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Is an Affair the Disease or Just a Symptom?

Michael S. Broder, Ph.D. | Posted 06.22.2013 | Divorce
Michael S. Broder, Ph.D.

Affairs are usually not the "disease" that infects marriages or love relationships, but a symptom of bigger issues that loom under the surface. For me, the key word here is "usually."

Education and Enron: Celebrity, Cash and Character

Terry Newell | Posted 06.22.2013 | Impact
Terry Newell

In schools, as at Enron, the way we select and assess top leaders and accord them recognition needs examination as well. When leaders' desire for celebrity trumps the importance of character, look for trouble.

Evil, Thy Name Is Peanut Butter

Gregg McBride | Posted 06.22.2013 | Healthy Living
Gregg McBride

Many assume that after losing over 250 pounds of excess weight and after keeping it off for more than a decade, I've got this "healthy eating thing" a...

Credit for MOOCs

Jonathan Haber | Posted 06.19.2013 | College
Jonathan Haber

One of the hot topics regarding MOOCs and other forms of online learning (massive or small, free or otherwise) is whether or not taking such courses should count for actual high school or college credit.

Growing Pains: A Tale of Forgiveness

Jennifer Ball | Posted 06.18.2013 | Divorce
Jennifer Ball

I have forgiven. I forgave him, and I didn't even realize it. Oh how I fought it. Tooth and nail, I did. I looked like a dog being dragged into the veterinarian's office, probably. Claws dug into the floor, neck straining against the pull of the leash.

3 Signs He's Going To Cheat On You

Posted 04.18.2013 | Divorce

By Joe Amoia for YourTango.com Let's face it, men cheat. Well, some of them anyway. And according to numerous studies, it's more than a handful: ap...

Desperate Kid Cheats Under Pressure -- What Else Is New?

Victor Dorff | Posted 06.16.2013 | College
Victor Dorff

"Pressure" is inevitable for students today. The question is, how do we teach our students to evaluate the reality of the pressure they feel and to deal with it appropriately?

'I Received Death Threats For Cheating'

Posted 04.12.2013 | Divorce

Should we have compassion for cheaters? Yes, according to HuffPost blogger Wendy Plump, the author of "Vow: A Memoir of Marriage (And Other Affairs...

Cooking the Books -- Cheating and College Admissions

Allison Singh | Posted 06.11.2013 | College
Allison Singh

Overvaluing where kids go to college encourages them to ditch their values to get in. We are teaching students that success is determined by where you go college, not how you live your life.

How An Affair Could Improve Your Relationship

Michael S. Broder, Ph.D. | Posted 06.09.2013 | Divorce
Michael S. Broder, Ph.D.

In some cases, an affair will put the spotlight on certain differences that are irreconcilable. But on the other side of the pain lies the possibility that an act of infidelity can actually make your marriage or love relationship stronger

Cheating in Atlanta: A Teachable Moment

Victor Dorff | Posted 06.07.2013 | Politics
Victor Dorff

We sometimes talk about pursuing a culture of academic integrity as an esoteric philosophical exercise, but that makes the job harder. The way to convince students that cheating is wrong is to show them the damage it does and how it affects them.

LOOK: We Wouldn't Want To Piss This Scorned Lover Off

Posted 04.05.2013 | Divorce

Looks like someone took Carrie Underwood's "Before He Cheats" a little too seriously. That's the impression we got after taking a look at the phot...

Once A Cheater Always A Cheater? From Rachel Sussman (WATCH)

Posted 08.14.2013 | Home

If your significant other has cheated on a partner in the past, does that mean he or she will cheat on you? Relationship therapist Rachel Sussman set ...

Pearson and the Atlanta School Mess

Alan Singer | Posted 06.03.2013 | Politics
Alan Singer

How did Pearson, which claims to have checkpoints "built into the process to ensure consistent progress in achieving school improvement goals," attempt to establish the validity of the Atlanta school district's claims for off-the-charts improvement on test scores before taking credit for the results?

Get a Life

Tracy Schorn | Posted 06.02.2013 | Divorce
Tracy Schorn

The logistics of divorce are hellish. It's painful and draining. Understandably, you can get sidetracked from the important work of rebuilding a new life when you're still stumbling around in the ruins of the former one. But that's where the pay off is -- the new life.

What's Going On When You're Attracted To Married Men

David Wygant | Posted 06.01.2013 | Women
David Wygant

On the surface, he looks like the All-American dad; on the surface, he looks like a great husband; on the surface, he tells everybody that it's OK that his marriage isn't passionate -- he's grown so much as an individual that he doesn't need wild, fulfilling sex anymore. But he's lonely.

The Unspoken Truth About Infidelity?

Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. | Posted 05.31.2013 | Divorce
Tammy Nelson, Ph.D.

Often, when we discover that a partner has been cheating, the first question is an anguished "Why?"

Cheaters Reveal Their Secret Regrets

Kevin A. Hansen | Posted 05.27.2013 | Divorce
Kevin A. Hansen

Nothing rocks a marriage likes infidelity, and quite often the result is divorce. But once the truth comes out, do the cheating spouses regret the affair -- or just regret getting caught?

You Should Tell a Girl You're Married... Before You Sleep With Her

Cameron Frye | Posted 05.27.2013 | Divorce
Cameron Frye

I slept with a married guy. I wish I could say this was a one-time thing, but it's not the first time I've been the other woman.

What Counts as Cheating?

GalTime | Posted 05.26.2013 | Women
GalTime

As dating trends and habits evolve within our society, one thing will always remain taboo: Cheating. In a relationship, what exactly constitutes as cheating? What would you do if your partner cheated, and do men and women define it differently?

The Truth About Infidelity Today

Austin Blood | Posted 05.25.2013 | Divorce
Austin Blood

Whereas twenty years ago a married man might have to go to a bar or romance a co-worker for an extramarital booty call, today he can save himself all that hassle with just a few mouse clicks.

What To Do When You Discover Your Spouse Is Cheating

Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. | Posted 05.23.2013 | Divorce
Tammy Nelson, Ph.D.

The immediate response after discovering a spouse's affair is commonly disbelief, anger, sadness, loss or grief.

Readers Weigh In: Does Weight Gain Make Infidelity OK?

Posted 03.18.2013 | Divorce

Is there a double standard when it comes to weight gain in relationships? That's the question HuffPost Divorce blogger D.A. Wolf asked in a blog po...

Learners Are People, Not Isolated Test-Taking Brains: Why MOOCs Both Work and Fail

Susan D. Blum | Posted 05.16.2013 | College
Susan D. Blum

MOOCs are good at certain things and terrible at others, and we need to understand the difference if we wish to educate human beings, not just workers with credentials.

Is Infidelity A Marriage Deal Breaker?

Posted 03.14.2013 | Divorce

Are couples too quick to give up on their marriages following infidelity? That's the question author Wendy Plump posed on Thursday in a HuffPost Di...