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An American Girl in Cuba

Posted: 02/ 8/2012 8:23 am

Simply put, I love Cuba. No, I am not a communist or a socialist, and I have nothing but love for my country, America. But my biased perceptions of Cuba were broken when I got the chance to explore Cuba and immerse myself in Cuban culture. This past June, I was lucky enough to gain the opportunity to visit Cuba through a student visa. I traveled throughout the island with other students from my school. Our eclectic group had diverse backgrounds with hometowns stretching from Olympia, Washington to Wheeling, West Virginia to my home of Pacific Palisades. As we were getting to know Cuba, we also got to get to know each other better.

Exploration was the cornerstone of our trip; we got the chance to explore the entire country, even inland areas such as Vinales, which is famed for its mogotes, which are large limestone formations that date back to the Jurassic period. We adventured in Cienfuegos, which is renowned for its Cuban architectural achievement and in Trinidad, which is the best-preserved colonial city in Cuba, just to name a few. The two weeks of our trip seemed endless during the duration of our stay, but now looking back, our time in Cuba was too short -- even ephemeral. The majority of our time was spent in the historic capitol, Havana. The city of Havana has starkly juxtaposed elements ranging the beautiful architecture to the loud, littered streets. Havana is haunted by the ghost of its colorful and ritzy past. Glamour glints under the aged buildings and the aged society. Havana really does look like a picture from the 1950's -- the dated cars may have been preserved well, but society, not so much. Havana is a city of youth, somehow living in a microcosm of a quondam culture, prevented from evolving. Ration books, a relic of age-old communism that most Cubans used to buy goods, were just eliminated by Raul Castro this past April. Cuba is truly frozen in time, from the peeling paint on the buildings, the empty stores, to the changeless society. Cuba is still a country of extreme paucity -- even soap is seen as a luxury. In essence, Cuba is completely beautiful yet eroded. There is tremendous beauty hidden underneath 50-some years of weathering.

We truly experienced all the facets of Cuban culture. My friend was warned by a Cuban family friend before we went to Cuba that we would only experience the "Disneyland version of Cuba." I can assure you that statement is false. Wherever we went, the highs and lows of Cuban society were clearly illustrated; we saw the beauty, the poverty, the arts, the decay, the hospitality and the biases.

Throughout the entire experience, the gap between America and Cuba was somewhat tangible and worth documenting, but the most palpable illustration of the differences between our societies was seen when visiting the Martin Luther King Junior Center. The center provided a service to Cuban youth similar to our Boys and Girls Clubs. We spent about five hours with the children, learning from each other and communicating in broken English and Spanish.

It was shocking to me how content and happy the Cuban children are with their lives in the restricting and anti-capitalist microcosm that is Cuba. Their parents receive only 1/163 of what our parents make, yet they are not resentful or unhappy about that in any way. Unlike American children, they are not greedy and they have never been on the quest of trying to have more than someone else. When I asked the children if they wanted or even needed anything from America, they replied that they didn't need anything, that they were happy and content with their lives in Cuba. They repeated again and again, "Yo estoy contento!" Then again, when we gave out the gifts that we brought for them, it was like Christmas in June! The kids were so kind and appreciative. On their own, they carefully and kindly divided the gifts so each kid got something that they loved.

Through talking to the kids at the center, I realized that we are all truly all the same. Even though we may be slightly separated by the embargo, a clear consequence of our feuding countries, our similarities are palpable. The wealth gap between our nations is insanely large; American workers, on average, receive $3261 each month and the preponderance of the Cuban population earns about only 20 American dollars per month. Even with this vast discrepancy, the Cuban children really are just like American children. They gabbed about their crushes on Justin Bieber, how much they love Hannah Montana and their jealousy of Justin Bieber's girlfriend, Selena Gomez. They sang me "Baby" and a myriad of Hannah Montana songs including "Nobody's Perfect." They use dated cell phones and they even dress in a similar fashion. They even speak some English! The disparity between our children and these children lies only in the fact that the Cuban children have less, much less than the American children, and how they are completely content with that.

Before I had to leave the MLK center, we all exchanged contact information. I feel so lucky that I have been able to have an email exchange with Melissa since I left Cuba last June. Every email she reminds me that she is still "estoy contento" and that she doesn't need anything from America, but she is thankful that I asked. My connection to my friendships in Cuba has lasted, providing a thread that ties our feuding countries together. I hope that Melissa and I will continue to maintain this valuable connection throughout our lives. But my deepest hope is that children of America realize how good we have it and that we shall forever be "estamos contentos" with our fortunate (and democratic!) lives.

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Lisa Kaas Boyle
10:53 PM on 02/08/2012
In some ways, Cuba has been protected from degradation by the American boycott. Take a look at this 60 minutes clip of Ocean Scientist David Guggenheim interviewed by Anderson Cooper about how Cuba's natural resources, including its coral reefs, have survived beautifully while similar ecosystems in nearby Florida have vanished thanks to overdevelopment in sensitive area, the American overuse of pesticides and fertilizer for agriculture that washes to the ocean, and other environmental harms.
http://oceandoctor.org/video-60-minutes-anderson-cooper-and-david-e-guggenheim-explore-cubas-coral-reefs/
Dr. Guggenheim is also featured in a PBS documentary on this subject called "Cuba: Accidental Eden." The hope of the filmmakers is that when the embargo is lifted, as it surely will be, that Cuba will protect it's valuable resources and not let them go the way that Florida's have.
http://www.pbs.org/wnet/nature/episodes/cuba-the-accidental-eden/video-full-episode/5834/
07:30 PM on 02/08/2012
Almost forty years ago I attended a seminar in Canada and was prevented from bringing into the United States a cloisonne vase from China and a cigar from Cuba. Today one can hardly buy a designer dress or something from the dollar store that is not made in China. While cruising in the Carribean recently I was offered a Cuban cigar with a fake label to pass customs. Manufacturing and the attendant jobs have disappeared in the U.S. What is wrong with this picture? Lili's Grandmother
06:35 PM on 02/08/2012
In 1959 I considered visiting Cuba on the way back from summer school in Mexico but was too immature to make the trip on my own. I have often regretted my missed chance. Almost forty years ago while a faculty member at George Peabody College I attended a seminar in Canada. I wanted to bring back a cloisonne vase made in China, but items made in China were considered contraband and could not be brought into the United States. I also was denied a Cuban cigar because products from Cuba also could not cross the border. Now very few manufactured items available in the United States are made other than in China. This goes for expensive designer clothes and items in the dollar stores. Cuban cigars are available throughout the Carribean and are rebanded for American tourists. The logic is non-existent. No estoy contenta.
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yeti7
don't need no stink'n badges
06:10 PM on 02/08/2012
Did you get to visit any political prisoner while your were there?
Did you help kids cut the sugar cane harvest? Did you get an MRI
while your there?
06:05 AM on 02/11/2012
There are no political prisoners; only people who have broken the laws of the country.

If you want some perspective on the subject, check out the Wikileaks documents. There you'll find that the then head of the US Interests Section, James Cason, was instructed by Washington to provoke the Cubans into closing America's Havana offices. The other side of that particular coin would have been the closure of the Cuban Interests Section in Washington.

It would be fair to say that Cason and his staff cared not one jot for the Cubans who broke the law on their behalf.
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yeti7
don't need no stink'n badges
09:35 AM on 02/11/2012
No political prisoners then what law did the so called political prisoner break to end up in prison?
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yeti7
don't need no stink'n badges
11:57 AM on 02/11/2012
really
http://www2.fiu.edu/~fcf/estoria.presidio.html
05:18 PM on 02/08/2012
I liked the article. It was obviously written by somebody young, idealistic and new to world/country affairs. She does need to know however that for 40 years before the collapse of the Soviet Union, Cuba had access to all the most modern cars,trucks,buses,boats,applicances, utilites and other high technologies devises and services from the Russians, other eastern block nations and South American countries not friendly with the U.S. So, their Cuban leader, Fidel, is really the one responsible for keeping them in a time warp, not our embargo or trade restrictions. However, I'm sure Fidel's military equipment, fire arms, transportation, systems and communications are modern and right up to date.
06:17 PM on 02/08/2012
Finally! Someone who's intelligent and doesn't believe the socialist propaganda about the embargo. Thank you!
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yeti7
don't need no stink'n badges
06:22 PM on 02/08/2012
You say that with a photo of one the most common cars in Cuba the old work horse mid 1950's Chevy. Did you ever use a Soviet made clothes washing machine?
Most Soviet consumer appliances were pure junk. Were because unlike the 25 year old Sears washing machine I am still using you cannot find a usable Soviet washing machine except in some museum. I lived and work in several West African Soviet satellite countries, e.g. PR Congo, Angola and Cabinda in the late 1970's and early 1980's and saw a lot of Soviet era consumer products what a joke most of the were. We trade our old Matag clothes dryer to a Soviet fishing boat for 5 case of good Russian vodka and a small case of fish eggs. That was probably over $500 back then.
10:14 AM on 02/09/2012
I can't disagree with your feelings about Russian products. However, if you went to Moscow 25 years ago (I did), you would have found all the products from around the world ( new American cars,Volvo cars and trucks,BMW cars,motorcycles,Mercedes Benz cars and trucks and many Japanese cars and trucks. Products from all over the world. Soooo any and all of these products could have been easily sent to Cuba directly from Russia, if Fidel wanted them for his people. Obviously he wanted to brainwash his people into believing that the ONLY reason they were living like they used to live in 1955, was because of that ever present devil, the U.S and its embargo.
04:37 PM on 02/08/2012
An excellent piece, but just a few clarifications necessary.

Cuba's rationing system is to ensure a minimum diet for everyone, not to restrict in any way, and to ensure that no-one can buy up a particular commodity and resell it at inflated prices on the black market.

And although earnings in Cuba appear low, they must be seen in relation to Cuba's economy and not that of the US.

Cuba should also be seen in relation to other developing countries, particularly in the Caribbean, and not compared with North America and Europe. But even then, with its excellent education and health programs, it still does pretty well.

It would do even better if it were not for the American blockade/embargo, the constant harassment emanating from Florida - the cause of many otherwise unnecessary and restrictive security measures, and the promotion of a tiny number Cuban malcontents by those hostile to the success of the Cuban revolution
05:04 PM on 02/08/2012
I appreciate your clarification. I agree, I do believe that Cuba would prosper without the embargo/blockade from the US. Thank you for your lengthy and thoughtful comment!

I compared the US economy with Cuba's in order to show the immense difference between a capitalist superpower like America and a developing country like Cuba. I want the readers to see the Cuban economy compared to America's economy so they realize that even with this vast discrepancy, the children of both these differing countries still have so much in common.
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irrenmann
won't read your angry replies :D
03:14 PM on 02/08/2012
Lovely place wrecked by many decades of gangsters, the Communist flavor and otherwise.
04:31 PM on 02/08/2012
Would you rather corporate gangsters wrecked it instead, irrenmann? They've been trying for 50 years and cost Cuba around $650 billion dollars.
04:53 PM on 02/08/2012
I hope from this article (or the pictures) that you can see that Cuba really isn't as wrecked as you said, but I do agree on some sense as Cuba has been deeply eroded. But still, there is beauty beneath the weathering!
10:42 PM on 02/29/2012
I am cuban, I lives in the island for 29 years... now I am a free man, living in Canada... With all the respect that you deserve, the revolution is the big scam of our history. We as a cuban, have been stolen of our rights (the right to leave de country and return freely, the right to form a political party different that the one is in power, the right to speak freely without fear to be push in jail, many rights) To really understand a communist society you have to live in it. Now I can see it very clear: A trip to Cuba for an American, Canadian or any other person of the free world is like a trip to paradise, to some unrealistic world that becomes reality in front of your eyes.
10:43 PM on 02/29/2012
You will see things and people that you have ever seen. Cuban people is warm and friendly. They have nothing to offer you but their love. And you will feel how they want to be the best host of the world. So if you rally care about them, try to look beyond the beautiful experience that you had and help them, please. At the end, they want to have the same rights that you enjoy, they would like to go out of the island and come back without to wait for a permit from the government of Cuba. They would like to express freely with no fear about persecution. Do not you think they have the same dreams like you? Yes, they also "have a dream".
When I live in Cuba I worked for the Cuban Television (no independent press, all the media belong to the government), I was a journalist.