You're feeling like "just another guy". You want to understand women and how to build attraction with them. You want to stand out from other men with women. You lack approaching & perhaps social skills and fear rejection. You don't understand female emotion and how to use it to your advantage, but you want to step up and "get the girl."
Why is dating so damn hard? Well, it really isn't if you have a plan and know what the end result looks and feels like.
- You need an outline of what it is that motivates you to find a relationship. Are you aligned with your own purpose and beliefs, and have you cleaned up your relationship baggage? If not, these things could be huge factors that are holding you back. Stop rushing the physical aspects of dating and spend a little more time determining compatibility in the areas that matter most - purpose, beliefs, values.
Every man can have just about any woman he wants. Seriously. For some men it takes a breakup, a devastating divorce or a life altering experience before he will actually see women as a gift. And only then will they get back to the mindset of a man who truly loves women. Regardless of where you've been or what the starting point is; if you do it with purpose and an open heart you will find her.
Lisa Schmidt is a Dating and Relationship coach in Detroit and the author of her own blog. She is a regular contributor to several online publications. Dating and relationship questions can also be sent to her directly Ask Lisa Here Grab this free resource to work on your own dating goals and dating checklist.