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Kim Stagliano

Kim Stagliano

Posted: November 7, 2008 01:31 PM

Palin: From Charming to Charmin


I have no love lost for Sarah Palin. None. Nada. Zip. That said, I don't think the national media or the McCain campaign should destroy her now that they have lost the election. Have some class and just move on. McCain has no one to blame but himself and that tall glass of Kool Aid he drank before choosing her as his VP pick.

I believe Governor Palin was pulled out of relative obscurity onto the McCain ticket in large part because she did not abort her special needs son. Governor Palin was "pretty, pretty, proof" that McCain was pro-life.

That's said, will you look at McCain staffers on Fox News (Fox News!) ripping Governor Palin apart? They are gleefully reporting, "She didn't know what countries make up NAFTA! She didn't know Africa is a continent! She spent tens of thousands of dollars more than allotted on clothing for herself and her family!" And my favorite whining dig, "She met with advisors in a towel!" (Probably the best moment of the campaign for them.)

She is exactly who they invited to join their ticket. A woman who attended five colleges to get a four year degree. A woman who could not tell Katie Couric what newspapers she read. An attractive, ambitious and successful politician who went from Mayor of a small town to the Governor's office. McCain chose her to be next in line for the Presidency. He put pandering to a narrow voter bloc over the country's best interest. And then he smelled votes and turned his eyes to my voting bloc, the disability and autism community. (I should point out that McCain himself is actually very up to date on autism and has been a strong advocate for our kids. We hope he'll continue to fight for our kids in the Senate.)

In my opinion, McCain used Governor Palin her to seduce the disability community, including autism parents, saying she "knew more about autism than anyone he knew." That's ludicrous. Palin as an expert on disabilities and autism? Ain't no way. Let me tell you this, six months into my daughter Mia's autism diagnosis, I was no expert. I defy you to find one honest parent of a child with Down Syndrome who will claim she was an expert before the child turned one. If anything, every passing month and milestone buries you deeper in medical, therapy and early intervention questions.

Then there's the issue of Governor Palin's sister Heather Bruce, who has a 13 year old son with autism. She was dragged into the spotlight as the poster Mom for autism. Even my Mother called me to say, "Did you hear Governor Palin has a nephew with autism?" as if that was a game changer. It was interesting. It had potential. But here's what Ms. Bruce said of the Governor in an interview on Autism One radio, "She has a lot to learn." Guess what? My kids' aunts and uncles aren't experts on autism either. Expertise doesn't happen by osmosis or shared DNA.

It seems to me that the McCain campaign set Governor Palin up like one of those bowling pins Obama couldn't knock down. She was charming when she joined their team. And now that they've tanked - she's Charmin being flushed away. They're displaying vicious sexism and they're just plain nasty. They couldn't convince me to vote for their candidate, but they've managed to make me feel a little bit sorry for Governor Palin.

I have no love lost for Sarah Palin. None. Nada. Zip. That said, I don't think the national media or the McCain campaign should destroy her now that they have lost the election. Have some class and ju...
I have no love lost for Sarah Palin. None. Nada. Zip. That said, I don't think the national media or the McCain campaign should destroy her now that they have lost the election. Have some class and ju...
 
 
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04:05 PM on 11/17/2008
I'm ambivalent. One the one hand, I feel oddly sorry for Palin. On the other, I have trouble feeling sorry for someone who belongs to a party in which freedom is a talking point to advance the agenda of power, and who runs on a platform, tacitly, that women have too much freedom. How ironic and tragic if the first woman Vice President actually managed to diminish women's rights? She is paradoxically both the cause and the victim of her own system of beliefs.
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Barbara Fischkin
Author of Muddy Cup, Confidential Sources and Exc
05:23 PM on 11/11/2008
Very valid points Kim. I don't like Palin either but it's true they used her.

I think Obama will listen to us, particularly if RFK Jr. plays a role in the new administration's environmental policies.
10:43 AM on 11/08/2008
As the parent of a daughter with Down Syndrome, I am not as anxious as the rest of you to condemn Sarah Palin. She may not yet be an expert on learning disabilities, but she will become one, we all have to do.

In the past 25 years only Sarah Palin has brought the issue of the human rights of people with learning disabilities into the media glare. We are an invisible (and ignored when not vilified) segment of the population .

Having a child with a learning disability automatically relegates a parent to pariah status. The same will be true for the Palins. Being a pariah has its advantages: it helps you see how vulnerable other people are. Or it should. Though there is a Latin quotation "there is no worse master than a former slave" and often suffering from abject prejudice does not make someone more tolerant, but less. I hope this won't be Palin's case.

I have met over the years far more children (now adults) with autism than I have with Down Syndrome. It is entirely possible that a genetic marker could be found for autism, diagnosed prenatally as Down's now is, and no further investment made in research into how to improve the lives and capabilities of people with autism - termination equals cure. Should that happen (and it very well could), citizens with autism will need examples like Palin's, demanding the right to difference.
05:30 PM on 11/07/2008
Perhaps in keeping with his campaign promise to reach across party lines, Barack Obama will name Sarah Palin ambassador to the nation of Africa, or maybe Latin America.

Carlos the Carpenter
05:00 PM on 11/07/2008
Very true...because those people who are now trashing her and "throwing her to the wolves" are the same people who were trying to sell her to us, telling us how great she was. And they're the people who would, to this day, still be lying and telling us how great and "prepared" she is...if John McCain had won!
04:27 PM on 11/07/2008
All this and the fact that they are still talking about her for the 2012 race makes it even more ridiculous.
I no longer listened when I saw her shooting poor defenseless animals in the winter from a plane.
Thanks, Kim.
Maurine
03:54 PM on 11/07/2008
I feel sorry only to the point that I'd feel sorry for anyone going through life so completely unaware and apparently immature. There were so many stop signs since she was tapped, yet the press kept up the farce as if she were a serious contender- just like they did with Bush. It could have been Uncle Bob and HowdyDoody out there stumping. This country deserves WAY WAY better is all I can say.
03:40 PM on 11/07/2008
Kim: I hoped Sarah Palin is stomped to a bloody pulp. This creatured was doisted on the United States as a candidate for vice president? This creature is being totuted as the next leader of the Republican party? We all need to be reminded so many times that no one can forget exactly what she is, and what sort of crabon-based life forms support her. There is a lot of toxin to be expelled from the body politic, and regurgitation ain't never pretty.
03:35 PM on 11/07/2008
Here's what I think...Palin was used the way many naive, attractive, sexy women are used. They're approached by an older man, seduced and then abandoned once their usefulness is over. It's an old story....from Mephistopheles seducing Margarita through Clinton seducing Monica and on to McCain seducing Palin with the promise of the Vice Presidency if she'd sully herself by lying, fomenting anger and violence, and generally doing his dirty work. When they lost, she was shunned and thrown to the wolves, like any virgin who gave herself up to the wrong man thinking he loved her because she was young and pretty, when all he wanted to do was use her.

Hahahahahaha!!
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CamJam
02:52 PM on 11/07/2008
Great post! You make some interesting points Kim. But I don't feel sorry for her at all. It's not just me either, (as mother of 5 yr old twin boys, one has Autism, the other does not) but also my mother and daughter saw right through Palin and feel the same way.

Palin would sell her soul AND her kids just for power. That is the way she is and it's easy to see. Already she's thinking of 2012, and others are rallying her on to go for it.

I don't feel sorry for McCain and he's ruined his legacy for years to come.
I don't feel sorry for Sarah Palin however feel sad for her children and for many of the people in Alaska. Such as seen in this video called "Don't Lie"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hMQtE3ldxQ0

If Steven's is forced out of office, Gov. Sarah Palin will probably appoint herself as Senator.
Let's wait and see how all this plays out. I'd like to see her fade away, and really hope we won't see or hear of her on a national level again or in 2012.
02:52 PM on 11/07/2008
Kim-
This is a GREAT piece. Thanks for writing it!
-Michele
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Jane
02:29 PM on 11/07/2008
She has no class--evidence: she charged clothes for herself on credit cards belonging to her staffers. This is a woman on the make. She used people, and she is now paying the price. I can imagine that McCain staffers are doing a natural thing--blowing off steam. Of course, they have no class, either. But what do you expect?
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blaqntelligence
02:20 PM on 11/07/2008
"It seems to me that the McCain campaign set Governor Palin up like one of those bowling pins Obama couldn't knock down. She was charming when she joined their team. And now that they've tanked - she's Charmin being flushed away. They're displaying vicious sexism and they're just plain nasty. They couldn't convince me to vote for their candidate, but they've managed to make me feel a little bit sorry for Governor Palin."

Thank you for that. I voiced this sentiment on another blog and many felt my sympathy was misplaced. While I would never vote for her and aware she is in a mess of her making, I DO feel sorry for her. She's being eaten alive by her own party.
Something a bit cringe-worthy about that.
02:05 PM on 11/07/2008
I still don't get the "she went to five colleges to get a degree" insult; lots of people aren't entirely sure what they want to be "when they grow up" and don't immediately latch on to a major. If you don't have the luxury of being a perma-student while you figure it out, it's likely that you'll go to a number of schools before finally settling on a degree.
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ESerafina42
Abandoned by wolves, raised by Republicans.
02:32 PM on 11/07/2008
Maybe two; at a stretch three. But FIVE? I have a friend who's a college professor who says that she either was emotionally not very mature or wasn't a very good student.
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Kim Stagliano
Author All I Can Handle I'm No Mother Teresa A Lif
02:39 PM on 11/07/2008
Hi, Kim here. I really didn't mean it as an insult. I think it's a salient point though for the campaign when vetting. I think it correlates with her profound lack of knowledge as displayed throughout the campaign. She bounced from college to college. Disclosure? I attended two colleges - I started at Tufts University and transferred my sophomore year to Boston College.

Thanks for commenting.

Kim
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chagedorn
02:04 PM on 11/07/2008
I agree...I would feel sorry for her if she wasn't an adult. She TRULY believes that she was (and is) qualified to be President, not just VP, and she truly believes that her inability to answer the simplest questions about her worldview, our form of government or the world don't matter. To Palin and her ilk -- which includes our current President and VP, who obviously have been her models -- the Constitution and the opposition -- elected by the People -- and the People themselves don't really matterk, except as "consumers" to be "sold" on whatever it is they want them to buy. At any point in time during the process she could have asked to be educated, stopped spending, etc. but -- like many politicians on both sides of the aisle -- she only stopped doing something when it wasn't working politically, whether it was good or bad, right or wrong, consistent or inconsistent, safe or not safe, made no difference. It still doesn't to Ms. Palin or to any of her cohorts.