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Mystical Prayer: Opening a Door to Silence and Love

Posted: 05/24/2012 7:07 am

"God does not look at your outer forms, but at the love within your love." --Rumi

Amid the noise and increasing demands of our daily life, it is more and more important for many of us to find a way to reach an inner quiet, a place of rest and refuge. For many people, the recent introduction of meditation techniques has been an invaluable means to find a much needed stillness and tranquility.

However, the tradition of mystical prayer is another way to access the peace that belongs to our soul. It is born from a need to rediscover our heart's relationship with the divine, our own personal and most intimate inner connection. Mystical prayer is a place of deepening love, as well as silence and peace.

My own journey in mystical prayer took place within the Sufi tradition, which describes our relationship to God as that of lover and Beloved. On this path of the heart, I was drawn back to the Beloved through the mystery of love, a love affair that takes place within the heart. Our heart is a place of receptive stillness where we wait for our Beloved, wait for this meeting of love for which we long. During the day, I often found myself longing for a time for prayer, when I could turn away from the outer world and go into my heart where I could be alone in silence with my Beloved.

After practicing for a number of years I was asked to lead a gathering at a Roman Catholic retreat center. So I studied the works of the Christian mystics, and was overjoyed to discover in the writings of St. Teresa of Avila a description of the stages of mystical prayer that was very similar to my own experiences within the Sufi tradition. At that time in the 16th century the Inquisition only allowed the mental repetition of prescribed prayers, but St. Teresa was drawn to the mystical Prayer of Quiet, a state of inner receptivity, a listening stillness very similar to the receptive Prayer of the Heart within the Sufi tradition I had been practicing. And in her writings she articulates very clearly the stages of prayer that draw one deeper and deeper within the heart into states of union and ecstasy.

To know that beneath all the divisions of the outer world there is this single stream of mystical prayer is in itself a refuge and deep reassurance. It is so easy to get caught up in the forms and images of the outer world, and yet, as Rumi writes, "God does not look at your outer forms, but at the love within your love." And here, within the heart of each of us, is a place where we can enter the formlessness of love. And as I have discovered from my own journey into the heart, this is a love that embraces each of us with a tenderness and passion known only to lovers. We are taken by love to love.

We begin this journey of mystical prayer with the simple act of listening within the heart. We bring the mind down into the heart, into the feeling center our self. And here we wait and listen, not to the sounds of the outer world, but to the silence that is within our self. This silence is nourishing, and in itself it draws us deeper and deeper within. It is the silence from which love is born, where we meet our Beloved, where we are taken by love. In the words of one Christian mystic, the Blessed John Ruysbroeck, it becomes "the dark silence in which all lovers lose themselves."

Like the practice of meditation, or Centering Prayer, this Prayer of the Heart can be practiced daily. It allows us to have a deepening relationship with the divine that is always present within us, but so easily overlooked in our daily life. It nourishes us from the depths of our own soul. Our outer, everyday life becomes more and more grounded in the core of our own being. And through this simple mystical prayer we discover a friend, a companion, a lover.

Mystical prayer belongs to our deepest human heritage, and as our outer world appears increasingly fractious and out of balance, with economic and ecological uncertainty, it is infinitely valuable to reclaim this tradition. In the West it was often hidden beneath all the rituals and recitations of the Church -- sometimes its practitioners were persecuted -- and yet it was kept alive by mystics like St. Teresa. As we open our hearts and our-selves to love's silence we affirm what is deepest within us and within the world: our relationship to the divine and the oneness that belongs to all of life.

A recent short video Prayer for the Earth:

For more on mystical prayer, see PrayerOfTheHeart on Facebook.

 
 
 
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"God does not look at your outer forms, but at the love within your love." --Rumi Amid the noise and increasing demands of our daily life, it is more and more important for many of us to find a way t...
"God does not look at your outer forms, but at the love within your love." --Rumi Amid the noise and increasing demands of our daily life, it is more and more important for many of us to find a way t...
 
 
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soma77
Author, Speaker, Retreat Facilitator
03:07 PM on 07/14/2012
Thank you, inside everyone is a path that shows a way to peace and happiness with a full deeper meaning to life that requires no departure from any religion or modern life. http://thinkunity.com
01:46 PM on 06/20/2012
Today is a Planetary Earth Healing Prayer Day at the Rio summit. This beautiful and heart felt short but poignant video clip Prayer for the Earth by Llewellyn Vaughan-Lee at the bottom of this article is a clear reminder of the great need of the moment.
12:02 PM on 06/13/2012
Llewellyn... Keep up the good work of comparing religious information between cultures, when it come to mysticism. People need to know and believe that many times a different culture has a clearer way of getting through to us on the subject of mysticism. People need to explore beyond their own religious boundaries.
Eric
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05:27 PM on 06/02/2012
Reading the comment below makes me very sad.
If one is connected to one's soul and recognizes the interconnectedness of all life, one then can feel that the earth itself also has a soul and is alive.
Carl Jung, the famous psychologist wrote "that the loss of emotional participation in Nature has resulted in a sense of cosmic and social isolation. It is not the airy Christian soul that we have lost but more concrete" bush soul" that links us with the ancestral spirit in Nature. Not so long ago, the spirits within Nature were still alive and active, Judeo Christian religion and scientific materialism have contributed to the current negative attitude towards its spiritual dimension. Carl Jung sees the necessity of restoring to Nature its original wholeness and considered matter and spirit as equal mysteries. Matter is the tangible exterior of things and spirit the non visible interior."
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conscioushope
"There is no darkness but ignorance." Shakespeare
08:50 PM on 06/12/2012
Wonderful post, Belian. Proud to be fan #1
09:09 AM on 06/01/2012
One more try: That the earth, or any given asteroid, or any piece of ice in the ort cloud, is an expression of the Creator does not mean that piece of creation has a soul. It is a logical error. Love the Lord your God with all your strength, and with all your soul and all your heart and WITH ALL YOUR MIND.
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conscioushope
"There is no darkness but ignorance." Shakespeare
08:51 PM on 06/12/2012
Love is love is love.....
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onlyThis
How do you free a bird from an empty cage?
11:44 PM on 07/09/2012
Perhaps there is only one Soul and all things are found in it?
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soma77
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09:11 PM on 05/30/2012
Thank you, I also believe drawing upon the invisible forces of Christian Mysticism, the Christian Mystic can feel the oneness and see that responsibility, decision-making and optimism all flow together in one universal consciousness, where God is an obvious reality. When a deep awareness of unity is established, one benefits tremendously physically, mentally and spiritually because the habit of being positive is acquired, and God is no longer a closed concept, but an infinite vast always present consciousness. http://thinkunity.com
08:45 AM on 06/01/2012
You may not care that I like your post but would have you change one small word. "...all flow together ("to" or "from") one universal consciousness, where God is an obvious reality."

I find it interesting too that string theory describes everything that is as tiny varying vibrations, the voice of God.
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soma77
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05:59 PM on 06/02/2012
I am trying to reach Christians who I hope would investigate with science their beliefs so I use some language that they can relate to. One only enlarges one's capacity to know and to experience it, unity and the whole. In our present state of Christian awareness we are standing with our eyes next to the painting and only see one small patch of colors at a time, but if we open our minds to science and other theories we might see more of the whole picture.
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conscioushope
"There is no darkness but ignorance." Shakespeare
08:52 PM on 06/12/2012
Yes, soma. Thanks. faved since a fan
11:18 AM on 05/30/2012
Thank you for the post. I'm afraid you've stirred up the Gaia Goddess people who fail to recognize their need to accept that the earth is a created thing. as for the mystical aspect of prayer, I was introduced to it in a religion class taught by a Russian Orthodox professor, and am very indebted to him for that.

If more Christians would practice meditative prayer how would the combativeness we now experience continue. Jesus' New Commandment is how we're supposed to be recognized. The encounter with love during the exalted stage of meditative prayer goes a long way toward sanctification. Again, nice post, even if it is from a different belief system.
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Bianca Befana
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11:42 PM on 05/30/2012
I resent your comment corralling all the 'Gaia Goddess" people into one ideological belief system. As a matter of fact I enjoyed this article very much. The time it takes to truly meditate & listen to the inner soul is a very hard practice, but can be achieved. Please do not put Pagans/Wiccans into mind set. You know nothing of my various beliefs. But Peace to you anyway Christian! Blessed Be! BB
01:23 AM on 05/31/2012
From a different belief system?
The whole point of the article although drawing an example from the Sufi and Christian mystics is that mystical prayer belongs to our deepest human heritage and "affirms what is deepest within us and within the world: our relationship to the divine and the oneness that belongs to all of life." It is not about belief, but about a deep experience within the heart.
08:32 AM on 06/01/2012
Anna, I doubt you'd argue that the experience isn't revelatory, that it doesn't or shouldn't have a result in one's life including one's ideas. Existence isn't all about "feelings" after all. An encounter with the noetic should be a life altering experience that affects one's belief system too. Let's not you and I talk past one another like Paul and James, "It's works." "It's faith." Truth is a faith will inevitably show works, but it's the faith that gives the works meaning. They're both right.
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conscioushope
"There is no darkness but ignorance." Shakespeare
08:53 PM on 06/12/2012
Well put, Anna. fanned
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ChaCubed
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07:47 PM on 05/29/2012
The picture accompanying this article on the front page is awesome!
04:12 PM on 05/28/2012
The only thing that I question in this is the assumption of the concept of God, the Creator. First, it is singlular, and we cannot know that. You say the Earth is a living being, again singular. I agree, to a point that we are One, in a mystical sense. We share this existence. However, to talk of the 'soul of the Earth' is truly a stretch. The reality is that Nature is not always loving and respectful. That is not the way it developed. If you wish, we can say that it is apparently not the way the Creator made things The Tsunami knows not the sole it tramples to death. Nature has beauty, to be sure; yet there is the harsh reality of nature as well. All is NOT love.

Now, I hear you, Spiritually, and I agree with most everything you speak of from 'within'. We need to improve our understanding and acceptance of 'what is or was' in the beginning - for as of now, we do not actually know.

"To the Great or Small yet Mysterious Source or Sources of all Existence" - Paine Parker. That is our best shot at our 'roots' thus far. That is as far as we KNOW! Our best shot, I agree, is to emit LOVE, with good peripheral vision.

"Science without religion is lame. Religion without science is blind." Albert Einstein.
10:33 AM on 05/29/2012
A living being does not mean singularI at all. It is a living being with all the millions of manifestations. And still a living being.
I think the fact that one thinks that the earth has no soul is one of the main problems in our culture today. We are divorced from the sacred. Everything has a spirit. How else can we live? You have quoted Albert Einstein who also says: "Every one who is seriously involved in the pursuit of science becomes convinced that a spirit is manifest in the laws of the Universe-a spirit vastly superior to that of man, and one in the face of which we with our modest powers must feel humble."
And he also says: "The finest emotion of which we are capable is the mystic emotion. Herein lies the germ of all art and all true science. Anyone to whom this feeling is alien, who is no longer capable of wonderment and lives in a state of fear is a dead man. To know that what is impenetrable for us really exists and manifests itself as the highest wisdom and the most radiant beauty, whose gross forms alone are intelligible to our poor faculties - this knowledge, this feeling ... that is the core of the true religious sentiment. In this sense, and in this sense alone, I rank myself among profoundly religious men."
08:39 AM on 06/01/2012
Here we definitely differ, Anna. A basic piece of knowledge is the fundamental difference between the animate and inanimate. That rock in my garden ain't alive. The basil, and the microorganisms in the soil are.
The quote from Einstein was fine, but has nothing to do with thinking a planet has a soul.
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ChaCubed
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07:44 PM on 05/29/2012
"Science without religion is lame. Religion without science is blind." Albert Einstein.

This quote attributed to Einstein is one of several of his quotes which just go to prove no one is perfect. He was way off on this one. Science without religion is science, and that's a good thing. It's a shame he failed to recognize that. Hard to believe he failed so badly, but, as I said, just goes to show, no one's perfect.
09:25 PM on 05/29/2012
You misunderstand what he meant by 'religion' He did not mean a theological system. He was referring to a reverance and awe of the creation itself. A religious (mystic if you will) appreciation for the creation he witnessed 'under a microscope'.

Nothing nearly as trite as you are assuming.

It is arrogant to say that Albert Einstein "failed so badly". Jealous? or what?
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11:55 PM on 05/29/2012
Your comment has nothing to do with the article.
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onethot
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04:58 PM on 05/27/2012
Thank you for this article that touches the deepest and truest in all. LOVE between the Creator and the creation regardless of what one chooses to name it... God, All-That-IS, Infinity, LIfe Force, Divine, Allah, Consciosness, etc, it is ALL ONE creator and we are all expressions of same including all mineral, vegetable, animal, and human creations.
To quote a dear friend, " One heart beating"
Your take on mystical prayer is much like some forms of meditation where simply resting and waiting in the stillness for the sole purpose of union with " the Beloved" is the one " goal." Not asking, not expecting, not wanting... just being with Being.

Many Blessings....
12:23 PM on 05/27/2012
Thank you for this beautiful commentary. In my inner work, I focus on the truth that we are more consciousness than matter, more spirit than material form. How does this relate to your essay? Consciousness and spirit are not scale-bound. Self- defined as consciousness and spirit, positioning ourselves 'in" the cosmos, "on' our blessed Earth (through inner visualization) provides us with the crucial, self-evident fact of our Oneness as a species, always and everywhere in loving relationship with our Mother Earth. As more and more of us inhabit this conceptual "higher ground", coherence can grow in our collective consciousness field, a great "stillness" will settle over our species, the old conceptual frameworks/barriers of separation, exploitation and fragmented human territorial schemes can fall away. Such stillness/centering on spirit is not only our human heritage, but I think our specie's purpose. You write on mystical prayer "With it, we affirm what is deepest within us and with in the world - our relationship to the divine and the oneness of all life." Deepest, and most meaningful, and to which we owe our highest allegiance, I would add.
06:42 PM on 05/26/2012
Thank you for this loving article.
If one reads so many of the titles on the Religion page one can gets a little discouraged. A butler stealing from the Pope, police surveillance of Muslims, pastor says lesbian and gays should be killed or put in a concentration camp...who we hates or favor and so on and so forth.
Have we forgotten what the word religion really mean?

In Latin it means" respect for what is sacred" or "reverence for the gods." Popular etymology connects it with religare "to bind fast" or "bond between humans and gods".

This article is a bright light in the midst this page here as it touches upon the true sense of what the word Religion really means in its essence. It is a reminder that mystical prayer belongs to our deepest human heritage. It is about union, love, real relationship, longing, intimacy. Again, a reminder about what does it mean to be human.
Thank you!
10:07 AM on 05/26/2012
I am deeply touched how the prayer for the earth is included here. How it reminded us that we are not separate from the earth and how the earth is also a living being not just un feeling matter. How the prayer of the earth is also the way of the mystery of divine love and the relationship to the heart. I think this is SO important to remember as the forgetfulness of it is the main cause in what is happening to the earth now. We have forgotten the sacred nature of the earth and thus treating it in a manner that destroy it and as as a result us too.
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11:35 AM on 05/25/2012
It is wrong to say that meditation is a recent technique. Moses spent
several hours in meditation. Most of the prophets moved into deserts
or solitary places and spent months in meditation. That is the reason
that they could not be traced by kings whenever they needed their
advice. Jesus fasted and meditated for forty days before He started
the ministry. During the course of His ministry, Jesus quite often
went to mountains and other solitary places for meditation.Medieval
Monks chose to renounce all worldly life and goods and spend their
lives working under the strict routine and discipline of life in a
Medieval Monastery. The daily life of Medieval monks was dedicated to
meditation,worship, reading, and manual labor. In addition to their
attendance at church, the monks spent several hours in reading from
the Bible, private prayer, and meditation. Anthony, a medieval monk,
headed out into the alkaline Nitrian Desert region and he remained
in meditation for some 13 years.Anthony is notable for being one of
the first ascetics to attempt living in the desert proper, completely
cut off from civilization. His anchoretic lifestyle was remarkably
harsh and he was the inspiration for the coming of hundreds of men and
women into the depths of the desert, who were then loosely organized
into small communities, spending most of the time in
meditation.Probably Hindu swamis would have learnt about meditation
from Christian monks of the medieval period.
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05:27 PM on 05/25/2012
You might want to study your history a little bit. Hinduism is the oldest, still practiced religion in the world and Buddha predated Christ by about 500 years. It isn't out of the real of possabilities for Christ to have been a devotee of a Hindu Guru.
09:27 AM on 05/26/2012
Also he should read this article a little bit better and see what the author really mean . He does not write that meditation is a recent technique but that meditation techniques have only recently ( since the late 60's) been made available to many people.
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08:37 PM on 05/26/2012
nice comment, this reminds me a bit of America's early history, where the religious endured harshness, first to cross the Atlantic, then struggle to grow crops and survive, also many of the westward expeditions came under the wisdom of educate/learned religious folks who through monk style discipline set up a mission that thrived and used as a settlement for others to stop and refresh themselves then continue manifest destiny, these religious are still honored in the many names of cities; such as St Paul, Santa Fe and San Fransisco
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onlyThis
How do you free a bird from an empty cage?
11:50 PM on 07/09/2012
Don't forget about all the Native people they killed.
11:10 AM on 05/25/2012
It is very special feeling to know that mystical prayer belongs to our deepest human heritage. It feels as if while walking on the earth one has the deep knowing that there is this silent stream of underground pure water which is always there in the depth beneath one's feet. A silent connection, a silent relationship which is always present, silently nourishing us.
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08:39 PM on 05/26/2012
yes, the more we yield to our spiritual side hopefully the more spiritual we become