What's So Funny About Abortion?

More than you might think. An anniversary is as good a time as any to engage in some self-reflection so on the 36th anniversary of Roe v. Wade I had to ask myself: why am I still invested professionally and personally in the policy, politics and practice of abortion after twenty years?

I suspect it is because I have a very dry sense of humor, which is basic equipment for an issue that can border on theatre of the absurd.

Take this Onion-worthy press release issued last week from the American Life League - a staunch anti-abortion and anti-contraception organization:

"Krispy Kreme Doughnuts, Inc. (NYSE: KKD) is honoring American's sense of pride and freedom of choice on Inauguration Day, by offering a free doughnut of choice to every customer on this historic day, Jan. 20. By doing so, participating Krispy Kreme stores nationwide are making an oath to tasty goodies -- just another reminder of how oh-so-sweet 'free' can be.

Just an unfortunate choice of words? For the sake of our Wednesday morning doughnut runs, we hope so. The unfortunate reality of a post Roe v. Wade America is that 'choice' is synonymous with abortion access and celebration of 'freedom of choice' is a tacit endorsement of abortion rights on demand."

Or take this story from a woman in response to the question "did laughter or humor ever help you feel better or cope with your abortion experience?"

"Some may not find this funny, but some people joke about using a clothes hanger to perform an abortion. Well, while I was in the clinic, one of the girl's boy friend locked his keys in the car and a nurse went by with a clothes hanger to help him unlock his car. It scared me at the time but it's kind of funny now."

Or yesterday's news, that a man intentionally drove his SUV into a St. Paul Planned Parenthood building. Obvious disclaimer: I would not find this amusing if someone had been injured. Unless it was the driver and it was a minor injury. I think I would have laughed at that.

Okay so maybe the laugh lines aren't always that big. But even nervous laughter reveals a desire to share a human reaction around a profound issue; to show some empathy for someone else's point of view or perspective. President Obama's decision to mark the anniversary with an unwavering statement of support for Roe while avoiding a political tit-for-tat on the so called global gag rule goes one step further and once again inspires my commitment to lean into differences without belittling or ignoring someone else's value system.

So maybe it isn't the laughs after all. Turns out I'm hooked on the drama.

Comments

[Rita at Goldivas]

I would think that honoring freedom of choice on Inauguration Day means honoring our democracy. Just think, we vote for whomever we want. It's sad that these pathetic right-to-lifers are opposing even that choice! I think we should all go out to Krispy Kreme & buy a box to show our thanks and support.

[johnie2xs]

I think of all the advocacy groups, be they strictly political, social, or religious, I find the "Right to Lifers" the most tiresome. Tiresome because of their ardent cleaving to the illogical. The "just say no", "abstinence", "do it my way or the highway" attitude, and complete disconnect from any realistic and logical way of solving a problem. A major case in point, to me is; How many fewer abortions might there be with comprehensive sexual education and birth control? This being the most obvious example. Can you just imagine if all the money they spend vilifying these practices, were instead used in implementing them?

Tiresome, just tiresome.

[carrieanna]

I laughed at the Krispy Kreme thing.

But maybe there's truth to that. Maybe donut places are becoming more political? After all, wasn't it Dunkin Donuts who had Rachel Ray wearing a "terrorist" scarf in their ad last year? hahaha