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Voluntourism: We Have to Stop Making This About Your Niece

Posted: 07/16/2012 10:10 am

When I signed up to volunteer at an orphanage in Africa, I pictured myself somewhere in the Serengeti, dressed in Banana Republic. I had always wanted to be one of those people concerned with world affairs and after declaring anthropology as my major, I opted to add some humanitarian travels to my resume. Arriving in the slums of Nairobi, the summer after my first year in college, I was utterly unprepared to be standing face-to-face with absolute, abject poverty: over 300 children squeezed into a crumbling building; hungry bodies sleeping on a cement floor in urine-soaked clothes. I had hoped to be changed by encounters with poverty. I wanted the profound. I wanted to be the girl at a dinner party who the hostess points to and says: "and she worked in Africa."

Don't be embarrassed for me. My heart was good. And therein lies the essence of voluntourism: this trip was about me, my desire for a life-changing experience, my heart (and ego). I spent that summer volunteering with orphaned children, and while they seemed to like me, I could not help but wonder if I had helped at all.

I sought advice from my esteemed professor (whom I wanted desperately to impress). I was nervous but expectant imagining what she would say when I told her I had spent my summer in Kenya (by this point I had stopped calling Kenya "Africa"). Would she invite me out for lunch to hear about my journey? Would she ask me to co-author her next book? I sat in the chair opposite her desk and braced myself for her total admiration. "That sounds like a very meaningful summer." My pride quickly turned to shame as she inquired, "Your life has changed, but what has changed in the children's lives, as a result of your trip?" While at the time I failed to grasp the implications of her questions, I suspected we weren't going to be trading diet tips over lattes anytime soon.

I spent a lot of time that year wondering if I had unintentionally exploited the children I'd traveled so far to meet. Did I help the little ones learn the days of the week and the older kids practice their written composition? Yes. Had my trip contributed in any significant way to a more just, safe life for them? No. I was a 19-year-old, providing unskilled labor, to deeply traumatized children, for a very short of amount of time. The price of my plane ticket would have been better spent on the salary of Kenyan teacher, a source of continuity for children who deserve it the most.

I know what you are thinking: whether or not your niece spends her summer at an orphanage in Kenya has nothing to do with Kenya's unemployment rate. Why not encourage young people to volunteer in poor countries and learn about the world; it's better than having them spend their Spring Break playing beer pong in Miami. Agreed, but we have to stop making this about your niece, and start making it about vulnerable children who did not sign on to be the playmates of volunteers, too many of whom fail to align their objectives with the real needs of the poor.

Besides, what if the desire to travel to needy orphanages and the conditions of needy orphanages are related -- in a supply and demand sense -- more than we realize? Before volunteering in a developing country it's important to consider the effect the trip will or will not have on the long-term injustices facing orphaned children. Will you be volunteering within a structure addressing these issues in a sustainable way, in solidarity with local leadership, or will you be extending your safari for personal gain?

At Flying Kites, the Children's Home in Kenya to which I have dedicated my career, we have replaced a volunteer program with an ambassador program. The program includes an intensive application process and requires months of fundraising prior to traveling, to ensure that the people who join us in Kenya are committed to the cause, and not simply the experience. For these reasons, we now attract a lifeline of supporters who recognize that the most valuable gifts they can bring to organizations like ours are in the time spent advocating and fundraising; meeting the children is a small part of a much greater commitment towards addressing the real needs of orphaned children. Still, people argue that the standards for this program are too demanding. I tend to agree, but I have learned that, at the intersection of the well-intentioned and the downright poor, the stakes are always higher.

 

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When I signed up to volunteer at an orphanage in Africa, I pictured myself somewhere in the Serengeti, dressed in Banana Republic. I had always wanted to be one of those people concerned with world af...
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12:28 PM on 08/30/2012
This is such an important thing to talk about more openly. Ivan Illich has similar sentiments in his article "To Hell With Good Intentions" (I will try to attach it here and if it does not work, please check it out online when you can). I use Illich's article in my college course with my students and they always have such intense reactions to it - often defensive. I think his tone is not as well received as yours...perhaps because you so eloquently and humbly speak about your journey and transformation while Mr. Illich sounds more scolding to some folks. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability.
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08:22 AM on 08/09/2012
"I was a 19-year-old, providing unskilled labor, to deeply traumatized children, for a very short of amount of time." Such insight and honesty. Excellent.

The repetitive breaking of bonds of affection, developed with volunteers, further traumatises already vulnerable children. To the point where the children are cauterised from love and can not develop normal, trusting relationships. Volunteering in childcare institutions causes great harm.

Allowing a stream of short-term, untrained, young volunteers from abroad to care for vulnerable children in our own towns and cities would not be allowed.

For more information about the harm done by well-meaning volunteers in orphanages, please see www.replace-campaign.org or contact me.

Please don't stop helping children in need, but please be aware of the harm done by placing children in orphanages. An orphanage is no place for a child.
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05:12 PM on 07/25/2012
This article makes so much sense. Plus,your experience shows there needs to be more preparation for those choosing to volunteer overseas. It may be dirty, heartbreaking work, not a summer slumming to see how the 'other half' lives. Perhaps in the interest of getting the bodies needed for the work, we pay too little attention to the volunteer's motivation and goal expectations.
11:29 AM on 07/23/2012
Great blog. So many volunteering abroad programs actually take away jobs from local people - they would prefer to take care of their own children, build their own schools, repair their own houses, etc. And the orphan tourism industry, where children are taken from their families or given up for payments in order to create the orphanages for Westerners to volunteer in, is a growing problem. My advice re: volunteering abroad: http://www.coyotecommunications.com/volunteer/international.html (includes info on how to evaluate programs to ensure they are focused on actual local impact).
11:26 AM on 07/23/2012
Leila, your blog post struck a responsive chord in me -- in that I shared something similar recently about the voluntourism trips to post-Katrina New Orleans that I organized. For many of the volunteers, yes, it was about the experience and not so much about looking at the root causes of generational and geographical poverty and responding to them, living with them with intention. It is important when designing and implementing these trips that we have mechanisms in place, an educational component -- a framework, if you will -- that promotes integration and requires the volunteer to be a problem-solver, not simply a visitor in a foreign land or an exotic place.
01:21 PM on 07/22/2012
I liked your blog so much because of the honesty that is clear between the lines specially the part of :"if I had unintentionally exploited the children " and i was inspired by it so much.
any way i stay in kenya, and maybe you can guide me about how can give any help to those poor children. thanks for cooperation
11:14 AM on 07/20/2012
I agree. There seems to be a fine line between what your heart receives through your volunteer experience and the effect it had on the people or effort you came to support. Your perspective at 19 is impressive. Don't discount your attempt however, as the experience seems to have unfolded a very positive effect. There is no one answer. Everyone is so different. I have been there and seem both sides of volunteering and trust me, there is a selfish, ugly, 'it's all about me' side to witness. You simply cannot always gauge the influence, the results and outcome of one's efforts, and it is always best to never volunteer unless you leave your ego and 'EXPECTATIONS' at home. Excellent leadership will hopefully make one aware of this point before decisions are made to go so far. Keep up the effort and always remain ethical with your integrity wide open, especially when it is the most difficult choice.

PS. This changed who you wish to become and forced you into a reality that not many are willing to accept and the way the world really is in some countries.. You alone will help to guide others toward this reality. Who can possibly measure the future outcome from you alone?
02:51 AM on 07/20/2012
Sigh.... I 100% know where your coming from but if I see one more white guilt "Did I cause more harm" article\blog\dairy I am going to puke. The reality is your airline ticket price will never go towards a new teacher for the orphanage. and the reality is that every dollar you spent in Kenya while there is well worth your trip.Especially at local stores. If you want to truly make your trip "worthwhile"- now that you have seen and met the locals, start a local fundraising pitch where you pitch in say 50% of the total project and slowly over time start improving their facilities. Its not perfect, not sustainable as the only true change will come through skills building and economy building but too many generations of Kenyans or any other developing country has lived and died "waiting" for skills building as you saw.
03:16 AM on 07/20/2012
Wow, apparently, I can't finish reading an article as your entire last paragraph is about that. Bravo!
02:22 PM on 07/19/2012
I applaud you on writing a very self-aware and truthful piece on a topic that has bothered me as well. While I agree with your point about the impetus for voluntourism often time being very me-centric, your own personal story also relates the the benefits of such trips as well. As a 19 year old you were naive, as most are, but that journey made you realize things about yourself, the world, and ultimately egocentric volunteering that changed the course of your life and, through your foundation, the lives of the very people whom your feared you had exploited. Perhaps in the beginning many young people have their hearts in the wrong places but the reality of the situations they find themselves in on these volunteering expeditions can serve to deglaze their rose-colored eyes and allow them to see a greater world than a comfortable American upbringing. Ultimately the long term effects of this exposure will hopefully impact these needy place and people. The more young people who grow into adulthood having been broken of a self centered view of the world the the better off we will all be. Thank you for your article.
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07:12 AM on 07/20/2012
Thank you Ross. I agree with you entirely, countless young travelers will begin their journeys with rose-colored lenses, naive and egocentric. Hopefully the world beats them up a little bit and they evolve. I certainly wouldn't change my experiences; I wrote the piece wondering if the responsibility to mitigate any potential harm could fall more on the shoulders of the orphanages and schools inviting such volunteers into the lives of the children they serve.
10:15 AM on 07/18/2012
Such an honest and insightful piece, Leila!

But I must say that in thinking over the same issue I've tried to look at the bigger picture. After my time at Flying Kites, I went on to volunteer abroad again with a small group of other students. I watched as my peers went through similar journeys as I had in Kenya. I agree completely that most begin the journey as your archetypal niece - self-absorbed, naive kids looking for another resume builder. But that's not how we end the journey; the vast majority come back deeply transformed - so much so that many reevaluate choices and revise life plans. Many of us are now working our hearts out in social justice career tracks instead of the business world we'd originally intended to join. For me, that month in Kenya is why I work obscene hours in a low-paying position - it's why I sacrifice materialistic stuff, vacations, and above all time with family and friends (check out: http://tinyurl.com/88p6myr ). But since that summer, I have never once looked back.

So while you're right about the nature of volunteers, I think you're missing a big part of the cost/benefit equation here. We're all benefiting in a world where our greatest human resources are being diverted from typical paths to productive and rewarding careers putting the needs of the marginalized and vulnerable first.

And frankly, we have people like you and organizations like Flying Kites to thank for it!
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06:11 AM on 07/19/2012
Thank you Miss. Katie! Your blog looks fantastic, and you are most certainly a Flying Kites ambassador about whom we love to boast! I remember your visit to our little farmhouse in the Mountains of Kenya, and I like to think that your actions and attitudes towards social justice are so thoughtful because you worked alongside a team that urges people to consider what it means to insert oneself into impoverished communities for a short-term visit. I would love to see more children's homes ask the same from their volunteers, as well as carryout background checks, create systems whereby volunteers assist (rather than supervise) local staff, and initiate lots of conversations about the ethics of representation ("oh no please don't take a photograph of that elderly woman washing her clothes in her shamba!").

I suppose the ‘bigger picture’ for me remains rooted in the questions I still struggle with daily, such as “under what circumstances, if ever, is it okay to use orphaned children as a vehicle for personal transformation?”. While I'm not convinced that the “vast majority” of volunteers revise their life plans after such trips, if even 5 percent of all voluntourists turn out like you Katie, it might have all been worth it.

I know you say you haven’t looked back since that summer you came to FK, but don’t forget to glance back once or twice, our child sponsorship drive is in full force and we need your help changing Gichinga's life :)
07:27 PM on 07/19/2012
I would like to point out that while some of us (including myself) have decided to take the path that you've mentioned, NGOs and governmental organizations focused on saving the world can not support a vibrant world economy -- the thing that will, after all, change lives permanently. We need far fewer people starting rural schools and far more people inventing technologies that bring the world to them, or distribution systems that bring down the cost of medications, or new medicines, or new cars that use fewer resources to build and cost less so the world's poor can more easily afford them, etc. etc. I'm not sure that we need to be diverting so many people based on an experience that may be very meaningful to the individual, but which they know very little about how to contribute to real change (the majority of people, unfortunately).

That being said, what concerns me the most about voluntourism is something that the blog Good Intentions are Not Enough had a piece on (too lazy to look it up... sorrrry :). It's something Leila also alluded to: the issue of contributing to a system that is not beneficial to children. Many orphanages have people coming in and out constantly in the hopes of gathering more donations, but we know that this type of thing isn't good for kids.
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07:14 AM on 07/20/2012
I'm into it Brainofmatter, trade not aid!
02:28 PM on 07/16/2012
Thats nice but no matter what you do, the gov. Will not take care of their people. It will soon be abouy your niece as the usa wants us to practice austerity and live like a 3rd world country.
06:59 PM on 07/19/2012
It's nice to see the person who can't spell and has no idea what they're talking about has 517 fans, while the insightful, interesting people have...2.