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How many times have you dreamed about the perfect man finding you?
He comes into your life and sweeps you off your feet with his charm and good looks.
Of course he'll have a great job, drive a fancy car and have a wallet in his pocket filled with lots of money so he can treat you to everything your heart desires.
Guess what?
He exists and I like to call him the Type A Quality Man.
The Type A Man is driven and focused which means his business and making money are his number one priority NOT his mate.
This is the type of guy who can wine and dine you to your heart's content.
But when something is bothering you, he's probably not the one who will offer his shoulder for you to cry on.
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His idea of love is PAYING what it takes to fix your problems.
Once he's paid to make things better for you, he'll think his job is done and he'll head back to his mistress meaning work ... leaving you alone to take care of the emotional side his money can't buy.
For many women this is a lonely life because they crave that close connection with a man that most Type A men are incapable of offering.
If you want a true heart connection with a man, then a Type B Quality Man is probably a better fit for you.
His mission in a relationship is to personally protect and take care of you and he will do whatever it takes to make this happen.
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A Type B Quality Man is financially self-sufficient.
Now, that doesn't mean you'll feast on fine dining every night, but he can hold his own financially when you go out on dates.
He has enough money to be comfortable according to his standards.
He's the type of man who makes time to be present in his life whether it's in business, a relationship with you or time with his kids and grandchildren.
He's the one who'll be there to wipe your tears when you're sad and will share your joys when you're happy.
Then you have the Type C Man.
He often come out of a divorce financially or emotionally devastated.
He might be heading into bankruptcy or he's lost his job yet you'll find him out there dating looking for someone to fix him up.
I also call him the "Project Man" and a lot of women love this type of guy in their lives.
Why?
Because women choose men based on their potential versus the reality of who they really are.
Your mission becomes one of making him the perfect man for you.
He loves the attention until he's fixed again.
That's the point where he tires of being your pet project and decides to move on.
Your left feeling angry and betrayed for having put so much energy into a man who deserts you after you've helped him clean up his act.
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Now that you have the inside scoop on the three types of men out there to date, which one do you want in your life?
The Type A Quality Man who can take you on a five-star vacation but may not be there emotionally when you need him?
Or the Type B Man who wines and dines you on a smaller scale and is there for you on an emotional level?
Or do you love a good project man who can keep you busy with his emotional and financial difficulties?
Lisa Copeland is known as the expert on over 50's dating. She's the best-selling author of The Winning Dating Formula For Women Over 50 and her mission is to help as many women around the world as she can discover how to have fun dating and finding their Mr. Right after 50. To get your FREE Report, "5 Little Known Secrets To Find A Quality Man," visit www.findaqualityman.com.
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