people are defining what social entrepreneurism is. My last conversation was with Sarah Dunigan the co founder of Songa Design, a business selling jewelry made be Rwandan women. The stories she told me of how these women’s success transformed their families sent chills through my body and tears down my face.

I was an honor to be a part of WDS. I look forward to next year's reunion.