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The Catholic Celibacy Crisis

Posted: 02/04/11 04:32 PM ET

Another Catholic priest and media figure has become the latest victim of the "celibacy crisis" in the Catholic Church. Fr. Thomas Euteneuer, former president of Human Life International, left that post abruptly in August without public explanation. He recently broke his silence and admitted that he left for "violating the boundaries of chastity with an adult female" who was under his spiritual care. He apologized profusely to everyone concerned.

At one level: Yawn! There is nothing new about this basic story line. Literally, tens of thousands of Catholic priests have left the priesthood to marry since the Second Vatican Council (1962-65). Granted, Fr. Euteneuer's story has a special "twist" because he was a leader in the anti-abortion movement. One might expect him to have the added motivation of not wanting to father an unwanted pregnancy. But the basic story -- priest breaks vow of celibacy -- is nothing new.

As the host of Interfaith Voices, a public radio show heard on 76 stations nationwide, this recalled my recent interview with the now-famous Father Alberto Cutie. It airs this week. [http://interfaithradio.org/node/1598] He was a Roman Catholic priest well known as a radio/TV host, broadcasting in both Spanish and English across North and South America. His career ended when paparazzi photographed him on a beach near Miami with Ruhama, the woman he loved. Privately, he had long struggled with his vow of celibacy. After the beach photos became public, he married Ruhama and became an Episcopal priest. He told his story in a new book: Dilemma: A Priest's Struggle with Faith and Love.

In the course of the interview, he laid bare an open secret of the Catholic Church: a large percentage of Catholic priests, gay and straight, live as if celibacy were optional. Some have male partners; others have secret women friends and -- quite commonly in Africa and Latin America -- they have children. He noted that sometimes bishops even pay for the children to have a Catholic education. All this is tolerated if it does not become public and cause scandal.

Most likely, a good majority of Catholic priests keep their vow of celibacy, but there is no way to know for sure.

Cutie was careful to say that he did not have anything against celibacy, pointing to the tradition of religious life in both the Catholic and Episcopal churches. The problem, as he sees it -- and most Catholics see it -- is imposing celibacy where it is not integral to the vocation. A monk or nun chooses celibacy as part of their calling; a diocesan priest does not need celibacy to fulfill his calling. In fact, a priest who is a husband and a father (or someday: wife and mother!) might have decided advantages in understanding parishioners' problems.

For years, reform groups in the Catholic Church like CORPUS: the National Association for a Married Priesthood, and Call to Action have called upon the hierarchy to make celibacy optional for diocesan priests.

The case for change is compelling.

First of all, in a church that values tradition, optional celibacy is the tradition! For the first 12 centuries of Christianity, Catholic priests did, in fact, marry. Even today, Catholic priests of the Eastern rites can marry, and Episcopal and Lutheran priests who seek to transfer to the Catholic Church are welcomed with their wives and children.

Second, there is a severe and growing priest shortage. Bishops have dealt with it up to now by merging and closing parishes, with much weeping and gnashing of teeth among parishioners. Or they have imported clergy from other cultures. Despite good intentions, many of these priests have simply not embedded themselves in American culture and problems abound.

Finally, polls have shown for decades that the vast majority of Catholics favor letting priests have the option to marry. Catholics in the pews have been very accepting of married deacons for decades now; there is no reason to think that acceptance would not extend to married priests.

And, it's important to note: priestly celibacy is not dogma. It is simply a disciplinary practice, and could be changed literally with a flick of the papal pen.

So, why wait? I know the powers-that-be in the Vatican are comfortable with current arrangements, but it would seem that the needs of ministry and the availability of the Eucharist [only priests can consecrate the Eucharist in the Catholic tradition] should trump everything else.

For the life of me, I can't figure out what's taking them so long.

 
Another Catholic priest and media figure has become the latest victim of the "celibacy crisis" in the Catholic Church. Fr. Thomas Euteneuer, former president of Human Life International, left that po...
Another Catholic priest and media figure has become the latest victim of the "celibacy crisis" in the Catholic Church. Fr. Thomas Euteneuer, former president of Human Life International, left that po...
 
 
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Talossa
Liberal. Pro-Israel. Recovering atheist.
12:25 AM on 03/24/2011
Nothing ticked Jesus off like hypocrisy.

And even Paul, who was happy to tout his own personal superiority over everybody else in the Church, declared that priesthood celibacy should be optional.
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01:02 AM on 02/11/2011
The only crisis is for those who take a vow of celibacy and then break it. For the rest of us there is no crisis.
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Talossa
Liberal. Pro-Israel. Recovering atheist.
12:26 AM on 03/24/2011
The crisis is that "the rest of us" gets smaller and smaller every year.
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ManuOB1
A voice crying in the wilderness
07:45 PM on 02/10/2011
There is no priest shortage; there is an overabundance of laity.
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Talossa
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12:26 AM on 03/24/2011
LOL
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RedStateCenterLeft
01:34 PM on 02/08/2011
The whole idea of celibacy dates back to the days when churches were actually held by families, and the priesthood was handed off from father to son. Rome wasn't getting its "piece of the action" from these parishes so it invoked a celibate priesthood. In some ways, we see how this handoff works in the problems and weird things we see as first generation TV preachers try to hand off their ministries to their sons, then watch their empires flop (i.e., Billy Graham, Robert Schuller). There's good and bad in this whole thing. Me? I just want to see the hypocrites gone from the church and some honesty installed in our leadership.
12:16 PM on 02/08/2011
Protestant converts who are married can become married Roman Catholic Priests. I think this is a good policy and should be extended to all priests. Mat 19:12 For there are eunuchs who have been so from birth, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Let anyone accept this who can.'
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mjeffn
Freedom's just another word 4 nothing left to lose
10:11 AM on 02/08/2011
"For the life of me, I can't figure out what's taking them so long." - author of article

You seek rational actions from an irrational institution then express frustration when the math doesn't add up. Perhaps you need to question "faith" to a deeper standard than whether or not sex is the only clue to religions rich garden of hypocrisy.
04:56 AM on 02/08/2011
The Mass isn't performed in Latin anymore and I assume that decision was made in part to bring more people to the Faith. Allowing priests to marry, in my opinion, would have the same result to include the children of the priests who would marry. I believe it would strengthen the Church in a time when it desperately needs so.
06:01 PM on 02/07/2011
There's not a celibacy crisis in the Church; there's a fidelity crisis. Otherwise, spouses would not cheat either or live-ins or married clergy.
01:42 PM on 02/07/2011
In the Bible, The book 1st Timothy chapter 3 says the bishop must be a man with one wife or alternatively the bishop must be married only once. Either way, the requirement is clear.

(Yes, I know I am cherry picking.But it is fun)
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Talossa
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12:30 AM on 03/24/2011
You're not cherry-picking as much as you think you are. Paul stated clearly that priesthood celibacy was his personal ideal but that it should be optional (1 Cor. 7). As examples of married clergy he went so far as to give the examples of Peter and the brothers of Jesus -- and you can't get any higher than that (1 Cor. 9:5). He also said (1 Timothy 4) that a prohibition against marriage was a doctrine sponsored by "demons".

The Pope really needs to read his Bible and fix this whole awful mess.
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Allen Reed Jensen
12:03 PM on 02/07/2011
I love how people justify these priests' acts of fornication by challenging the life choice of celibacy. I don't believe in celibacy but these men violated laws of Chasity (something all Christians are suppose to follow) not just their oaths of celibacy. I do recall a long list of famous Protestant preachers given my Rachel Maddow where these men of the cloth broke those same laws. Marriage was not the ultimate solution to contain their lust of the flesh. I am grateful that these men did not abuse those women (as far as I know their acts were all consensual) but it is a little creepy that they fornicated with women whom they had spiritual stewardship over (the shepherd with his sheep).
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ColoradoCool
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12:22 AM on 02/08/2011
Agree about the priest having a relationship with a woman over whom they had spiritual stewardship. There is a basic inequity of power in such a relationship that invites an abuse of power in the corrupt.

However, I believe the insistence by the Catholic Church that its clergy be celibate is more a cynical financial calculation than it is a spiritual principle of some kind. I think the church should be willing to relinquish some of its money and let priests marry and have children. This centuries-old abuse of the human spirit has to stop.
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Allen Reed Jensen
05:01 PM on 02/08/2011
True but they can save the people's tithing and rely on lay clergy like us Mormons. It works just fine for us. At least for me it would prove difficult to rely on a spiritual leader who is neither a father or married.
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Cranmer1549
Always bet on black.
09:59 AM on 02/07/2011
The case for change is compelling, but it would require a Pope and the Vatican to admit that they were wrong all along. That ain't happening.
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nycagnes
10:49 PM on 02/06/2011
In the Greek Orthodox religion, our priests are allowed to marry before they take their finals vows or have no ambition on becoming a bishop. I think this is a fair alternative. It works out very well in our church. Eventually I think this will come to pass in the Catholic church as well.
12:03 PM on 02/08/2011
agreed
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TeraWatt60
Cogito Ergo Sum
10:32 PM on 02/06/2011
Mumbo-jumbo aside the only reason the Western Church (i.e. Catholicism) began demanding celibacy was because of the feudal system  and the inconvenience of losing church lands to Bishops and others who would leave temporal fiefs to their children. Bishoprics were as common as principalities, Duchies, and Counties at one time.

The Catholics simply inserted mythical "reasoning" for reality to appeal less venal.
10:01 AM on 02/08/2011
Ding, ding, ding. We have a winner.

100% correct.
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Talossa
Liberal. Pro-Israel. Recovering atheist.
12:33 AM on 03/24/2011
That plus they didn't want titles (e.g. bishop, priest and deacon) handed down from father to son. They could see that monarchy didn't exactly ensure that the son of a genius would also be a genius. In feudal times anything could become a fief and by enforcing celibacy that problem was solved (at the cost of many other problems, the law of unintended consequences being fully in force).
02:56 PM on 02/06/2011
I am a conservative who is Catholic. The only reason I come on this website is to see what the other side has to say about the issues and to see how far left and radical they are. That and there are good technology articles, but I do have to say this was a very fair piece written by Maureen Fiedler. To my Catholic friends who are bashing this article, I don't see anything wrong in addressing the issues that are confronting the church.
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Hysterian68
bureaucrat/historian/ranter
11:39 PM on 02/06/2011
You appear to be already brain washed. You should be to this website to seek truth, the only real God. Rather than whether the opinions you see are left-wing or not.
12:11 PM on 02/08/2011
Brain washed? Sounds like someone has been drinking the Liberal cool-aid again. As if this web site is the only source of Truth. Pleeeaaase, rant on. God alone is Objective Truth, and Truth is merely one of his many attributes. At least romangod7 has the open-mindedness to check out another point of view.
04:42 PM on 02/08/2011
I feel pity for anyone who comes to HP to seek truth. Really? I mean... really?
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01:53 PM on 02/06/2011
Early Christians married, no celibacy war required. True Christians follow Jesus and not man.
Matthew 23:9 says Do not call anyone on earth your Father (Meaning spiritual father), for one is your Father ,the heavenly one. Neither be called leaders, for your Leader is one , the Christ.
06:05 PM on 02/07/2011
I guess you never called your own dad "father"?

Paul referred to other of his converts in this way: "To Titus, my true child in a common faith: grace and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Savior" (Titus 1:4); "I appeal to you for my child, Onesimus, whose father I have become in my imprisonment" (Philem. 10). None of these men were Paul’s literal, biological sons. Rather, Paul is emphasizing his spiritual fatherhood with them.
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03:47 PM on 02/09/2011
You Didn't read my whole comment . After i said Do not call any one on earth your Father I said ( Spiritual Father) Because thats what the scriptures mean. Paul would never have wanted to be called father in a spiritual sense as he knew there is only one we should call Father .
In Your first sentence you typed that Paul said to those who were related to him in faith, Grace and peace from GOD THE FATHER and Christ Jesus our savior. Paul knew that only Yahweh or Jehovah was our spiritual Father.
I may think of others who are not related as my children or LIKE an earhtly Father or Mother but never would i call anyone Father in a spiritual sense. I have only one Father in that way ,and that one is our creator, and one mediator, Jesus Christ.
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04:00 PM on 02/09/2011
To notretsehc2010/ You must have overlooked where i said in Not to call any one on earth your (SPIRITUAL FATHER) Matt 23: 9

some who are related to us in the true christian faith become like sisters and brothers and some we may think of like a FLESHLY father or mother bur never would we think or call them Father in a spiritual sense. In your first sentence you typed that Paul said to those who became related to him in the faith and who he thought of as children PEACE FROM GOD THE FATHER.
Paul like Jesus alway directed attention to The Father, the creator.