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The Challenge of Women Leadership in Orthodox Jewish Communities

Posted: 02/26/11 10:09 PM ET

In liberal Jewish synagogues across the country, women have achieved feminist success. They wear ritual garments. They read from the Torah. They are rabbis. But when you enter an Orthodox Jewish synagogue, you enter a gender time warp. Here, women do not count in a prayer quorum. They are not permitted near the Torah. In many cases, you would be hard-pressed even to figure out where the women are located, since they may be seated behind a curtain or wall, or upstairs in a gallery, far from the action. As Tevye the milkman would say, "Sounds crazy, no?"

In many synagogues, women cannot even hold a position of any meaningful leadership: The National Council of Young Israel forbids its 140-member Orthodox synagogues to elect a female president.

If a female synagogue president can be prohibited, imagine the Orthodox Jewish reaction to a female rabbi -- a woman with religious authority. Two years ago, a prominent Orthodox rabbi in New York, Avi Weiss of the Hebrew Institute of Riverdale, in consultation with Blu Greenberg, founder of the Jewish Orthodox Feminist Alliance, bravely broke with conventional Orthodox tradition and ordained Sara Hurwitz. Since the mid-1990s, at least three other Orthodox rabbis had followed their conscience and quietly ordained individual women. But Weiss was the first to ordain a woman publicly.

Weiss never actually called Hurwitz "rabbi." Instead, Weiss coined a term, "maharat," an acronym of four Hebrew words -- manhigah, hilhatit, ruhanit and toranit -- which means a "female leader in Jewish religious law, spiritual matters and Torah." The word is cumbersome; it requires detailed explanation. Everyone with a passing familiarity of Judaism has at least some notion of the concept of "rabbi." But no one, not even those steeped in Orthodox Jewish culture and tradition, not even those of us immersed in the feminist world, can easily explain the definition or derivation of "maharat." When asked about the term, I typically reel off the Hebrew words that are its building blocks, then I translate them into English. I inevitably forget one of the terms, get confused and start again. The process is exhausting, confusing and off-putting.

More troubling, "maharat" connotes a secondary status. For this reason, I opposed the title the instant I heard it. Created for women alone, and designed to differentiate women rabbis from "real" rabbis, the title evokes the bridesmaid who is never the bride.

Last year, Weiss announced that Hurwitz had a new title: "rabba" (ra-BAH). This term, he said, would clarify that Hurtwitz is a full member of the rabbinic staff. A feminized version of the title "rabbi" made sense; Hurwitz has the same credentials as a male rabbi. She completed the same course of study required of male rabbis and works in the same capacity, with the same pastoral obligations.

True, Hurwitz was not being called "rabbi," which Orthodox feminists prefer, because the term conveys the same authority and respect that men enjoy. But in the Orthodox Jewish world, change comes slowly. "Rabba" was close enough -- and the implications obvious enough -- to make those of us active in Orthodox feminism feel triumphant. Moreover, Weiss announced that Hurwitz would head a new seminary for women, Yeshivat Maharat, educating a future pool of women for the rabbinate, so that she would not be the one and only "rabba."

So here you have a woman rabbi who cedes the status of rabbi to respect right-wing members of the Orthodox world. How did that wing react? By denouncing those with the audacity even to imagine that women could approach religious leadership. A March 2010 statement from Agudath Israel, an ultra-Orthodox organization of rabbis, threatened to expel Hurwitz's synagogue from Orthodoxy. The Rabbinical Council of America, one of the world's largest and oldest organizations of Orthodox rabbis, likewise pressured Weiss.

After several weeks, Weiss retreated -- somewhat. He agreed not to ordain women as rabbis at Yeshivat Maharat and not to confer the title "rabba" upon the graduates. Turns out that Hurwitz is indeed the one and only "rabba."

Last month, the most liberal Orthodox rabbinic group in the United States, the International Rabbinic Fellowship, which was founded three years ago by Weiss, together with Rabbi Marc Angel, voted down its first proposal to accept women as members of the organization. But at least the issue is on the agenda.

The current state of affairs is immoral and shameful. There is no halakhic (Jewish legal) prohibition against female rabbis. A "rabbi" is simply a teacher and master of Jewish texts and law. Therefore, some of us are taking matters into our own hands. We don't have the religious authority to ordain anyone. But we recognize the rabbinic status of the handful of women who have been ordained by Orthodox authorities.

We are also involved in independent prayer groups in which women and men lead together, even though they do not sit together. These groups are not egalitarian: women may not lead every part of the service. But women are encouraged to lead all parts for which there is no halakhic prohibition. In the independent prayer group I attend on the upper east side of Manhattan, Yavneh, women recite Hallel, one of the most beautiful songs of praise in the liturgy; women hold the Torah; women read from the Torah; women recite the blessing over the wine.

Like Tevye from Fiddler on the Roof, we struggle with the concept that sacred tradition is fixed yet flexible. Everyone involved in religion -- any religion, in any level of observance -- knows that the key is to find the balance between tradition and modernity.

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In liberal Jewish synagogues across the country, women have achieved feminist success. They wear ritual garments. They read from the Torah. They are rabbis. But when you enter an Orthodox Jewish synag...
In liberal Jewish synagogues across the country, women have achieved feminist success. They wear ritual garments. They read from the Torah. They are rabbis. But when you enter an Orthodox Jewish synag...
 
 
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06:30 PM on 03/10/2011
People who consider themselves Orthodox, yet look to secular society for their value system, find themselves in an untenable position.
Take the author's claim that Orthodox Judaism allows women to be Rabbis. She seems to acknowledge that if Orthodoxy clearly did NOT allow women Rabbis, she would accept it. So why does she believe others must agree with her interpretation of Jewish Law? If they have concluded that Jewish Law does not allow women Rabbis then she should have no issue with them.
The bottom line is you must understand that Talmudic values are at odds with current liberal thought. Stop straddling the fence. Pick a side and be done with it.
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04:57 PM on 03/03/2011
We already have enough problems without female rabbis.
07:15 AM on 03/01/2011
I think some of the comments are missing the point. Tannenbaum is not asking the "Highly educated" Orthodox to "change." She is simply pointing out that they are discriminating against women in leadership roles under the pretense that it is forbidden under Jewish law when in fact, she is correct. There is no such prohibition. Rabbi Sperber from Bar Ilan University has some interesting views on this topic, and he is no lightweight when it comes to Jewish law. I assure you that this will change as people like Tannenbaum create more independent partnership prayer groups, as more women are educated and as more men take uip the cause. After all, these men and women would be rioting in the streets if medical or law schools said that women could not practice law or medicine because there are some people who would not like to have a female lawyer or doctor. Let's stop the charade: Let women lead with their knowledge, and those who choose to seek counsel elsewhere are free to do so.When last I checked, the only body part you needed to be an expert in Jewish law and texts was a brain.
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yoyo1900
09:09 PM on 02/28/2011
Oh tear down that wall that separates men and women in their synogues. It is so outdated and primeval.
07:19 AM on 03/01/2011
I love that wall. and I am a woman. It levels the playing field. Women who are single, divorced, or otherwise not part of a group do not have to sit alone. I also like having some "separate space" during prayer. I am in favor of options, so that there should be synagogues with a mechitza and those without so that people can choose. It would be a shame to unilaterally decide that something that to some feels outdated and others qute comfortable should be removed because it is not approved by all.
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Gonzo36
Pro-awesome!
07:22 PM on 02/28/2011
Here is the thing I dont think many understand about Orthodox Judaism. There are PLENTY of leadership positions available to women. First of all, the wife of a Rabbi, called rebbetzin, is equal to that of a Rabbi with the one exception that she cant make a ruling on the law and she cant lead a service where men are present. Other than that she can teach, give advice, etc- all the things a Rabbi does. Women can write books, discuss Torah and any other learned text, teach, lead discussion groups, etc. Personally, I think the reason there isnt much of an uprising from women in the Orthodox community to become Rabbis is because they just dont feel like they need it. I assure you, Orthodox Jewish women are not afraid to speak up or make themselves heard! And I say this as a female member of the Orthodox community.
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Matt Mihaly
02:03 PM on 03/02/2011
Yeah, just like everything was hunky dory when black people had separate water fountains to drink out of. Hey, why complain, they were just like white water fountains after all!
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07:11 AM on 03/03/2011
your idea of her "giving advice" is to make her appear to be an "Ann Landers" type.. you know that no orthodox man will accept her advice! she can advise women only in this custom but you are being untruthful when you say they are almost equal to the "rebbe." by the way how do you feel about following a female jewish president? just asking...
06:24 PM on 02/28/2011
I don't really get why folks just can't say that the Judeo-Christian God likes boys more than girls. It's pretty evident from the books (just google "sexism in the bible",) and the rituals (the fact that women can't be religious leaders in a lot of sects, do you remember the article about the lack of excitement and rituals for girls births in Judaism as opposed to boys?, and don't forget the creating the Bat Mitzvah like 2000 years after the Bar Mitzvah.) I mean, he is the creator and controller of the entire universe, why can't he be sexist? We couldn't tell a guy who's ideas are the basis for morality itself that he's wrong, you just have to accept and worship. If he tells you that you are inferior, you are inferior.
Good news is it's just a fairy tale...
Bad news is an incredibly large portion of our population believes it.
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helioszephyr
What do you mean by "micro"?!
03:58 PM on 02/28/2011
Beyond my comprehension that any human can, in sound ethical mind, self-righteously deny another's right to any form or level of worship and its leadership.

If it's in that religion's respective scriptures, or can be interpreted as such, to not allow women equal religious rights, then we need to seriously reexamine the morals of that faith... or abandon that "club".

Religious tradition? Let's not even go there... at one time slave ownership was considered "traditional"
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09:12 AM on 03/01/2011
I'm not clear on what you mean by "equal religious rights." Even if women cannot hold the title of rabbi, does that--in and of itself--mean that they are not worshiping or practicing their religion in an "equal" manner? Put another way, if a mother isn't called "father," does that mean she's not "equal" to a father, or does it just mean that they have different, yet equally important roles? Would I be more "equal" to men if I could relieve myself in the men's room? To differentiate is not always to discriminate (though differentiation CAN be used to discriminate, as in apartheid or segregation. I acknowledge that). When women have a different role than men in their religion, it doesn't always mean they are dis-empowered.
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helioszephyr
What do you mean by "micro"?!
05:28 PM on 03/01/2011
It's not about distinction between the sexes, and their respective roles in the church or religion, that determines the value of one's worship, or religious leadership. It's respecting the "value" or the right to "equal access" to god, whether direct worship or as a proxy (rabbi/minister) for the congregation.

I agree, one's role in religion should be of no lesser value if that role is gender based. But this is not what most religions practice.

To use your analogy...
If a mother is not called a father, it certainly does not diminish the value of either parental contribution, or its value. And to differentiate the 2 roles is actually important, but should not be used as a valuation on the ability, and importance, of "parenting", which makes no distinction.

Religion, particularly the RCC, has always differentiated and segregated valuation of gender roles, their importance, value and "power". Traditionally, women have not been granted the "power" to perform services, particularly when serving as proxies or conduits between the congregation and god.

So, I certainly appreciate, and think it's important to make the distinction of roles in the church, as in parenting, but both genders should enjoy equal rights to "worshiping" and its leadership, same as to parenting.

In simple terms... women, as in other aspects of life, have been discriminated in most religions.

I think we agree... just a matter of semantics.
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jeanrenoir
01:32 AM on 02/28/2011
It's as crazy to think that liberal Jews will ever change the Orthodox as it is for "progressives" in general to think that they could ever change the American right-wingers on abortion, gay rights, guns, you name it. The whole schtick of the Orthodox and the right wing in general is to be UNBENDING. Being "flexible" is what they disdain Obama and "progressives" for.
"Real" men aren't "flexible"!
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LIbislife
04:25 PM on 02/28/2011
No, real men stick to their beliefs.
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LIbislife
04:48 PM on 02/28/2011
why do you feel the Orthodox need to bend and change? Why do you feel they must agree with your beliefs? People in the orthodox community do what they do because they believe it is the proper way to live their life. They do so of their own free will, nobody is forcing them. If they choose so they can abandon those beliefs. There are other choices for them.
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Amy Siskind
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10:49 PM on 02/27/2011
Thanks Leora.

I go to a Conservative Synagogue, and our new junior Rabbi substitutes "the holy one" for "he" to ensure that G-d is not gender specified. Love that!
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jeanrenoir
01:32 AM on 02/28/2011
Yeah, but Conservative is hardly Orthodox.
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Chrystal Ji Davey
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08:17 PM on 02/27/2011
Beautiful article, I loved it.
Mostly because it made me think about the same religion that I was raised with (and later abandoned): how can I condemn this limitation put on women when I was raised to praise the Roman Catholic Church?
Yes, it is the same concept: religion, though it can do lots of good, is most of the reason why we are held back every day, most of the reason why it seems as if we're regressing into caveman days.
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02:31 PM on 02/28/2011
Chrystal Ji Davey,
While this article made me, too, think of the church, it made me grateful that women of all religions have come such a long way and continue to make ourselves heard. Not only do I disagree with your claim that religion is the biggest reason women are held back every day, but I also disagree with your characterization of women in the Catholic church. In my parish, and every parish I've belonged to, women play a vital role, from being lectors and eucharistic ministers to heading the Rosary Society and organizing CYO and church events, as well as a host of other things. That's not even to mention the vital role nuns have played and continue to play in teaching, ministering to the sick, and standing up for social justice (workers' rights, small farmers) here and elsewhere. To not acknowledge the important role these women play simply because they are not priests truly undermines them and overlooks their contributions.
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helioszephyr
What do you mean by "micro"?!
04:04 PM on 02/28/2011
"...women play a vital role..."

As long as they stay in the background and have no leadership roles... is the RCC's concept.

Asking for equal rights to worship is not undermining women's contributions. It's a bit like saying... if you want the right to vote then you're undermining all you've to your country thus far.
08:10 PM on 02/27/2011
Why is religion always trying to catch up.

Late on women's rights.

Late on anti-slavery stance.

Late on contraception.

Late on homosexual rights.

Shoot, late on nearly every piece of scientific progress the world has seen.

Why do people try so hard to be stuck in the bronze age is beyond me.
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jeanrenoir
01:35 AM on 02/28/2011
Fear and the need for herd-security are MUCH more powerful motivators for the 95% of the human race who are poorly educated or not educated at all. The more ignorant, and poor, people are, the more they cling to their tribes and their crazy superstitions. This will never change, and as America gets poorer and poorer, it will revert to greater and greater irrationality, desperation, and superstitious nonsense, as it already has started doing in spades.
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LIbislife
04:27 PM on 02/28/2011
Many highly educated people believe in the Orthodox way of life.
04:33 PM on 02/28/2011
religion is by its nature conservative in that it grounds its beliefs in that past and tradition. That said, while some religious groups were late on slavery, others were ahead of the curve on slavery and led the fight against it. And some of the religious groups today which are supportive of homosexuality do a service there which the non-religious alone could not do.

But it is certainly true that when I read the above I both have some admiration for the women fighting for change, but also some confusion as to why they don't simply leave and find a religion that is not fundamentally backwards in these ways.
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Artos
Down with Tyrants
07:22 PM on 02/27/2011
They could if they were allowed to, but that will probably never happen.
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Sonupv
06:58 PM on 02/27/2011
I met some jewish women from Isreal once and as per them if they pass through the orthodox parts of Israeli cities, the orthodox jews spit on them in the public buses.

Bottom line is, all religions are anti-women. Religious have always been about suppression of common sense, free thinking, freedom of speech, you name it . What better way to suppress 50% of the population than to just say "God says you are not equal".
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Gonzo36
Pro-awesome!
07:09 PM on 02/27/2011
There is a difference between Othodox and Ultra Orthodox Judaism. There are crazies in any religion and Judaism is no exception. Those that spit on women are Ultra Orthodox, but the article is about Othodox. Just clarifying.
08:06 PM on 02/27/2011
I lived in Israel for 4 years and I never saw that happen. I have seen them hand out shawls to women that were dressed in ways they considered grossly immodest and if a woman refused to put one on (as is her right) there might be a shouting match. I never saw any spitting despite the thousands of female tourists that pass through these neighborhoods.

It is funny to me that only people outside of religion seem to understand what religion is really about.
06:18 PM on 02/27/2011
As a weekly shul-goer, Torah reader, past-president, and yes, woman, I wish all Jewish women could enjoy participating as I have been able to do - with the satisfaction of contributing and growing spiritually and intellectually. I applaud what Rabbi Weiss, Rabba Hurwitz, and Leora Tanenbaum are doing and wish them less opposition and faster progress.
FreeAmerican7
It's hard to soar like an Eagle around Turkeys!
03:48 PM on 02/27/2011
Wll the Rabba(s) be any different than the Rabbi(s)
when it comes to (to name just ONE of the 10 Commandments) let's say:
THOU SHALL NOT STEAL.....­..........­........

LAND that belongs to the Palestinians of the West Bank?
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FZliveson
Beating the Conundrum
05:02 PM on 02/27/2011
All land then belongs to someone else, and, in the end, to no one and to everyone.
Land has been fought over, protected and "stolen" almost forever.
Next point, please.
06:01 PM on 02/28/2011
Then is it not wrong for Palestinians to try and terrorize Israelis out of "their" land? I mean they are just fighting over something that can be freely taken right?
05:28 PM on 02/27/2011
When you attack a country with the objective of wiping out the population and you lose the war, then you lose the land. Why don't you give your house back to the Native Americans and then we can talk...
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Artos
Down with Tyrants
07:32 PM on 02/27/2011
Wait a minute, What you wrote doesn't make sense in the context of what happened in America. First 
 of all those that attacked America or shall we say moved in and by degrees "Bought", Conned out of, Outright stole or Murdered for the land didn't lose the land. It as the original inhabitants who lost it. That is not quite the same as is going on right now in the Middle East.
08:28 PM on 02/28/2011
And when you (the original poster, not bb1234) attack a religion because of the actions of a political entity in an article that has nothing to do with politics, you lose the argument as well.