In April of 2010 there was a controversy raging over an ad run on TV by Lane Bryant showing a beautiful model in very sexy lingerie. The model, Ashley Graham, was far from the first women to wear a bra and underpants on TV. Certainly Victoria's Secret shows the same amount of body area in their ads. The only difference? Ashley is a plus size model.
The lacy bra Ashley was wearing showed the same amount of cleavage as models in Victoria Secret ads promoting add-a-cup push-up bras -- not a big difference in what the French call "décolletage." The only true difference I could see was that the panties of your typical Victoria's Secret model are cut lower than what Ms. Graham wore.
But obviously the fuller-figured Ms. Graham, in her lingerie, presented a dilemma to the "those in charge." The networks said they would only run the Lane Bryant ads after 9 pm at night even though it was standard to see commercials for Victoria's Secret (featuring thinner models in similarly skimpy attire) in earlier time slots. Graham commented at the time that when
"We (women) have a little bit of extra, you know, overflowing, everybody freaks out."
But while the Victoria's Secrets ads -- not to mention the company's annual primetime fashion show -- seem to be accepted by the media, the Lane Bryant ad wasn't. It was considered too risqué, too sexual in tone. Why? Because the lovely Ms. Graham is voluptuous and some people saw that as a problem, as in way too sexy for TV despite the definite sexual air provided in other lingerie ads.
Others, however, viewed it as outright weight discrimination.
Fast forward to 2011 and the new fashion craze, leggings and tunics; women are wearing them everywhere, even to work. Now it seems that these trendy outfits may be a discrimination issue brewing for some women, those who are called voluptuous.
"We have a dress code at my office; neatness and dressing professionally is the key. Women have been wearing leggings, tunics and boots this year and it was all acceptable. It is a very trendy, professional way to look," said my friend Samantha who is curvy and a healthy weight for her height of 5'6."
But when I came in one day wearing black leggings and a blue tunic I was called in by my manager late in the afternoon and told that I was dressed improperly. I didn't back down, I asked her what she meant. About twenty women in my office were wearing leggings and tunics, including a very attractive woman in her late fifties. Quite frankly, we were all wearing a variation of the same type of outfit including heeled boots. What was different about me?
The office manager told Samantha that the problem was that the outfit she was wearing showed her curves a "bit too much." Samantha was incensed and told the manager that she didn't understand why she was being singled out. Were the other women also being told not to wear leggings and tunics? The office manager said no and, trying to placate Samantha, went on to say that outfits that accentuate the figure aren't for "certain women." It just looked, well, too sexy and vulgar in a way, she said, the way the material clung to a woman of Samantha's build. The manager advised my friend against dressing in tunic and leggings. She smiled and bade Samantha goodnight, assuming the issue was over.
My friend is not someone to be put off easily, especially when she feels something is unfair and unjust. She was angry enough to take the issue to human resources, (who said they really couldn't do anything), and then to insist on a private meeting with the director of personnel. The director listened intently to her complaint and agreed with Samantha that there was nothing wrong with her outfit but a lot wrong with what her manager had said. He would definitely speak to her about it and tell her how inappropriate her remarks were. He assured my friend it would not be tolerated.
Samantha told me she felt that she had scored a small victory for women. After doing research for this article I'd say there are still more battles to be won. Here are some facts to ponder.
-Today's clothing mannequins have a hip measurement of 30-31 inches. In contrast the average woman's hips measure 37 inches. If today's mannequins were actual human women, based on their theoretical body fat percentages, they would probably cease to menstruate. The clothes on these mannequins are size 2 and under.
-50 percent of women wear size 14 or larger, but most standard clothing outlets cater to sizes 10 or smaller.
-Illustrating how fuller women are viewed is a Catch-21. They're seen as both sexy and overweight. Model Elizabeth Hurley stated in an interview that "I've always thought Marilyn Monroe looked fabulous in clothes and she was sexy, but I'd kill myself if I was that fat."
-Fat? She was 5'5" and weighed 134 pounds. Hardly fat.
-When a group of 20 men and women were asked to name five current well-dressed female television news personalities who are fuller and curvier, fewer than 1/3 could do so yet almost all could name the thin or very thin ones.
Whether modeling lingerie or dressing in a similar manner to what others in the workplace are wearing, a woman should not be discriminated against because she has "bit more to show." If the fullness of a normal woman's body is considered too sexy by some people who are in charge, network or employer, then we have a problem.
The name of the problem is weight discrimination no matter how the issue is soft-pedaled or worded.
© 2011 Copyright Kristen Houghton
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I fluctuate from a 10 to a 12 and I'm 5'7"; I can move freely inside my clothes..why should I be targeted because I'm distributed differently? That's what it IS...an issue of distribution!
I think she viewed herself as a mother-figure and I made sure to clarify that I already had a mother and that she'd taught me how to dress appropriately for the workplace and for my body type. This didn't go over well, but we managed to work together for another whole year before she was dismissed for unrelated HR issues.
All amusement aside, the key to workplace attire is to NOT draw attention to your sexuality. If you have an overtly sexy body (aka curves) tone it down. I natter a bit about it here: http://heresheisboys.com/2011/09/27/fashion-mistakes-they-can-be-lessened/
http://anyshinything.com/2011/11/11/the-courage-to-be-average/
That should be as obvious as stating the sky is blue, "proper attire" is like obscenity, you may not be able to define it clearly and decisively, but you will know it when you see it.
There are certain things I do not wear as they make me look ridiculous, even though they look good on other women. 35+ women should not try to dress like 20 somethings and vice versa...Older women look like wannabes and I look like I raided mummy's closet, people are just not going to take either of us seriously.
Size matters as well, form fitting clothes do not look good on larger women, while lose fitting clothes look "sloppy" on thinner ones =/
Now that he's retired and eats mostly oatmeal, he's at a healthy weight. Too bad society is so shallow that we don't value what's inside the package.
There is huge discrimination. It's not our fault that us plus size women have more to flaunt off, even when we aren't trying.
I'm short and I have a big bustline. I know that wearing baby doll style tops or dresses look ridiculous on me because (a) they make me look heavier than I am and (b) it creates that "shelf effect". I have to wear things that cinch at the waist to look my best. Fact of life and I just work with it, which often means I must forgo the latest dictum from Seventh Avenue and go with more classic, tailored styles.
And it's not always about weight either (although that does seem to come in to play more often). One time walking through the mall I walked past an easily 70+ year old woman wearing nothing but extremely low rise jeans and a high cut sports jacket, baring her midriff to the world. Yes, she had the body for it, but even if she had been in her 20s the outfit would have looked slutty. All she needed to make it look nice (and perhaps even classy) was a shirt of some sort, could have even been form fitting, to cover her midriff.
Everyone should have the same dress code, obviously. But as a guy let me say that if guys are thinking too much about having sex with you, especially if you dress sexy and kind of invite the attention, nobody gets much work done!
A great model is the medical field, where all kinds of dress, hair, makeup, etc. are banned for everyone.
There's a picture of him in this article from The Age. It's not him I find disturbing - far from it, actually, good on him for bucking the trend, especially in this macho-idiot country - but the fashion industry, well, that's a whole different matter.
http://www.theage.com.au/opinion/a-broady-boy-called-to-the-bra--thats-the-beauty-of-it-20111223-1p8kd.html