How I Learned To Stop Fearing My Reflection
Accepting our bodies -- and meaning it -- is harder than it seems. I don't want to live my life always five or 10 or 30 pounds away from being okay with myself.
Accepting our bodies -- and meaning it -- is harder than it seems. I don't want to live my life always five or 10 or 30 pounds away from being okay with myself.
Ellen Davis | Posted 05.17.2012
Tenderness is a great teacher -- coming to it in our culture is grace and wisdom. The tenderness of allowance and the allowance of tenderness starts with the way one is with oneself.
Anne Naylor | Posted 05.17.2012
To learn about what makes a marriage work, I talked to several couples who are still happily married after 30 years or more, and explored the advice of professional relationship counsellors.
JJ Keith | Posted 05.15.2012
Not many of my friends know I ever used to be an athlete. I forget myself, until a pedicurist notices my hammertoes or I have a dream about striding down the homestretch after a race, feeling that last surge of power.
Claire Bidwell Smith | Posted 05.10.2012
Only you know what path you need to take toward healing, and whether you accomplish this using every one of the five stages, shunning books about grief or never missing a session of your bereavement group, the key will consistently be to listen to yourself.
Kathryn Hamm | Posted 05.11.2012
On an otherwise unremarkable day -- May 9, 2012 -- you touched my heart when you 'came out' and said publicly that you have come to believe that same-sex couples deserve more than civil unions and should be allowed to marry legally.
William Lucas Walker | Posted 05.09.2012
Every young girl should have a fairy godmother. Mine does. Her name is Miss Coco Peru.
Laura Harvey | Posted 05.03.2012
We can gain vital information about ourselves and what we believe about the world when we look honestly at our anger. But when we react unconsciously, repress our anger or get caught up in it, it becomes counterproductive and negatively affects our health and relationships.
Sarah O'Leary | Posted 04.27.2012
Why doesn't my Catholic Church get its own house in order first? Get the plank/log/boulder/semi truck/elephant out of its own eye before it tries to remove a speck from another's eye?
Aaron Anson | Posted 04.24.2012
The bottom line is that no matter what our beliefs are, they are often based largely on interpretations handed to us by others.
Janis Abrahms Spring, Ph.D | Posted 04.17.2012
Why are we preaching only to the hurt party? Why not turn to offenders and ask them to earn forgiveness?
Deborah Gaines | Posted 04.13.2012
There went the money I was putting aside for a family vacation. And what about retirement? That $1,000 was the only thing keeping me from a lonely, penurious old age.
Miriam Novogrodsky | Posted 04.12.2012
Divorce is like a death, but you don't bury anyone. You both die and continue to walk around bumping into each other.
Liz Davis | Posted 04.02.2012
Just like the postal service, students are most desperate for the heavier envelopes. Inside awaits the offer of a lifetime -- an invitation to become a member of The University of Your Dreams. Finally the wait, the stress, and the hard work are all over! Wrong.
Lea Lane | Posted 03.31.2012
Take a chance and try finding some good even in most situations by just switching the order of events you're retelling to a "bad news, good news" mode. Maybe life won't seem quite as difficult when you frame things that way.
Susan Harrow | Posted 05.14.2012
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Ed and Deb Shapiro | Posted 05.27.2012
Anger can be an effective expression of passion for justice and fairness, for basic rightness, for what is appropriate and humane. But anger can also be like a single match that can burn an entire forest, causing tremendous damage and hurt, wars, greed and self-deception.
Melissa Van Rossum | Posted 05.14.2012
Isn't it interesting how we expect others to behave in a certain way so we can feel good about ourselves? And then when people don't behave as we want them to, we feel so disappointed and angry -- when really, most times, we're not actually surprised at their actions?
Agi Smith | Posted 04.25.2012
Should I go back to him, or can I keep the best of both worlds and stay separated?
Wray Herbert | Posted 04.09.2012
What's actually going on in the mind of an alcoholic as he or she goes through the process of recovery? What are the cognitive mechanics underlying the initial, angry rebelliousness and, later, the genuine commitment to a sober life?
Glennon Melton | Posted 03.27.2012
"Kids these days, they can be so cruel." But I think this is just a phrase we toss around to excuse ourselves from facing the truth. Because I don't think kids are any crueler than adults.
Posted 03.26.2012
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Walter E. Jacobson, M.D. | Posted 03.20.2012
We have lost our way. We have lost our universal identity as a brotherhood of people. So caught up in the distinction of skin color, races and nations, we have lost our true connection with God.
Chris Mooney | Posted 03.12.2012
An increasing body of science suggests that we disagree about politics not for intellectual or philosophical reasons, but because we have fundamentally different ways of responding to the basic information presented to us by the world.
Alison Patton | Posted 03.06.2012
I recently heard the "boiling frog story" for the first time. It goes like this: a frog will jump out if placed in a pan of boiling water, but if submerged in cold water that is heated very slowly, the frog won't jump out and will actually allow itself to be cooked to death.
JJ Keith | Posted 05.25.2012