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The Case for Same-Sex Marriage: Striving for the Moral Absolute of Equality

Posted: 05/15/2012 8:11 am

Let's assume for a moment that a presidential candidate of either party had come out against interracial marriage. How many of us would be inclined to vote for him or her?

Until 1967, when the U.S. Supreme Court invalidated the anti-miscegenation laws of 16 states including Virginia, Texas, Florida, North Carolina and Georgia, supporters of such a ban used pretty much the same theology-based arguments their ideological heirs use today to rail against same-sex marriage.

Segregation itself was justified on the ground that God had divinely ordained the separation of the races. "If Chief Justice Warren and his associates had known God's word and had desired to do the Lord's will," a 25-year-old Jerry Falwell told worshipers at the Thomas Road Baptist Church in Lynchburg, Virginia, in a 1958 sermon, "the 1954 decision [Brown v. Board of Education, holding segregation in public schools to be unconstitutional] would never have been made." Using Genesis 9:18-27 as "our guide," Falwell went on to declare that, "The facilities should be separate. When God has drawn a line of distinction, we should not attempt to cross that line." Referring to a fellow pastor who had told him that "a couple of opposite race live next door to his church as man and wife," Falwell concluded that integration "will destroy our race eventually."

Thirty years later, in a Washington Post Magazine interview, Falwell recanted his segregationist views and acknowledged that he had distorted the Bible's message under the influence of his Bible college teachers. "You don't know how hard it is to purge yourself of these things," he said. "Unless you've been there, you just don't know. It's the strongest grip."

"Almighty God created the races white, black, yellow, malay and red," wrote County Circuit Judge Leon M. Bazile of Caroline County, Virginia, in his January 6, 1959 ruling sentencing Mildred, a woman of African-American and Native-American descent, and Richard Loving, a white man, to one year in jail for living together after marrying in the District of Columbia (suspended on condition that they leave the state for 25 years). "And," Judge Bazile continued, "he placed them on separate continents. And but for the interference with his arrangement there would be no cause for such marriages. The fact that he separated the races shows that he did not intend for the races to mix."

On June 12, 1967, the Supreme Court overturned the Lovings' criminal conviction and declared Virginia's Virginia's prohibition of interracial marriage to be unconstitutional. Writing for a unanimous Court, Chief Justice Earl Warren explained that,

"Marriage is one of the 'basic civil rights of man,' fundamental to our very existence and survival. . . . The Fourteenth Amendment requires that the freedom of choice to marry not be restricted by invidious racial discriminations. Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another race resides with the individual and cannot be infringed by the State."

Forty-five years later, only a small minority among us, many if not most of them hard-core white supremacist bigots, disagree with Chief Justice Warren's words. According to a September 2011 Gallup Poll, 86% of Americans approve of interracial marriage. That was up from 4% in 1958, 20% in 1968, 48% in 1994, and 77% as recently as 2007.

The attitudes toward same-sex marriage have similarly changed, evolved if you will. In 1996, only 27% of Americans supported, and 68% opposed, the legal recognition such marriages. Only two years ago, the number of Americans supporting the legalization of same-sex marriage had risen to 44%, with 53% opposed. As of last year, according to a May 20, 2011, Gallup Poll, a majority of 53% of Americans believed that marriages between same-sex couples should be recognized, while the number of those opposed had declined to 44%. Most dramatically, support for same-sex marriage among 18- to 34-year-old Americans rose from 54% in 2010 to 70% just one year later.

As I have written previously on this site, constitutional rights should never be determined by Gallup polls or popular referenda. At the same time, it important to remember that such rights must also never be limited by the "grip," to use Jerry Falwell's term of 25 years ago, of parochial or narrow-minded religious dogma.

Thomas Jefferson wrote that the First Amendment to the U.S. Constitution had erected "a wall of separation between church & state," and believed that all Americans must be accorded the opportunity "to profess freely and openly those principles of religion which are the inductions of his own reason and the serious convictions of his own inquiries." Effectively, this means that while government cannot impose its will on religious institutions, the converse is equally true: religious institutions or religious tenets must not be allowed to dominate or dictate the national civil agenda.

As President Barack Obama correctly told ABC News' Robin Roberts, the national debate over same-sex marriage involves civil -- not religious -- marriage and civil -- not religious -- laws. Churches and other religious groups are not obligated in any way to endorse practices they consider antithetical to their beliefs.

I have no argument whatsoever with priests, ministers, rabbis or imams who do not wish to perform same-sex marriages. They cannot and should not be compelled to do so. Nor should any church, synagogue or mosque be required to provide a venue for such nuptials. At the same time, those who oppose same-sex marriage on religious grounds must not be allowed to infringe on the right of gays and lesbians to the pursuit of happiness which necessarily includes the happiness of being in a loving and recognized matrimonial relationship.

President Obama got it right when he said that he did not want to explain to his daughters why some people should be treated differently in the "eyes of the law." In the end, striving for equality should never be a nuanced principle.

Menachem Z. Rosensaft teaches about the law of genocide and World War II war crimes trials at the law schools of Columbia, Cornell and Syracuse universities

 
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Let's assume for a moment that a presidential candidate of either party had come out against interracial marriage. How many of us would be inclined to vote for him or her? Until 1967, when the U.S. ...
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americanpatriot4ever
brings more than his fair share to the table
10:00 PM on 05/20/2012
My wife and I have been married for twenty years and have been having the same sex for all of it.
It's nothing for people to get all worked up over.
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Voice Truth
Proclaimer of truth and defender of the faithful
08:20 PM on 05/20/2012
Nice try. anti-miscegenation laws targeted specifically black and white coupling, not any other couplings. A better parallel would be if ALL interracial couplings were targeted, which would create two groups: interracial and intraracial couples. Secondly, the reason Jefferson wrote about his wall of separation was that he and his cronies favored a secular society that would trump a Christian society. This is why they had their secret societies to hide this fact from the public.

Finally, our notions of race are all screwed up. Research the notions about race over the last 200 years or so. Definitions of race and ethnicities are all over the map. The only definition of race that comes closest to something definitive is that there are a few major stocks of humans that can be traced genetically using modern techniques. But most of us are confused about race because we have been artificially conditioned to zero in on skin color as the main determinant of race, and this notion is based on bizarre theories from the 1800s. This is why it is rather unfortunate that those who are racist don't know what they're hating since they can't properly define race. That's the essence of conditioned ignorance.
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LLeGrande
A Proud Liberal Democrat.
06:44 PM on 05/20/2012
Each and every time that the rights of the minority are put to a vote, the majority will vote those rights down and out. EVERY TIME.

Again and again we listen to the political call for 'States Rights', and that civil marriage must be left to the states. And, 30 states have already written bans on marriage equality into their state constitutions - a place where they will reside for generations.

So what's left for the proponents of equal rights and equality? Certainly the Executive Branch is doing little or nothing in this regard. Even worse, the Legislative Branch of the United States has enacted DOMA (Defense of Marriage Act) with Democratic support and President Clinton's signature. And currently the House of Representatives is representing the law in the Judicial Branch.

There is only one hope: The Supreme Court of the United States washes these discriminatory laws away as if in a flood - just like they did in Loving v. Virginia in 1967. Only by judicial fiat were these despicable laws, mostly in the Confederate South, killed in finality.

And, in 'Lawrence v. Texas, the SCOTUS also washed away these 'anti-sodomy' laws of many states in which it was very easy for the State to imprison gay people on sexual grounds for what was done in the privacy of one's home.

We have a long way to go until we are all free. And no one is free until we are all free.
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Keagan86
Breaking normal thought patterns
02:04 PM on 05/20/2012
Spot on! No church will suddenly be required to do anything they don't want to. In the eyes of the law, if same sex marriage is legalized, some families will get some much needed protections that they don't have now, and no evil bad thing will happen. Opponents to equality said it back in the 50's, and they are saying it now. History has shown us that we grow more accepting with each passing year. Let's not be stuck in old modalities, but rather embrace transitions and continue to grow as human beings. Change is only scary to those with no thought to fhe future!
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Tena
12:53 PM on 05/20/2012
This should go without saying, but Obama is only divisive because the GOP and the Right made him that figure.

He has done exactly what he said he'd do when he campaigned. What is so divisive? Killing Osama? Saving the American auto industry? Standing up for equal rights for all Americans?

YOU on the Right make him divisive because you have told the country over and over and over that he isn't "one of us" - and all that means is that he isn't white. That's your real divisiveness.

This country is badly divided for one overwhelming reason: the rightwing has run on social issues for the last 30 years - the most divisive issues that exist. The Right divided this country. It wasn't Obama, it wasn't the Left, it wasn't the Democrats. it was the GOP and the RIGHT who will not accept any progress whatsoever.

And just as they use everything they can to further divide us they are using the president.
12:51 PM on 05/20/2012
Anti-miscegenation laws and same-sex marriage have nothing in common. The former prevented the essential public purpose of marriage from being fulfilled. The latter removes the purpose of marriage completely. Laws preventing interracial marriage were a moral aberration in American history. The government should not have supported such laws. The government was wrong then and it is wrong now in any support for same-sex marriage.

"Churches and other religious groups are not obligated in any way to endorse practices they consider antithetical to their beliefs."

And does anyone really believe this anymore, especially after the problems with HHS and its push for contraception?
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Tena
01:56 PM on 05/20/2012
"he latter removes the purpose of marriage completely."

Excuse me - what do you think that purpose is?

Marriage is a contract between the parties and the state. The state agrees to confer certain legal rights in married people and the people getting married agree to do their best to maintain that legal state.

And that is ALL that marriage is - it is not some religious sacrament. That was tacked on after the fact. Marriage existed before christianity or any or organized religion.

Marriage is a property relationship - it is a LEGAL relationship. IT has nothing to do with god.
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Voice Truth
Proclaimer of truth and defender of the faithful
08:00 PM on 05/20/2012
Nah, not exactly. There is civil marriage and religious marriage. Civil marriage has nothing to do with God, unless the actual license has God's name in it.
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StevenWells
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02:24 PM on 05/20/2012
As long as opposite-sex couples are not barred from marriage due to an inability to fulfill its "essential public purpose," any argument invoking it falls flat.

What the historical disqualification of interracial couples and the current one of same-sex couples have in common is arbitrary exclusion - otherwise known as discrimination - due to a personal characteristic.

The contraception analogy is inoperative as well: there is a difference between a religious organization and a business that happens to be owned by one.
10:09 AM on 05/21/2012
"As long as opposite-sex couples are not barred from marriage due to an inability to fulfill its "essential public purpose," any argument invoking it falls flat."

Why? Traveling is not a requirement for a passport but this does not nullify the tie between passports and traveling.

"What the historical disqualification of interracial couples and the current one of same-sex couples have in common is arbitrary exclusion - otherwise known as discrimination - due to a personal characteristic."

You are correct that it was an arbitrary exclusion in the case of interracial marriage since there are no difference between, say, a black human being and a white human being because one's skin color is morally trivial. There are, however, physiological, psychological and functional differences between men and women. Ethnicity has no bearing on marriage. One's sex is fundamental to marriage.

"The contraception analogy is inoperative as well: there is a difference between a religious organization and a business that happens to be owned by one."

And they will be forced to comply in spite of objective moral standards.
10:18 AM on 05/20/2012
I leave it to others to decide whether gay marriage is moral. However, Rosensaft’s equating the legal debate over gay marriage with the Loving case is an extreme stretch.

First, for non-lawyers. The Equal Protection Clause does not mean the government can’t treat people differently under the law (e.g. we have age discrimination for driving, income discrimination for welfare etc.) The legal question as to whether a classification will be subject to strict scrutiny (the highest and most difficult standard to justify) is whether it effects a suspect classification or effects a fundamental right

Race has long been understood as a suspect classification. In fact, the Amendment was passed in part as a reaction to the Black codes in the South. Sexual orientation and in fact sex, has never been classified as a suspect classification. The miscegenation laws in Loving could have been overturned simply on that basis since their was evidence they were passed to preserve “White Supremacy”. Nevertheless, the Court went further and declared marriage a fundamental right.

The Court’s basis for determining whether something is a “fundamental right” is whether it is deeply rooted in the Nation’s history and tradition (their words). Although traditional heterosexual marriage could be deemed a fundamental right because it was deeply rooted in our Nation’s history and tradition, it would be absurd to try to justify gay marriage on the same basis.

Thus unlike interracial marriage, a gay marriage ban passes the Constitutional test the Court has previously used.
12:52 PM on 05/20/2012
Fanned and faved! You succinctly brought up some very good points in an even-keeled manner!
10:37 AM on 05/21/2012
Thank you

If you like that, consider this analysis. Although the Court has never ruled sexual orientation to be a suspect class or homosexuality to be a fundamental right, that begs the question might they do it in the near future.

On the one hand, Justice Kennedy (the presumed swing vote in such a debate) has been sympathetic to gays in the past. He wrote the majority opinions in Romer and Lawrence which were favorable to gays. Although in Romer he used a rational basis analysis ( a rare case in which a statute was overturned on rational basis review) and in Lawrence he bootstrapped the proscribed sodomy activity into the general right of privacy in the home. Whether you liked or disliked the outcome, both cases had extremely tortured logic to say the least. Thus one might conclude that Kennedy, eager to clean up the loose ends of Romer and Lawrence and being sympathetic to gays will on his next opportunity vote to "bump up" sexual orientation to a suspect class. Well maybe.

On the other hand, in Lawrence (which was decided relatively recently in 2003), Kennedy explicitly stated homosexuality wasn't a fundamental right and that his ruling didn't apply to public actions (e.g. prostitution, marriage etc.). In addition Kennedy is a strong supporter of states rights. Marriage rights have generally been left up to the states and he could very easily view classifying gay marriage as a fundamental right would violate the state's 10th Amendment rights.
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TeraWatt60
Cogito Ergo Sum
09:21 PM on 05/20/2012
Except that with one (repealed) exception the Constitution has never been used to restrict rights (Prohibition is the exception) and has at various times been amended or interpreted to expand rights. Your assumption that sexual orientation is not the same as race is flawed.

You assume that sexual orientation is a choice like religion or choice of diet, our understanding of this subject has expanded greatly during the second half of the 20th century and the best analog to it, according to sound science is that it is "hardwired" and analogous to being left-handed or right handed. You appear to imply that unlike race which is literally "skin deep" that somehow sexual orientation is "different" if so how so?  All things being equal it is no harm to anyone or anything if a man loves another man or if two women wish to share their lives together.

The basis for permissible discrimination has always been "compelling reason" and not allowing same sex marriage fails the compelling reason test soundly. There is simply zero real reason for such. Before you start spouting about the Courts I would remind you that Plessy v. Ferguson and Dred Scott were also "grounded in law" and are reviled today as b.igoted
02:16 PM on 05/21/2012
I’m not sure whether science has resolved the basis for homosexuality, but if its genetic, lets hope-since abortion is legal-that scientists soon discover a test for the “gay” gene so women will have the option of aborting them.

That aside, you miss several points

I said my analysis was a legal not a moral one. The “compelling reason” basis for discrimination only applies under strict scrutiny. Under intermediate scrutiny or rational basis review the standard is much less. The Court over nearly 150 years has only found FOUR classifications (race, national origin, religion and alienage) to be suspect classifications subject to strict scrutiny. Yes even classification by sex is analyzed at something less than a compelling reason!


Of course it is possible the Court will add sexual orientation to this list, but my point was that it’s a stretch to think they will because it is similar to bans on interracial marriage the author cited. Race had been a suspect classification long before Loving and race was the original basis for the Equal Protection Clause. In contrast, in Lawrence v. Texas the Court declined the opportunity to declare the ability to engage in homosexual behavior to be a fundamental right (which would have subjected it to strict scrutiny) and took pains to assert the decision only applied to private conduct and not public conduct like prostitution and the decision “[did not] involve whether the government must give formal recognition to any relationship that homosexuals persons seek to enter”
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cattack
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01:08 AM on 05/20/2012
An aside: I'm queer, long-term partnered, and I want to get married (although I don't, by any means, believe marriage (b) validates my existence or (b) is more important than any numberof other important social issues). I don't, however, want to get "gay married" and more than I want to gay drive my car, get a gay job, or have gay babies. Where am I going with all of this? "Marriage equality" is far better nomenclature because that's, well, what it is.
04:08 PM on 05/17/2012
Look, Menachem, I don't know you from a race-horse, so - it's really simple: split hairs till your afro falls out. Who cares? It is a simple question: A B O... Anybody But Obama. Got it? We are now at a point where this country cannot do WORSE. Understand? Good.
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Sam Bark
It's a MAD world after all...
02:58 AM on 05/18/2012
roger F right on, well said F&F
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GDWhiteman
Christian mystic iconoclast
11:44 AM on 05/18/2012
You're right - doing worse is something we cannot do. That's why we're going to re-elect Obama.
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beaniecapguy
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01:35 PM on 05/16/2012
Thank you Mr. Rosencraft for your intelligent and thoughtful comments. Wish that the extremists and religionists could actually push the pause button for a moment and read what you've written.
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Penelope Pitstop
Glamour Gal of the Gas Pedal
01:17 PM on 05/16/2012
apples and oranges, you can't compare segregation to gay marriage because those unions produce something that gay marriage doesn't

grandchildren, once those unions have grandchildren the families usually chill out because they want to be involved in the childrens lives, wont say it happens all the time but it does happen
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Conuly
11:49 AM on 05/17/2012
Lots of same-sex couples have children, either through in vitro or adoption or, in some cases, through one or both parents already having kids from a previous relationship (yes, Virginia, there are bisexuals).

Plenty of heterosexual couples do not have children, either because they can't or because they don't want to.
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Sam Bark
It's a MAD world after all...
03:09 AM on 05/18/2012
conuly - your splitting hair argument is noted......LOL
12:57 PM on 05/20/2012
Penelope, fanned and faved!

Same-sex marriages and interracial marriages are mutually exclusive. They have nothing to do with each other.
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Chris1962
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Gay Pagan Man, Living Happily With Husband
12:11 PM on 05/16/2012
Not surprised with all the homohatred in that state. By the way, how does my ability to marry the man I love even begin to impact your life?
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Chris1962
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02:12 PM on 05/16/2012
We don't live in an anything goes society. A tiny segment of of the population doesn't get to turn the natural order of man/woman/child on its head just because they feel like marrying their own gender.
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beaniecapguy
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11:20 AM on 05/16/2012
For the commenters on this thread who keep referring to traditional marriage: Is this what you're talking about?

Pope Alexander VI organized alliances through the marriages of his children. He married his young daughter Lucrezia to Giovanni Sforza; thus uniting the Borgia and Sforza families. Lucrezia was 13 years old when her father married her to Sforza for political reasons. The relationship was annulled four years later when Pope Alexander VI decided he didn't need the Sforzas any more. The annulment was granted when judges from the Vatican determined that she was a virgin, even though she was pregnant at the time. The child, fathered by a chamberlain named Perotto was born in secret and eventually raised as her half brother. Gioffre Borgia, the younger brother of Cesare and Lucrezia was directed by his father to marry Sancia of Aragon and in so doing obtained the Principality of Squillace and the Duchy of Alvito. Cesare (Lucrezia's brother) became a cardinal when he was 18, an appointment that would in theory strengthen his father's political and papal ties. Cesare soon left the position however and married French princess Charlotte d'Albret.
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Sam Bark
It's a MAD world after all...
03:30 AM on 05/18/2012
beaniecap - marriage started long time ago as a contract, usually a financial one, and used widely by the royalty and aristocracy as a way to gain influence and power... so what your comment supposed to reveal? really nothing new... Then Religion and Society turned this relation overtime to a committed contractual arrangement between a MAN and a WOMAN.
Call other relation whatever you want, but NOT marriage. It can also be legalize by civil law and given similar financial and social benefits... But, keep your hands off this nomenclature.
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beaniecapguy
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10:31 AM on 05/18/2012
Too late for you to be feeling like you own the word marriage. Six states and 10 countries have already legalized same-sex marriages, so the horse is out of the barn and it won't be going back in.

Argentina, Belgium, Canada, Iceland, the Netherlands, Norway, Portugal, Spain, South Africa, and Sweden.

Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York, Vermont and DC

You point out that marriage evolved from its traditional beginnings as a means of gaining influence and power, so we've already seen sea changes in its purposes and functions. And now once again it's changing, with or without your consent or cooperation.
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05:30 AM on 05/20/2012
"Then Religion and Society turned this relation overtime to a committed contractual arrangement between a MAN and a WOMAN."
And now society is tuning it into a committed contractual agreement between a man an a man, a man and a woman and a woman and a woman. So what the problem again? We shouldn't change stuff without your consent? Sorry Sam, zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
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surfinnonreality
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11:16 AM on 05/16/2012
I'm not sure I see the problem. Marriage is a contract between two people. Most often couples want it blessed by some religious organization but it doesn't have to be. Judges and justices of the peace perform civil marriages all the time. Does a gay marriage have to be sanctioned by religion? I would seem to me that it doesn't. Churches can't divorce people after they are married. It is a legal procedure to undo a legal procedure. Annulments don't count. If they did all churches would do them instead of divorce. So if we want to keep the separation of church and state intact, churches shouldn't perform gay marriages unless they want to. Being gay isn't illegal, so why not just make gay marriage a civil ceremony and cut the churches out of the process? I realize there are gay couples who want the churches blessing but that is all it is - a blessing. The legal aspect is still civil. Cut the religious aspect of gay marriages out of the conversation, focus on the civil, and you undermine a good part of the objections to gay marriage.
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beaniecapguy
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11:52 AM on 05/16/2012
I agree. Marriage in the US is a civil contract as is evidenced by the fact that two atheists can go down to the courthouse and get married without any religious involvement whatsoever. Our government has given certain religious clerics the option to perform a legal marriage but the contract itself, as designed by the government has no basis in religion and makes no religious requirements of the couple getting married. Continuing to argue that marriage is a religious institution is not based in fact.
01:02 PM on 05/20/2012
I would support same-sex marriage...

if the taxpayers did not have to pay for it

if the label of "marriage" was not falsely attached to it

if everyone had the freedom to not recognize this artificial institution
texasprogressive
True-blue in a red state.
10:17 AM on 05/16/2012
I keep seeing a lot of comments referring to procreation. I shouldn't even have to tell you that gay couples can procreate. I have a niece who is married, legally, to another woman. There is nothing to stop either of them from going to a fertility clinic and being artificially inseminated with sperm from a sperm donor. They could then give birth to their own biological child. Both my neice and her partner could do this, have children of their own, and be a loving family like any other. Why would anyone have a problem with this?
12:20 PM on 05/16/2012
well, exactly. and let me add on behalf of heterosexual couples everywhere -- including myself and my husband, who were not able to get it done the old fashioned way but now have two wonderful children -- that if natural procreation is the only qualifier for a marriage, many of us would be disqualified as well.
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Penelope Pitstop
Glamour Gal of the Gas Pedal
01:20 PM on 05/16/2012
because thats using a 3rd party and it's not really the other persons child, nice try but..no
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TBJ
Irrelevent Blurb
04:14 PM on 05/16/2012
So?

Straight couples do that ALL the time, and that doesn't ban them from marrying. That doesn't make said kids inferior to any other kids out there.
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GDWhiteman
Christian mystic iconoclast
08:06 AM on 05/17/2012
My opposite sex wife and I were both surgically sterile when we met. Fortunately, there is NOTHING that requires the ability to procreate as a condition for granting a license to marry. Nice try, but no to you