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Your Reality Is an Illusion

Posted: 05/22/11 07:00 AM ET

"Illusion is the first of all pleasures."
-- Voltaire

Many of us have heard of the saying that "Life is an illusion." It is casually declared by many, and with such certainty I might add, as if to imply an understanding of reality. But what does the saying really mean? Is everything really an illusion or is it wishful thinking on the part of humans? Or is it because as T.S. Eliot says, "Humankind cannot bear very much reality," that we cling to our illusions even if they contradict the obvious?

To assert that everything is an illusion poses a problem. If everything is an illusion, why bother trying, improving or aspiring? Since none of what you experience, see or feel is real anyway, then who or what exists? The assumption may be that nothing exists. But isn't this in a way a diminishment of life?

Everything you and I see, touch, smell and hold is real -- is it not? Many schools of thought throughout time have pointed out that the world as we know it is an illusion. How could that be? Does that mean every experience I've had, or every person you have loved or cared about is an illusion? If not, then what do they mean by the statement?

Could it be that reality is not an illusion but that our version of reality is an illusion? In other words, none of us are perceiving reality for what it is but rather for what we wish it to be. Unfortunately, one simply cannot see things as they really are, cannot be aware of reality, with illusions acting as mediators.

There is a difference between what something is and what we think it is. Actually what
we think is utterly inconsequential to what is. Illusions do not exist in the world (out there) but in here. The inner world is fertile ground for illusions to take root which then get projected into the world, thus influencing the perception of others about reality. These distortions, in the realm of reality, have no purpose other than for distraction and delusion.

So how can we know if illusions are creating reality? Well, we can't while we are under their spell and we can know only after the illusions no longer exist that we were living in illusion in the first place. When we begin to understand the difference between reality and that which we impose upon it through own thoughts, choices and beliefs, we will be made to realize that much of our despair, anger or pain was fueled by these mis-perceptions.

Most conflict, whether on a personal or collective level, stem from illusions. In our daily lives there is infinite opportunity to create them. We create them about our jobs, finances, relationships, friendships, love and life in general to shield us from that which we view as undesired truths. We do not want to live in reality but are comfortable living in illusion and we believe that somehow the gain far outweighs the effort needed to eliminate them.

As human beings we are conditioned (illusions) to hold onto culture, religion, tradition and politics even at the expense of our well being. From these elements our identity is shaped, and how this identity expresses itself is unique to each of us. Only time will tell if this identity is congruent with the essential self. In other words, illusions are learned and then passed on. Without knowing it, we live and express these distorted ideas, practices and patterns that influence our perceptions of reality and in turn create our reality. And then we point and say, "Look, that's reality." But upon further exploration, we realize that our perception was the illusion all along and not reality itself.

To summon the courage to question or challenge beliefs, assumptions and certainties ushers in a wiser and more mature perspective on reality. It takes experience to no longer mistake one for the other, and with time, life will reflect this distinction. Just recently we saw this distinction at play as Egypt and her people discarded their illusion of fear and powerlessness to reclaim their reality for freedom. People around the world are removing the veils at lightning speed -- illusions be gone -- its about time, don't you think?

 
"Illusion is the first of all pleasures." -- Voltaire Many of us have heard of the saying that "Life is an illusion." It is casually declared by many, and with such certainty I might add, as if ...
"Illusion is the first of all pleasures." -- Voltaire Many of us have heard of the saying that "Life is an illusion." It is casually declared by many, and with such certainty I might add, as if ...
 
 
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02:41 AM on 05/31/2011
Everything is changing all the time, therefore nothing is permanent. In this context it can be said that everything is an illusion. Whether it takes a few weeks or a few millenia eventually everything will not be in the same form one way or another. There is nothing you can point too and truely say forever. Any attempt would in fact be false speculation based on attachment of some sort. Sometimes it's our attachment to 'reality' that we don't ever really see our way free of, this is due to our individual perspectives. For instance, when you "touch" an object, there is no real contact, merely the illusion of touch based on atoms repulsing each other. Since our physical view of reality is not at the sub-atomic level we tend to take it for granted that we are touching something. However we are merely creating illusions. More important than the illusions we may create, or disspell is what we do with them that makes the "life worth living" part reality. Some fear the void, and some know it is merely the infinite potential for something good to be created. The mind creates reality, and thus if you purify the mind you will purify you're reality. Knowing is an illusion, not knowing is ignorance.
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04:41 PM on 05/30/2011
well written article.

we are expressions of the infinite. call that infinite Source of all that is anything you want.

without the "illusion" the play; there are no expressions of the Infinite. that simple that complex.

there; we now have solved the rest of the buddha's realization about the origin of suffering being ignorance. ie unawareness ie illusion ie the play ie the dance of life, etc.

without unawareness there is no illusion, no play, no expressions, ie no us. :-) ie just isness.

we owe our uniqueness as souls to our illusions. ie our unawareness. hard to accept as the human ego takes to guilt and sin like a duck takes to water.

think of life as perfectly imperfect. :o) ok some are more perfect than others, likewise some are more imperfect than others. ie evolution of consciousness thing.
02:19 AM on 05/31/2011
Buddhism says that the mind creates reality, and that knowing is an illusion, not knowing is ignorance.
02:40 PM on 05/28/2011
The superlative body of information on how to divest ourselves of illusions and reason from reality is The Alpha Publishing House website.

Perhaps one of these days someone's going to be able to publicly demonstrate how the command phrase technique works and people will realize why I went on and on about it when I posted under phnxrth.
11:10 AM on 05/27/2011
this is why all is viewed as perfect.

not perfect, of course, from the egoic point of view which is always gravely mistaken. the same egoic view that has created all wars, hate and violence, both to each other and to the world in which we live.

it's like the person who finds herself standing on her head, wondering how she got there.


it's not magic, just a perfect reflection of our creation both personally and collectively.
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06:49 PM on 05/26/2011
Thanks for tackling the topic, Natasha. As I was reading, I became intrigued by a new thought. What if we were to consider our reality exactly aligned to the ideas, thoughts and beliefs we hold? Full stop. If we did that from an inquiry and exploration perspective, would we not discover ourSelf on-goingly right there in our environment, circumstances and conditions that have taken form... both individually and collectively? What might occur if we took full responsibility for the reality we are experiencing and had no illusions about that? How might our relationship to life alter? What would it be like to look only within for all that we yearn to change 'out there'? Would that not be a great step in support of 'being the change'?
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07:20 PM on 05/25/2011
Well, if reality was real, it couldn't be changed simply by changing one's perspective. And something like healing one's self through means like ho'oponopono wouldn't impact and cause the shutdown of psychiatric wing for the mentally insane. One's word couldn't change what they experience simply by declaring so. And one could not become powerful when they were once small and insignificant.
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05:51 PM on 05/25/2011
"Illusion" comes from the Latin "ludere" meaning "to play". An "illusion", then, is a play, a game, a bit of fun.

The trick is to be aware of the rules of the game. Otherwise, you'll "lose".
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07:20 PM on 05/25/2011
It's all a game, and we make up the rules. So if we make up the rules, we can change them.
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05:03 PM on 05/25/2011
Believe me, I know...lol.
12:27 PM on 05/25/2011
Are you telling me that the deep and horribly painful grief I experience every day since the death of my daughter is merely an illusion?????
12:45 AM on 05/26/2011
sure is...existence is what it is. The choice is always yours as to how to perceive it. I came close to suicide over the loss of my wife and rejoiced over the death of an abusive drug addicted father years earlier. Life goes on. If a form of reincarnation exists then that is true for certain. You can never get off the train. Explore the layers and ask questions and stay clear of dogma. Find out who or what you really are.
11:35 AM on 05/27/2011
Such a loss is the most difficult thing one will have to experience. We need to find out , who we are, who is this "I" that is grieving. When we find this out, then, our suffering becomes much less. The sting of a loss of a loved one will always be there, but when we truly know what we are, then, we truly know who our loved one also is.
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10:41 AM on 05/25/2011
i always thought that as a societal right of initiation into humanhood sometimes in our early 20s, after we got over being a teenager, but before we became an Adult we should be dosed with a large amount of LSD and watch Monty Python's The Meaning of Life
08:52 AM on 05/24/2011
"So how can we know if illusions are creating reality? Well, we can't while we are under their spell and we can know only after the illusions no longer exist that we were living in illusion in the first place."

This is a good article, but I have questions about the above passage. I think we can indeed know--or at least suspect--that we are living in illusion while under that illusion's spell. A good example of this is the lucid dream: you continue to dream but you recognize at the same time that it IS a dream. More generally, one can have the occasional sense that there's something illusory about our world without knowing exactly what's unreal about it.

Now, of course, one might say that to have this sort of glimpse means you are no longer under the spell of the illusion--in which case I have no objection to the author's perspective. But I suspect a stronger claim is being made--namely, that it's only in light of an independent understanding of "reality" that illusion is recognized as such. And this view seems at odds with what I take to be the deeper, "spiritual" significance of this whole issue. For it implies that our aim is to replace our incorrect version of reality with the correct version--as if all we can do is to generate better accounts of reality. But it's just this dualistic conception that leads us into illusion in the first place.
07:11 AM on 05/24/2011
Basic Buddhist concept: Things are real but exist only as the result of causes and conditions. Nothing is eternal, nothing is self-caused or self-existent. Things arise and dissipate. We don't like this and attempt to shape the temporary into the permanent...suffering results, caused by our mis-perception of the reality of impermanence.

Or this basic Buddhist concept from another school of inquiry into the nature of phenomena:

All things seem to exist as a result of the mind's self-grasping tendency to interpret phenomena as external to the mind and separate from it. Another mis-perception resulting in suffering.

Or this: Things exist only as spontaneously arising phenomena in the mind. Nothing exists external to the mind's propensity to create narrative. There is no narrative.
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12:27 AM on 05/24/2011
Real Fantasy

When I kneel to meditate,
Sometimes, it is hard to concentrate.
There are noises from outside.
Cars and trucks passing by.

Just today, from above,
Footsteps dully thud.
A little patter and a door.
As if my ceiling where a floor.

And then it came to me.
It’s not real, it cannot be.
Where I live I’m all alone.
Above there is no other home.

It seemed so real, what I heard.
But, my illusion proved absurd.
The dogs, the traffic and the rest,
All distractions form the Quest.

I was constructing fantasies.
Murky pools of memories.
When I stopped and turned within,
I found peace beneath the sin.

Fantastic Reality

When I kneel to meditate,
Sometimes my thoughts evaporate.
A Sound from within,
Blocks the worldly din.

Just today from above,
Gently tapping came Love.
A tingle and palpitation,
All worries on vacation.

Suddenly, it came to me.
This must be Reality.
This body is not alone.
One of God’s many homes.

That thought stopped singing.
Melted and dissolving
Pulsating in every vein
Sound and Light remain.

Blessed gifts; "like a dove".
Milky pools of Love.
Inside and out of me.
My chore to simply be.
10:06 PM on 05/23/2011
Nice post Natasha, I think you would like my short book.
A dream is real when were in one and if its not lucid.
In the book I describe an experience where I realize life is very much dreamlike. But that realization made me feel very happy and gave me the feeling that I want to do the best I can.


http://www.amazon.com/DISCOVERING-SELF-EXPERIENCES-THOUGHTS-ebook/dp/B004YDQX7I/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&m=AG56TWVU5XWC2&s=books&qid=1306201068&sr=8-1
08:59 PM on 05/23/2011
"'Pandits assert the world is maya (illusion). But their statement is itself an illusion fore they do not realize that maya is realty taken out of context. When a devotee believes that a god is real it is an illusion because the reality of a god has nothing to do with belief. Some will claim that the soul is real. But what then is the soul? If it is an interminable certainty that stands alone and apart from everything, they sow the seeds of maya. If, on the other hand, they know that the soul is a singular expression of the divine intimately connected with perusha (the heart of the cosmos) they possess wisdom.' 'These words were spoken by my sister Prajna Ajaya'"

In the Shadows: Tales of Ashik
Ashik Jaya