I have heard that fashion often reflects the mood of the times. When we are optimistic as a society, hemlines tend to go up. When we feel gloomy, we see more dark gray hues. So it really is no surprise that the fashion trend of the moment seems to be the "distressed" look.
I've seen this everywhere. Jeans have manufactured holes in them, strategically placed rips and sanded down seams. Shirts are wrinkled on purpose, just enough to give that worn-for-a-long-time feel to them. Gone are the starched collars and in is a more "easy" fit. Our new shoes are to be worn not only without socks, but also with the laces conspicuously missing.
Our clothes are mirroring our distress. We've got a monstrous unemployment rate, and a seemingly endless war or two going on at the same time. We are dealing with natural disasters all over the globe, and an oil spill with repercussions that reach far into the future. The economy basically, well, is there any better word than "sucks" right now? And on top of all this, there's the whole Tiger letdown, Jesse cheating on our beloved Sandra, and the Gores' divorce! Yes, "distress" is putting it mildly.
The fact that we have chosen to wear the distressed look tells me that as bad as things are, we have hope. We know we can get through this. These are the kinds of clothes we wear when we're ready to get down to the business at hand. Those paint splattered khakis? They say: "I can handle anything!" That faded denim shirt? It says: "Put me to work!"
Volunteerism is at its highest level since 1992. We may be pinching pennies, but we were able to scrape up $1.3 million dollars in just two hours when Larry King went on the air to raise money to help clean up the Gulf. This is definitely a "can do" society. We are keenly aware that things are bad, and we're making a concerted effort to do what we can to make things better.
We are banding together more. Those "six-degrees of separation" have all but disappeared with social networking. Alyssa Milano personally tweets the importance of the mosquito net in helping to combat malaria and with just a few clicks we are sending a net to the cause. Jenny McCarthy and Holly Robinson Peete have raised awareness and inspired us to take action on behalf of families struggling with autism. Philanthropy has gone viral!
So, yes, with all the events that are happening seemingly at the same time, we're distressed. But maybe in this state we finally have our priorities straight. Maybe we are starting to understand what is important to us. Our style is changing, and evolving. I see the current trend as a statement that "fashion" as we know it doesn't matter right now. What matters is that we take care of the issues at hand, and that we take care of ourselves and each other.
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