Earlier this week, after months of 100-plus-degree temps, the crisp fall air inspired me to get more dressed up than usual for the office. I exchanged my uniform of t-shirt and ragged blue jeans, for a new pair of jeans and a leopard print form-fitting blazer, something I would never have worn in my pre 50 days. On my way to work, I stopped at a Starbucks drive-thru for a hot green tea. The weather was so good, my windows were open and my A/C was off, something that rarely happens in Texas, and I was taking it all in - the birds in flight, the clean air, the people on the street, their conversations, the songs on the radio, all of it. That's when I noticed the car in front of me -- a very clean black Luxus SUV with a silver-haired gentleman at the wheel who appeared to be checking me out in his rear-view mirror. As the Lexus pulled forward and I made my way to the pick-up window, the young Starbucks employee informed me with a smile that my drink was paid for by the guy in the car in front of me.
"What?" I said, watching him drive away.
"The guy in front of you paid for your tea," she repeated loudly, smiling, as if I were hard of hearing.
I looked at myself in the rear-view mirror and thought I've got to get dressed up more often. Then I waited a beat for her to tell me he'd asked for my phone number and of course I'd have to break it to him gently that I was married for 20 years but appreciated his interest.
"How come he bought it for me?" I asked.
"Because he always pays for whatever the person behind him orders," she said.
"Even if they order 10 cups of coffee and 10 pieces of cake?" I asked.
"I've never had that happen," she answered. "But he probably would."
"Do you want to do the same for the person behind you?" she asked.
I glanced back. A silver-haired woman was waiting her turn in another black Lexus SUV.
"I was probably supposed to think of that," I said.
"No problem," she said. "Her order is $5.86."
I suddenly felt as if I were being asked by Monty Hall if I wanted what was behind curtain #1 or curtain #2. Truthfully, I just wanted my tea and have it be free.
"Does this kind of thing happen very often?" I asked. "I mean besides the one guy?"
"Oh yes," she said cheerily, "all the time."
"It's never happened to you?" she asked.
"Well," she said, "it's your lucky day!"
Seconds seemed like hours.
"If it's okay, I think I'll just accept the gift today. But maybe next time," I told her.
She stared at me. The cheer left her cheerfulness.
"Have a nice day," she said, handing me my tea.
I drove away. It was a nice day. A stranger gave me an unexpected gift. What a novel idea. So why didn't I do the right thing and pay for the woman behind me? Because her order cost more than mine, that's why.
God, I'm cheap. And a terrible role model for that young girl.
And why can't I stop thinking about strategy - about how the key is to pull up to a drive-thru where there is someone ahead of you but nobody behind you for miles. I wonder how many drive-thrus I can try this at? How fun would that be?
Now I can never go back there - that girl will always remember the woman in the leopard print jacket who broke the chain.
That's what it is, right? A chain? And I broke the chain.
Two miles up the road, while stopped at a light, I reached for the tab attached to the string attached to the tea bag so I could remove it from the hot water, the same way I have countless times before - only this time, the tab broke off.
So I grabbed the string instead. And when I did, the string broke off.
Just the tea bag remained -- unchained, floating, in a cup of very hot water.
I pulled into a nearby parking lot and fished out the bag, the hot water burning my fingertips.
So what would you have done?
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