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"Ask Her When She's Sober"

Posted: 03/26/2012 12:02 pm

Until Marine Lance Corporal Maria Lauterbach and her unborn child were murdered by Marine Corporal Cesar Laurean and buried in his backyard, her congressman, Mike Turner, had a record like any other garden variety Republican warrior on women. With his 100 percent perfect opposition to women's freedom of choice over their reproductive systems, Turner's Dayton, Ohio-area constituents had been represented by just the kind of disciplined hard-core conservative that John Boehner and Eric Cantor rely on.

But Turner's efforts to get Lauterbach's murderer extradited from Mexico, where the dual national had fled, eventually brought him to do something that Boehner and Cantor despise. Before she was killed, Lauterbach had filed a claim at Camp Lejeune alleging that Lauren had raped her. That's how Turner's involvement with her murder -- spurred by a request from her family -- also became an education in the sexual violence plaguing the military, leading him to join with Massachusetts's Democratic Rep. Nikki Tsongas to introduce legislation expanding rights and protections for service members who have been the victims of sexual assault.

With Turner's co-sponsorship, the bill -- providing victims the rights to legal counsel, to a base transfer and to maintaining confidentiality when speaking with Victim Advocates -- gained the right to be called "bipartisan," which in this scorched-earth season of relentless Republican opposition to virtually anything any Democrat supports is tantamount to political treason.

It should be a no-brainer for Republicans to battle the epidemic of sexual violence that is devastating our armed forces. In fact, it shouldn't be a partisan issue at all.

The statistics are sickening. Nearly 19,000 Americans in uniform were raped in 2011. Over the past decade, a female soldier in Afghanistan or Iraq was more likely to be raped by another soldier than to be killed by the enemy. During her military service, the likelihood that a woman will be the victim of a sexual assault is up to twice the lifetime incidence among the general population. As many as one in three women leaving the service say they've experienced military sexual trauma, which is the leading cause of PTSD among women veterans. And it's not just women: In 2010, some 50,000 male veterans screened positive for military sexual trauma.

An invisible war is being waged against our troops. I call it that because The Invisible War is the title of a harrowing documentary about military sexual assault in the armed forces that I saw recently. It debuted at Sundance and will be released in June. People at the screening I attended were moved to tears by what rape victims in the armed forces have had to endure; they were inspired by the victims' courage and patriotism and they were enraged by the Pentagon's decades of failure to stop the violence.

Secretaries of Defense and top brass have long insisted that official policy is zero tolerance of rape. But 19,000 in one year is a long way from zero. Why is it so bad?

Start with a culture that stigmatizes and retaliates against victims. As few as 13.5 percent of military rapes are reported. Accusers are called sluts who were asking for it and cowards for complaining when they get it. Ariana Klay, a Marine whose story is told for the first time in "The Invisible War," was stationed at the Marine Barracks in Washington, D.C., base to the iconic white-gloved precision Silent Drill Platoon. Her home a few blocks from the base is where Klay says a senior Marine officer and a friend of his raped and threatened to kill her if she reported them. After she did, a "Hurt Feelings Report" appeared on the Facebook page of the base's director of protocol. The form asks the complainant to name the "Real Man who hurt your sensitive little feelings," and to check off the "reasons for filling out this report"; options included "I am a pussy" and "I am a little bitch." Much worse happened to her than being ostracized, but that detail, contained in a federal lawsuit that she and seven other women filed, conveys what victims are up against.

But the problem is more than the culture. It's built into the structure of the military justice system, where the process for prosecuting rapists is run by the same chain of command that includes and often protects the rapists. The victim remains stationed on the same base as her assailant. The people assessing her truthfulness are the same people who are in charge of her career, and whose own careers would get a black eye if it came to light that sexual predators were tolerated under their command.

Without an independent judiciary, it's no surprise that only eight percent of sexual assault allegations in the military are prosecuted, compared to five times that figure in the civilian world. Fewer than 21 percent of those go to trial. Only two percent of reported assaults result in conviction. But a staggering 90 percent of those who report a sexual assault against them are involuntarily discharged, often with a suspect "personality disorder" diagnosis. They're not only sluts; they're nuts.

Instead of aggressive prosecution, the Pentagon's strategy has been prevention. The campaign slogan adopted by the military's Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Office says it all: "Ask Her When She's Sober." It is, as a New York Times editorial put it, "a grotesque parody of an etiquette poster." You know she's asking for it, dudes -- that's what wearing makeup, or wearing a tank top and gym shorts when she exercises, are telling you. You just need to know that it's not the alcohol that's talking.

In January, Defense Secretary Leon Panetta became the most recent in a long line of officials vowing change. Pledging to implement provisions resembling some in the Turner-Tsongas bill, he announced more funds for training investigators and judge advocates to prosecute crimes, and more opportunities for victims to report crimes and request speedy transfers, as long as their reports aren't confidential. Stronger - because unlike Panetta and Turner-Tsongas, it deals with some of the structural problem of military justice -- is the bill introduced by Rep. Jackie Speier (D-CA) and 120 co-sponsors that would take reporting, oversight, investigation and victim care out of the normal chain of command, and put jurisdiction in a newly created office made of civilian and military experts.

So far only one Republican has signed on as a co-sponsor of the Speier bill. If the GOP were smart, it would jump at the chance to stand up for women in the military. It shouldn't have to take something like a constituent's murder to get more Republicans to notice how unjustly and indecently some of the best and bravest Americans in uniform are being treated.

This is my column from The Jewish Journal of Greater Los Angeles. You can read more of my columns here, and e-mail me there if you'd like.

 

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Mustang Marine
I'm a cheap date, but an expensive pet.
11:02 AM on 03/27/2012
I had my share of experience with the Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ), which was signed into law in 1951. On the whole, it is a good legal process. BUT, it depends on the integrity of those who are charged with administering it. I never saw in 20 years a case of the UCMJ being used to 'railroad' an innocent man. Note I said "man", because in the combat arms there were no women in those days. Women Marines were limited to adminstrative and technical fields and we just didn't have much contact with them.

Mr. Kaplans article points out the key weakness in this system. The chain of command cannot police itself when it is part of the problem. This won't be solved from within the military. Just as it took a President with guts to declare an end to segregation in the military, (they sure wouldn't have done it on their own) it will take an outside force to begin ending this plague. And plague it is -- an infection that is destroying unit cohesion, combat effectiveness, and that trust between comrades that is an absolute requirement for a military that can be proud of who and what they are.

I cannot fathom why this is still being allowed to go on. A letter to both of my senators is going out today (Senators Patty Murray and Maria Cantwell of Washington). I urge everyone to do the same.

Semper Fi, ladies. Some of us guys aren't cavemen.
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CSKAP
Morlock or Eloi?
10:08 AM on 03/27/2012
This article is very accurate in most parts but, the Army has not made an either/or decision.
They are pursuing aggressive prosecution as well as prevention.
The Army has assigned specific SVU JAG officers as well as criminal investigators whose only job is to investigate reports of sexual assault.
They have instituted a program called Sexual Harassment and Assault Response and Prevention (SHARP) that is taught to mid-grade and senior Officers and Enlisted.
Yes, much more can be done but, saying that it’s being ignored is just not accurate.
09:40 AM on 03/27/2012
USARMY INFANTRY (Retrired)

In my first year of service there was a male on male rape in my unit.
The rapist was dealt with!
The victim recieved help!
Justice was served!

The military has made mistakes and will not always be prefect by some of the comments here seem to imply that all service men HATE females in uniform and rape when ever the idea pops into their heads.
05:06 AM on 03/27/2012
I'm a female Vet with 21 years active duty. They keep their opinions to themselves now, but I'd bet a number of male senior officers and enlisted, still don't want women in the military. They believe if we're treated badly we deserve it, and if it runs us out of the Service, good! Until Women are seen as part of the crew, not entertainment for the crew, it's not going to stop.
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devildoc68
Frustrate government...be a thinker not a follower
08:39 AM on 03/27/2012
Thank you for your service. I was a Corpsman in Viet Nam and the rare times I got to a division hospital I was blown away by the care and hard work of the female nurses there...they were team mates and without them many would have died for sure. Again...thank you and to all female vets...speak up....some of us are very proud of you for sure!!!
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Lori Goodwin
Army Iraq Vet, Student
10:44 PM on 03/26/2012
I wasnt' going to comment, but considering some of you lack the real understand of the reality I need to.

I was raped TWICE in the military. Only reported one of them because I knew they would do nothing. Even tho I reported it and had a witness, he never got in trouble. It's bad enough we have to weigh the options to even admit it, but to report it and have nothing done is even worse. They gave me a MALE rape counselor who kept telling me it was my own fault for falling asleep in my own room.

Now. You tell me. Do WE deserve to have our traumas belittled? To have everything we've had to deal with treated like its a papercut? No. But it happens, because its a male dominant culture.

Since no one seems to really be listening to US, then maybe its time the citizens we serve stand up for us and speak out. We've been fighting for years to no avail. And any person who says, "Well? YOU'RE the one who joined the military." is ignorant and a fool. No one asks to be raped. Period.
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zanzig
11:19 PM on 03/26/2012
This is a horror that should not be tolerated, and I am ashamed that in 2012 it is still a matter of "debate".
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rip15
Card Carrying Contrarian
12:02 AM on 03/27/2012
Thank You for your service. No one should be treated the way you were. It's a shame that when the military is preaching honor and duty and bravery they practice cowardice and shame themselves by acting like imbeciles.Members of the armed forces have enough stress to deal with and shouldn't need to worry about being assaulted by their own.
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George Hanshaw
There are none so blind as those who will not see.
09:44 PM on 03/26/2012
EVERY accused has the right to be confronted by his/her accuser. No exceptions.
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zanzig
11:20 PM on 03/26/2012
Every accuser has the right to be heard and have his/her complaint investigated without fear or favour. That is what is not happening.
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KenGirard
"American" is my religion. I have faith in it.
11:49 AM on 03/27/2012
Indeed, but do they also have to keep working together on a day to day basis as well?
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Felix99
Born to be mild!!!!
07:49 PM on 03/26/2012
We had three daughters, and at one time thought that time in the military would be a wonderful challenge for her. I am now glad I never pushed the matter. I know that this male aggression against women takes place in all aspects of society, but the military seems escpecially nasty in this respect!!
ScaredAcademic
The GOP: Peddling Hate Since '68
01:23 AM on 03/27/2012
Are you surprised? The number of "conviction waivers" for enlisted people rose to 12% in 2007; there weren't enough qualified volunteers to supply two simultaneous wars. When you bring criminals into the military, it's probably not unreasonable to think that they bring some criminality with them, no?

It's still only 12%, but that's more than 1 in 10 people having a misdemeanor or felony conviction.
MHT73
words matter
07:31 PM on 03/26/2012
Good analysis.

Besides the outrageous cost to our women in the military, this problem should be recognized as an expensive one for the US taxpayers. Soldiers who suffer from PTSD deserve excellent treatment, and that treatment costs money. When they don't get the right medical care, they're more likely to experience health problems when they return to civilian life. Then the cost of their care is transferred over to - guess who - all of us who pay for health insurance. Prevent this problem, and save taxpayers money.
ScaredAcademic
The GOP: Peddling Hate Since '68
01:24 AM on 03/27/2012
They won't get it. If Republicans didn't want to pay for the war, do you really think they'll pay for the aftermath?
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Hob-Goblin
A smile like a Siberian winter
11:28 PM on 03/27/2012
From what I'm reading in the news, they aren't bothering to take care of the vets injured on the battlefield, and now Paul Ryan's illustrious budget is cutting 13% of the VA's money to boot.
dessertsfirst
because life is too short!!
06:43 PM on 03/26/2012
But Mr. Kaplan, you are asking the GOP to actually care about women, and our military (men and women), and our veterans.!! compassionate conservatives, indeed!!
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KenGirard
"American" is my religion. I have faith in it.
11:53 AM on 03/27/2012
Hey, maybe if we make a magnet they can put on their car .... "I SUPPORT the non-rape of OUR TROOPS" ... they will each donate $1.
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chainbreaker
Beliefs divide, Love unites
05:26 PM on 03/26/2012
Thanks for your good reporting, Mr Kaplan.
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capshockeygrl28
05:24 PM on 03/26/2012
it's good to see that something is being done about this.
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Eroshan
"K" street needs to be closed.
04:52 PM on 03/26/2012
I still remember the "Tail Hook" video from decades ago, I see little has changed for women in the military.
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Drew Palmer
03:33 PM on 03/26/2012
Wait, if only 13.5% of military rapes are reported, how do we know that there were 19,000 rapes last year?
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Yossarian22
08:38 PM on 03/26/2012
"reported" means "reported to authorities."
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dewh
Driving Miss Crazy
10:02 PM on 03/26/2012
Maybe those 19,000 WERE the reported ones.
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elbzee
Fear is the mind-killer
03:12 PM on 03/26/2012
Wow, you've uncovered the absolute kernel of our problem, "-- gained the right to be called "bipartisan," which in this scorched-earth season of relentless Republican opposition to virtually anything any Democrat supports is tantamount to political treason."


What they are attempting to do to this country is, indeed treason!
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BigBearcatBill
This is the real Bearcat - a Binturong
02:05 PM on 03/26/2012
Repubs and for that matter anyone that don't support the bill are doubling down on all their other civil rights violations to women going on by conservatives now. To do that when the women are protecting our lives and freedom by voluntarily being in the military is double sickening. Thanks to the one good guy repub from OHIO. He may be on his way to making up for the other Ohio repubs that are lacking guts on this and other issues that will help the 99%ers more than the 1%ers. Maybe Warren Buffet, Gates and a few of the good billionaires should contact these moderate repubs and tell them they would support their conversions to the Democratic Party or Independents.