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Reflections on the Death of Sathya Sai Baba: Discernment Is A Lifelong Process

Posted: 05/ 4/2011 12:02 pm

Another saint has passed. Spiritual leader and Indian guru Sathya Sai Baba died on April 24, 2011. Was he more saint or more sinner, who can ultimately say? He was, above all, a human being, just like every other significant spiritual teacher on the planet.

Although I never met Sathya Sai Baba, when I learn of his death, my heart saddens. For the hundreds of thousands of people who considered him to be their guru, the countless lives benefitted from his service, the glory and suffering of this man's life, as well as the grace and challenges that faced all who surrounded him.

I remember learning about Sathya Sai Baba as a 25-year-old woman living in India. I had traveled there on a one-way ticket and was finding my way around, not even willing to use a guidebook less the "Inner Voice" I was seeking to follow be thwarted by the influence of those who had traveled before me.

The first wanna-be guru I spent several weeks with there considered himself to be a guru in the direct lineage of Sathya Sai Baba, though they had never met in person. Sathya Sai Baba was known for his miracles, and those devoted to him often found a sacred ash called vibhuti on their altars. So when a gray ash appeared on my bed in my tiny room alongside the Ganges River, I reported this to my new teacher. It was quickly assumed that I had been the recipient of this miraculous ash and word quickly spread that I was to be an important disciple of my new guru.

Something felt ... well, wrong about this. After a few days in my newfound local fame, I returned to my little room, borrowed a broom, moved my bed to the middle of the room and promptly stood up on it and vigorously swept the ceiling. Lo and behold, cheap gray Indian paint rained upon me.

I was relieved somehow -- I didn't need to be the recipient of miraculously manifested sacred ash. I was just looking to find happiness, love, and whatever this longed-for enlightenment might be, but not ash. My popularity diminished almost instantly.

Most believe that Sathya Sai Baba did indeed possess the magical power, or siddhi, to manifest fancy objects and jewels for his followers. Others suggest this was entirely fraudulent. But let us assume it might have been true -- this would not mean anything about his enlightenment or lack of enlightenment, but rather that he possessed a great power. If this power was somehow fraudulent, but faith was healed among disbelievers and people found themselves closer to love of the Divine, could it be said to be altogether bad? The benefit is that this power awakened tens or hundreds of thousands of people from the disbelief in the divine. It healed their cynicism and opened their hearts. Praise to any gift that can open hearts, let us just not mistake this for enlightenment.

Many years ago I felt the need for a great book to be written about what happens to spiritual communities when a teacher dies. I asked a writer friend if he could do it as I could not find the time. Sadly there are few resources written for support on this trans-cultural challenge that is timeless in its nature, and contains cultural and historical variables given the complexity of the times we are living in, the immensity of projections onto the guru, and the distinctions regarding the Eastern and Western psyche. It is such an important transition for each student or disciple, so many predictable challenges regarding power, leadership, loss, reorganization of the community. I wish his families and followers ease in their grieving, all of us spaciousness and forgiveness around any of Sathya Sai Baba's weaknesses, and most of all, integrity to those who are charged with the responsibility of spiritual leadership.

I have tried to write about these issues extensively in my forthcoming book The Guru Question: The Perils and Rewards of Choosing a Spiritual Teacher. However, the fact remains: discernment is a lifelong process, and there are more questions than answers. Each life, each relationship is distinct. We can simply cultivate greater discernment as we journey through a labyrinth of increasing subtlety.

Another historical figure, renowned guru, and servitor of our time has passed. Praise to his goodness and may his great influence continue touch lives and promote healing on the planet.

 
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08:42 PM on 05/09/2011
>>>>But let us assume it might have been true
LoL. Seriously?
09:26 PM on 05/06/2011
Mariana,
Your blog is an objective one if one has not necessarily had a direct experience with Sathya Sai Baba.

I am sure you will find this blog very interesting - "The Question of Godmen"
http://thequestionofgodmen.blogspot.com/2006/03/sai-baba-vishwananda-etc-question-of.html

I also draw your attention to my personal blog where I write on Sai Baba and discuss the role of 'guru' versus Sai Baba's role as Avatar - I write as well on spirituality, yoga etc
http://sai-baba-as-guru.blogspot.com/
03:02 AM on 05/06/2011
Sathya Sai Baba means Truth Mother Father
Sai Baba is not a good guy or a good GOD. He is not bad either.
Sexual Misconduct Allegations are probably true and those victimized got served by Karma.
Because
Sai Baba is Truth of God , universal Truth that has no temporal spatial boundaries of cause and effect, which is also called Karmic Law of Hinduism
08:42 PM on 05/09/2011
Oh yeah, great the victims deserved it? Wow. It is such kind of posts that bring bad name to Hinduism.
09:21 AM on 05/10/2011
So to please you i should say they didnt deserve it ?

To please common people who everday eat, shit, drink, lust, glutton and gossip and sleep and repeat the process again the next day ?

To please those who do not have any idea of the victim's past lives but they consider themselves worthy of passing the right judgement on his present problem ?

There is no bad name good name, there is just Truth and i cannot corrupt truth to please you, ordinary mortal.
02:40 AM on 05/06/2011
"The first wanna-be guru I spent several weeks with there considered himself to be a guru in the direct lineage of Sathya Sai Baba"

There you go you found the wrong person and already judged all of the gurus in the same bag. You were an insincere spiritual seeker Mariana Caplan, Ph.D... PhDs are useless it only empowers your ego unless its used as an example to show others humility and knowledge seeking ability of a young child.

Sai Baba is resurrecting soon
One of my guesses is May 15, 3 weeks after his death on easter sunday april 24 2011.
Check out youtube.com/gozeep for my tribute, compelling talks of devotees and documentaries in Sathya Sai Baba, GOD of the universe.
09:18 AM on 05/05/2011
It is with good intentions, no doubt, that Caplan wants to contribute to helping people whose teachers die and ease their transition and grief. I must take exception, however, to her assertion that - even if these teachers employed fraud as part of their teaching - that it would be a benefit if people found their faith healed or it brought them closer to the love of the Divine, not 'altogether bad'.

To have to stimulate faith through fraud already speaks of the hollowness of such faith. 'Love of the Divine' is an entirely subjective emotional belief in matters which cannot be proven . These age-old delusions encourage people to project their own autonomy onto ideas and imaginings external to themselves and the known universe . the crutch of false hopes.

There is no serious evidence that prayers ever work - and nearly all children even soon discover that - as do those who go to Lourdes etc. for healing of incurable illnesses (intensive research has shown this cannot be proven in a single case). Massive religious industries work to maintain and reinforce the delusion.

To endorse Sathya Sai Baba is contrary not only to rationalism, but also to those who do not ignore or deride the victims of his very widely alleged sexual abuses, murder cover-up and obtaining massive donations under false pretences (of giving away real diamonds etc.)
See http://www.saibaba-x.org.uk/7/Sathya_Sai_Baba_green_diamond_proven_a_fake.htm
03:01 AM on 05/05/2011
I must say that I am happy that most of your article is positive. There is so much negativity out there, you deserve this credit. However, I did feel that you left a piece somewhat unfinished. You mentioned how you were relieved of not being the recipient of the "miraculously manifested sacred ash". While you found that to be old paint in your case, I felt that you left your reader, either intentionally or not, with the conclusion that there is nothing miraculous about these manifestations that occur in many devotees' homes. I encourage you to investigate further before arriving at conclusions.
07:41 AM on 05/05/2011
Sai Baba followers have been inculcated with the simplistic (and practically unworkable) moral commandment never to see, hear, think or speak negatively of anyone (and that mostly meant, not of Sai Baba or his minions!) So they cannot go to exposé websites to learn of the many alleged crimes he is held responsible for (including scores of signed and testified statements by young men around the world). Nor can they investigate the political quashing of court petitions, the cover-up and protection from prosecution by his devotees in the government and supreme court (as High Chief Justice Bhagwati has recently astonishingly revealed in an interview with the Times of India).

Add to that the massively-documented deceptions, impossibly fantastic claims and outright frauds that Sathya Sai Baba carried out - not forgetting the opportunistic, simplistic hodgepodge of often self-contradictory teachings, and scores of false statements of fact, and the 'perils of choosing a spiritual teacher' become far more important than and subjective 'rewards' of false spiritual security. See http://www.saibaba-x.org.uk/
08:43 PM on 05/05/2011
Bravo! The idea that this man was a saint or guru is preposterous and absurd. The very idea that he was a saint or guru is a poster child for the underpinning of ignorance by the faithful & uneducated masses who elevate him to that status.
12:54 PM on 05/06/2011
Trust me--I have looked at every single site out there. Btw, you might want to take a look at this site as well: http://www.saisathyasai.com/

Either way--no site and nobody till date has been able to prove how sacred ash has appeared in my own home in front of my own eyes, when "no one else" was there.
12:35 AM on 05/05/2011
I can tell you that no one in the Sai community needs any sort of "support" and we aren't facing a "trans-cultural challenge". I can understand how some might feel upset at Swami's death but in reality, as the previous poster suggested, nothing has happened. Yes, some might be experiencing a crisis but that can't be a bad thing and no self help advice or book is needed, especially not from a layperson watching from the sidelines. Sri Nisargadatta stated that realization itself only comes in a crisis. If Swami's physical death is a crisis for you, then use it.

I'll say one thing Swami's death is not: It's not a good topic for a blog post by someone selling books. It's actually quite offensive even to someone like myself who is so convinced of Swami's divinity as to make His physical death kind of a joke in terms of what I know to be His(My) reality. If anything, I'm relieved because I love Him and don't want the physical body to suffer so much.

Look, I'm sure you've got a lot of good points in your book but you should leave Sathya Sai Baba out of it and stop capitalizing on His "death", especially while many people are grieving and coming to terms. Next time, write about what you have direct experience with. Meanwhile, I encourage you to put down the photo of the sea, come on down, get your feet wet and even jump in.
07:08 AM on 05/05/2011
Reply to Grihasta - If no one in the Sai community needs any kind of support (something you want to believe but certainly cannot know!), how come that so many have mailed me about their worries, seeking more information, answers to question. I am no 'lay person' in your prideful terms - I was leader of the Sathya Sai Organization for 18 years in Norway. Sai Baba's premature death (compared to his various and conflicting prophesies about it) was predicted my me and others through the past decade. He had stated in 1960 (Sathya Sai Speaks Vol. 1 p. 198) that he would have to live for 59 more years in his body (until age 93 maximum). So he should have lived until 2019! He also firmly stated he would live until 96 years of age. No amount of fiddling with lunar calendars (as the Sai people now are trying) can fix the failed 'wisdom'. The most favourable result calculation of how many lunar years he lived gives 94.4 years (according to the chief Sai website), which is nowhere near 93 or 96!

Sathya Sai Baba was not even able to give the illusion of entering 'samadhi' from the lotus position, as Yogananda and other 'yogis' supposedly did... he died in intensive care without consciousness, that is, contrary to the requirement for 'holiness' even of all Indian tradition.
10:57 AM on 05/05/2011
Haa - So ur the "famous" Robert Priddy in disguise? Found you from your 18 years in Norway story! As an ardent Sai devotee - I visited ur site during the time when Swami was ill - because u did some amazing reporting work on Swami's health - So I appreciate you for that.

I am also appreciate you for one more thing - Your deep love for Swami - You think and write about him every day - like Kamsa thinking about Krishna all the time! :) I am glad your spending your last few years of your life thinking about the Divine (even in a bad context) - but you are still thinking about Him - so thats pretty good!

To let you know something - you would have no answers on how sathya sai baba appeared in front of our family many many years ago and how he saved my father from his death in London. Your silly views on ash and gold watches will never answer the umptitude of miracles that have happened to me without his "physical" presence that shows he was truly Divine!

I am also keen to know what have you done to the society? When you die - who is going to cry for you apart from your relatives? Thats what you have achieved mate ;)

You can shout over the roof- comment whereever you want - you are not going to change an iota in a pure devotees heart! So my
01:03 PM on 05/06/2011
Perfectly said Arjuna. These guys for some reason only talk about the miracles in His physical presence. Easy to attack. And 99% of them just copy of each other with no direct experience. They assume devotees have no sense of scientific inquiry.
04:20 PM on 05/04/2011
It is interesting when people write articles about Sai Baba when they in fact have no genuine experience what so ever. You are on the outside looking in so you can never understand. I will tell you what happens to real spiritual communities when the teacher "dies"...nothing ....because the teacher never "dies". Do you understand? Is Jesus dead? ..no..If the teacher is real His community will expand a thousand or million fold or more. If you investigate closely you will see that Sai Baba was no "ordinary" human...but its obvious from your article that you haven't. To even suggest Sai Baba was a sinner shows complete foolishness and lack of any understanding. Sai Baba has no weakness. Anything we see in Sai is a reflection of what's inside us only. This is a double minded article, one hand you leave open the possibility of Him being a fraud and on the other you feel "sympathy" with His followers. To treat Divine Personages casually like this is a sin. Sai's divinty is not revealed to everyone. Sai Baba says "to get the pearls you have to dive into the ocean and swim to the bottom, not stand at the shore and somehow hope to get them." You are only standing at the shore.