Burning Bridges Is For Amateurs: Leaving Biz Right Helps You for Life

The final impression you make is just as important as the first one. No matter what reason you have for leaving a job, you want to leave on good terms. You don't want to burn any bridges.
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I am fortunate. . .

I wake up every morning and look forward to interacting with my business team, to brainstorm content and marketing ideas, and discuss what kind of products will make the biggest impact on our community.

But not everyone feels the way I do. And when they aren't happy with the work they're doing, they often choose to get another job or start their own business.

In my 25-plus years in business, I have seen many employees leave their jobs for many different reasons. Some were asked to leave, and some left on their own. Some left for good reasons; some left for inane ones.

But no matter why you leave a position in someone's company, keep this in mind: There is a right way and a wrong way to exit an organization.

If you leave a job the wrong way, you could wind up ruining your reputation - or even making an enemy for the rest of your life. And that could affect any career you pursue. But if you leave a job the right way, you can preserve - even enhance - your reputation, strengthen your relationship with your new boss, and help ensure that you'll get rave reviews any time a potential employer or business partner looks into your work history.

And if you already own and run your company, take note and share this with your colleagues.

The right way to leave a job simply involves taking 3 key steps:

1) Announce your resignation.

It does not matter if the company has employed you for a month or 10 years... never e-mail your resignation or announce it with a phone message. Sit down with your supervisor and have a grown-up conversation. Explain that you need to move on, and thank her for everything she has done to help you in your career.

Bring your official resignation letter to the meeting. In it, include your end date. Make sure you allow for enough time to make an easy transition between you and your replacement.

The following is a good rule of thumb:

Yes, some companies may escort you out the door the moment you inform them of your resignation. However, most will thank you for your service, and even offer to help you with your next endeavor.

Whatever you do, do not tell any of your colleagues or subordinates that you are leaving before you have the conversation with your direct supervisor. Telling your supervisor first says that you respect her and appreciate what you have learned from her. (Keep in mind that this is the person you will most likely use as a reference in the future.)

2) Have a transition plan.

When you have that talk with your supervisor, be prepared with a suggested transition plan. Have recommendations for people who can take over some of your responsibilities until your replacement is hired.

Your transition plan should also include:
  • A timeline of projects you have been working on. This should be as detailed as possible.
  • Your job description, updated with any changes that have been made during your tenure. All jobs evolve, and your supervisor may not realize to what extent yours has.
  • A contact list that includes the names, e-mail addresses, and phone numbers of everyone you interact with in order to get your job done. Do not omit anyone because you brought him or her to the table. Remember you did it while your current employer was paying you.
While discussing your transition plan, offer to help hire your replacement. After all, you know the kind of skills that are required to do the job, as well as the kind of person it takes.

3) Maintain your strong work ethic.

So many people make the mistake of slacking off once they give notice. This can negate your entire legacy.

Your last few weeks or months at a company is the time for you to shine. A time to present yourself the way you want to be remembered. You should come in early and stay late. Offer assistance to anyone who needs it. And do whatever else you can to leave a lasting impression of what a talented person and hard worker you are.

Most industries are more interconnected than you might imagine. If you do a great job after you have given notice, it's practically guaranteed that your new boss or business partner will hear about it. And the same is true if you acquire an "I just don't care anymore" attitude.

Years ago when I was the CEO of Early to Rise, I was looking to hire a graphic artist. One of the prime candidates for the job was a lovely young woman with a fantastic portfolio and what seemed like a fine resume to match.

The evening before my final round of interviews, I met a former colleague for a drink. During the course of our conversation, I told her about my potential candidate for the position. As it turned out, the young woman I was seriously considering had worked at my colleague's company for a month. Not only that, but my colleague had been her supervisor.

Seems that while she was there, she did an okay job. But once she gave notice, she started coming in late. Not only that, but she found reasons why she could not complete her assignments before she left... and she spent a lot of her time bragging about her new job.

When I asked her about an unaccounted-for month on her resume (the time she had worked for my former colleague), she told me she had been traveling. Imagine her shock when I told her that I'd had drinks the previous night with the supervisor she had omitted from her resume.

Sadly she was caught in a lie!

I thanked her for her time...

Remember: The final impression you make is just as important as the first one. No matter what reason you have for leaving a job, you want to leave on good terms. You don't want to burn any bridges. And by taking the three very simple steps above, you can leave on great terms. That will help you maintain your reputation for excellence with your previous employer... and start out on the right foot with your new endeavor.

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