The Bachelor Party. A time-honored tradition of male-bonding in which a group of friends wish "Bon Voyage" to their lucky - or unlucky - friend about to take the plunge into matrimony, by drinking more than they ever have.
No relationship is going to be perfect, close to perfect or even in the ballpark. And that's okay. Relationships are tricky and take a lot of figuring out. Don't forget to just enjoy the ride, even if that means you aren't "Facebook official" yet.