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'Sh*t Apathetic Girls Say' Misses The Mark

Posted: 01/12/12 07:05 PM ET

While we are slightly tired of the Shit ____ Say meme -- "Shit Monks Say" was a particular low -- we're all for encouraging comfortable privileged people to mitigate the suffering of others, the deterioration of the planet, the abuse of animals and other ills we should all be doing more to combat.

That apparently was the intention of DoSomething.org's new, almost certain to go viral "Shit Apathetic Girls Say" video. Unfortunately, this video is about as likely to inspire activism as an episodes of "Real Housewives Of Atlanta."

The original Shit Girls Say video was criticized for portraying women as overly needy and shallow, but this version takes all of that a step further.

Here's what we were thinking we were watched the video above:

1. So there are no apathetic dudes?
We're pretty sure that ignoring homelessness, not believing in global warming and not voting aren't typically female activities -- see the views of Mssrs. Romney, Paul, Perry and Gingrich, et. al. Also, in every presidential campaign since 1980, the percentage of women who voted has surpassed that of men. Just saying. And no, those women were not, as the video suggests, voting online.

2. Bad wigs aren't any way to launch a movement
The video seems to take sartorial or comedic cues from "Work It," which if you've read any reviews, seems like a distinctly bad idea. How is a man impersonating a blonde woman with an air bubble stating "I have no opinions" near his head going to inspire women to create change in their communities -- or men, for that matter?

3. Context, context, context
One of the reasons Franchesca Ramsey's "Sh*t White Girls Say To Black Girls" video was so effective was that she wrote an essay explaining its intentions. We didn't even realize this video was meant to impel people to get off the couch until the last line, "Don't be like them." (A short explanation of the DoSomething video's intentions can be found deep in the bowels of the organization's website.)

DoSomething's mission is obviously laudable -- it's important to draw attention to apathy in our society, and doing a web video targeted at a young audience was a good idea. Will.i.am's "Yes We Can" video and Rock The Vote are two great examples of viral activism done right. It would just be great if that video didn't suggest that all young women behave like Cher Horowitz before she decided to dedicate her time (and her skis) to victims of the Pismo Beach disaster. That's all we're asking.

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11:46 AM on 01/27/2012
"1. So there are no apathetic dudes?"
That was never said, nor was it ever implied. Pointing out the flaws of one population does not equate saying a different population is better or doesn't participate in the same activities. Taking that position is the classic "Well...but...YOU DID IT TOO!!!" mode of defense. When one chooses to be defensive, they probably aren't hearing what's being said.

"2. Bad wigs aren't any way to launch a movement"
How is that a criticism of the offensive content of this video? It isn't? So then it doesn't need to be said. Yes. They're wearing bad wigs. I'm sure they are sincerely sorry that the production values of their 1'19" youtube video meme don't meet your evidently lofty standards.

"3. Context, context, context"
I'm not sure what you think this was trying to be effective at, nor can I figure out why you think it needs to be working towards activism. It's a joke. It isn't meant to kick start a new Apathetic Women's Liberation movement.
11:18 AM on 01/20/2012
lighten up francis
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Jill Di Donato
12:29 AM on 01/20/2012
Even worse: Shit Single Girls Say... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bDHUhT71JN8
What happened to Juliette Lewis? She used to be so bad-ass. I don't think tearing down other women is bad-ass at all. It's rather lame.
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Ayla87
Don't Delete Me Bro!
12:17 PM on 01/18/2012
All this bawwing over an internet meme, and the only thing I can think of is a line from Family Guy:

"Stop it, stop your boo hooing. You see? That's why nobody respects the WNBA."
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BigWillyG
11:24 AM on 01/18/2012
It's a viral video not some lecture on society. There are waaaay more important things to worry about. Just watch and be able to laugh.
04:00 PM on 01/16/2012
The funny thing is that the author is the polar opposite of who is being critiqued, yet she is highly offended. While the women who really are apathetic couldn't care less if they' re being criticized for feeling like that.
02:17 PM on 01/16/2012
3. Essays explaining what you're up to are for people who need everything to be one of Aesop's fables. It might make a better Sunday school lecture, but when I want to be entertained I do not go to Sunday school (or sociology lectures).
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LMPE
I connect the most dissimilar things
12:57 PM on 01/15/2012
I think that it was meant as a joke.
12:46 PM on 01/13/2012
1. So there are no apathetic dudes?
We're pretty sure that ignoring homelessness, not believing in global warming and not voting aren't typically female activities

This website has all manner of articles about "women's issues" where women are generally complaining about something that EVERYONE has to put up with. Do you girls bother clearing up then that men too must endure these things? No. As soon as women are accused of something, however, oh no, men do it too. How convenient.
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MissTake1989
Equal means equal, hypocrites.
02:57 PM on 01/13/2012
Many (most?) women cannot bear accountability.

"He did it, too" excuses their behavior in their minds.
05:59 PM on 01/20/2012
I would personally like a men's section to appear. I get a *bit* of men's perspective from the comments section here, but it'd be nice to have actual articles as well to give a (hopefully) more complete picture.
10:39 AM on 01/13/2012
There are few things funnier than men with facial hair dressing up like women to make fun of them.
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Jake Thomas
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12:16 PM on 01/14/2012
What about chimpanzees in human clothing, now that's funny!
11:16 AM on 01/20/2012
animals smoking cigerettes is usually good for some yucks too
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OtayPanky
You're welcome
02:44 AM on 01/13/2012
Verah funnah!
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JohnnyKong
Loyalty only to reason and logic.
01:56 AM on 01/13/2012
That sh*t was hilarious...seriously LMAO! :`D
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elsquibbs
Socially liberal, fiscally prudent atheist.
01:21 AM on 01/13/2012
OMG someone made a video I don't like. Let's blog about it.
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Jake Thomas
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12:17 PM on 01/14/2012
With two of our girlfriends no less.
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pfods
01:19 AM on 01/13/2012
uninformed girls at my school say things like that on the daily. pretty spot on.
12:00 AM on 01/13/2012
It is a joke. It doesn't perpetuate any stereotypes if you take it for what it is. A joke. Not news.
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02:47 AM on 01/13/2012
The joke is only funny if it's about the right demo, like men. Jokes about us are hilarious, the more mean spirited the better.
10:26 AM on 01/13/2012
Check out Chris Rock talking about who you can make fun of and who you can't.

Basically you can make fun of men all you want. You can't make fun of women ever because "that's just mean."
12:03 PM on 01/13/2012
poor men! Let me get out my violin.